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Amen 🙏🏽 I felt love 3 different times but it was me then but the last 2 relationships was real bad I’m so hurt n I love so hard but I know I have to heal with my kids and just do active things💎💯
Cutting ties is very important. Even during boredom, just wanting to hear their voice, wanting to be taken out. You have to remember why it didn't workout. The fear needs to go away to start over. God didn't give you a spirit of fear. No giving the peach cobbler in anyway. #period
"when you go back a second time, when you give them a second chance, it's double or nothing and it will do twice the amount of damage" damn. i've been missing him but that's some mf truth right there. needed that
People will pack up, relocate & start over in new city, state, county or continent for a job/career opportunity. They will change cell phone companies to get the NEWEST phone and/or services. They will leave cable companies to get better deals. Question, why you have a problem with doing the same in order to HEAL. Make it make sense.
You don’t have a soul tie with your job or phone or cable company. Sometimes you have to fight for your healing. And sometimes people just don’t know how to get healing. It’s a process.
So my 6 year old all in my phone goes there goes “ Total gaskin video” 🤣🤣. I said it’s tony gaskin and how you know that. She goes because you always watching it and he’ “says hey this is total gaskin. I smiled I’m proud she won’t be telling ppl I’m watching love and Hip-Hop replays 🤣🤣🤣😩
Happy healing ladies 🧸💝 You left for a reason. Don't create a cycle of make up to break up. You all deserve the respect your absence is demanding. Stay busy, stay focused, stay gone.
Dr Frank can make your ex come back to you begging you for a second chance. He helped me restore back my broken relationship of 3 years by bringing back my ex Also Dr Frank always keep up with his words I strongly Advise you to seek help from him
This is the first video of yours I watched! 10 months later I've lost 45 lbs, got accepted into my dream program Sonography AND have remained single... Staying OFF my back! I am a member of the Blessed Tribe, thank you so much for your wisdom, perspective and humor that has helped me learn/lean into Self Love. Blessings to you and your family TG!
Darling, I've tried this so many times and it didn't work until I met a powerful man👱who helped me bring back my ex who left me a few months ago and now we are back together
I learnt that I argued needlessly. I feel embarrassed of the times I did and how I reacted, which ultimately destroyed our relationship. But I’m grateful that I can refine and improve having identified this.
I’m only young, but I loved him and I thought he loved me, but I’m choosing to move on now. How things were weren’t right and I was not myself, I gave to much to someone else, and in the process I abandoned myself. I don’t hate him, I will never forget him and my love is unconditional . But in this moment in time I need to put myself first and heal.
Learn to never ever abandon yourself and your joy for No one! never is it healthy. Loving a child is unconditional but the man who did you wrong shouldn't be yet the memories will remain.
For the past two months since my breakup I have been doing exactly what you were saying. Listening on my way to work and in my car during lunch. It has truly blessed my life in this season. I know God led me to listen to you. It slapped me back on track to know my purpose thank you!
I’m sitting here crying my eyes out. I’m so hurt. After three failed relationships, 2 of them marriages, getting used and cheated on only for them to go to other women and give them all the credit, I’m at my breaking point. They have all came back and said it wasn’t me and that I was perfect. If I’m so perfect why do I keep getting treated like trash? I’m really hurting.
Be strong l'm going Tru the same thing rigth now ,i told him that i did not like order girls calling his phone then he just stop fucking with me out of blue after telling me he love me and he well do anything for us it hurt like hell praying to god to help me get over this...
There’s no way, God would let you go through all of that and not have a reward for you at the end of it. I feel like your blessings will be amazing, you deserve wonderful experiences and they will come to you. Maybe, it’s time for you to give yourself some of the love that you gave to those relationships. I know how you feel, though I’ve only experienced one real relationship. We have to focus on building ourselves up, and bringing our goals/dreams into fruition.
Why is it that more women go through these breakups the hardest? I mean, my God in heaven, are there really that many grown boys in the world? Where are the real men? Where are the real men who truly want and value a committed relationship? Where are the men who really want only one woman to be with?
During my break up I thought about all the things I been through. Questioned why did I let all that stuff happen. Never ever again will I lose myself in someone else. All the lies, arguments, cheating, mental and emotional abuse. No No No I realized that it was time to be done.
I'm healed, it happened faster because I did the work. Books,videos, daily affirmations, body back on track and running my small business and working for a company as well. Thanks much. Be blessed.
