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Jonathan Ljungqvist, who became a rising professional adventurer at a young age, came to the realization early in life that a successful career was only a piece to life's puzzle. In his first TEDx Lund he talked about 3 life lessons from traveling the world, but this time he defies the audience's expectations. He instead tells his story of how pursuing a successful career led him to embark on life's biggest project up to date, the one within his own relationship. Perhaps this popular story theme has been told before, but not like this! Professional adventurer who has: Biked from Sweden to Tanzania; Kayaked from Sweden to the black sea; Roller-skied across Australia. Adventurer has been in his blood for many years now but he makes his living as operative manager at davidjpphillips.com and they work with coaching in external and internal communication. When he's not doing adventure or public speaking he loves to be at home at Lakehouse and just walk the dog, read a really good book or meditate! This talk was given at a TEDx event using the TED conference format but independently organized by a local community. Learn more at www.ted.com/tedx

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@JWu-jt7fz
@JWu-jt7fz 3 года назад
Thank you for these 3 tips: 1. Hug 2. Gratitude 3. Communicate from the heart
@amandaarnold7864
@amandaarnold7864 4 года назад
This is a wonderful topic and speech! Jonathan is the love of my life but like we can all agree on, love is complicated. Starting our oxytocin project was the best journey we have embarked upon together and I know we are happier for it! I am so grateful, not only for Jonathan, but because oxytocin is something we humans share and need. Cheers!
@adventurepear
@adventurepear 4 года назад
I LOVE YOU
@DomenicoMazzaSm
@DomenicoMazzaSm 4 года назад
Hello Amanda, I hope the best for your life toghether, as you know or you'll, the marriage is a little bit more complicated .that's not enough to be happy,sometimes it Will be hard but there 's always a solution which you toghether must search . Toghether is the magic word A very big hug from my heart to yours
@adventurepear
@adventurepear 4 года назад
@@DomenicoMazzaSm Thank you for the advice :)
@amandaarnold7864
@amandaarnold7864 4 года назад
@@DomenicoMazzaSm very true! you are so right..together and teamwork is KEY!
@WAA-uj3ow
@WAA-uj3ow 3 года назад
Congrats ❤️
@anaderol5408
@anaderol5408 3 года назад
Jonathan is absolutely correct - I did not know it was called oxytocin... we just call it 'being in love' - after 33 years together (30 of them married) twice we've been on the brink of calling it quits but we worked on it and today we are like a couple of adolescents (we are both rapidly approaching 70) - we hug/ we cuddle / we kiss / we love each other and as Jonathan says - LOOK at each other, go for walks together. One thing Jonathan missed - LAUGH together - share jokes to start with but after a while it becomes easier to find amusement in every day things. Take care of each other - offer to help in a task and be confident to ask for help in a task. Plan little projects together - like clearing out the wardrobe - (a boring task but together it is done faster and it's more fun). However, I have a little advice for Jonathan and Amanda - I know it's fashionable but try and keep the mega expressions of your love more private - the turning up at work with flowers, in my mind, is not so cool - it smacks of possession and wanting to show others how good a partner you are - instead surprise her with the flowers at home. I won't even comment on the public proposal - mine was on top of a promontory - overlooking the Pacific Ocean - it was a blissful moment which still makes my skin tingle. It was our moment.
@eugheniat.2121
@eugheniat.2121 7 месяцев назад
Great comment & I have one question- why would you watch a video like this if you are happily married for the last 30 years?
@TheCeciD
@TheCeciD 4 месяца назад
@@eugheniat.2121maybe came up on his recommendation. I personally searched for this one but I do get off videos sometimes and get curious as to what it may actually be about so I watch 😅
@venust.4119
@venust.4119 3 года назад
It’s easy to give up and say “it didn’t work”. Take time and analyze what can be done to fix it. Good talk.
@jonathanljungqvist9112
@jonathanljungqvist9112 3 года назад
Thank you very much!
@Megdracula
@Megdracula 3 года назад
Exactly. This is it. If you love that person all options should be explored to find a mutual motivation to make this work if you both wish to be together.
