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1. Understand the difference between pursuing and inviting 2. Give him your attention 3. Respond positively when he does pursue you 4. Appreciate his strength and masculine qualities 5. Showing him what you could be in his life
And how do you show him what you can do for his life? Relationships are so complicated, how can one expect to know how they work? There is no manual to help anyone master relationships.
@@shellyp6451 I showed my male friend that if I made him a hot supper and have it ready when he arrives home tired from a long day at work, I just saved him 30 mins of supper preparing and he could eat as soon as he walked in the door. That left him extra time in the evening to accomplish his evening routine and work notes he had to finish on the computer. I also offered to help him with food prep on weekends and while I made my breakfasts for the week ahead, it was easy for me to make a double batch of it and split it with him. Him not having to cook breakfast in the morning saved him 30 mins and he can just heat it up in the microwave and head off to work. I hope to be a stay at home wife & mom someday (I run my own business from my home already) and this would be one thing that I could offer my future husband. My friend was amazed at how much this has helped his schedule already. 😄 And he is suddenly interested in what other qualities I might be able to offer him. 😉😅🥰 Time will tell what becomes of it!!!🤷😊
@@shellyp6451 I have found that most men hate drama. I know I have a strong personality. Very emotional at times. It's imperative to be led by the Spirit .Allow the Spirit to regulate emotions and feelings. Dating is hard these days. People are confused. Be led by the Spirit and of course, save sex 4 marriage. It only brings chaos.
"When you give him more attention, then he gives you more attention, too ..." As a man: Oh that is really true. Sometimes the interest of the man may even be started by the invitation. When a man begins to pay more attention to a specific woman, he often begins to see her inner beauty which he would have missed, otherwise.
I don’t mind being perused too much, as long as it’s not desperate or love bombing. One girl in the past dreamed I proposed to her and she thought that was a message from God we would be together. We were just normal friends at the time, she didn’t seem that into me. After that dream, she looked determined to make that dream come true. But she was bipolar, very clingy, constantly wanted to call and talk all day, got jealous of me being with friends and there was plenty of other issues.
Mark, as a man, this information is solid gold. If the woman is doing her part as a woman should, it makes it easier on for the man to do his part, and it goes both ways. Women, take note here.
God showed me who my husband is, thank u for this video!!! i don’t want to be throwing myself at him or do anything out of my emotions. Lord guide me 😭
@@pierced4u636 His sheep know His voice. God also comfirms his word with peace and comfirmations so we never stumble or mislead ourselves, He loves us and would never lead us astray or give us a broken promise. when i was having doubt God told me “if it brings you closer to me, it’s from me, if it pulls you away from me, it’s not from me” ❤️❤️❤️❤️ i dont want to get into any details but God gave me way more confirmation than i needed because of all my doubts.. 😂😂
Praying for guidance for you.❤ Hope you are doing well saw this was 11 months ago. As a current 33 year old single. I am hoping the best for you my fellow Sister-in-Christ.
Men love it when the woman invites him to pursue. I figured this out, as a new Christian, in my late teens. If you are interested, you can and should let him know. As a mature woman, when/if I am interested, it is evident. When I am not, I try to make that equally clear. We treat men we are interested in (romantically) differently than men we are not interested in.
I find it very interesting learning about how a woman's femininity brings out a man's masculinity and vice versa. A beautiful song that really explains that concept well in the lyrics is "The Woman in Me needs the Man in You" by Shania Twain, y'all should give it a listen :)
Mark, your one of the few people I've heard that are able to explain so clearly where you see the application from biblical principles. A real gift. Also, really appreciate you've done an audio book version of the book - me being dyslexic. Looking forward to reading it.
