How to identify a Covert Narcissistic Jezebel 

Jezebel....the name means "married to "....married to Baal...which involves withcraft....a person oppressed and or possessed by demon spirit or spirits...they do not repent...they are extremely prideful and arrogant...

Thank you for this. My husband and in-laws are psychologists, and I am in school studying abnormal psychology. We are all Christians, and I've always felt the Jezebel spirit was associated with this. Out of the (absurd) amount of information that I've learned, you hit the nail on the head the best. And thank you for specifying the age range that this spirit manifests. God bless you and your wealth of information!

I am a fifty two year old woman and until I prayed for God to illuminate my mind and heart so that I could understand why my mother has never loved me, she has abused me my entire life and even tried to kill me. It is because she is a narcissistic, covert aggressive, manipulator and or Jezebel Spirit. The last time I saw her, I ended up in the hospital and nearly died. It has taken me years to try to get my health back and I am still trying. My mother has brainwashed my family into thinking I am mentally ill and she has isolated them all from me. I am on this earth, all alone, living in hiding because if my mother ever found me, she would have me killed. She is possessed by many demons.This stuff is real people. I pray those who suffer like I have from the mental and physical abuse from this evil spirit , will find this video and listen to it well. May they find deliverance soon. Pray to God He will set you free!

I have a serious aftermath recovery issue from and narcissistic Jezebel relationship disaster in my marriage and destruction of the church I am pastoring! My children and grandchildren are also suffering!

Thanks for great, great videos about narcissists.

Thank You so much for this video...... it is the most powerful video I have ever come across. Very powerful video!!!!

It's transgenerational, meaning, it passes on from generation to generation through the dysfunctional family systems. In many cases religion also comes into play. It's a pathology. You can get knowledge in dealing with this dysfunction looking into family systems, toxic families, narcissism and ways you are enmeshed with these systems. Only you can change in hopes of freeing yourself and not passing it on to the next generation. Narcissism is always on a spectrum, all you can do is obtain a balance. The only way to rid a narcissist, is to get the narcissist out of you. If you are not strong enough in knowledge and spirit you will need to either limit contact or go no contact, it all depends on the consequences for you. A speaker named Jerry Wise has helped me understand this subject quite a bit. There is such a thing as healthy narcissism, find that balance.

This is brilliant! I was married once to a man who is exactly this. It was terrifying at times and crazy. I was at a point of complete exhaustion by 2011 after his ongoing affair with firefighter coworker. I was devastated and my spirit was broken. Not only from his affairs but the abuse on the children and I. He would rage, threat, scare and then either leave and come back to the scene of his families destruction and become the rescuer. Talk about absolute confusion. I started to think one of us is crazy, and today I KNOW it was not me. When it has come to family court, he played a sweet, charming innocent man in a prominent position in a fire department. Nobody believed me when I start to let the truth of what we had been living for 16 years out, everyone said I had to be lying because he was such a lovely person. In court, he even went so far as turning the female judge on me in such a vicious way because he became a chameleon. I have now experience terrible legal abuse for 10 years because of this. Funny because he always said he was a genius, and thought he should have married more than one woman because he claimed he had just "so much love" to give every woman he came across. I am still healing my emotions and mind from him mixing it like a blender and destroying my children and I. He left us destroyed and devastated. I will say though I know God saw EVERYTHING and I know that things will be restored and repaid in time.

So does this spirit work through multiple people to surround someone and keep them separate from others or is it that people get separated because that spirit is operating in church people so much that they push away the real thing?

Very informative and helpful.

I learned about these zombies in 2016 the xNarc I fell in love with almost killed me.

Thank you for informing us about this mental disease/demonic spirit. It is everywhere you find envy, jealousy, strife,confusion, deceit, selfishness and every evil work.

This spirit is running rampant in the world not just church. It's in full force destructive mode especially in families

Thank for info I almost died when going though the self distruction stage but got out by God’s grace and mercy amen

It's great you can identify and have compassion for these people, but I have found they really don't want to change. There is a point where you have to let them go.

I got my BUTT KICKED by someone who was harboring a Covert Jezebel spirit. It worked pretty hard to hide from me and I have spiritual gifts. I kept trying so hard to demonstrate good Christian Principles. It was horrible and very evil. In the end I had to go NO CONTACT but not after severe damage I had allowed it to do to my spirit. Turns out it was a painful lesson that forced me to learn that I needed MUCH Deliverance!

