I prayed thahujud ❤ ya rab pls grand all the friends who wants to get married their loved ones in halal way and pls grand all the commenting sis&bros duas❤❤❤❤ pls pray thahujud and 5 times prayer 🤲❤may allah accept your all duas... Pls make dua for yazNasi to go umrah so soon ❤
30 here. There’s this man who I really admire & want to get married to. Been waiting too long & losing hope so I took out my journal and wrote affirmations in present tense as if I am already married to this man. As soon as I finished writing, my sister FaceTimes me & shows me the Ka’aba(She’s performing Umrah) so I looked at it & prayed to Allah to help me get married to the man I like. I put the phone down & open RU-vid and this video pops up. 😭♥️ I feel so at ease now, Alhamdulillah. You’ve gained yourself a subscriber my dear sister. Jazakh Allahu khairann for this video ❤
From people Ive seen, when they had deep convinction something they wanted WOULD happen, it did. SubhanAllah. Remember that Allah says He feels shy to give His servents nothing when they turn all their hopes towards Him. That's the love of Allah.
My notes (full video is mind-opening with its depth!): 1. Self-fulfilling prophecy: thinking it’s not written can make it so (helpful diagram at 2:01). Use analogy of driving to grocery store: needing to stop at multiple stop signs does not make us stop the journey to the store; similarly, being stopped/rejected multiple times shouldn’t deter us from our goal inshAllah. It’s not a problem if we’re stopped, only a problem if we are dissuaded and give up early. Instead have the mindset of I’ll keep trying while I still live as we’ll only know “it’s not written” if we pass away and haven’t reached our destination. (This commentator’s perspective: even if “not written”, dua is our weapon and can change qadr). 2. Mindset of alhamdulillah, Allah SWT is saving me from a worse situation. “Happiness only comes from within and from Allah.” Dismantle thoughts about singlehood = bad and marriage = always happy. Blessings wherever Allah has placed us - we should avail these to the fullest. Never put your happiness in someone else’s hands (being sad about needing to wait).
If I am not with the person I like, is it because Allah is saving me from something even though I see it as my love? I feel angry for not being able to marry who I love Imade dua and nothings happen
@@liv16851 It was narrated from Abu Hurayrah that the Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) said: “A person will still be answered so long as his du’aa’ does not involve sin or severing ties of kinship, and so long as he does not become impatient.” It was said: O Messenger of Allah, what does being impatient mean? He said: “Saying, I said du’aa’, and I said du’aa’, and I did not receive any response, then he becomes frustrated and stops saying du’aa’.” Narrated by Muslim (2735).
How do you dismantle when everyone around you is married with kids..it is constantly on my mind. I always ask Allah to give me a sign to stop the search, It is really exhausting.
@@liv16851 trust me Allah showed me what it is to feel stuck with this person. We were gonna get married but I felt so depressed because he hurt me so much. Then I learned for sure, yes Ya Rab you really only know this person is bad for me. I prayed so much and my friend too. She was gonna get married and the guy she prayed for messed up her life took her dignity and divorced her.. So really, trust in Allah's Hikmah I know its difficult but you've been here for a reason and this test too.Try to see what benefit this situation gives you and make a lot of duaa and give sadaqah without waiting to be saved instead, Allah wants YOU to take action and see why it is bad. I made duaa on the final when I coudn't bear it anymore, I said Ya Rab, If there is any khair in this situation and I am gonna get happy with this person, make it easy, but If its bad for me and I'll be sad, just make my heart firm on the decision and make it clear without my heart getting broken. Wallahi, after that prayer a lot happened and I saw that he was indeed a bad person for me and I learned SO much and now after 1 year I am so gratefull to Allah swt because I see how the guy does in his life (haram things, changed a lot, follows girls half naked etc.) and now imaging getting married to him feels like Hell. I am so gratefull Allah saved me before marriage but know It was the most difficult decision of my life but I felt like I had to trust Allah and go trough this pain. May Allah make it easy on you to understand the Hikmah and know! Allah knows you too well to not make it happen :) He just wants you to trust Him and see this also for yourself and for you to make a decision. Sometimes we get so deluded because we feel inlove with this person but Wallahi Allah is the owners of the heart, just give your heart to Him and talk to Him how you feel and to show you why He doesn't make it happen without you getting hurt. You'll thank me later! (I normally don't comment on someone so long but I had the feeling you really had to hear this).
