How to Guard Your Heart When You Have a Crush (4 Christian Relationship Tips) 

skyline thank you

Haha tq for briefing

Where was this video last year?

Especially #4!!

God*s told me the person i'm going to be with one day and he keeps confirming it :O

Amen Shiphrah Ayebare!

Shiphrah Ayebare Amen!!!! And listen to God when he reveals these things to us. If we ask be willing to listen to whatever answer He provided whether we like it or not.

Tinika C. ...the hardest part..

Amen Shiphrah!

Amen 🙏🏽 I’ve been doing that

That's something to work on, with prayer and effort you won't be perfect but you can get better at it

This is funny but I find myself doing the same thing just over time. I’ll be talking to someone for a week or two and I start imagining things that won’t happen. When find myself doing this, I try to rebuke it and talk to myself and say to myself “girl stop it” or “girl chill out” and I bring myself back to reality. It usually works and then I realize how silly I was acting or how dramatic I may be feeling

Thanks for your honesty most wouldn't admit that.

same! i'm in the same boat as you!

That's very honest. And I honestly think a lot of people go through that. Jesus said something similar to that when he spoke about "cheating" on someone just by looking at another. Lust. These are the "small" things that if we bring to the Lord will help us in a greater relationship with him.

Amen, God is good!!

I have a non Christian crush too so I totally understand you & I feel I put more effort into my appearance to try and impress. Sometimes I wish God would just send me the right person but I heard in a great talk that in order to meet a godly man, you have to be godly yourself now & I haven't been acting godly but I feel that God is shifting things and helping me.

@@Varaidzo1 There is nothing wrong with putting in effort, that is required.

@@Varaidzo1 I too have a non Christian crush (a girl) .I have noticed her many times paying attention to me .I think she is interested in me . But how can i know that its.from God.I don't want any bad relationship.Because she's a non Christian girl .

@@shishirmundu4662 be careful not to allow that to take you away from God may the Lord God be with you in Jesus' mighty name of Jesus Amen!

Amen

vivi Did go show your he was your husband?

What didn’t make sense? Please share? Also have you been revealed your husband yet?

🤔🤔That is true!

You're expecting perfection,I doubt it⚡

Amen!

The Lord just put this scripture on my heart today. Thank you for this

I doubt it💲

Ooohhh thank you !!

Amen n Amen!

Great advice thanks

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Amen....

This might probably be the best advice I've ever heard

I agree Sherri

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LOL that’s really funny 😂😂💀

Prayers

brooo😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂💯

LOL hello 😂😂

😂😂😂😂😂 this is the funniest thing I've ever read in terms of relationships, better than any stand up comedian hahahahahahaha dope bro

Powerful stuff

This is so funny 😂 😂😂😂😂

You know I think I am going to Jesus

I have a crush and I feel like I am attacked too by the devil to destroy me since I have not dated after a divorce in 2013. So I understand. I just dont understand why I am attracted to this man when he is really not my usual type. Keep me in your prayers. God bless

So much this. I've guarded my heart so well that I'm still single. I see that the girls who put themselves out there and don't do all of this guarding business are now married.

I'm not yet married and I still want to, but that doesn't make me regret letting go of the guys I met before. Some were immature (like me before), some were godly but moving in a different path or calling from me. It's more important to know God and follow Him, and then be with the person who is moving in the same direction as I am.

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Re Tip 4 don't pray to be with the person but pray for God's will regarding the person. If God says yes then that is when you let your heart be open, if he says no GUARD YOUR HEART🗣🗣🗣

It's very difficult to find women for a relationship, every woman in my church and churches related to my church are either in a growing relationship or married. Every other woman/girl is too young for me, and for those only a few years younger than me (I'm 22 btw) I can see they're extremely, spiritually immature, and i could tell how paper thin the reason behind their faith is. If their faith was to even be tested in a week at a college, they'd turn their back on God. And I'm definitely not going to meet a person at work. I made it a point to never want to be in a relationship with someone who is in a university or working towards a higher education, mainly because they treat a relationship like something they can do later. They have to convince themselves that, "first I'll work on my education then get a job that matches the education, and then somehow have the time to work on a relationship and have a family." That takes the number 1 spot for delusional in the book of reality. I mean, getting to know a person's likes and dislikes, learning to love that person, spending time with them, and giving them your full attention. Isn't growing a relationship with another person more important than having the wisdom of fools? If I want to love a woman, i.e. work on a relationship with one, I will twist my work schedule like a pretzel to spend time with her and get to know all about her. Because she's precious enough.

How are things goin?