We never talked 2 each other Just "Hi". I noticed him because I was deeply touched by the way he loves God (we stood next to each other in church and I heared him worhipping and praying. After that I have seen him worhipping God many times). He has this raydiant glow and a peaceful energy. God's love definitely shines through him. We didn't cross each others path the last 6 months in church although the both of us were there. Just a week ago, our paths crossed a few times. He had a smile when he saw me. We smile, we say "Hi"... That's it... Invite him??? I don't even know how. Being in church I want to focus on God and I want a connection to grow in a God given way... So I let Go and let God.... And trust that, if God has any plants with this, it will all fall in to place. It always does.
@@danilaroche1156 Thank you for your message! Your respons has a perfect timing! We never where in a setting to even start a conversation. I was surrounded by people or he was. I didn't even see how the setting would change to start a conversation. I let it Go and for a few months I wasn't really thinking about it or give it any of my attention. But because of the few "Hi's" the last few weeks I told God this week " I know if you want us to meet/ know each other You will make a way (whatever this is, friendship, motivating each other in our walk with God, Love potential...I trust You will show it). I am not focust on this being "My person". I do noticed parts that are beautiful and touched me... But I give it 2 God, He knows. Just a few days a go, we left church, both walking a different direction but ending up at the same parking lot, just the 2 of us (Never saw him there). I had conversations that could have taken longer, I even wanted to do something @Church and I forgot about it. That's why I was there at that momenten. And again, I asked God that Question this week!!! 9 out of 10 times if I pray God to show me, guide me, show peoples true faces (real or fake)... God does show me. We had a very nice/ good conversation!!! God's love, did shine through him again! Our conversation was connected and whatever this is, for now.... It is inspiring to see a man loveing God so deeply! And whichever man God has in mind for me, Thank You God that this will be a huge part of that person (being connected with You and loving You deeply). I do agree to Let Go and Let God! Focus on God, on developing yourself and Love everything and everybody around you. God will connect you 2 the souls you need 2 know❤️
@@danilaroche1156 I wrote a very long respons and I don't see it here!!! Long story short: Told God this week "if You wants to connect us and wants us to know each other, it is Your will to make a way." I see his love for God, it is beautiful! It touch me, and that is it, I let God and let Go. This week we ended up at the same time same parking lot (that was very rare because of a lot of stuff during that morning). Ended up having a very nice and connected conversation. Beautiful and inspiring Son of God!!! By the way, our church has somewhere between 500 people going there (or more). And we never where in a situation that gave us the moment to connect (I was with my people or he was with his....not knowing each other can feel akward walking up to someone and you don't want to force things, God's way .... he will arrange it).. That's it in a NutShell. Thanks for your message!!!
@@danilaroche1156 It was not really a matter of leaving it alone. I enjoyed seeing his love and passion for God. We have a big church, filled with more than 500 people a week. The last few weeks we saw each other more often, but he was interacting with people and so was I. I myself never went to him because I didn't feel that I should do that (even after prayer). But there is more to this story, 2 weeks ago we did have a conversation in a way only God can arrange🤗 It was connected and nice. Again he had this LoveGodEnergy around him. Clearly he enjoyed our conversation and so did I. God connects people in His timing. I told God "I love the way he loves You, it touch me and I see we notice each other...Only If You want us 2 meet or to connect we will, by Your arrangement." And He did... God will reveal what the purpose is of connecting us.
@@danilaroche1156 It was not really a matter of leaving it alone. I enjoyed seeing his love and passion for God. We have a big church, filled with more than 500 people a week. The last few weeks we saw each other more often, but he was interacting with people and so was I. I myself never went to him because I didn't feel that I should do that (even after prayer). But there is more to this story, 2 weeks ago we did have a conversation in a way only God can arrange🤗 It was connected and nice. Again he had this LoveGodEnergy around him. Clearly he enjoyed our conversation and so did I. God connects people in His timing. I told God "I love the way he loves You, it touch me and I see we notice each other...Only If You want us 2 meet or to connect we will, by Your arrangement." And He did... God shall reveal what the purpose is of connecting us.