@Bion05
@Bion05 3 года назад
Why am I not surprised the moment he called her up i was like yep we're gonna see a proposal
@WAA-uj3ow
@WAA-uj3ow 3 года назад
Me too😄
@fststudy2903
@fststudy2903 4 года назад
This is a tough subject for long-term partners. And I believe that everyone should watch this!
@adventurepear
@adventurepear 4 года назад
Glad to hear that you liked it!
@voskimkhitaryan2639
@voskimkhitaryan2639 3 года назад
I loved it and I'm happy for you both. Much happiness and long life.
@TrevCircleStudios
@TrevCircleStudios 4 года назад
So glad I got to witness this in person!
@adventurepear
@adventurepear 4 года назад
Is was a true honor meeting you!!
@TrevCircleStudios
@TrevCircleStudios 4 года назад
@@adventurepear Likewise!
@summerjoy2930
@summerjoy2930 3 года назад
True love is love you give and you get, without asking, demanding or craving for. Respect, loyalty, honesty, touch, smell, laugh, look, protection, all good feelings making one- love for life. Communication is the key. When you communicate you have no problems. Congratulations to both of you. All the best.
@adadaslavaamne157
@adadaslavaamne157 4 года назад
also beautiful moment for a proposal well done!
@adventurepear
@adventurepear 4 года назад
Thank you :)
@jeffaholics2289
@jeffaholics2289 3 года назад
Wow wasn’t expecting that at the end, I wish you guys both success and happiness.
@NISHUGARVU
@NISHUGARVU 3 года назад
He's so excited to tell these so simple yet mind blowing techniques.
@ssuperssara1
@ssuperssara1 4 года назад
This is a really important message to everyone! In these covid times, we should be careful with all our relationships. Thank you for your thoughts Jonathan!
@jonathanljungqvist9112
@jonathanljungqvist9112 4 года назад
ssuperssara1 Thank you 🙂
@MetalDeathMusic
@MetalDeathMusic 3 года назад
I'm in the exact same situation. We've not been our best to each other, and I've had a hard time communicating on things like children, moving in together. Unfortunately, she left because of these. I've been working on myself, but how can I give this a chance now? I believe this will make us far stronger.
@ihuomanwoke5873
@ihuomanwoke5873 3 года назад
Absolutely, amazing! Congratulations!
@jontaylor-cummings4068
@jontaylor-cummings4068 3 года назад
Lovely! So glad Amanda said YES! :) Wishing you guys all the very best for a love-filled and happy future together. I would say make a habit of showing love!
@HBSugar1106
@HBSugar1106 3 года назад
Awwww that was awesome!!!!!! Wow what a finale ending lol. That was fantastic!
@BeenaKK
@BeenaKK 3 года назад
Just woww.... I don't have a thing to tell you Jonathan. You are just imperfectly perfect. Such a raw and genuine person you are that shows on your face. Thank you for highlighting about Oxytocin. It brought goosebumps when you proposed Amanda. Wishing you loads of love and bliss with Amanda along with a bunch of wonderful kids. Keep smiling... Keep laughing... Keep inspiring us.....! Loads of love from India!
@FellyMahlatsi
@FellyMahlatsi Год назад
I actually cried. What a wow
@mitiarajaonarison7691
@mitiarajaonarison7691 3 года назад
This one is my favorite ted talk, I'm always watching one all of them everyday as I'm about to learn english and then I came across to a such great message about love, so not only that's give me encouragement but it also give like big hope and I strongly wanna to restart my relationships by experiencing all these powerful oxitocyne advices...I almost had tears in my eyes by seeing both being in love...good luck for you and thank you so much..
@miegy8650
@miegy8650 2 года назад
I cried after watching the speech... Too much Oxytocin was produced at once!! Such a wonderful couple you are! Best wishes and regards.
@chipixie
@chipixie 2 года назад
Thank you for sharing this moment with us!
@bessrivera5039
@bessrivera5039 2 года назад
Wow!! It's about time Jonathan!!Congratulations to both of you!
@gaylesantone1885
@gaylesantone1885 2 года назад
I got quite emotional and will watch this many more times!
@mariam-016
@mariam-016 2 года назад
I’m grateful to have watched this! Thanks guys!
