HOW TO HEAL FROM A DYSFUNCTIONAL BACKGROUND 2 

I wish someone told me all these long before now. Mistakes I made in my teenage age, I did because of the dysfunctional home I came from. So many things I accepted, I did because of the dysfunctional background I came from. But I am honestly happy and grateful it is coming now.. I thank God for the transformation he is doing in my life, my heart and my mind. I will marry right and my partner and I will be good Godly parents, in Jesus name 🙏🏾 Amen

I was cutt off from my entire family back in 2000, I had just turned 4years. I was raised by my father's cousin,this woman raised me with a hand of iron. I didn't have a childhood, because my guardian forced me to be all grown up by the age of 5years . Till I turned 20years, the only time I felt loved and accepted was when I met Jesus Christ, with a changed heart I left my country Uganda to Qatar so as to find myself and purpose. I believe oneday I will find my way back home. Every child needs a parent,so never be absent in your child's life. Love y'all ❤

Whenever this man speaks he soothes something in my soul. Yet, at the same time, because of the content of his messages, he is pointing out my hidden hurts. God bless him 🙏🏽

Sir, I've only recently found you, but in the few months that I've watched you, you've brought clarity to long suffered situations, and all I can say is you are undoing decades of the work of the enemy. The Lord only can bless you for us.

Ive never heard my life described to me like this..I have dady n mumy issues..no wonder pple are always taking advantage of my vulnerability, it ends today, Jesus has healed me 😫🙌🙌🙌

My children will have healthy relationships in Jesus name amen

The father is the law giver the mother is the law interpreter.God bless you Apostle. Coming from a dysfunctional family can break you even as a girl child, you would have to be looking for love even from the people that would still take advantage because you are vulnerable. May we all be healed.

Literally getting the therapy I knew I’ve always needed from this channel 😊

Heavenly Father help me to express myself and live out every gift and talent you have blessed me with 🙏🏽 I uproot every wrong foundation in my life 🙏🏽 Father Lord help me to a better parent and speak life into my children to inspire and motivate them to their full Godly potential 🙏🏽 Lord have your way with me and remove any fear from my mind that is holding me back 🙏🏽🙌🏽 I manifest the calling upon my life in Jesus Mighty Name 🙏🏽 I Break Free 🙏🏽 Walk gallantly 🙏🏽I Break Into New Expressions 🙏🏽 I live the life God has given to me 🙏🏽 I become bold and audacious 🙏🏽 Amen 🙏🏽

Oh wow😭😭 It's like you're talking about me I didn't go home for holiday last semester becoz of the same reason I admire my friends who cant wait to go home for holiday😭 I stayed on campus for the whole holiday alone and people kept asking me why I can't go home I felt sorry for myself May God bless you apostle femi God is speaking to me through your teachings I know will have a Godly marriage and my children will not go through what I'm going through because of my husband and I

I get out from the definitions of others. I refuse to walk in the projections of the insecurities of others. It's the beginning of a new order for me. I will not be a grave yard of God's abilities and talents for me. I will not be subjected to the moulds of others nor will I massage their ego anymore. I shall become all that God wants me to be. I shall bless the world with all that God has placed in me. I break into new expressions. I'm no longer a slave to people's opinions and emotions. I am God's child. I manifest after my divine ordination.I am no longer held back. I have the spirit of boldness and audacity. I will not be small. I impact the world. I am relevant and useful.I am free from today henceforth. Thank you Apostle Femi. Thank you Jesus.

The emphasis should be on HEALTHY PRESENT parents. My father was a very abusive alcoholic who damaged us beyond explanation and I wish he wasn't present. Because of him I transferred my issues to my husband and its now that I am getting therapy

Sir , you have perspective into this matter, I have never heard anyone talk about it this way. This series is a confirmation of the things that God is speaking to my heart and the podcast he told me to start . Thank you , thank you sir

Finally started a RU-vid channel this year and seeing this message at the point where I was going to quit is really special to me. Thank God I saw this message 😊❤❤

I also came from a dysfunctional background… now I know where all my insecurities, fears, etc come from… I believe that I'm beginning to be transformed and free tho, though God bless you sir🙌🏾😭

My father abandoned us for another family, i always told myself that everything was good because we all turned out successfully, however, I have come to realize how that has affected me but I believe God is healing my heart, rewriting my story as I dedicate my life to him. I am free and will have a successful happy family . Thank you Man of God

Grew up in a system where we were told marriage is problematic. Dont submit to a man he will take advantage of you. Get all possible achievements to intimidate your husband and so forth. I am so thankful to the Holy Spirit that it is now before my marriage that i am now unlearning all the things my dysfunctional environmental taught me. Holy Spirit help me Lord i pray thee. Amen

Thank God I got to listen to this message, before I got married. God bless and increase u, Apostle Femi.