This is tough for a lot of women especially! I lingered in a 13 year situation because I was addicted! I was guilty of committing idolatry and fornication against God! God HAS TO BE FIRST! Non-negotiable for ANY relationship! If anyone is taking the place of your time with God, they are not your God given mate! God will bless you with a person who loves Him as much as you love Him, and you two will serve God together! 4 plus years CLEAN! Praising God for that deliverance and healing!!! 💯💪🏾🙏🏾😇♥️
You are definitely right about the kind of music you listen to. R&B will have you reminiscing and backtracking to the bs. Forgetting what you just went through 😔.
If I left an ex, even if it were for something petty, if I keep rejecting his advances, if he loves himself, even if he knows I left him prematurely, over something petty, he would walk away and be at peace with that. A person who has self-love will choose self-love over “harassing” the one that they think “got away.” He’d look like a fool running after a woman who is running away from him. Chasing someone who doesn’t want you reminds me of when I was a kid, I grew up on a farm, and we had to chase the chickens, trying to catch the chickens to tie them up to ring their necks and prepare them for dinner. I get the same visual when I think about another human-being “chasing and trying to catch” another human-being who doesn’t want to be “caught”. Don’t pursue someone who doesn’t want you even if you think they left the relationship prematurely.
I want to make sure!! you can block the number then delete it, and they still can't get hold of you? 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽 I thought you had to block it and keep the number on your phone to keep it blocked.🤯
Love has no pain. Emotionally, physically, mentally, etc. When that is involved the love is not there. You never want to put the person you live through any of that.
This is so hard when you have to co-parent with the man who left you and I still have to do 💯 percent of work when it comes to our son and healing at the same time! Gosh it’s hard ladies for me!
It's hard for us all. I try to coparent but he is a narcissist and counterparents. A marriage to a narcissists is the most difficult relationship in the world.
Paulette C ok I will! I will do more prayers and I hope I heal really heal move on bc my son’s father move on and he told me “he isn’t in love with me anymore” broke me bad😢
Keep holding on, sis! It’s tough and I’m going through the same thing. My child’s father said the same thing but pops up every other year to see if can still get it smh. He recently faked like he really wanted to get back together then said it was all a “mistake” bc I called him out for trying to hook up with me while he has a gf! That was the last straw and he can no longer contact me unless it’s about our daughter. Stay in prayer and I hope you find the strength to move on. 🙏🏽💕
I was in a 5 year hurtful relationship, left two years ago and I’ve been doing lots of self-love work with other groups since April 2019. But I was introduced to your work last month. This blessing that you provide on this channel feels like I’ve struck gold! This wisdom from a valuable Christian view is that important to me!! God bless you as God-fearing man!
I needed this so much today...coming outta a 3yr relationship with a narcissist 😖 Things are going well for me finically but I need to get unstuck emotionally and mentally to keep that financial momentum going. Thank you
I left my bf of nine months because he was inconsistent and "wasn't sure if he was ready" and even though I kept trying to fix it I was doing all the work on my own. He just said that he needed time to heal himself from his trauma and had to do it all alone. Found out that he was back on hinge, 3 days after our break up, and I blocked him on everything. I shouldn't have gone back. Don't do it, ya'll!
It's upon the individual to decide when it's time to start again. It takes time to heal and rediscover self after a breakup. One must also remember to maintain their individuality while involved in a relationship and even marriage.
He's absolutely right. Distance helps so much. It's hard but worth it in the end. I had to leave my home, church, friends and his family and distance from my family members that were close to him. Only then did the healing process begin. Forgiveness does not mean you have to reconcile or stick around.
I hear you Bro Tony a Relationship should make you feel alive, vigorate, free and make you want to be your best. this is so real and true. Thanks so much Bro Tony you're such a blessing.
So I glad I found this video today. I did a pro /con list to help me identify what was good and bad about the relationship and what I really need to be getting over. Game changer. Realized this wasn’t love. I was tolerating and settling. I need to work on the lack of self respect I must’ve had to allow this relationship to persist. Focusing on me so I can be whole and date with purpose next time around.
Lol!! Tony’s re-enactment of co-workers is spot on 😂😂. I was literally told that I act like a hermit when I chose to remove myself from the office at lunch to pray or get on a call with my coach. And I was also told about the Sonic runs and how they add Vodka to their drinks🤦🏽♀️😒
His family will divorce you too. No matter how much you have helped and been there for them. If he tells them to cut you off, they will. Move on and prepare for better. Trust God. It is coming!
