If your man doesn't answer your calls and doesn't text you back for hours, but spends his entire time on his phone talking and texting with other people when he's with you, dump him. He doesn't think you're worth his time or attention.
@@hanah3401 no its not, some men dont do phones. They still will write you and plan to make moves. Also, there are guys who text and call all day and still wont marry you.
Simply block his Ass, and don't answer his calls, That's what I'll do, you can't call, or won't call, when you do, shout and be disrespected, and don't give you a title. Block and move on.
I was with my boyfriend for 5 years, one day his brother was sick, we went to visit him at the hospital, a doctor came in the room and ask who are you? My boyfriend said my name instead of she is my girlfriend , there I knew it was over. Was so painful!
5years? Wow! I'll wait until 4months...if no plans I'll ask him, if he looks confused or gimme excuses, then bye, Steve is right... 6months enough no more
Marcia Harvey was the first wife who Steve walked out in to pursue fame. Mary came after the fame. I can never respect Steve’s advice or take it seriously.
You make a good point, but he didn't leave her simply because he became successful. She was miserable with him. And he wasn't being good to her. Why stay in a toxic marriage?
When my bunny told me he loved me, I stood there like a dear in headlights for a second because I had never heard a man say those words first. I have been his wife for 16 years and his lady for almost 20. He is my rock and I fall in love with him a little more every day.
Awww so sweet! God was watching over you! I heard no man in their own right should ever use language like “ I love you “ to a lady if he is not seriously desiring her for wife material! I am happy for you. Currently, I am experiencing the same, and it is overwhelming because I never had someone say this either ; but, as time goes he continues to say it, I am believing it’s not just a line, a hook, he tells every woman. Thank you for sharing.
Yah, actually this was true for me. The guy who was just playing just introduced me using my name but the one who actually loved me, he introduced me like his lady 👩
His point wasn't, putting a title on you means he won't leave you. His point was if he *doesn't* give you a title of status, he's *going* to leave you. The title of this video is just misleading
Love your lady fellas. Know what you got before its gone and never returns. Tell her shes beautiful everyday. Show that you love her. A little thing such as properly introducing her to your family and peers goes a long way to show her what you think about her and how much you love her😔
First they gotta make sure they actually feel that way first! If they don’t, they need to kick themselves for wasting both of their times to begin with and secondly they need to GTFO ASAP and not prolong something they are not already feeling!!!
@QueenOfRavens in psalms 137:9 he not saying men should do this he is Referring to back when Moses was born they had did this and the kings and then we’re happy about it saying and showing how wicked they are without God not saying God wants people to do these things you guys gotta read contacts and not just read one scripture because that’s not what does being portrayed it here go back into Deuteronomy and read about when Moses was born in how they had drowned all the babies in the river and killed the babies but Moses out of all of them were saved
@QueenOfRavens none of this makes sense God is the energy with words he formed the whole earth and even you and the reason kids and women suffer everyday is because of sin if you truly studied the Bible you would know that the lord said turn from your wicked ways and he will heal our land… through Christ we have eternal life not believing just brings for pain and death… according to the word of the lord not me… but you do have a free will that God gives everyone so you choose as you please have a bless day…💛
And if a woman loves you .. even then there's a chance that she will cheat you because there's a saying that a woman can fall in love many times, afterall it's her body, it's her choice so basically cheating is her choice 😅😂
From day one, he said that I was his “girl” and after two months, he said that he was going to marry me. Then after 8 months, he ended the relationship. I didn’t see the 🚩 🚩. Pay attention!
@@hannahk.3341 Its amazing that I even have to explain this. No normal guy will jump so fast into labels. And no normal guy will say they will marry you after 8 weeks. She actually got lucky. Coz he could be some crazy mofo and fobids her seeing friends, telling her how to dress ect.
@@bananapuff349 No normal guy goes into labels so fast. There is mostly two options - he ignite fast and burn faster - so he is all in love after a few dates and then he gets bored, or - he is a crazy mofo who start controlling you and clamming you are soulmates, telling you he will kill you/himself if you ever leave him ect.
@@ps600 if it takes more than 1 month, then they’re not the one for you. There’s a African proverb that says something like this “you will fully get to know a person within the first seconds of meeting them”. Something like that, can’t explain it in English word to word but it says that if you don’t know the person within the first seconds of meeting them then you will never know them/feel comfortable with them.
U got that right. Gail is her gf and Stedman doesn't care. How could a woman with NO education in the broadcast field lead on a major TV station without O pulling the strings. Come on now.
In this video alone, you've probably saved at least a few women years of misery persisting in relationships with men who are merely passing time with them until the "right one" comes along. Thank you, Steve Harvey. You embody the immense power of the spoken word. You are, to speak in the vernacular of today's youth, the man.
And if a woman loves a man, she will give him a title as well- her man, her fiance, her husband, her babydaddy, something. But if, after 6 months, she is trying to hide the fact that she is with him and says that they are just friends, a man should take it at face value, be like "You got it. No problem" and go find a woman who will be proud of him and won't hesitate to say "This is my man, my husband, my lover, my honeypie."