Thank you sir for this message, it was on point, Dishing out realities some of us struggled with for years. I have always felt I was living in the shadow of myself for years. It feels like I always put up something that am not. Always trying to please others(sustaining the image people have about me). The only time I show my talents is if there is someone then to encourage me. Thank you soo much sir for this message. I almost deleted this chat but I told myself that I must break free. I break free.

I break free Thank you so much sir I came from a dysfunctional family so I understand and can relate. This message is for me. I am relieved ❤️ Thank you sir 😁🥳

If you grew up in a complete home with parents who gave you the right guidance please be most grateful for that. Unfortunately some of us didn’t have that privilege but thank God for the gift of the Holy Spirit🙏. Thank you @Pastor Femi🙏.

i step out of all that hold me back from expression and am no longer a slave to people's emotions, Amen.

Stepping out in faith virtually. “I break into new expressions. I am no longer a slave to people’s opinions or emotions. I will not try to manage people’s emotions.” Today is the day I finally break free!

Absolutely loving this series. It's refreshing to see the church address dysfunctions in the family

This series is a much-needed Therapy for me. Thank you so much sir!

This message is needed. I’ve been so Hurt and scarred so much that it feels I might never heal😢, I’m trusting God for healing

Apostle...i know God is blessing you..... But this is special.... GOD WILL BLESSSSSS YOU. i am glad i watching these teaching while on summer break i have all the time.

So true. A person from a dysfunctional family or household must heal first because he/she has the tendency to perpetuate the same mistakes they encountered when growing up.

Glorayyyyyyyyyy🤩🤩🤩🤩🤩!!!! I'm freeeeee!!!!! Thank you so much, father❤... It was a session of deliverance for meee!

I don’t know what pastor Femi is trying to achieve in these series, my mind cannot process it all. But whatever it is may it be one of the best things he will achieve through Christ in his ministry. No lies, I lose and miss words to describe how this is blessing me.

He said that when a mother is missing in the life of a child,the child becomes wayward because she has to develop some sort of strength at a certain age. Some mother's push their children to the wall sometimes by expecting so much from them . For instance because you have sent your child to primary and secondary school you start expecting that child to be paying bills at home ,you start billing the child unnecessarily. You never appreciate what the child brings to the table and that's not fair. Later on when you and this child don't have connection. You make it look like the child is stubborn,evil spirit is following the child

This message is deep. thank you sir for allowing God to use you for us. so many of these things you said affects me, but I'm breaking out. I am consciously walking out of this abuse today. I BREAK FREE. I AM FREE.

Pastor Femi, I am gradually getting addicted to your messages. Chai…. Raw truth. No embellishment. PURE truth. God bless you sir.

The relief I feel in my heart😩🙌🏽🙌🏽is unexplainable. God bless you so much Sir

i shed tears watching this. thank you sir. i'm free from the burdens of my family.

Yes sir. I just love how you disperse the truth. Fearless

Beautiful message! Sinks deep , I have no words Sir!

Thank you for opening my eyes...will definitely train my children well

I'm just getting to know this personality... The few clips I've watched on Instagram brought me over here to get more

I break free, I break into new expressions, I am no longer a slave to people's opinions and emotions, I live the life God has given to me. Thank you Apostle, this was for me even down to the dancing part. It's a new day for me. Thank you Father.

God bless you apostle You actually mentioned my case of breaking free from the opinions of others and expression of oneself May your oil never run dry 🙏🙌

I am so grateful I started watching Pastor Femi’s messages. I have had my fair share of mistakes as a young lady, but never an again because it ends with me. Moving forward with the help of the Holy Spirit, I will be better🙏🙏

I will be bold and audacious🙌🏾🙏🏾thank you for this teaching man of God,may God richly bless you...I am free indeed

Pointing out my hidden hurts and now that I'm trying to build my life from scratch at 30😢I'm a victim of carelessness and a dysfunctional family background.God have mercy on me and my children.

Very impactful. God bless you sir

Thanks you sir you preach with reality God bless you and your ministry amen

God bless you sir for this I've listened to part 1&2and my God its an eye opener to be better and do better I break free from the opinion of men amen

Such messages. We need it more...

Thank you sir for this enlightenment. I have learnt a lot. Now i pray for myself and my siblings that the negative patterns in my family won't get to us. We will be the best husbands and wife to our spouses, Amen. God bless you for us.