I was married to a covert one...I ran for my life!!! 7 months of mental, emotional and psychological abuse. Worst part.. he's a Pastor and he knew how bad his secret behavior was, admitted to it often,. Seen some unbelievable stuff...thank God I was wise enough to start recording. Those recordings saved my life, on several levels.

I am related to several of these types. Horrible 'Nightmare'. They are extremely 'Dangerous'...

Thank you for this awesome teaching. I am finally free of my ex narc husband. Being married to him was the darkest time of my life. I ended up having servere PTSD and was such a mess. But God has led me out of that abuse and I am now working on my childhood wounds. When I began to seek God is when things began to change in my life. It got harder before it got better but here I am narc free and living for the Lord. I am so encouraged to hear a minister talk about this and have such knowledge about this because I think we are truly in the end days and narcissism is on the rise. My ex narc acted like the most spiritual Christian ever when we went to church and everyone there loved him so much. It was very confusing and disturbing for me to see that. But at the time I didn't know what I was dealing with. Anyhow, thank you so much. I wish all pastors had this knowledge. God bless you!

Do you believe it’s because we are in the last days. I have never seen more people affected by this spirit.

thank you ... I like that you said deliverance is a ministry of compassion and love... great teaching

Real truth. I let go and let God.

The covert narcassist in my life was my high school counselor. She learned early on what I needed. We became close stayed in touch.....she took on a mom role . 40 years later I finally got it. 1 year of no contact and all is going great. They are people full of ugliness.

But what about abused people who are labeled narcs by their abusers? My sisters would gang up on me call me names then I'd tell and be angry with them, I stopped trusting them...then they told the family I held grudges and was always wanting to play alone. I played alone bc I was afraid of them.

I’m literally shocked!!! You nailed it OMG!! My boyfriend fits this description completely I cant even talk I’m in total shock

also it mimicks so many times those without the spirit get blamed when those with it many dont see it

These people are very evil and could care less who they hurt/break. May God take control!

WOW!! SUPERB KINGDOM TEACHING!!

Thank God for you! I'M NOT CRAZY..This spirit has nearly killed me, has destroyed my family entirely, I'm alienated by my own grown kids and entire family, literally.. I have come way too close to death...I repeatedly have told my husband this is a lifetime assignment on my life...i just didnt know what spirits i was up against..Oh but now I do!! THAT TRUTH IS HUGE for me..Thank you Dear Brother

I normally don't listen or watch videos where someone put the title "Apostle" "Prophet" or "Prophetess" because of false teachers. My ex wife was like your description of the covert Narcissist/Jezebel. I never spoke about it outside the realm of NPD. But she would change in appearance, her skin texture changed, the lines in her face changed and her eyes became dead, hard and cold. When I confronted the pastor about her and tried to tell him about it, he asked me to leave the church. I tried everything to warn him and all I got was hostility in return. Eventually I quit trying. You got the hyper vulnerability to criticism right. And it is coupled with an inability to take responsibility for their own actions words or the consequences of them. I invoked the wrath of that demon and was put through 9 months of exhausting mental torture and was repeatedly set up and gaslighted. By the grace of God the repeated set up attempts failed. Then she divorced me, and remarried in a short time. I was very depressed for a long time after we divorced, ended up homeless but Jesus never left or gave up on me. First God had me forgive the person, then He started teaching me How to deal with the spirit inside her. How to do spiritual warfare. One thing God revealed to me, and you need to search this out biblically and prayfully. The Jezebel spirit doesn't work alone their is another demon who is always found with the Jezebel spirit; an Ahab spirit. The are and work together. I did some of the things you describe the Jezebel/NPD person doing, and was in the position of being hurt, but I withdraw and and try to deal with it in a positive way. I feel like crawling into a hole and pulling the hole in after me. I suffer from insecurity and have always felt like I have to excel to feel as good as others. I grew up in a house with one NPD parent and an NPD sibling. I did have to be delivered from a spirit of pride, and I experienced mental and physical abuse as a child. But it isn't about me, it's about being like Jesus and servanthood. It's about others and using the things I learned by what I went through, to help and pray for others with empathy and compassion for them. When a person is wounded, they either work through a process of forgiveness as we Christians are required to do, or they hang on to it and become; bitter, stuck in woundedness, hateful, prideful and/or vengeful. I chose to forgive and that is when my path to recovery began.