Exactly I had to re-watch this four times before I understood the point because when he said this is Oprah I was like okay I don't get it but then I realized oh he means when you only state a person's name 😂
If a Man Truly Loves you ,at that point his comment will be : I dont need to see or be with no other women, because I already found my Happiness to my Heart.She picked me to be her Partner, her soulmate,friend,lover, the person who will be by her side always.even in the afterlife. Now that's true love...
What afterlife? The Bible tells us that those in the grave are aware of nothing at all. It also says they're sleeping in death awaiting the Resurrection. So the reality is: The only hope for mankind is THE RESURRECTION.🎉❤🎉❤ Acts 24:15,; John 5:28,29
Good god, I’m happy I watched his talk shows and remembered his wise words because damnnn male species, we women are not charity organizations, handing out our love, time and youth to be wasted upon lame excuses of your commitment issues.
Sounds like a personal problem in choosing men. I could go out and talk to women who don't value themselves or me, but I can't expect to find any substance there. Change your perspective and you change who you attract.
@@user-xf1yp9bw3j You're looking at someone to blame, all I said was it sounds like a personal problem in choosing men. Do you usually blame others for the choices you make? Men and women have a responsibility to themselves and to the person they're choosing to be with. Blaming the other half for your failed part in your own relationship would be twisted logic.
A man can have sex with other women and still love his wife the same...but most women can't do that cause they are only looking for this one guy. Its biology.
Absolutely true!! After six months and still being denied to everyone. All hidden and it is super painful.😢 Moving on to what God has whenever is the time!🙏
Hey ma’am I’ll like you to get you match with my uncle he’s trying it so hard to be in a good relationship. He’s kind of calm and cool person it would be nice for you to know him..
So true.. After more than 6 months I couldn’t even be introduced as a friend. Instead, all there was, was silence, a stare and a “I’ll walk you out to your car”
If a man wants to be better because he's met you, isn't interested in other women, deeply cares about you, is always honest with you and ESPECIALLY when he cries after losing you - THAT'S real love and he'll never love anyone as much.
I think this guy has a lot of good pieces of an idea but his fatal flaw is that he always believes a given thing only works one way, and that if it isn’t working that way, it’s not working any way. He may be a thinker but he’ll never be a great thinker until he accepts the validity of ways other than his
And it's possible it doesn't have to be taken as an only path. But it's at least something g for people to consider. He's pretty right though but everyone has different standards is true as well
I understand what you mean, but a lot of his advice suggests that "if your partner isn't doing XYZ, they actually aren't right for you, or they secretly don't love you". The problem is, it's a theory that can't be invalidated by talking to your partner, and it presents information as some secret piece of advice that is more than likely true. This sows the seeds for the destruction of a relationship which was going fine until this advice was taken to heart. It helps no one, and it hurts people.
It’s his generation and that he’s American. So one dimensional and self centered 😂…. America moved away from relationship oriented and hyper liberalism corrupted USA. Every other country values the dynamic of a relationship. It’s mostly the west resisting biology and nature
Because things actually do work one way. This isn't a flaw or "incorrect" Sometimes things in life really are black or white. That's how the world really works
@@helenpotter2657 Hey ma’am I’ll like you to get you match with my uncle he’s trying it so hard to be in a good relationship. He’s kind of calm and cool person it would be nice for you to know him..
Hey ma’am I’ll like you to get you match with my uncle he’s trying it so hard to be in a good relationship. He’s kind of calm and cool person it would be nice for you to know him..
6 months is enough to know deep down what you want, if you are observant and generally decisive. Being perceptively intelligent also helps. If not, then it'll take more time to observe and make up your mind.
Hey ma’am I’ll like to get you match with my uncle he’s trying it so hard to be in a good relationship. He’s kind of calm and cool person it would be nice for you to know him..
All good points, I also think it’s when he doesn’t *want* to leave you for anything else, and doesn’t *know* why he wants to stay, because Love has *no* cause and *no* reason, there is just the *strength* of the Love itself, built up over over a very long time. To ask why would be like asking why do you Love yourself, well you wouldn’t really, you literally would *be* Love. A better question would be, well *how* did you come to Love me as such, and the answer would be through helping you and not harming you, ie. through the force of spirituality. That’s something every one can appreciate in the here and now as every coupling helps each other. That has to be the *attractive force* that brings you together. But it takes two to tango, and women should also apply some effort to building that connection, instead of just expecting the world.
I agree. My man started calling me my wife and when we are with his friends, he calls me my lady and this just melted my heart with more love towards him and soon ready to become Mrs him. Am so glad that he became a blessing to my life 😊😊😊.. And also he will process it without struggle. His words and his actions coordinate...
Hey ma’am I’ll like you to get you match with my uncle he’s trying it so hard to be in a good relationship. He’s kind of calm and cool person it would be nice for you to know him..
If a man says he loves you and introduces you as his baby's mama and not wife or fiance ... He doesn't love you. You just got pregnant and now he's stuck with you. Tell the truth Steve.
What if he's calling you these but sleeps with other women, lies about it and when you tell him it's over he's following you to places where you're with sb else playing the victim? 😂😂😂😂🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡
What stopped you from saying I love you to him? Sometimes small differences become huge rifts. So before that happen be Love him/her to the core.Remember love is unconditional. Business transactions aren't.