Inviting isn’t assertive or, aggressive. It’s SMILING at the guy, strike up a chat while waiting in line …..give him a chance to respond & be interested
It’s a man’s job to pursue .. it’s too Masculine to pursue a guy . I like my femininity. 😊❤️. If he isn’t in pursuing he isn’t into you . Who wants to be with someone who doesn’t desire you enough to pursue you .. ick!
Just got my book “Christ Centered Dating”. Looking forward to reading the book and to the chapter that discusses the difference in “pursuing” and “inviting”. Thank you for your dedication in relationship/marriage preparation.
I am currently reading your book on Christian Dating. I will be 39 this year, I am divorced (happened before returning to the Lord). I am slowly reading through the book and taking in each sentence and paragraph. Wow, I never thought of dating this way. There have been a few “hard” things to process BUT it was needed and very healing. Thank you, for this book. Regardless, in singleness or marriage, I’m learning so much that has/will benefit and bless me through out life.
*Through your RU-vid channel, you are sowing seeds of faith and hope. May God's presence be with you always, guiding you to impact the lives of countless individuals.*
I have gone on dates with at least a dozen men since I healed from 18 year marriage to a narcisist (divorced) a couple of years ago. Every single man showed up for the date with the foregone conclusion that the date would end with sex. Most of them talked about their sexual experience & expectations within the first hour after meeting. I have zero interest in sex with a stranger or any man I am not in a monogamous relationship with. Most of them claimed to be christians wanting a longterm relationship. I am seriously questioning if there is any single man out there with self control. Has dating become a meat market for recreational sex?
Unfortunately most modern men these days think dating is about sex. I do know men who value sex and these are men who genuinely love the Lord. They do exist. I encourage you not to date. Focus on your relationship with Jesus. Only be with a man who follows Jesus wholeheartedly. In addition, sex is not for exclusive relationship it's for MARRIAGE. You will get hurt if you have premarital sex.
Question. If men represent Christ in a relationship and the woman, the church. When will men begin to bring peace, heal, provide, die to themselves for the woman? Because these videos (like so many others) sound like the women having even more work and we are not hearing about what the men ought to do. Tbh I am tired (of especially men of God) always requiring more and more and more from women, especially in this day and age when women are already doing so much. Its time to shine the light more on men to be Christ-like, please make some more videos like that!
Thanks Mark, this is something I've been trying to implement but it's really hard when one is super shy and the guy is very attractive and also shy. I seem to attract shy guys but the problem is two shy people means a lot of strange silence and tension haha. If the guy is confident I generally don't have a problem. And I'm afraid men (shy men who I find very attractive) think I'm playing hard to get when actually I'm just having a heart attack 😅😂. And when I have been confident with shy guys and say hello or start a conversation, the guy completely shut off and never talks to me 🤷🏼♀️ and when EVERY Christian single man is shy and passive, there's just no winning. What do I do?
This guy I met online is very attractive but he's shy and introverted just like I am. I'm starting to really like him. He has a great sense of humor and I love laughing with him. I told him that I'm interested in getting to know him. I told him he's attractive and I want to get to know him better. Did I overstep our friendship boundary? He's in North Carolina while I'm in Illinois but I'd still like to see if we could have a relationship one day. Right now, our conversations are light, witty banter and jokes back and forth but one day I'd like to see if we could actually have a relationship with each other. I'm trying to make sure we build up a solid friendship first. We haven't even video chatted yet but I'd love to do that soon.
Thank you brother Mark!! What a wonderful offering with the purchase of your new book "Christ Centered Dating," the course "The 10 Biblical Steps to Dating" was one of my favorite courses. I can't wait to purchase your new book!!
This is a really nice presentation of what pursuit means v showing interest biblically yet it’s hard to find a good Older (45plus age)Christian man that hasn’t healed in other ways and not overly zealously Christian to the point of how domineering he presents himself.