I sincerely believe my mom has this spirit. I can't believe it. Dang, the similarity is so close including things in her past that would be a fertile ground for this spirit!! Constant drama, I'm always right, God is on my side, I'm a prophetess, can't take criticism and will cry for no reason when discussing issues, never wants to sit in front of the car when someone gives her a ride, but sits in the back ALWAYS, sowing thoughts of discord and doubt about other family members, manipulating emotions, confusion, etc. Thank you Lord!!!. Now to begin to challenge this spirit!!!.

Thankyou for the treasure of heaven is like a fine pearl! My prayer is that the narcissists would truly find the Kingdom of Heaven! Be free in Him!

God gives Jezebel a time to Repent, but she will not! Best thing to do is remove yourself from this nasty old Hag Demon when ever you can! In other words RUN!

I have lost everything. I am 26 and feel like my worth isn't worth living. I have developed strange phobias and have CPTSD and depression like most empathic people. It's very similar to vampire / draconian stories. I am alienated and haven't achieved anything due to abuse, my mother created a codependant woman and having a learning disability I've always been embarrassed to seek help. I'm very ashamed. O' Lord! Please restore my heath and the health of others and please forgive me for the narcissistic traits I have developed over the years as forms of protection from my enemies. God Is Able 🙏

Tell me if I'm crazy. My Ex wife is a Jezebel. I divorce Her back in 2015, Now My two kiddos 12 and 15 years are just like her, They don't want to know about me or even talk to me. I'm a Christian what Happened? I pray for them every day. Did I loose this war even if I'm serving a living God? Is this demonic spirit more powerful than God? I don't think so, but why it seems like is winning. Why now my kiddos, after a divorce, Is it a test that I have to go thru? Even my property and my Job are at stake, This is too much I love my kiddos. Why why why???

Sorry, I forgot to add one more thing, I have found that those who are the most narcissistic are the ones who were never given boundaries or rules within their families homes, they were allowed to run wild, because the parent didn't want to actually raise the children, they ignored them but praised them excessively in order to build pride in them. Our son in law and my husband were raised in this way, they didn't have rules, no one corrected them or even instructed them. When they grew older they couldn't stand for anyone to tell them what to do, AND, they perceived a request from a wife or someone in the community as an insult as though it was wrong to correct or instruct unless they wanted it.

just awoke after 38 years ...I'm feeling sick

I lived everything you have said for 8 years! When I got to the point of trying to figure out how to end it all and make it look accidental (because of my children) I realized I had to GET OUT before it (he) killed me! He stripped me of who I was. Sucked the life right out of me. Glory to God that I got through it. I read books Pigs in the parlor) stayed in the word of God. Ive heard that he has told people I was a religious fanatic and that I was strung out on prescription medication!!! LIE!

You have literally described my ex-mother in law, and my ex-husband all in one great, big swoop! I have been falsely accused, falsely arrested (and all charges were dropped), my children taken from me (and given back), spent over $25k in attorney fees, and name disparaged all over town by these insidious, malicious people. Did I mention that my ex-husband is a bishop and his mother is a first lady? The part that he mentions that brings me to a bit of confusion is when he says CONFRONT them. Because when I did that, they went ape all over me. That's what made them go bonkers is being called out, and always keep in mind --- THEY HATE THE LIGHT!!!!

These experiences have definitely made me turn to Jesus. I used to be fascinated with Hinduism and Buddhism and have been to India and lived in Vietnam..but I do remember a lot of evil energies in India ..it was a very dark place..I know there's evil everywhere but yes they do practice a lot of idol worship..and lack of empathy seems prevalent in the society. These horrible experiences have made me turn to Christianity and truly believe in evil in humans..I used to try to find the good in people but if they're being puppeteered by Jezebel then there really isn't much of a human there is there?

This explains everything! So happy to be free of him.