Thank you so much sir We need more of this These are issues a lot of us are dealing with and it has really affected our relationships

Such a powerful message. Thank you very much sir.

Thanks so much sir for been an incredible blessing;all glory to our great LORD GOD

The comments are interesting an I'm learning from them as well. Thanks to all those who shared in the comments. May God heal us and our homes

Wao this is a balanced message. Thank you sir

Powerful message , thank you sir.

What! Such quality of information. This is the voice of God.

God bless you sir. This series is such a blessing to me🔥🔥🔥🔥

I step into a new expression🙏🏾I break free from every pain or thinking or anything holding me back🤲🏾🤲🏾🤲🏾

Thank you JESUS I was at the verge of losing my mind and your video pop up on my instagram page😢... I was a lovely and sweet girl but how i have become so cold and withdrew despite been a sanguine😢😢. Dysfunctional Background has really dealt with me and is affecting everything(i know this isnt me) God please help and healme😢😢 1:32:00(i cant express and communicate well)😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢

Oh my God!!! God bless you Apostle, I am freef from the grips of the opinion of men and living an expressive life of purpose

Thank you for this powerful message Sir. May God continue to increase you in wisdom and knowledge.

Pastor you are what I asked God for . I’m a single mom and when I had my child in 2023, I asked God to help me raise him well , and then your messages comes up on instagram. Your words are therapeutic. Thank you.

Hallelujah thank You for this word 😢

Thank you sir for this. God bless you and yours.

I am always happy to be here. Thank you Lord for this message,it was not easy but your grace was abound.

This message met me at this time, am about to give up... I pray for total healing

This message is a true blessing. I break free from every dysfunctionality. God bless you Apostle

God bless you Sir for this message.

Just listening to this But wish i heard earlier Coming from a divorced home at an early age had to survive by myself Till i met the holy spirit Thank God for his love 😊

I'm actually in tears listening to this message, it tells a lot about me. Dear God heal me please 🥺🙏

Pastor Femi Lazarus , God bless you sir , Ur days shall be long , God , I been crying listening to you sir , God bless you, Thank God for healing ,

Thank you so much apostle for this timely messages. God bless you sir. You are indeed a gift from God.🙏

Absolute truth, God bless you Sir

I am so grateful to God , for bringing this sermon my way, My dysfunctionality had a touch one on me , But God in his infinite mercy saw me through, Thank God for healing , I am still in the process of healing , amd I can see the manifestation of His goodness , thank God for bringing this message my way, God I will forever be grateful , And I will serve you till everlasting, 🙏🏻

EVERYTHING YOU SAID SIR IS ACTUAL WHAT I AM FACING NOW

Thank you sir for breaking the tables of generalised ideology

God bless you Sire!!

This topic of trauma and dysfunctionality VERY deep. Wow😢. But I thank for Jesus ! God bless you Apostle Femi!

Thank you Sir , 🙏 Glory to Jesus Am out 🙌

Thank you Apostle God bless you real good

I break free! What timely a message.

i will heal and love and trust. i will have healthy relationships. God bless you apostle🙏🏻

God blessed you and your family sir

Thank you sirrrr Someone is finally preaching this

I am blessed to come in contact with this message. I will marry right and my marriage must work

This message was for me Thank Apst

Thank you so much for this message sir🥺. It is a huge deliverance to many of us🙌 words cant describe how grateful I am sir🥺🔥

You spoke about me sir. My foundation has really affected my life.😢😢😢. Wish I knew all these before now

Thank you Holy Spirit ❤❤

God bless you Sir

Thank you, sir.

Father lord thank you for the freedom of expression 🙏🙏

1:41:10 Spoke to me directly. I struggle so much with expression. Very little confidence and most times I'm correct.

This message is so liberating oo

4 things that are affected by dysfunctional backgrounds. 1. Relationships. I must find my expression. World judged by sight. Build healthy relationships begin with me and I must be mindful of people who enters my life When will I get out of the definition of me people have. Anyone who abuses me is not a friend of my destiny

God bless you pastor Femi... this has blessed me and this is also my confirmation from God...may you never lost contact with God🔥🔥🔥

Thank you so much sir 🙏 I'm so blessed

Thank God for this powerful message but what do we do about the mould that church in quote is putting people in.

This is so sad for me. My son’s father passed on five years ago. My son was just 6 years old. I pray for him daily that he becomes a strong brave man who knows who he is (identity).

Yes sir 🔥 I hear you sir.