Hey ma’am I’ll like to get you match with my uncle he’s trying it so hard to be in a good relationship. He’s kind of calm and cool person it would be nice for you to know him..
When I was confused, he made me his lady, his fiancee and future wife in front of his family, friends and everyone around him because he knew it was the only way to my heart.. Where's he now! I don't give a damn I'm free from a manipulative coward.
Why do people who think they know Steve Harvey think they have the right to judge him his success says different sooo it doesn't matter what u or anyone thinks , because he's doing it.
@Chumnley snoop What it says is people make mistakes as we all do. So because he made mistakes that means that's it, he should give up on love, life right. It means learn from our mistakes, do better. Image if the most high gave up on us we made mistakes and he said that's it sit in the corner for life n watch people live. Be joyful . Stop pointing fingers I'm sure you made many and the fingers you point will be pointing right back at you take care.
My grandfather always told me "there's 1000 ways to skin a cat" until he passed and that was his way of saying it's ok to be different and still achieve your goals...... people may have similarities and still be different. ALL MEN/WOMEN ARE NOT THE SAME!!! As an individual you need to study who you're personally dealing with.
Hey ma’am I’ll like you to get you match with my uncle he’s trying it so hard to be in a good relationship. He’s kind of calm and cool person it would be nice for you to know him..
I was introduced to his family as a dear friend after one month knowing each other and he was still in a relationship. Two months after he broke up with the girlfriend and I didn’t know. A month after the break up, he told me that he loves me. I confirmed that I love him 3 months later and that was the time we started our relationship. 5 years of ups and downs later, he came to my father and told him that he wanted to marry me. So, we got engaged, got married 4 months after engagement. Now, just enjoying 6 months of marriage life. We started from stranger to friend to lover to best friend and life partner 😍
That’s what I thought! Men just don’t throw around the “L word” ; they don’t, even jokingly. Not right in the beginning, they don’t. If they don’t mean it, they won’t say it. Especially to a “friend” he doesn’t know that well. And things have been pretty friendly. Then to pull the friends card: WTH?! 🤷🏽♀️
I’ve told my girl I love her almost every day since we met, I don’t give a shit what anyone else thinks because it makes her happy when I say it therefore I will
I was something the first time he saw me.......My sister came to where I was baby sitting with him.She liked him I was 17.He sad when he saw me on the floor playing with the baby he new I was the one.He ended up dating my sister.I had no interest in boys at that time.He wanted me bad.And got me he asked me to marry him on my 19 birthday 3 kids and 32 years off marriage.We have gone through it....And he is still hear.
Hey ma’am I’ll like you to get you match with my uncle he’s trying it so hard to be in a good relationship. He’s kind of calm and cool person it would be nice for you to know him..
People can lie for years just to waste your time. They can say whatever. Just listen to your gut feeling. If it feels right then that’s the man for you . Sometimes you have to give space to your man so he can sort things in his life in order to be with you. But surely you’ll know if he is the one for you or not. Do not ignore your gut feeling ❤
Hey ma’am I’ll like you to get you match with my uncle he’s trying it so hard to be in a good relationship. He’s kind of calm and cool person it would be nice for you to know him..
Steve always declare things to be a certain way when it's subjective to every individual on how it matters to them. I understand why he has divorce after divorce because it sounds like he sees things a way and the way can't be any other way.
I don't think so. You supposed to take time to get to know someone before committing and you don't have to come up with titles. You can call so basically everyone girlfriend or stuff. That doesn't refer to you have a solid connection.
At 21, I met a nice Caucasian guy that was around four years older. After 2 MONTHS he introduce me to his parents, his brothers, his aunts, uncles and cousins. When I met them they all said the same thing: "Nice to finally meet you, Eric talks about you ALL THE TIME." Now, that same Caucasian guy has been my husband of goin on 12 years, with three daughters. If he's serious, he'll be upfront with you.
Hey ma’am I’ll like you to get you match with my uncle he’s trying it so hard to be in a good relationship. He’s kind of calm and cool person it would be nice for you to know him..
Hey ma’am I’ll like you to get you match with my uncle he’s trying it so hard to be in a good relationship. He’s kind of calm and cool person it would be nice for you to know him..
This is soooo true!!! I had been erroneously conditioned and so I never turned and ran when my first husband did the extreme opposite including not even acknowledging me but now that I know better I sure would! But hindsight is always 20/20 . I take ownership of me drawing that treatment to me cause low self esteem will get you that but I don’t take ownership for his actions . Hope that makes sense. Aw well, life IS a journey- he never did cut the apron strings. He never wanted a wife just a mother figure that he could still take advantage of while pretending he was all ‘growed’ up-lol. That’s ok cause I grew up and divorced his ass!! Bo Ya!!! This is the time of awakening and I woke up and got the hell out of that facade and reclaimed myself and my life😉🔥🌈
Hey ma’am I’ll like you to get you match with my uncle he’s trying it so hard to be in a good relationship. He’s kind of calm and cool person it would be nice for you to know him..