Wow, this is exactly what I have experienced my entire life in extended family members and now in my children. They prefer my husband over me, because he is an accomplished man over the years in his job and politics. They see him as the one they want and will not engage with me on any level. They elevate him and devalue me all the time. I have even been told by some that I am a woman and they will not speak to a woman. I have never attempted to thwart the authority of the elders or anyone else, I am just open about my beliefs in conversation settings. I was told by my husband a few years ago that I was not allowed to talk to men about spiritual matters even in casual conversation. He was being pressured by our narcissistic son in law and daughter who treat me with contempt every time we are with them. They will hold a conversation with my husband and negate anything that I would say even if it is scriptural. My husband appears to have changed his mind on this because I have gone no contact with our son in law and daughter to pray and heal from their abuse. My husband negated me while we were raising them, saying things like "your mother wants or your mother doesn't want", instead of saying "your mother and I want or don't want." Whenever the children wanted something I didn't approve of such as a movie or activity, my husband would never affirm my conversations with the children and then do some fun activity with them after to get them to like him. Now all the children and their spouses avoid me and demean me in covert ways when we are together. Since I have limited my contact with them in phone conversations and letters, most live far away, my husband is acting better toward me, but I have the sense that if the children came back into our lives he would do it all over again. He is alright, at least on the outside, with having little contact with them, but I never know if he is REALLY alright with it. He knows that I will no longer put up with their silliness anymore, so he is often very attentive to me. It has been a hard road because my parents and a brother have gossiped about me, my husband's family have gossiped about me so that no one in the extended family cares to have anything to do with me. I was the radical Christian, as they put it, "the Bible thumper", in the family, so often I was demeaned, mocked and negated continually. Sadly, my husband says he believes me, but acts as though he is just going along to get along. He would never handle the abuse when in their presence and often took their side as though I did something wrong, when I know I didn't. Long story, but I say all this to explain that I appreciate those who expose this evil, it is easier to be strong and deal with when we know the enemy and his tactics. Thank you for listening, may the Lord bless your work in this area, I know that we are living in 2 Timothy 3 times, being aware is to become stronger. The Lord is helping me, I feel stronger today than I ever have through prayer and knowledge of His Word. Blessings Brother

one ran into me it took me 6 months to reconstruct my life. It was with a male and the first thing I noticed was the seduction level which was off the scale. There was no aggression , a very , on the surface, loving, gentle person of God who was back sliden. Seems that he fit all the boxes

Thank you! I've recently experienced this in a heartbreaking way.

I am married to a vulnerable narcissist. I left my business and sold everything because my boyfriend/ now husband professed to take care of me. WRONG!! It has been 5 years and I am leaving him. Stop praying for them Jerimiah 14:11. Pray deeply, run don’t walk. They are emotionally destructive and it will only get worse. If you stay you will become like them

Listen to them when they think they’re alone. They will curse and mumble angrily when things don’t go their way . Also I noticed how they treat others with disrespect .

in my church there is a man who is a severe narcissist, covertly, his wife told me of horrific control and cruel mental abuse but in church he acts like a man of God, the pastors believe he is a man of God and he even prophesies and preaches. He manipulates everyone and they think hes a nice guy but my friend sees his real face and he threatened her if she uncovered him because his image is the most important thing to him. I tried to help my friend and he destroyed me. The pastor is so under this guys power

Sometimes a Covert Jezabel network affects you negatively physically FIRST for having integrity and are jealous and if you’re not a jealous person of others yourself you don’t know what to call it:

I am too grateful to have come across this video which solves some of my questions in my mind re my own terrible experience in hell with him(narc fiancee I stayed with).Too true! I got separated from him physically as he's been too dangerous. I really loved him as husband but he sometimes said he loved me sometimes he called me names. I fell in love too deep with him as I've given much more than I had. I got intimidation physically, emotionally and spiritually close door every two three days over past few yrs in hell. He kept abusing me, frequently put me & my mom in hugh debts with lies and life initimidation close door and lately I knew he even cheated. I lost myself when I was with him and each time I left him and back to my mom when he was too dangerous. I was too scared to be pushed and threatened by him and then I again trusted him and went back then he punished me after a few days after I came back to him by slapping me and showing me the devil which he called himself one. JESUS saved me from hell. I was even praying with him when I was with him who tried to pray with me too but now I know he just acted to impress me in order to further torture,abuse,cheat me plus worst non stopped pushing us to borrow loans everywhere to hand him cash close door without us being able to tell anyone as we were too fearful.Its like brainwash. He did sometimes speak something like don't you want two husbands? I want both your and your mom's souls when the devil manifestated. When I asked him who he's, he shouted at me saying you dont have to know who I am, because you sin then I come,etc a lot of spiritual things,like this. When he was a bit normal next day after the devil manifested every two three days to give me hell like torture for many hours with me being fearful & silent, he didnt even want me to speak a word abt the torture I was given by him. I never knew what it was until in the later stage. I knew I was staying with a devil possessed with demons. I couldnt get out coz of fear and love. I was even so silly trying to save him from darkness with my love but I got trapped me in hell together. He drank too much each day and I originally thought hes drunk thats why he did so evil to me. however, when time went by I found out that why he could be nice to others while he was this bastard to me and my mom close door. I knew its not mental illness as if its mental illness or due to drunkness, he should have treated everyone same in that spot right? but he just did evil to me&my mom. He ever asked me to help me out and said he loved me truly as wife and asked me to help him. I was too struggling that time why he said he loved me truly but he could have done so many bastard to me. I felt too helples to have loved truly someone I had no ability to save him from darkness. I thought so that time but same time I felt too down thinking why he could treat me this bastard? I've been too faithful but hes been cheating. He always close door checked my mobile and threatened me saying if I cheat him he will kill me but I never did anything even making him to think abt that I lost all my good decent female friends I only had. He called me crazy sluts too insulting things u cant trust a man could say to wife. I never knew he kept cheating me as I thought hes just flirting online but I never trusted that he could even have cheated or even cheating me when i 've loved me with love and tolerance.I physically left him from the stay in relationship seven months ago but im still emotionally attached to him that we nonstop indirectly communicating. Ppl say I should cut contact with him. Nowadays, Im a bit better than first few months after separation that I got too blue at first how a human could be this bastard to wife and until then I found out he had been cheated, now at this moment I sometimes I feel too angry why hes such bastard seeing me so painful suffering hugh debts he put me in and the trauma of his constant evil abuse and cheat without any empathy but still gaslight and reverse the truth.I can say he should be now cheating and trying to find next victim Im still confused one thing one question of my life, did or does he really love me as wife when I've treated him with true heart? I meant the inner him? or even the love between us has been just an illusion created by Jezebel? Or he wants to get out but he just cant due to the depth of influence Jezebel has done on him(I believe from his childhood or even at birth until now at his thirties)? Does Jezebel want to destroy him or the evil spirit wants to use him to destroy other good souls and finally his? I got trapped in hell when I was staying with him, now I got physically separated but im still very confused with all the above questions? How can he be saved without me being dragged in hell as nowadays I even stand up for myself in front of him through online communication. I mean I never dared to speak a word whem I was with him as I was too scared of him. Nowadays, I even challenge the devil with words through online commication which I also believe he keeps all these in mind. I am not thst scared of him as I was before. Really thank GOD! Also, the devil manifested usually with the consumption of alcohol and he knew that he became a devil after drinking but he kept drinking and got crazy on me no matter how muxh I begged him not to drink. Its like he purposedly drink to make me scared sometimes as he knew I was scared to see the devil. Do you think its just the demons want him to drink in order to lose conscience so they can take over him to destroy me? Once hes ok everythings seem a bit less tensed, the next he became a devil but I obseeved a situation that each time he shifted from being ok to a devil came a time gap of him being away from me from ten mins to few hours. I never can figure out myself whats the time gap for? Did he purposedly call the demons out to help him or the demons dragged him away to influence him negatively to come back to me. for Abuse and insult. Usually the time gap was the time he went down to buy alcohol. Why is it? What should I do? Hes too dangerous. If I didnt love him real I wouldnt have the strength to tolerate this much over hundred times of inhuman abuses for hours hours every two three days. Sometimes I thought I should cut my focus on him but not sure why still cant coz I fell too deep in love with him. On the other hand, he keeps gaslighting me breaking me further more to a degree I can no more cry but to accept hes really a bastard.Do you think he wants to get out from darkness too as he cried when hes in church with me few times but he just cant? Or hes purposedly being friend with demons? Im too confused if the demons controlling him too strongly that all he does or speaks are all from demons or some really from his own or he wants to get the demons to help him?I cannot figure out who is real him or the innocent one in him also a fake illusion he made? He ever said its all a game he wins anyway he said that but I was thinking it doesnt make sense if u love someone truly u cant do such bastard things like this. Whats the truth? If this love is real, I want to find ways to solve it no matter it may be risky but I can never know if this is real or not or just made by Jezebel only. The one I've loved is a fake illusion or he did and does love me real but Jezebel has been playing behind?I am sure the Jezebel behind him is too angry at me. I am getting closer to GOD each day. What else I can do? pls kindly advise. I've been too exhausted physically mentally spiritually. I was many times going to be broken but I was holdin coz inside I know im very strong with truth.By the way, hes indian and he did tell me Shiva was his God but sometimes he said he was God when the devil showed up. I believe this also is the main element he got spiritualyl attacked. By the way, I am in Asia. Thanks GOD!.I am really thankful that I finally can ask a professional on these kinds of things which are questions if my life. Many thanks!

