I have been subbed to your work since the olden days. The very beginning of your debut on youtube. As I did relate to yourself back then and your advice was helpful for "transitioning" to new adjustments in life. I havent really kept up with your channel in five years or more. Just happened to stumble onto this video while looking up other topics. I saw your picture and was like no way she is still around on youtube. Its kind of like finding an old friend I suppose. Your efforts before had helped me greatly. And even today you are helping me with new topics. So I imagine there are others who this has happened to as well. Thought you deserved to know my little story. You do the world and people a great service in understanding ourselves.
Hello again Sam. Lovely as usual. Fantastic interview. This offered some great insight to a long term power exchange relationship in a marriage which is a bit different than a traditional power exchange relationship. The wife and I are late to the game as we have been married for 29 years with only the last 5 in a d/s power exchange dynamic. Our marriage has been great through most of those years. However the last five have been the best and most fun of all. Barring the time raising our children. Which has its own special challenges. We feel much more free, closer and feel that our love for each other has grown. Not to mention the spicey fun we have now. Loved the interview and do plan to look into your guests a little more. Take care. And as you say, "play with passion".
Thankyou for your post,I can relate! My husband and I have been married for 26 years,and over the years we’d explored this kind of dynamic. There’s been ALOT of discussion,pulling things apart,confronting some MAJOR “elephants in the room” (all of which I believe could never been discussed in our previous vanilla relationship) We’ve discovered that communication and honesty are KEY,expressed our wants and desires both physically,mentally,and emotionally. We share very similar goals in regards to how we want this to be,so there’s been no great surprises. It certainly has been an interesting journey for us both as we continue to move forward-my trust and respect for him has grown substantially. How EXCITING knowing there are other couples out there like us after being married for such a long time! Blessings on you and your wife!
Hahaha they told me that they’re doing workshops and writing and everything for 30 years now and still they come to kink seminars and nobody knows them. I had the same and I thought it was just me but turns out that somehow were not really known. 🙈 you should check their podcast too, it’s really good.
@@KinkyAssignments I will, and thank you for bringing them to your audience. I already bought the book for online reading, and started it before work today! 💗
@annette mcleod and there is space for you in that too. Nobody says that you have to be poly. If this is a red line for you, stick with it. There’s a video on negotiating on this channel that you might like about this topic.
Very confusing, my submissive is always submissive. She wants it that way. Just two people being themselves. No rules, no agreements ,it just is normal. I do not abuse her , I love her.
