@@Reshme77 girl it is four years later and I don’t know if I still see it the same way! 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 I do recommend rotational dating though but not out of fear as may have been my intention when I first wrote this comment
Some guys would agree to be exclusive with a woman just so they can sleep with her. There is that risk of him hitting and quitting it, the title gives some assurance that he wont run right after hitting it but you never know; especially when the guy is a naturally sexual person.
This is so true! You always have great advice. When my husband and I were dating I told him that I'm not into dating and I'm looking for something serious. I made sure we had the are we exclusive talk before sex was even on the table. And it worked because now we're married 😉 I wanted to know if you can make a video on your thoughts about women who have babies for men who are just their boyfriend? It's frustrating when I'm talking to my friends who are single mothers because they always think it's a personal attack when I tell them that they should be looking for marriage and not some dude who are willing to live with them and their kids without considering marriage. They tell me bs that marriage is not for everyone blah blah but deep down I know that they would much rather be married and be in a secure committed relationship. I feel like they are repeating the same bs their boyfriend are telling them. Like marriage is just a piece of paper bs. What are you thoughts on this?
I kinda ran out of characters. I'm using my iPad lol. So anyways how would you go about talking sense into women who are in denial? Like I said it's frustrating and my friends think I'm judging them for being single mothers or for having babies with a guy who refuse to marry them. I'm not I'm only trying to help. Am I wasting my time? They are my friends and I care about them and I want them to be happy like me. If you can make a video about that I would be so grateful because you always have the best and realest advice.
@@Mimi-ss3xx I know this is a super old comment but it sounds like you need new friends. If you want to stay their friend don't even discuss relationships or listen to their issues. Cut that topic out of the friendship. Don't be a shoulder to cry on. Just live your best and hope they wise up.
I recently met a man who says he doesn't want to date me for a long time, he wants to be in a relationship. He says he wants to get married in a 1 year. He's 45, 10 years my senior. Because of out ages I don't think he's rushing.
Make sure she is at all remotely his type. Dudes end up cheating with the housekeeper like Arnold Swarzeneger (I butchered his name lmao) but the lead singer of No Doubt her hubs cheated with the babysitter so yeah make sure she is old and not cute lmao
Early 40s isn't late 40s. Late 40s I wouldn't give them even 3 months. Early 40s up to 6 months but I personally wouldn't even give them that. See how its benefitting you.
Hi!! I have a question kind of in reference to this topic. I met this guy a month ago., he approached me while at one of my jobs. He has already told me he doesn't date he gets in relationships. He asked me today if I wanted to go on a trip and where I wanted to go. He is already clingy, we talk, FaceTime and call through out the day. We are in our mid twenties and he has made it clear he is looking for a wife and wants to be married and start having children in 3 yrs. I told one of my friends and she was like oh that's to much to soon But when I told her I noticed she looked a lil salty I think it's because she's been with her boyfriend 6 yrs no ring he doesn't work no car lol I'm wondering is it jealousy or is it really too much to soon?
+Keisha Michelle when man is rushing like this, he is hiding something.... look deeper into his back ground, see if he has any medical issues, disease and if he has an abnormally small penis lol these are usually some of the reasons a man in his mid 20's wants a wife this soon and fast.. he is hiding something, see if he is a US citizen and all that , check social security cards and such, there is something hidden! don't let his eagerness flatter you! It is always a red flag! lol
Hello Sheraseven! I know this is an old video but I want to ask you, i was really hoping you would touch on this more on the video, so a man tells you he is not ready for a relationship right now because he is not financially ready he says he can't take care of a woman so wants a casual relationship only and see where everything goes ? How do you deal with this ? We are both in our 20's both 27 to be precise, should I wait for him to be financially stable while dating casual though I want a serious relationship,? until he becomes financially stable ? Thank you ! ❤
Sheila Perry no drop him. When he’s financially stable, he’ll find you if he’s truly interested. Don’t wait on him though or give him girlfriend/wife benefits.
Sheila Perry you guys are about to be 30... like shera said you guys should be considering marriage not just being in a relationship. And believe him when he says he’s not financially ready. He’s giving you all the red flags and you just wont run with it. Your better off leveling up and finding someone who’s on your level and will put a ring on it no problem. But Best of luck girl xoxo
You are a woman so biological clock... Put you first not him.Get another one an older one. Watch some Shera's video on men with potential. In a way, he told you do you want to be stupid and waste your time? Give yourself the good answer. You deserve the best.
We saw each other a total of 4 times maybe. We had sex once and taking things slow. Advice? Withholding sex by manipulating him into commitment might work.