Hahaha that made me laugh...crock pot God. Lol So true though.

Crushes suck

I have heard multiple people say crushes are fun but they aren’t... at all. I rather be single than be single with a crush. At least with just being single no hope is lost.

No. It's actually a joy.

@@amaryllisbrooke8098 Can you please explain how a crush can be a joy?

Ruby Marabu Tell me about it 😂

So sorry to hear you are broken. The Lord will heal you if you seek him. It will take time but he can do it. God bless!

Go with your gut in the beginning cuz a counterfeit is usually a wolf is sheeps clothing jezebel covert narc and they gain your trust by mirroring you so if you think they seem off in some way or immoral but then switch up and they seem good very quickly and seem to know you so well then love bombing you and then start saying that you were put together by God..they say your matched by God so you stop watching what they are doing and just commit..this was a useful lesson to me against covert narcs who pose as shy nice good Christian's but they are twisted empty soul hunters who bring diabolical pain and destruction even death.

Monica Bears sane here, that’s all they say

Yes. The church treats iis singles like an extra appendage they don't know what to do with so they act like we don't exist. But the problem is the singles start living like the world.

I'm with you on that! My pastor talks about finding a companion when it comes to the single youth and giving guidance and advice on how to go about dating and what to look for but they don't give us advice as what is being given in this video.

Gwendolyn O. Lol right

Liene Thanks great advice.

Liene svärd amen

Definitely true.

Nice! Thank you!

So wise!! :)

Robert Olsen you mean bears

I agree!

Robert Olsen true but dont ask god to give u a girlfriend u cant always ask god u have to find the right person that fits u best in your opinion not always asking god to give the right person

right person cause sometimes the relationship wont work out see im different from other christians i have different opinions on the world andfollow what my heart say and sometimes what god says

and sometimes e what god says

All glory to him :)

@@ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger Me too man, this could have been helpful nearly 5 years ago. I learned from the experiences but wisdom is what I need in the future. You are reaching out to people like myself.

All glory to God! I'm so glad this was helpful to you!

Yes yes. Exactly. Never assume, never presume.

Amen! I'm so glad this was helpful now for you too :)

Thank you, all glory to God!

Pray that The Most High delivers him away from wickedness and towards him so that he can do Gods will

may the Lord God be with us all in the mighty name of Jesus Amen!!! And may God bless you in Jesus' mighty name Amen

I was just here. It took me so much not to reach out to him and ask him. The Lord had to give me a whole dream to let me know this guy wasn't interested. Lol now I have peace. That's how you know I was super obsessed. I was like what will we name our kids and our wedding date could be this. He hasn't said 2 words to me. Lol

cherishdeb that is good. Hopefully you find him. That dude in the video is taken already. Haha

trust me they are still out there its very hard to be Godly in a world that pushes agendas that don't line up with God's Word I'll be praying for your relationship situation, and for God's will regarding a Godly man for your life

cherishdeb Oh we’re out here. I thought the same about christian women but I plugged into a church that focuses on young people. I’m still single but I’ve completely understood how important it is to wait and to pursue God relentlessly first rather than being on the search of a wife. I know God is faithful and know that everything will work out in the end.

Trust me, there are. My dream is going to North Korea someday for missions (South Korean - American, born in USA). I wait (currently 24) to seek a godly woman who has the same fire and passion for God, willing to put it all on the line. When I find someone like that, that is the type of woman I'd like to pursue someday, of course, Lord willing.

I know. Girl the struggle is real. There is a guy at church who loves the Lord and he has since stop talking to me all the sudden like do you know I am here. Lol

lol

I did same mistake..

same,how

You just go for what you like, nothing wrong with that, just try to act a bit more indifferent sometimes with who you like

Yes Jennifer! You took the words right from my mouth. In my previous situationship, I was seeing EVERYTHING as a sign. I'm so thankful for videos like this.

Same

renaissancegirl87 true.

He mentioned that at time 13:53-55.

renaissancegirl87 Amen! Amen! Amen!

renaissancegirl87 the scriptures says...none shall lack her mate....none! Search the book of the Lord , and see what he will do. Not one of these birds and animals will be missing, and none will lack a mate, for the Lord has promised this. His Spirit will make it all come true. Isaiah 34:16 NLT

Jakki Chege however Apostle Paul was single and without a mate. “So I say to those who aren’t married and to widows-it’s better to stay unmarried, just as I am.” ‭‭1 Corinthians‬ ‭7:8‬ ‭NLT‬‬ it’s very possible that some will not be married.