most everything you talked about I've been experiencing for over 32 years, with my husband. So how can my husband be delivered?

Gosh,... this ties it together for me like nothing else thus far. I’ve been learning about narcissism in the last three months and what an awakening it has been for me, affirming exactly what I have been dealing with with my wife. Thank you and God bless

Why is this so prominent almost like epidemic proportions?

I just recently came across someone who came across as very helpful. Now I feel as though I owe them something. And also this person started to jokingly undermine me saying things like “ I never know where you’re at “. Like I’m mentally unstable.

Praise the Lord I found your channel. I am a victim of a narcissist/jezabel. And sure enough when I discover his sexual inmoralities, he emotional manipulated me to think of suicide. I am currently disgnosed with major depression and taking meds for it and PTSD. Now he blames me for his suffering because I am blind and don't see that he has changed. I am weary, mentally exhausted. I firgive him in obidience to God, I see a broken child inside him, but I want to divorce, he admitted hi is a sex addict. I will email my testimony. Please answer me something!

Yesss! They self medicate!

I have dealt with a Jezebel in my life.. This person caused me to lose my sensitivity to a certain extent. I use to be naively caring and let people run all over me cause I wore my heart on my sleeve.. I have changed.. Now I think sometimes I have took on some of those traits of Jezebel out of defense.. Not sure?? I pray to God a lot and still deeply care about people I just cry less and have less emotions.

I recently met someone who seems very nice. He came over to my house and started helping me with improvements won’t let me pay him. But then I overheard him one day when he was working outside building a deck , cussing . Made me feel uncomfortable. Not sure how to handle this

Covert narcissism is very subtle, most people never pick up on it, hence the word covert. I'm afraid most people don't understand this subject. If you are not a target, you will likely never notice a covert. They behave quite differently with people they idealize.

The serpent and the dragon. Covert and overt....

So what do you do? there is a fellow church member who has jezebel i thought she was a friend but she is a sadistic backstabber just like you described she wants to take me out because she sees me as a threat... but what do i do? what do i say? do i go to the pastor? he just gave her her own bible study class...suppose he doesn't believe me? suppose he has ahab spirit? do i just go to another church?

This message stung because I am harboring many of these traits. I didn’t want this message but I needed it. Thank you.

This sounds like my mother.

Please!! please!!! Spread cause some of these preachers are lost😪😪😪 and letting them work in the church. We are in danger🙏🙏🙏

Please pronounce "narcissistic" with all its syllables. Greatly informative video, thanks.

Oh man, I've been getting hammered by a covert narcissistic spirit at work. She started off being cooperative and loving, but it changed as soon as I didn't do something she wanted. The campaign of intimidation and threatening innuendo has been ramping up the more I resist the attempts to control and manipulate. I am keeping a journal of harassing and bullying behavior and minimizing contact with the individual manifesting the spirit. All I can do is keep the department manager informed and continue to contend against giving in to her agenda.

So on point my narc ex was VERY sensitive like omg to the point he would have mental breakdowns if I offended him in ANY way !!!

How do I remove it???

Great message! The only issue is that in this video there have been around 20 ads! Very distracting.

Most pastors/prophets ignore this spirit that's in their ministry.