I am your sister from Yemen, and by Allah I only spoke out of hunger and distress. My mother, my brothers, and I lessons and tears. We are in a situation that only God knows about. God is sufficient for us, and He is the best disposer of affairs for those who broughtOh people, we are your sisters, by God 😭😭😭 We do not even find a loaf of bread inside the house that would satisfy you, oh nation of Muhammad. People are brothers. Oh God, make your righteous servants subservient to us. Oh God, make your righteous servants subservient to us. My appeal to every Muslim, oh Lord, if he sees this message, may He prolong his life, make him happy, and cover him. May God reward him. God is sufficient for me, and He is the best disposer of affairs. There is no power or strength except with God. Oh people, oh nation of Muhammad, oh people of goodness, oh people of mercy. We are your sisters and your children. By God, we do not even find a loaf of bread inside the house that would satisfy you. Oh nation of Muhammad, I only spoke out of extreme hunger and distress. My mother, sisters, and I are displaced from our homes because of the war. We are in a state that no one knows about except God. God is sufficient for us, and He is the best disposer of affairs, against those who brought us to this state 💔💔 By God Almighty, I only wrote this appeal out of extreme poverty and poverty, oh people. I beg you by God Almighty, Lord of the Mighty Throne, that I do not have food at home. By God, my brothers and sisters have been sitting around for two days. Without food, by God our situation is very difficult, we are 4 people in the house and my father passed away and there is no one to support us and we live in a rented house and we cannot pay the rest of the rent. I am not lying to you nor deceiving you nor cheating you. I am a Yemeni girl displaced because of the war between me and my family over a rent dispute and the owner of the house. By God, my brother comes every day and humiliates us and talks about us and wants us to go out to the street because we are unable to pay him the rent. The neighbors saw us crying and talked to the neighbors again and gave us a deadline until the end of the week and we swore to God to let us out of the street now we are in arrears of 60 thousand Yemeni riyals for 3 months rent may God have mercy on us our country is suffering because of this war and we do not find our daily sustenance and we live my mother and sisters our father passed away may God have mercy on him and we do not have anyone in the world to come to us in these harsh circumstances my little sisters went out to the street and saw the neighbors eating and stood at their door giving them even a piece of bread and by God in whose hand is the heavens and the earth they closed the door and kicked them out and they came back crying dying of hunger no one has mercy on them and now the holiday has come back to me if no one of us helps us with a kilo of flour by God we will die of hunger brother I seek refuge in God and then in you and I want your help for the sake of God I ask you by God you love goodness and help me even if it is about the rent of the house send me a WhatsApp message on this number +967717354582 and ask for my card name and send it and do not delay may God compensate you with all good My little sisters, look at their situation and help us and save us before they throw us out into the street and humiliate us or my family and I die of hunger. We ask you by God, if you are able to help us, do not delay on us, and may God reward you with good.'~~_«%•&»_~~_~&:»'////;&&;&;&;;&🎉😢😢😢😢;&;&&&//&..,!~~~♡♡♡~~~♡~♡~•~•~•~•~♡~♡~♡~;l.i.i.i.i.i.l.|-.-....،،،،،..،..،.،..،....
Guys please make a dua that I get to marry this person I dearly want and be with him in this world and the hereafter with peace and love. I shall make a prayer for you as well ❤❤
I am of orthodox faith and I love your content. Thank you very much. 43 and unmarried and just accepted it a couple of month ago, that this is my life and I am grateful that none of my exes became my husband. You are truely a gem and I know God is protecting me 💙
38 alhamdulillah - please make dua for me that Allah give me the patience to be on the path so I may receive my spouse inshaaAllah perhaps one of you are closer to Allah
I have a cousin who recently got married at 39 approx MA tabarakAllah and even conceived within a month. She just became mom to a baby boy ! She's very happy in her marriage MA. Keep your hopes and prayers alive.