😂❤🎉oh thank god 😂 i just thought ... oh, i honestly dont have the energy to be 'ripe fruit' and imagine the effort of looking nice 😂😂❤🎉 and then you said "im not talking about physical attractiveness here" - phew 😂❤ *carries on with hobbies*
I’m scared of inviting a man because my last bf walked away out of the blue and I haven’t seen him since then. Regardless who’s right for me, maybe I need to work on being more secure in myself. My last boyfriend wasn’t, so I gotta be more secure for God and to be inviting to whoever is right for me
You need some healing. You have rejection & abandonment issues that only the Lord can heal. I encourage you in next relationship to be friends first. Mark and his wife began as friends. Their focus was Jesus. That's the way to do it. Put romance on back burner and get to know each other in Christ. Trust God to help you.
@@danilaroche1156 Been healing, but still hurting sometimes tbh. There are still times I want a relationship, but aware that I get anxious easily, have abandonment wounds, and gonna do what I can to heal in solitude. My heart can still sink sometimes. I still feel fear towards vulnerability. At this point, I've come to realize that I want to continue seeking peace in the Lord more than anything else.
I feel so sorry about the man like I almost regret that I didnt do my part to inviting him to pursue me, due to complex or toxic environment we had. I literally ignore him and I do none communication verbal towards him and maybe he thinks that im not interested to him or he thinks that i dont like him but i do. Now he got someone and I cant forget him but i really want to move on and i dont know why im still thinking about him its unfair in part. I hoping and praying that I could find someone that he will tell me his intentions with a healthy environment.
Number five is the pivotal point. All I hear as an American multiethnic man is how a woman can do bad all by herself and she doesn’t need a man. What makes women think they are needed also? I can change my fire alarm batteries, change the oil in my 750Li, change my tires, lift over three hundred pounds, shoot any target with any of my guns and not miss, work hard for my dollars (C.R.E.A.M.), remain true to the faith and work out my salvation with fear and trembling, and cook and clean for myself. This world system, empowered by Lucifer, has lied to the American woman.
When women say they don't need a man....they are specifically talking about finances. I make 6 figures....a lot of my friends do as well. We don't need a man to financially support us. Men need women though more than women need men.
As a woman I completely agree. Teaching women that a career is better than marriage and children is an outright lie. Especially if it involves sacrificing your unborn to baal. I never bought into feminism or abortion back in the day or even now. To me it's anti feminism.
@@Mint-kj9kwthat is completely unbiblical and wordly thinking,a son of God cant think like that,we yave different roles,one serves the other and help esch other equally,neither woman or man needs each other more,but all of us NEED THE LORD first,then man and women should be the ideal helper with each other
Hi Mark! I have a question about praying. Should we still pray even if we feel that God might not answer the prayer? I really need an answer because for the past 2 days I felt like I need to pray about something but deep down I feel like God would say 'no' to the prayer/my question so I haven't prayed. Please help, anyone can feel free to answer as well!
You never go wrong asking for God to reveal His will. But, you do have to be ready to hear something you want isn't His will for you. It really comes down to how submitted to God do you want to be. Being worried He'll say no is a sign you're hesitant about giving up your choice and pursuing God's choice instead.
Is that even a question? You should put this in your mind that every God’s plan is the best for you.. whether its a "no" or a "yes".. If it’s a no maybe at first you couldn’t even accept His answers but I’m very sure that in the future you’ll understand that it’s the right thing for you.. God bless !
My two cents to your honest question are- 1- Trust. If the answer does end up being 'no' then trust God is expressing his love by saying the hard thing. 2- Love. Love God regardless, a big way we build trust and affection is by communicating. The way we do this with God is through prayer and revelation. The more of it we do the more this tends to grow. Like Mark says in this videon give your attention. ;)
If you feel deep down God would say no, this is probably your intuition and God is already letting you know the answer. But pray on it and do not deceive yourself
Prayer is important. If His answer is no, then He has a reason and is protecting you. If you go and do/say something and you know God wouldn't agree with it, then to me it means you don't trust God. His timing is perfect. He has a plan for all of us. Just because you want Him to say yes and think He will say no, are you really trusting Him or just wanting Him to agree with you?