Thank you Sir. I needed to hear this, my need for masculine energy has caused me to accept unacceptable behavior. I thank you again for this wake up message.🙏🏽
i Left my husband because he never loved me. We bought a house and got married in may 2 years ago and found out he cheated in august and I moved out in September. He’s been fighting to win me back ever since but I’m finally letting him go because it was never love he just was hiding the lies in the beginning.
The music part is so true!! When we separated I listened to nothing but heartbreak music that put me into such a depression that it turned me into someone I didn’t even recognize.
Dr Frank can make your ex come back to you begging you for a second chance. He helped me restore back my broken relationship of 3 years by bringing back my ex Also Dr Frank always keep up with his words I strongly Advise you to seek help from him
I will be right back! I'm still on the other video, dating in 2020 (I take super long in watching them because I can't move onto a next one without understanding the previous one... I take some time to fully absorb and understand 👀🤦🏾♀️)
@@cherh thank you!! I'm like 20minutes into the video now and ....👀 This is one of the hardest video I've had to watch from him, but, I have to hear it. Let his advice marinate
When me and my ex hubby divorced. They divorced me to. It's how it goes. Painful as it is. I was okay with it though. I had my own family to support me. We did have children together but that was all business.
Same sis only he used a key he never returned to come into my home and take our infant twins and disappeared and blocked all contact with me I just sued him. But I can’t even stomach to look at him in court.
Bro Tony this message is soooo needed today because am going through a soul tie from a 12 years relationship but this break up was through death with my boyfriend that passed away 3 months ago. So I know am going through healing and deliverance mentally and emotionally and spiritually through this. With your teaching it's redirecting my whole out look now on life .so today truly for me wasn't a good day emotionally for me.i request for your prayers. But I know God is able to see me through this time. But I thank God for people like you Bro Tony to keep me focus on my true perspective in life.
Thank you!This is life changing for me!I’m about to start my healing journey to now!You said so many key things about cutting all ties,what you watch,what you listening to and who you talk too!
27 mins in and I'm answering every question you ask like nope nope nope!! to wanting to work things out.. 10th time taking him back it gets worst ... in a 2year marriage. .. soul ties are definitely real. it's time to move on. Emotional, mental and eventually physical abuse isn't worth it. . I use the be like ("why you yelling"; we can talk...)Thanks for this. Tony
Look forward to your videos everyday, your videos have become a ritual every morning. I wake up excited to hear what Tony has to say today! Thanks Tony. Stay blessed~
I think I spent YEARS of my life in a break-up state, from what you described. I am just now learning to COMPLETELY clean up the messiness in my life surrounding men. I wasted so many good years of my life feeling depressed over the men who didn't care for me. Young ladies, please take heed and don't let it happen to you! Delete, block, turn off the sad love songs! Look up and enjoy the life, energy, youth and blessings you have!
Thank you Tony as always and forever ❣️ I just love to learn but I'm also doing I have 0 tolerance for the negativity love inspiration positivity only the ability to move forward I press on I'm a strong believer in Life goes on and what's for me will find me or we or it will cross paths!!! Thankful to be apart of the Blessed Tribe 🙏
🙏🏽🙏🏽 thank you for everything. It will take me long but I'm on the path to heal... To love myself and to learn to love again. Trust still a long way but I will get there. Thank you for your effort and dedication to help us get where we need to be. Be blessed 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽
I usually attract people that are opposite from me. Boy's that love to argue and fight. They say I must not care about them because I haven't went off on them or curse them out, im not jealous or insecure, so they fish for a negative reaction from me and they say that im weak because of it but then they constantly tell me that they love that I don't have an attitude and I'm not childish and revengeful.but that just leads to them sabotaging the trust and respect in the relationship, just to see something negative.🤷🏽♀️🤷🏽♀️🤷🏽♀️🤷🏽♀️🤦🏽♀️
Great video needed to hear this two years ago. I’m so glad that you putting them out learning a lot from them. Keep it up 👍. I appreciate you. Be blessed and stay safe 🙏🏾
Tony thank you, everything you said it make realized I was holding on to the memories of abuse. And it wasn't even real. I deleted all his pictures finally just now with this video. Thanks God bless you for all the help you provide
Thank you so much Tony..I actually can't remember how i landed on your videos about two or so weeks ago but I believe this was Divine connection. Thank you for these daily videos they are feeding me..I just walked out of an abusive marriage in May last year and am excited to discover that am on the right track to healing..and having your videos now I believe my healing will be so much better as I have authentic information to feed on..Be blessed abundantly
Just needed you to know, you're awesome!!! The level of dedication and sincerity you show is magnificent. You've been a true blessing in my life and I can't wait to read your new book. God bless.
