How To Handle People Who Hurt You - Rabbi Friedman talks to inmates 

Would u think the same had u not found a better Job after that? Or not finding a Job?

USA LATINO No disrespect man. You came to my place for a job I'd fucking run away out of sheer fright.

USA Latino Sounds kinda like my story... well not really but. My Ex dumped me and he wouldn’t talk to me. I was so distraught and I just needed to see him! So, I applied for a job at his company in his department. I ended up getting hired at the company BUT they offered me a better position in a different department and it was the highest paying entry level position there. After I found that out, do you think I gave him a second thought!??? Especially to know I was trying to get him back only to be making more money than him! Lol I only saw him once after that at our Christmas party and I barely noticed him! What a blessing! Life is funny like that.

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@m v Well sounds to much like Disney Land to me....

I guess they look like humans. So cold and heartless. Incapable of feeling or even understanding feelings like we do.

Victoria, between 2011-2019 I contained those same prickly thoughts. I became a victim of sadness, empathy, and anger over that which I had no means to alter. Through the Rabbi, his considerate delivery brought enlightenment. Today, a wise Matriarch spoke this concept and my mind's sight was not clear. As Rabbi spoke, we don't think this way. *My limited teaching and learning and application led me to believe /"feel" misunderstood. I was being Needy! Some in constant isolation from family are better role models than some who have Freedom. Choice: acknowledge it, do our part, and try to pass on this crystal clear pathway to Freedom and a powerfully productive better adjusted mindsetlife and relationships. Quality of our thoughts. How to teach children, preteens, teens and young adults this.

Robbye Thomas Travels Excited to Explore what a kind informative message. Thank you for the enlightenment. Be well and peace and love to you. ♥️🙏🕊

Msg of Yitzhak Kaduri wise words. Thank you. 🕊🙏

We just have different opinions...God doesn't get to make decisions...we do! It's just that we decide the outcome of our choices... wether we like it or not!

That is why you have to try to never hurt people.

Well.. there is another thing.. People don´t treat you badly, because they want to, but because they see no other option. They need to.. Also, you decide it´s bad what they did, so you brought the "evil" into the world and what do you know? Sorry, evil people just don´t exist, so we do not have a need for Karma, that´s just a fairy tale, like God working everything out. The truth is much, much simpler. Nothing supernatural and just people trying their best, but not always being capable of being kind. Usually through no fault of their own. And there is just so much you can do to avoid hurting others. You think that lettuce wants to be eaten?

I think lettuce DOES want to be eaten. That’s how it spreads its seeds.

Expressions of remorse is something special.

4:17 AMEN TO THAT. THIS IS THE CRUX. A TRUE MERCY FROM ABOVE AS HE SMILES LOVINGLY UPON OUR VILE SPIRIT " NOT YET DEAR CHILDREN "

This doesnt apply to a toddler who was abused and raped by his caregivers. The toddler grows up to be what kind if adult???? The mental health of that child/adult is questionable

You give God too much power. Have a little faith in you. No need to judge others, but if you can do that out of your own volition in stead of because of God asking you, wouldn´t that be way more powerful? If you feel you need God for that, fine, whatever floats your boat. But please refrain from telling people there is no power but the power of God, especially children.. That´s just trying to keep them small. We have had enough crusades. Nobody needs God. Don´t save me. Oh and good news, that enemy is not real either.

@@JJ-yu6og why is this rabbi so oblivious to the hate and the evil that's committed against these children . Warning you don't Rita's ones about child abuse or abusive parents

What if it’s a doctor using drugs and things learned in books to disrupt your intuition

@@JJ-yu6og correct. And then it gets worse if he is drugged and has his thoughts reframed

This doesnt apply to a toddler who was abused and raped by his caregivers. The toddler grows up to be what kind if adult???? The mental health of that child/adult is questionable

@@JJ-yu6og If an abused child made it through that it could only be easier later on I think. If you retaliate or do it yourself you are doing what the evil people want. Being like them.Who know what twisted thoughts are in the minds of child molesters. I think demons reside there..

Jojo Jo / the victim alone has the right to raise the issue of forgiveness or of revenge. I cannot understand the ones who blame the victims for revenge when this means to make the abuser to pay for his abuse.