I don't pursue cause I have no women in my life. Most at church want sin. And the word of faith movement church doesn't teach about sin. So I'm single, actually coming back home to a nice Baptist church, middle sensible scripture teaching church. I'm 44 and out of the sexual market. So I just shrug 🤷♂️ my shoulders at women because all they want is to lye down with me.
Or, more simply put… Adam did NOT pursue Eve. He was ASLEEP. God brought her to him, he liked what had been presented to him and he chose to keep her. So ladies present yourselves to someone you’re interested in. 🤷🏿♀️. And YES show him your physical best. The Bible says GOD considers the heart but MANKInD looks on the flesh.
What if the dating relationship failed or didn’t work out.. is it the woman’s job too to restore the relationship if she was the one ended up rejected?
What if you find out that the guy doesn’t believe things the way you do and he continues to pursue you even when you have repeatedly told him you’re not interested. I have gone no contact and that should be obvious to him that I’m no longer interested in a relationship with him.
What if there was prophecy spoken over your life about you being with someone and you sinned while you with some else, now you don't want the guy thats pursuing you, you neglect him because you feel bad about your passed and you never get healed from you passed relationship, what do you do then, just leave him alone?
This is a bit more complex than a "how to" can answer. You said you feel bad; how would you describe this feeling? Is it towards yourself, towards him? If you feel that you can not show your true self (good, bad, and ugly) to this person but rather a version of yourself, are they really of God? Always, always, always test the spirits. The prophecy may be true, it may not be. God's Word is clear and restorative. I've had several "prophecies" over me about certain people I would marry 👀🦗🦗 I am happily married to Jesus Christ only 😂 If you have unresolved feelings about your past, I would say take that to God first before entertaining any potential relationship. The Lord will wipe every blemish off, however we must seek Him and repent, renounce, and reconcile all things that do not honor God. The Lord loves you as you are, and He will not send you anything or anyone half-baked, or vice versa. Be at peace in the sanctification process and let Him do a new thing in YOU
Stay away from dating sites. I found even Christian mingle didn't have true Christians. Best way to find a mate is church, get involved in groups, volunteering, being Gods servents, Those are the good people.
Women should show a man she’s interested but in this day and time of hookup culture. Well he doesn’t know where she is coming from and what is her body count.
Obviously Ballanger is an alias. Most people who work in the public use them. Think about it, would you want some psycho showing up at your front door?
It is truly incredible how I learned and applied all of these principles intuitively when I started Salsa social dancing. I never verbally ask men to dance, but I invite them nonverbally to ask me. It feels so much more natural this way, and we are starting off with the right energy. He feels like the man and I feel like the woman. He sees me smiling and making eye contact, but I let him take the lead, come to me, invite and initiate the dance - which later, of course, translates and continues in the act of the dance itself. I keep saying to everyone that dancing is the microexpression of relationships in real life:)) And it also amazes me how you have such a clear way of explaining something I figured out on my own and thought I was one of the few people knowing😂 And the fact that it is all literally rooted in God's word... How blessed we are and how perfectly God created us, only if we learn to see and understand that!