@estheragbo6153
@estheragbo6153 2 года назад
Hello I recommend the love specialist who heIped me fixed my relationship within 48 hours, and my partner is back after years of separation. He can aIso heIp you
@estheragbo6153
@estheragbo6153 2 года назад
Wh'atsap him for heIp
@temujin5743
@temujin5743 2 года назад
Loved this speech!
@hathu-hy8bb
@hathu-hy8bb 3 года назад
Thank you for sharing. So lovely ending 😍
@edyourlife
@edyourlife 2 года назад
So grateful to find this video, thanks Jonathan 😀
@cynthiajones1461
@cynthiajones1461 Год назад
This was absolutely spot on. Just an excellent talk.
@ariellll4819
@ariellll4819 2 года назад
Awww this made me cry the happiest tears for you two!!
@valuabletipseasylife
@valuabletipseasylife 4 года назад
Thanks for talking about this lovely argument. Love is all I need. The love of my life? Nature. Being in nature and liberty.
@adventurepear
@adventurepear 4 года назад
I must say I love the nature to! Thank you so much for the comment!!
@angelaandromedas3206
@angelaandromedas3206 2 года назад
THIS SHOULD HAVE A BILLION VIEWS BRILLIANT INFORMATION XXXX THANK YOU WHOLEHEARTEDLY
@manelabachi8943
@manelabachi8943 3 года назад
Don't give up and say it wouldn't work / try to find the problem , fix it and protect your relationship ❤
@almt1486
@almt1486 3 года назад
When the other person gives up on you is one the hardest things to experience.
@manelabachi8943
@manelabachi8943 3 года назад
Yeah .. you're right but you gotta move
@vanessadanson5923
@vanessadanson5923 3 года назад
Wow wow wow. Absolutely powerful
@xrundateamet1550
@xrundateamet1550 4 года назад
What a great talk and a talented story-teller!
@adventurepear
@adventurepear 4 года назад
And I must say I love your company idea, super exiting! keep it up!
@valentineenedah5132
@valentineenedah5132 2 года назад
This is really beautiful.
@motv-independentthinkingfo3817
@motv-independentthinkingfo3817 3 года назад
GREAT SPEECH AND AWESOME ENDING! A MARRIAGE PROPOSAL AND SHE SAID YES AFTER HE DID HIS WHOLE SPEECH ON HER AND HOW MUCH HE LOVES HER THIS IS TRULY BEAUTIFUL 💯❤😃
@jonathanljungqvist9112
@jonathanljungqvist9112 3 года назад
Thank you so much 😃🙏
@motv-independentthinkingfo3817
@motv-independentthinkingfo3817 3 года назад
@@jonathanljungqvist9112 Absolutely thank you for the great video and inspiring proof of your love
@jonathanljungqvist9112
@jonathanljungqvist9112 3 года назад
MO TV- INDEPENDENT THINKING FOR THE FREE MIND you’re welcome 🙂
@motv-independentthinkingfo3817
@motv-independentthinkingfo3817 3 года назад
@@jonathanljungqvist9112 😃
@wyndaindonezian
@wyndaindonezian 2 года назад
Watch until the end. Because I thought after he finished his speech, it was the end. So powerful !!! My only Ted talks show that makes me cry of happiness. I will do my oxytocin project too!
@FellyMahlatsi
@FellyMahlatsi Год назад
Thought I was the only one; I cried too. It is the only Ted talk show I've ever watched where the presenter demonstrated live what they meant 🥺😭
@wyndaindonezian
@wyndaindonezian Год назад
@@FellyMahlatsi exactly
@safiraimoney
@safiraimoney 2 года назад
what a beautiful ending of such a insipiring talk
@louchieamartinez6878
@louchieamartinez6878 3 года назад
Wowww I didn't know that there is a Ted talk that has a proposal in it. ❤❤❤
@aidaymarlenkyzy9840
@aidaymarlenkyzy9840 3 года назад
Woaw this is such a beautiful video ! Thank-you for this !
@jonathanljungqvist9112
@jonathanljungqvist9112 3 года назад
Thank you 🙏☺️
@courtneychristian3772
@courtneychristian3772 3 года назад
Great presentation
@salvadorabsalon3561
@salvadorabsalon3561 3 года назад
Men cry? Because I am crying!!