And thankyou again for your ministry .by JesusChrist you are a brilliant compassionate saint apostle and prophet .

They are liars.

Thank you , for helping me realize what I am dealing with.

You have blessed me with this video. My wife is battling this entity. We actually saw it manifest in our house and it terrified her but I witnessed the group of demons myself. I rebuked in Jesus’s name, but they returned. I think a door was left opened. The environment on our house has been heavy. You can feel it.

Great teaching! I thank God for you and this teaching today! It confirmation to me of what's really going on!

The sins of the father pass from generation to generation. Sins could also mean the LACK of instilling a virtuous foundation which devolves further down the line.

Wow you totally described my sister in law...the lord has revealed to me just recently that she is a covert narc/jezebel..spirit working through her...against me and my family for years (we welcomed her and accepted her just like a sister) .....I finally had enough and have had to break away from her toxic behavior. .but of course she has twisted everything to make it out like it's me to make herself look good the bogus way...she even used her own child(my niece )...pitted her against us ..like it gave her some sick pleasure to use her own child to hurt us(me, my sister and mom..I think she is jealous of how close we all are)..I could go on and on. about her actions...it's sad how these people are..I gave it to the lord, vengeance is his.

Praise God for your knowledge of narcissism bless you brother you have been a blessing to my life 🙏 ❤️

I believe that one of my ex's in particular knew what he was doing. Know that a demonic spirit is attached to them, and know how to use it for his benefit. I saw him smile when he knew that something made me sad. Or get like excited when he felt like that spirit had some type of control over me or the situation or what have you. He tried to pin me against my son, and cause confusion between us. Because he wanted me to fully rely on him and be his supply. And not have anyone else around me.

Yes, will try to prevent you from making friends or sabotage friendships and then use you as a steppingstone to meet people they otherwise would not meet. Exactly, they would use the words “we” and “us” often to influence me to accept and befriend them. This was done after sabotaging amicable interactions I had with other people. I have moved and they have come to my new neighborhood making sure no amicable relationships will be established with my new neighbors. I moved quite some distance away and they have come all the way to my new location and have befriended as many of my new neighbors as possible. It’s crazy. By the way, I have never established any working relationships with the people who are engaging in these behaviors. I have refused to do so and have made it very clear that I want nothing to do with them. They still persist on trying to invade my life and personal space. I have never seen anything like it. They will create problems to put them in a position of fixer.

I hav seen some one I used to date like this! Once I saw her true colour And I thank God I got out when i Did !! That spirit will destroy you if you let it !!!

Amazing teaching! Thabk you Lord for this Deliverance Apostle,training and sending others out!

Connecting dots & going WOW ✔ YES, YES & YES, been down that road! Been learning for several years now about what I have unknowingly been wrestling & encountering in several apparently NPD individuals in my circle for many many years. Ultimately, dealing with the main & last one was like the complete decimation of a Tsunami, nothing much remained in the aftermath of that one, but I made it out. I feel bad for people on both sides, its awful! But I thank God for His grace to keep see me through. The suffering affects so many, its very painful not to know at times how to help, save & recover oneself from ground zero & save the rest of the innocent in fallout. There are far bigger problems in the world today, but we're searching for how to precisely navigate the landscape for a complete escape for those still esnared by this dominant NPD figure. The motis operandi & behavioral references or "checklist" in your vid primarily applies a high % for a marriage/head of household (& leader) & then, secondarily to several other relationships (professional, personal, family, ministry leader, friendships). Initially kept dismissing & ignoring all the red flags & signs, taking blame & covering for the person so others would not see it. Had so many questions at first, now more direct revelation & good insight! I am trying to understand, just learn about "people & personalities" & use practical tools like your video & others to enlighten, teach, inform, help & equip myself for the future, but more importantly the youngest suffering in the shadows now (stressful residing solely with the CN purely due to economic advantage in the situation). Can you answer these 3 questions: 1- How prevalent is this thing & how exactly do you stop it from TRANSFERENCE in the 1st place, for example - development in a child or youth who mainly resides with an NPD parent provider. 2- Are you saying all people who have experienced hurt, pain, loss, rejection & suffering in their childhood will likely & hopelessly grow up to inherit NPD against their knowledge & wishes? 3 - What more besides prayer & education can be done to help people get free, recover & successfully move forward (victims/survivors) in their healing process without costly expenses they may not have? Thank you!