Yes!! This just happened to me last Sunday while a church. Story time!!! If you care 😄: A guy that I’ve thought was cute for almost a year but never PURSUED approached me. I never approached him #1 because to me personally it felt like pursuing him instead of giving him the chance to do so & simply letting him know (inviting him 😉) it was okay to do so in my body language. But, side note, this has taken so long & never happened before because I was getting ready to move to a new state since my family is church planting so I thought there was no point & he knew I was moving & didn’t think there was a point either.. (until he approached me for the first time last Sunday & told me he’s coming & that’s he’s gonna be doing an pastoral apprenticeship under my dad & on our core team 😅😭). So, at first after the send off service while I was talking to a friend at our seats, he walked from his chair across the room & past us & just looked at me & said “hey!” for the first time (which I already thought was strange considering we always just smiled awkwardly at one another but never spoke 😭🤣).. so I said hey back & he just kept walking so I continued to talk to my friend & tell her I’ve always thought he was super cute, but I turned around a couple minutes after he walked away & he was standing at the end of my row looking at me 😭😭 at first I wasn’t sure if he was wanting to talk to me or not because there were other people standing around him including my dad & he was looking around as well so I assumed he was waiting around to talk to him or someone else.. anyway, I got super nervous, so I just smiled at him so as to acknowledge him & invite him to speak if he wanted, but he didn’t approach me so I turned back to my friend & just kept talking.. 🤷🏾♀️ (that’s how you ladies, lure him in & make him approach you 😉😂) after about another few minutes at the end of another conversation with my friend, I turned around & he was still there so I looked around his area for a couple seconds & then he looked at me again so I made eye contact/smiled at him once me & he immediately got the hint after just a couple seconds, & he approached me 😌
@@itsnygeria yes, exactly, it is literally this simple. Although, when we are very attracted to that person and also a bit shy, it is very difficult to even make that eye contact and smile😅 But I can relate so much to this, personal story time incoming:))) There was this guy that caught my attention around my dorm, we were always seeing each other but never saying hi or smiling to each other, until one day when we met twice in the same day, very little time apart. Right then, I had to fight every inch of shyness and awkwardness in my body, I looked deeply into his eyes and kept smiling, almost laughing even - he knew why, so he started cracking a big smile and he finally said hi to me. We didn't speak more yet, because we didn't really see each other that much from that moment on, or actually we were never in the right context to do so - somehow we are always on the move, with somewhere to go, no time to stop, when we see each other. But now, when we do, we keep smiling and saying hi to each other, at least😄 Regardless, I will continue to do my best and do my deepest cutest inviting smiling face everytime I see him, and maybe also stop a little in my feet. I trust that one day he will truly start that proper conversation:))) This chemistry and this unspoken bond has been happening for months between us, and the school year is almost ending so he'd better start that conversation soon, I hope😅, praying for it🙏 From then on we'll see if he is a good guy or not, but I am really hoping so🥺🙏
@@georgiana7857 this is so cute!!! I also haven’t had another conversation with my crush since our first one besides exchanging prayer requests once over text, but hopefully when he gets here in a few weeks we’ll be able to talk & connect more in person! 🤞🏾 Wishing you the best of luck & would ask the same for myself!! 😅 but either way, God is good & He has a plan for us!!! 🤍
Even when I politely decline a guy's offer to take me out. I let him know that I know it took courage and I appreciate it. Rejection is scary for both sexes, I get it.
Hello Mark, thank you for your videos. I am 65 and I have never heard the advice that you give. I wish I had. I will look for your book at my Christian book store. Many thanks and God bless you.
Bro. Mark, If one person is married with a family, he or she is not marriage material. God said what He put together let no man put asunder. I find that something happened to me, it has to be witchcraft, I’m a godly woman not lustful, but holy unto the Lord. I must stay before I hear from The Lord, The Spirit Of Truth. It’s the truth we know that makes us free. Would you please address this situation. Thanks 📖⛪️😇🙏
Completely disagree with this video. Some guys are just insecure and out up a front or a wall cus they’re afraid. So no matter how much attention you show them they won’t. Even if you tell them straight out what you want and what’s going on.
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Might be,I have a crush at my workplace she always smiles,seems friendly and all but she is like that with everyone,and my workplace is full of men,she is pretty and gets probably a ton of attention so I don't even bother approaching.