@gorkapalazio
@gorkapalazio 4 года назад
Great person and aventurer. Thankx a lot 4 your advices.
@jonathanljungqvist9112
@jonathanljungqvist9112 4 года назад
Gorka Jakobe Palazio thank you 🙂
@meddyfurniture
@meddyfurniture 2 года назад
Swedish people are the kindest human beings I’ve ever come across they’re sooo good!
@priscillahawayek7752
@priscillahawayek7752 2 года назад
Thank you for sharing this holy instant!
@yanasnychenkova6012
@yanasnychenkova6012 3 года назад
🇺🇦hi from Ukraine! Awesome things to learn! Thank you Jonathan and Amanda!🙏❤️
@marlenesabiooliva7667
@marlenesabiooliva7667 3 года назад
Marriage Encounter (ME) is the best marriage saver. My husband and I attended the Marriage Encounter Weekend (MEW) Seminar. After the seminar, we were able to renew our relationship. As if we were a newly married couple, although we were on the 22nd year of our married life at that time. ME rekindle our marriage because there were three in that relation: God my husband and me. God bless!
@happyhome6394
@happyhome6394 3 года назад
God bless you both
@jonathanljungqvist9112
@jonathanljungqvist9112 3 года назад
Thank you 🙏🙏
@ngocthissi3792
@ngocthissi3792 3 года назад
It's exactly what i need. Thanks so much
@jonathanljungqvist9112
@jonathanljungqvist9112 3 года назад
You are welcome 🙏
@jessicawilliams9197
@jessicawilliams9197 2 года назад
Beautiful! I love the mind to heart communication ❤️
@estheragbo6153
@estheragbo6153 2 года назад
Hello I recommend the love specialist who heIped me fixed my relationship within 48 hours, and my partner is back after years of separation. He can aIso heIp you
@estheragbo6153
@estheragbo6153 2 года назад
Wh'atsap him for heIp.
@kingLemourio
@kingLemourio 4 года назад
That's the best I have ever seen in my life
@adventurepear
@adventurepear 4 года назад
Wow thank you so much!!
@viranjith
@viranjith Год назад
Why is my face leaking! Congratulations this was very beautiful
@Oneaverageboi
@Oneaverageboi 4 года назад
Loved this one!
@jonathanljungqvist9112
@jonathanljungqvist9112 4 года назад
One average boi thank you 🙂
@Bumbledora
@Bumbledora 11 месяцев назад
Truly heart-warming 👍👍👍🌹
@janicelee6697
@janicelee6697 3 года назад
😭😭😭 this is so sweet ❤️
@krishnanita3796
@krishnanita3796 3 года назад
God bless you.
@jonathanljungqvist4312
@jonathanljungqvist4312 3 года назад
Thank you!
@catherinedarringer1762
@catherinedarringer1762 4 года назад
Such a beautiful way to start my day. Thank you for sharing.
@jonathanljungqvist9112
@jonathanljungqvist9112 4 года назад
Catherine Darringer so happy you liked my talk 🙂 Thank you!
@_vickyjayy_
@_vickyjayy_ 3 года назад
Hi Can we talk
@jonathanljungqvist9112
@jonathanljungqvist9112 3 года назад
Vicky Jay sure 🙂
@keshmultibillion1457
@keshmultibillion1457 3 года назад
my child Note, the spell i cast is 100% guarantee sure an safe, it has no side effect or harm, also note that I do not beg or false people to send me money to do their work, rather I will allow them to do according to there heart desire. I have been doing this work for the past 38 years now, and inherited this work from my great grand father, and this work has been past from generation to generation, as I believe in my work so also my work speaks for me because what is behind my spell is very powerful If you are ready to continue with the spell let me know so that i can send you the information of my temple messenger to send the money to buy the require items needed to cast the spell OK I hope to hear from you soon because I found your problem so easy for me to handle. Best Regards, Dr
@rezaoxox
@rezaoxox 4 года назад
what a moving talk. tanx!