One year later and I still have pain cropping up. They always say a half life of the relationship is what you need to heal... I've been too hard on myself during this process. Glad to see this video. When I realized he was narcissistic I thought I let him go. I made so many positive changes since then, I'm a complete different person and this has been my most successful year to date with everything I was able to accomplish. Got my license, a car, became a personal trainer, socials and my business started popping off, have so many caring people in my life I didn't have before. But like you said, I threw myself into my personal work and milestones but not actually healing the hurt. In my head like, he was so mean to me, forget him. But yeah, I didn't work through it.
BE BLESSED. LOVING THE KNOWLEDGE. THANK YOU AND THANK YOUR QUEEN AND CHILDREN FOR GIVING YOU TIME TO ENCOURAGE US, GIVE US THE STRENGTH TO WALK OR GOT TO GO OUT OF HERE.
I let myself grieve. I listened to all the songs that related to me at the time but I also listened to you and knew I needed healing and understand why this happened and why I got where I was. Now I'm so enjoying my healing process. Thank you.
This was so on time! Thanks Tony! I keep moving ahead, but he always contacts me. I don't contact him back, but I battle the feelings. They are still intense. But it's an addiction, not real love. It's like I'm stuck, but I know I'm not. I know it was fake love, but at the time it seemed so real. It's good to know I'm doing the work! God bless!
Your videos always post just in time. Most days I listen to your videos on my way and from work. I replaced the sad music with uplifting videos. And it's working
Hi Tony, first time arriving early on one of your videos, so I just wanted to say God bless you and hope you and your family are doing well and staying safe in these times! I've been watching a lot of your videos in the past several days and they have been a great help. Really touched and inspired by your easter video sermon. I'll be taking your free self love course and am working on figuring out my 3 B's! Thank you!
Tony I just came across your channel the other day and I must say I really enjoy your videos to the point I have been binging them! Lol I broke up with my ex 9 months ago and still haven’t been able to get over it! It’s bc like you said in the video we were together in 2015 for a year and broke up for 2 years and didn’t speak but the whole 2 years we were broke up we both thought about each other every day so we got back together in 2018 after not speaking that long and we stayed together this time for a year and a half before we once again broke up last July over a small miscommunication! I was really upset at the time and I just needed some space away from him he took it as I was really wanted to break up for good and ghosted me! Deleted me on all social media blocked my number to where I couldn’t contact him! So Now I’m back to square one again! It’s crazy bc I really felt like we were given a second chance and he was the one but I guess I was wrong! I miss and love him so much but like You always say if a man leaves you once he ain’t the one! And this is now twice! I really wish I would’ve seen your videos along time ago before I gave him another chance. I’m so heartbroken even nine months after the break up and all I can do to feel better is watch videos like this to give me hope! After we broke up I completely deleted all of my social media and went ghost so he has no idea what I’m up to because I’m in a completely different town and hour away from him so that helps! I’m Praying maybe one day I will heal! Just wanted to say your videos are really helping put everything into perspective for me so Thank you for all that you do God bless!
I really want to thank you Tony! I have been supporting you for quite some time now and Ive bought two books and nearly all your courses for me and my husband but it didn’t work out so now I’m using the courses and books for healing during my divorce now. I did look into your counseling session but I just don’t have it. These videos come right on time everyday for me for like it was tailor-made 😍 Thank you Again!
Thanks for today’s message. The new book ‘A woman Influence’ arrived today (live in in London, UK and had pre-ordered the book in February but due to recent events there was a delay in its arrival), anyway looking forward to spending tomorrow focused on reading the book, also just to say the video with Mrs Gaskins was my favourite so far, it was wonderful to see the beautiful energy between the two of you, hoping you can do more videos together. God bless
God bless you sincerely Tony. You just don’t know how these videos help me. I’m just very grateful that God led me to your channel- thanks for encouraging us to heal and become overall better individuals in the process. I’m going to apply all that you said and become a testament of how your teachings applied with Faith and Hope in God can transform your life for the better.