Dude there all over the place .

Wow - this is THE BEST VIDEO SO FAR explaining this whole situation on ALL levels. THANK YOU so very much.

OMG. I feel like the spirit of the Lord was telling me that in regards to the number one thing that you brought up. The Lord have allowed me to notice this in several different people that I be in communication with recently. I told her something as away to minister to her. Because I felt like the spirit of the Lord led me to share that information with her at that time. She asked me a question in regards to it, and I provided her with an answer. Then she ended up calling me, while we were in the middle of the conversation. She kept trying to get me to give her an answer pertaining to it. I was like, I already told you the answer pertaining to that. Then she kept asking me something else, and I told her that I wasn't going to discuss that. That I just chose to trust what the Lord told me about it, and focus on what He have told me about it. She asked again, and I am assuming she could tell by the tone in my voice that I was frustrated and over it at that point. Then she responded by saying, I guess it's just me being concerned, and trying to act like your mom, or something of that nature. I know the enemy was trying to work through her to get me to be consumed with that issue, and to become worried and depressed by it. I haven't really spoken with her lately, because I could tell that she was just trying to be nosy and what not. I spoke with her to minister to her and attempt to encourage her. But she was trying to turn it into something else.

they are pretentious ...

My understanding of I narcissists / Jezebel need to be worshipped! Admired more like it. From my experience the need for affirmation comes from being overlooked, and not blessed as a child. God has made it very clear how important it is to bless our children into wholeness at every new threshold of their life

Its because people are attracted to lust...n its the biggest principality it works with...n when u r narcissist and have a lot of lust then thsts when she really gets u

The workplace is off the hook because of this! So much of it now, giving in multiply the control like crazy.

You sound like an expert.

The last 3 years, I've had four girlfriends with a Jezebel spirit, I'm sure. The way I know is that they will flabbergast you when you least expect it. The word is flabbergast.

Or blaming u for their cheating lmao smh

Also look up on RU-vid “Narcissist Personality Disorder” Lisa Romano and /or Meredith Miller give great descriptions of the topic. There are a lot others who can break it down in its fullness as well. I like his videos on how to deal with this evilness on a spiritual level!! You are fighting a GOOD fight!!! May God bless you and keep you safe and protected!!!

Doesn't it make others look like its them and finger points?

I went to church, where the pastor and his wife berated me every time I went to church, my husband constantly stealing from me then the pastor and his wife laughed in my face, I no longer go to church there.

GREAT WORD!!! The people spirits that I have been involved with knew that they turned from God to satan. They thought they could get instant help, but ended up getting held back from good. They know they’re doing it, because if they didn’t they wouldn’t just use or give themselves over to these unclean spirits, or subtle but delighted in spirits, with agreement to what they want and agree upon doing, at certain times. They thought that evil could take down evil, but , or all’s evil is and does is or was was destroy evil or them, because a “house divided cannot stand.” They thought evil would scare others away, and then keep them safe, when satan could care less, because he doesn’t even care about himself, or his destiny. he will put on a sad face, switch up and smile, then cry, O whatever! but the association with these decisions to do evil, and to partner up with satan, when it may be thought that, I alone made the decision, but, with whatever Sspirit, God or satan that is come into agreement with, this is the one that will appear before and overshadow the used, and will be the one who ends up being scared and then becomes bound.

This has answered so many things thank you! I've been blaming myself for years and caught in some web mentally. This also sheds light on having some inherited narc traits that I should work on. This was really packed with a lot of answers and clarity, very good.

Emotional blackmail also presents as suicidal threats, provoking jealousy (ie triangualtion), correct? Also, correct me if I am wrong, but I believe men can also present as a "jezebel" ie female narc if they have a lot of feminine energy?

Scripture says "resist her" bottom line resist the spirit of manipulation, control, usurption,sexual immorality, idolatry, triangulation, slander, etc.

Once you understand it drives on your sympathy ,a trick of satan , there to wear out your patience, there driving you to madness, ya it's a spirit , return it on to sender , that one is not a child of God , yep I'm judging here, you have to judge your own house! You have to judge your own house , you have to judge your own house!