@adventurepear
@adventurepear 4 года назад
What was your feeling after the talk? thank you! :)
@nawrozzahanpreety6857
@nawrozzahanpreety6857 3 года назад
This is how partners should be
@marc-andrebenoit5776
@marc-andrebenoit5776 2 года назад
Goosebumps
@vibingarchive
@vibingarchive 2 года назад
thanks brother
@i.einspration4404
@i.einspration4404 Год назад
thx for sharing this...
@snowtheacatt
@snowtheacatt 2 года назад
wow. this is great
@JenLiu147
@JenLiu147 6 месяцев назад
Best Ted Talk ever!! ❤
@leticiagarcia8607
@leticiagarcia8607 Год назад
Love this!
@louchieamartinez6878
@louchieamartinez6878 3 года назад
Puree love 💗🙏
@adadaslavaamne157
@adadaslavaamne157 4 года назад
really enjoyed this video thanks for the tips
@jonathanljungqvist9112
@jonathanljungqvist9112 4 года назад
Adadaslavaa mne I’m so happy you liked it 🙂
@athenemutyambizi3828
@athenemutyambizi3828 Год назад
wow! thats the cutest thing I've watched today!
@annettefella8945
@annettefella8945 2 года назад
So sweet
@hersheybiz9512
@hersheybiz9512 2 года назад
Congratulations 🎊🍾
@xtancycomedy
@xtancycomedy 8 месяцев назад
I so much love this topic ❤❤❤ This is really a nice tip's ❤❤
@sadiyoyuusuf6705
@sadiyoyuusuf6705 4 года назад
Thanks ❤❤👍
@adventurepear
@adventurepear 4 года назад
You are welcome!
@tofu003
@tofu003 5 месяцев назад
This topic I say, is a great project and so much informations I need
@AwesomeThanTheMiz
@AwesomeThanTheMiz 3 года назад
This made me cry
@mvarnold8950
@mvarnold8950 4 года назад
Great speach Jonathan!
@adventurepear
@adventurepear 4 года назад
thank you :)
@masturawrites
@masturawrites 2 года назад
I love your watch
@mahaveerdmuragi6272
@mahaveerdmuragi6272 3 года назад
It's an underrated video ☹️ it should has some spotlight
@jonathanljungqvist9112
@jonathanljungqvist9112 3 года назад
Thank you so much!
@kimb2989
@kimb2989 3 года назад
Cute proposal.. He seems to really love her. Most guys would give up easily, he didnt. Congrats girl!
@dvails
@dvails 3 года назад
Women give up just as easily.
@alejandrabustillomoreno8228
@alejandrabustillomoreno8228 3 года назад
It was beautiful!!!
@jonathanljungqvist9112
@jonathanljungqvist9112 3 года назад
Thank you 🙂
@seeforyourself7841
@seeforyourself7841 5 месяцев назад
Congrats!
@paddle_smith
@paddle_smith 3 года назад
Oh man! I didn't notice I was smiling from ear to ear at the end of this video! Congrats!
@jonathanljungqvist9112
@jonathanljungqvist9112 3 года назад
Thank you!!
@SELEONORE
@SELEONORE 3 года назад
Yes me too can’t stop smiling ;-), feeling this lucky hormone through my veins at the end. What a bliss to find this ‘proposal’ speach!
@user-it3jl1oq1q
@user-it3jl1oq1q 3 года назад
Me too :)
@nassimbensayah4568
@nassimbensayah4568 3 года назад
Amazing
@jonathanljungqvist9112
@jonathanljungqvist9112 3 года назад
Thank you 🙂
@Kevin509wisdom
@Kevin509wisdom 3 года назад
Dare to share your emotion.
@simplypqz
@simplypqz 3 года назад
i am crying.
@WEIKOV69
@WEIKOV69 2 года назад
Beautiful!
@estheragbo6153
@estheragbo6153 2 года назад
Hello I recommend the love specialist who heIped me fixed my relationship within 48 hours, and my partner is back after years of separation. He can aIso heIp you
@estheragbo6153
@estheragbo6153 2 года назад
Wh'atsap him for heIp.
@afraw
@afraw 2 года назад
That was a great talk. Very diffucult publicum
@estheragbo6153
@estheragbo6153 2 года назад
Hello I recommend the love specialist who heIped me fixed my relationship within 48 hours, and my partner is back after years of separation. He can aIso heIp you
@estheragbo6153
@estheragbo6153 2 года назад
Wh'atsap him for heIp.