But in my opinion it is a good sign that she is friendly with everyone. That means she is not faking it just to get your attention and being rude to others. Being friendly seems to be in here essence. You should approach her. Maybe every guy things the same way as you and at the end nobody is approaching her actually. Give it a try. ☺️
Question?...What if a man shows you he is attracted to you and likes you...but does not pursue...how should that be viewed...how should that be responded to? Seeking an answer.
Ehh, I got the impression that men like to cast a wide net to see who’s attracted to stroke their ego. If they don’t pursue, then you weren’t their no. 1 choice.. I’ve been told by male friends they don’t do subtle, and they’re pretty simple-minded. So I wouldn’t overthink anything you think they’re saying or doing if it’s not a straight out pursuit. Anyone of the male inclination, feel free to chime in!
Oftentimes because the woman is A. too eager. B. He senses she has expectations or C. She's chasing by calling or texting first or pushing for commitment.
I have shown interest and was going to invite a few different men to pursue me at church. But when i asked around about each man, I found out they were all married or engaged. So I have given up on inviting a man to pursue me. All weren't wearing a wedding ring. So is so frustrating. God is going to have to bless him with the courage to talk to me
I first met this guy late last year and took a liking in him but I didn't think too much about it. I then met him again earlier this month and I think l really like him for real. We normally meet in groups because we have mutual friends and sometimes when he visits my church. I don't know how I can show him that I like him and I hope he likes me too. We hardly talk for a long time because we are always around people so it's hard for me to tell. He invited me to his church I'm not sure if he was just being friendly or what but I told him I'll go one day. I woul love to visit his church however, since he frequent our church we might cross paths. I told some of my friends that I like him and they encouraged I initiate group outings and invite him but I'm scared.
No. Go to his church and say hello or smile. That's it. If he's interested he should start a conversation. If he doesn't, I'd let it alone. He should initiate things. Not you. A smile is enough of an invitation.
i was taught NOT to be "an invitational Queen." IF God is leading...HE will point out who i am to the man whom He wants to pursue me OR whom He is allowing to pursue me.... i can only think of one biblical example, but i'm going to assume there are more to support my point, that it is GOD who invites the man to pursue the woman HE has pointed out to him. He is the inviter. The story of Boaz... Ruth was minding her own business, NOT inviting Boaz in any way, shape, or form to begin his pursuit of her by approaching her. the approach, in my opinion, is the start of the pursuit. once approached, the female either makes it clear that she is not interested OR she ENCOURAGES the pursuit. no invitation to pursue. ENCOURAGEMENT to continue the pursuit.... what about allllll the other stories in the Bible where so-and-so SAW AND APPROACHED so-and-so while she was minding her own business?? Jacob saw Rachel, approached her and kissed her, right? she did NOT invite him to do that. on the contrary, I WILL WAIT TO BE FOUND BY THE MAN WHOM GOD HAS APPOINTED FOR ME. I WILL WAIT ON THE LORD ... my opinion.
The description of how to provide attention to a man was quite complicated. I couldn't qt visualise it. I think the explanation for that part could have been simplified. :)
😂😂😂😂 funny story?/ On February 17, I dated my twin Flame at 17:00 in the afternoon in an unforgetable matching Event. 😂😂😂 funny right?/well one way or another, that led me into searching and discovering more about the relationships and I am today confirning to buy this Book. Keep up with the great work. God bless - stay humble. ✝🙏😎
@@QuentinSanders-vw5yy why are you assuming I'm not going to church enough? You don't even know the population at my church or anything about me🙄 , I'm sorry but if I'm saying that some man are lazy is because I've met them, even at church.
I have noticed how different unsaved none toxic woman pursue as apposed to the way Christian woman pursue. Christian are on the whole devoid of their unconscious body language for example or pre occupied with their friends that a man is intimidated to approach!
I've been burned by Christian women everyone I pursue them. They like me, them I pursue them and then they're gone. I think I need to find a nice atheist women.