Wow, Icela! I am going through almost the same situation your in but its a woman. I have heard so many great things about her too, but more importantly, I found out that we have so much in common from reading up about her and hearing her talk and engage others. I would love to know more about your situation. What exactly has enlightened you about this video or opened your eyes? Were you suggesting that this video showed you how you can get to know this person of interests?

Meerkat SK5 hey Meetkat, Yes I can relate on that aspect I have seen this guy engage with other people and how he treats other people with respect,we also have some common interest. How this video has opened my eyes like for example he said that I should except my feeling towards him but not expect anything to happen when at the end of the day nothing happens between us! I hope this helps!

Icela Mendoza same!

I'm going through the same thing. And I'm totally guilty with what Mark said about being infatuated. I just basically stalked this person and learned how incredible he is! I don't want to say that I am infatuated. I want to think of it as a harmless admiration after I telling myself I will not go any deeper than all the stalking that I did.

Icela Mendoza sounds like something my friend told me as well this is absolutely bizarre

weenieboys 2 oh yes. I went out with him and then had feelings that went to obsession eventually but I have gotten over it somehow on corpus Christi Sunday.Praise god.

Thank you for sharing this, this is exactly what I'm going through right now

So glad this vid was helpful swnaa999

Amen!

Marsha Creary how does one do this?

So glad this was helpful!

Gina May, in 7 months time, how have this video helped you?

I hope to one day! I just don't have enough time at the moment. Thanks :)

Thank you for sharing dear sister :)

I have spent months investigating ways to improve relationships and discovered an awesome website at adult magic tactic (google it if you are interested)

Focus on Jesus.

YummyYumTempura agreed! He should always be the center of focus in our lives😊

I love Jesus more than I love any guy!!!! Like it's jacked up to assume from the little things. We're supposed to love each other and put life into each other. Encourage each other. Like my gosh this RU-vid channel annoys me a bit. Like if I like you, I will say I like you. Because when I like someone I'm not afraid at ALL to tell him. That or I'd play house with him. Only him. Like bringing him a cookie. Giving him a cute little note. Something extremely OBVIOUS. My gosh. It's ridiculous.

People at my church are soooo focused on dating that they don't even encourage each other. Especially the opposite sex. Like how the heck are you going to marry a person you don't even really know. It annoys the heck outta me.

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That's beautiful, I hope you find your one you can cherish 🌷

I hope you meet someone. As a single female who's never been married I am not opposed to meeting someone with kids and responsibilities. There are women out there open to that. I hope you meet one.

I pray the Lord sends you someone.

I hope God has brought a wonderful Christian woman into your life since your post...praying you and your children are doing well. P.s. what you wrote about Adam was beautiful.

Hi Celeste Cummins, this video may help ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-VQR7FsFI9X0.html

Yes, I’ve watched that video and the 12 signs one, but I watched them both again. I guess I was thinking - hoping - it was God’s will, but it wasn’t. It was a unique situation since I never saw him in other settings around other people. Sure, he was doing his job (mailman), but the other mailmen that we’d had weren’t as friendly. He and I just hit it off. Like I said, I never saw him in other settings, but I did watch him deliver mail to the church across the street. He just went in and right back out. So I thought that was a good sign for me that he might be interested. I just need to learn not to get my hopes up - ever! Seriously, this was devastating enough for me. Still haven’t truly accepted he’s engaged because I see lots of red flags, so I’m concerned about that situation (even if we’d never end up together, I don’t want him to get hurt by making a mistake).

Li9

An19941 oof :(

Oh, I'm so so sorry. 😥 and I understand. I like a guy who lives over 500 miles away, and I'm only guaranteed to see him once a year when I go to visit family near him. And this year he and his whole family are going to be out of town then, so I'll only see them a day or two, if at all. I'm disappointed, as are you. I will be praying for you!

Sarah King thanks for the empathy♥ Oh noes, that's so shitty... poor you :( Can I pray for your situation as well?

An19941 Aw, of course you can pray for me! Thank you as well. 💙

An19941 *"God will make a way, where there seems to be no way. He works in ways we cannot see, He will make a way for me"* If he's the guy God wants you to be with, God will make it happen. If it's not in God's plan, it means He has something even better in mind for you... I know that's hard to accept because when you really like a guy you feel like he is the *best* and you don't want anyone else. But God knew who your soul mate was before you were even born. He created you, with someone else in mind also. You may not have even met that person yet, but God brings these special people into our lives at His perfect timing, and according to His perfect will. Just trust Him, and you'll be fine! Xx

I agree. Glory be to God. :)

My pleasure!