@SavannahVu1985
@SavannahVu1985 3 года назад
Ngawwwww this was beautiful
@NIGHTWHEEL...
@NIGHTWHEEL... Год назад
What a beautiful ending
@skimbok896
@skimbok896 3 года назад
I think this can help us all. Well done
@jonathanljungqvist9112
@jonathanljungqvist9112 3 года назад
Thank you 🙏
@francescodegregori8100
@francescodegregori8100 3 года назад
Hay un hombre con el que me gustaría que contactes y que me ayude a restaurar mi matrimonio en solo 2 días.
@francescodegregori8100
@francescodegregori8100 3 года назад
Ponte en contacto con él ahora en WhatsApp y su nombre es Wilson Thomas, ese es el nombre del hombre poderoso, ok número de WhatsApp: 2347041592580..
@WickLoeswick-yi1yj
@WickLoeswick-yi1yj 11 месяцев назад
This was amazing related to it so much. Especially the part of the 10 straws (Neuro receptors) in a the water (hormones) inside the glass (your brain) if you are busy using 8 of those straws and maxing them out then it’s a safe assumption that those two other ones may never be used, could be clogged or atrophy. This is what happen to Jonathon and he didn’t even know it until he got the call from his Longterm girlfriend saying I don’t know how to comfort or love me. What was not talked about was lessening his life hobbies of chasing mountains, fame and adventure. And by doing that he put some attention/focus on his oxytocin Neuro receptor (straw) and by hugging, eye contact and talking fromThe heart he buffed up that straw until it was as thick as a milk shake straw. I too lost this straw bc I had so many other hobbies and passions that my oxytocin Neuro receptor was completely atrophied and took stopping cold turkey many of my “positive” selfish passions that made me feel good but dried up All the hormones for neuroreceptors and left my cup dry.
@MorolongWaMorakile
@MorolongWaMorakile 2 года назад
😭❤️Beautiful
@bissum4227
@bissum4227 3 года назад
wow, cried
@jonathanljungqvist9112
@jonathanljungqvist9112 3 года назад
💜💜
@msmarvel06
@msmarvel06 3 года назад
Me too 😢
@TijwokPeter
@TijwokPeter 3 года назад
Communication - talking about fears. - eye contact.
@yanamartinez9666
@yanamartinez9666 2 года назад
Don't forget hugging 👥
@patricenitagoredema8844
@patricenitagoredema8844 3 года назад
This is beautiful.
@Lovefromtheartistmarz
@Lovefromtheartistmarz 3 года назад
This is cool
@peytoncavnar9214
@peytoncavnar9214 2 года назад
Thank you so much for this speech! It is very inspiring! My partner and I have been together for a while and have had a couple "make it or break it" points. I truly love him so much so thank you for making me feel empowered in my ability to give and receive love. God bless you all.
@estheragbo6153
@estheragbo6153 2 года назад
Hello I recommend the love specialist who heIped me fixed my relationship within 48 hours, and my partner is back after years of separation. He can aIso heIp you
@estheragbo6153
@estheragbo6153 2 года назад
Wh'atsap him for heIp
@janabradley6302
@janabradley6302 Год назад
Okay...that was dope
@FgroupIndonesia
@FgroupIndonesia 2 года назад
we will of course apply it. and thanks for the oxytocin project advice. it's given for granted. :)
@estheragbo6153
@estheragbo6153 2 года назад
Hello I recommend the love specialist who heIped me fixed my relationship within 48 hours, and my partner is back after years of separation. He can aIso heIp you
@estheragbo6153
@estheragbo6153 2 года назад
Wh'atsap him for heIp.
@suedafeti7041
@suedafeti7041 2 года назад
i cried.
@jmer9126
@jmer9126 4 года назад
There is a great experiment in Japan on physical contact for young children and oxytocin levels in both the children and their parents.
@jonathanljungqvist9112
@jonathanljungqvist9112 4 года назад
J Mercure Do you have more information about that?
@Kevin509wisdom
@Kevin509wisdom 3 года назад
a surprising end
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