@@JJ-yu6og I think you are missing the point. You don't have to forgive and forget everything. There are consequences for your actions. But if someone can get the corrage and move on to a healthy life its better

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His explanations of the bible are incredible. I like the way he speaks.

He is awesome

christophe wiart I love him so much too for his wisdom ! Glory be to God who made him so!

So good!

The first time I am seeing this Rabbi speak. I’m not Jewish, but I am always open to hearing wise men from any faith. He is wonderful! He really makes sense....we have a choice to be a victim or not towards people that hurt us!

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Wayne Dyer said it best, “How people treat you is their karma; how you react is yours.”

Darlene Sanchez maybe she is waiting for you to call her too

@@cleveland3357 Dear Jack. No I think it goes back a long way between me and my sister I'm her younger sister my son has passed on in 2004 before his death disappearance murder I was highly successful I own two homes I had a good job and I help my family out as much as I could when this happened to my son I had started getting health problems I lost my job I had to sell one of my homes to open up my financial umbrella well I grieve I went into my sister's house paid my rent to my sister but the sin the sin was there and her home she was married and her husband allowed her to go out with other men her marriage broke up when I was there and all I told her was if it was me I would have walked out of the relationship she blames me for her breakup and at that time I wasn't even into the Torah I cannot call her my brother just passed away about 2 weeks ago she was there at the hospital with me and my family is she did not say one word to me I did wait for her to call until I found myself on Saturday just getting sick emotionally over it I used to live next door to my mom and my sister lived in the basement apartment in my mother's house my mother gave me a print of a Picasso this Picasso was worth a little bit of money it had an official seal of some type on the back and yes it was on canvas I thought nothing of it rolled it up and put it in my closet I work nights my sister went into my house and took it about a year ago my brother what's going down Broadway in Denver and saw it in some antique shop he went in ask questions about it and said he bought it from a couple she gave them $10,000 for it

yes amazing how we hold out wantin the other person to do or say and arent we the exact copy or image of the person that mistreated us. both are waitin or expectin somethin from the other ..meantime life is fleetin..so neither are important as think. God is most high not people that make bad choices.

jim beam or in the situation of a rapist. Then you are also a victim

What a beautiful way to express a visual perspective of forgiveness. Thank you for sharing this. 💖

Wise words Steve. I will take this on board.

Avril, You're a phenomenal person on the path that surpasses the ordinary human understanding. This is where we should all aspire to ascend.

@@robbyethomas-ciao2022 thank you for your kindness of words ,they inspire me even more ,they have touched my heart much appreciated, hurt is only a word to me now I wouldn't let it in ,life is ment too be enjoyed , thank you again. Take care.

sometimes things just happen.

My husband beat me and stole all my money this Christmas Eve ..we got in a argument and I said things and he got angry and attacked me..I gave him alot of power over me it's hard but God is good we have to only look to him

True and my greatest lessons in life is to let God deal with the evil. Since some people get pleasure in watching me suffer

Ava'Z World "Trust on Hashem but tie up your camel. "

@@avazworld6549 if u do not protect ur self from the bully he will keep on bullying u, meantaly or physicaly. U dont fight back,or talk back they will keep coming at u. Fid help does who are brave enough to fight back. Thats my expirience from being bullied , only fighting back stoped it.

Sometimes those that you tell about the bad things happening are in on it.

@@lovenlightman I have had that happen to me too. That is why I said you have to try not to hurt people. Obviously you cant let people hurt you . It is an almost natural reaction to duck or move out of the line of fire. If you think that is not going to be enough to let you get out of there then I do believe you can do something about it.This reminds me of when I had a boyfriend who used to beat me up. One time he was gonna punch me in the face. Not where I could move or duck out of the way .He had me held up against a wall heater holding my neck with one hand and pulling back his fist to punch me. I braced myself thinking this was gonna be a really bad punch.I was thinking God please help me .Next thing I saw was my boyfriend on his knees holding his shoulder and crying ,"ahhh it hurts." It seems his shoulder or arm dislocated. Maybe God grabbed his arm to stop him causing his shoulder to dislocate.I then took the chance to run.

Solomon's wisdom didn't help him one bit in the end.

TruthSurge's Mommy the Jews are still here with their wisdom. All other kingdoms and beliefs have come and gone

Only your reaction to words hurt

Don Fades Haha again words hurt!

One thing I noticed about Jewish people with their humor is not always cute and funny and not all knowing!