Your video kept appearing on my feed, even after I refreshed it several times. After giving it some thought, I felt maybe it was a sign, so I finally decided to watch it.❤
The thing is if youre not married its so easy to fall in haram especially as a male , which can lead you to hell. Sure you can fight the temptation but you will fall eventually its so depressing. Even the prophete said get married as soon as possible
subhanAllah, I was today and yesterday thinking maybe Its not meant for me? or maybe Allah wants me to just know Its not meant for me (because I have a limited belief that I don't deserve good which is from shaytaan) I am really learning about myself too. Jazakallahu khairan sis for making these videos I am beyond thankfull and Alhamdullillah how Allah guides us :) Your video popped up and I was immeadiatly suprised and understand that indeed Allah wants me to stop my limiting beliefs which is why its getting delayed still. We love you Ya Rab,the most Mercifull
Lama you out here saving lives ! Allah humma barrik. Thank you so much for these videos. Might need to sign up for coaching because I need some more tips and steps!
Thank you so much for this advice! I've been having doubts lately but Alhamdulillah I came across your video. This certainly makes me feel more at ease. May Allah bless you and your family. ❤
Unmarried folks out here, here's a bit of hope for y'all. Recite this dua to get a pious spouse in which we all could find peace in. I pray we all find the missing part of ours soon, In Shaa Allah.. رَبَّنَا هَبْ لَنَا مِنْ أَزْوَاجِنَا وَذُرِّيَّاتِنَا قُرَّةَ أَعْيُنٍ " " وَاجْعَلْنَا لِلْمُتَّقِينَ إِمَامًا (“rabbana hablana min azwajina wa dhuriyyatina qurrata A’yunin waj’alna lil- muttaqina imama”) “Our Lord, grant us from among our pious spouse and offsprings comfort to our eyes and make us an example for the righteous.” (Surah Furqan:74)
Please make dua for me, that Allah grants my duas, forgives me and help me get into my dream med school. ameen. May Allah grant all your duas and Jannah for you ameen
I believe that Allah SWT is in control of your affairs. All of it. You working for something is a sign that he guided you and compelled you to a marriage because it was written for you. So yes we work for it, but the outcome was written before you were born. Whether you think of it or not, that is just how it is.
Thank you so much for this video! I haven't finished the video yet but I'm excited to watch. I do have a question though, how do I tackle the situations where I do long for this person on and off whilst trying to set them free once I made duaa for them to enter my life. Ive found the balance to be tricky. In some moments I'm free, and other moments, I can handle the feelings of longing, but there are times where I does goet me down. Any advice would be greatly appreciated. Alhamdulillah Im feeling much better after watching your videos, but I would like to know what to do once the wave of loneliness comes back. Jazakallahi kheir
Once the wave of lonlieness comes back ensure you go straight to Allah, go pray extra, make extra duas, remind yourself the feelings you feel are from the shaytaan, you did the right thing and Inshallah Allah will bless you with a marriage full of goodness to your loved one, once you make dua learn to let go and have tawakkul, distract yourself with other things in your life, focus on the positive aspects remember Allah makes the impossible possible and all you can do is completely trust in your Lord, may Allah bless you with your loved one and grant you a beautiful marriage. Don't forget to pray tahajjud often even if it's just once a week you could do it every friday. I pray Allah eases your burdens
@@abbyk7341 of course my love, I hope everything eases for you, you're in my duas please do keep me in your prayers also that I marry him and our marriage is blessed with goodness
Everything is written though. Thats the Aqeedah of Ahl Sunnah wal jama'a. What you think doesnt produce anything in terms of destiny. You make choices and Allah already know the consequences, and He has written it already. Just make dua, be smart, do your best, make decisions based on the Quran and Sunnah and be flexible for whatever happens.
I am 39, Please make dua for me to get righteous spouse.May Allah make our affairs ease and grant righteous spouse for the sisters who didn't marry yet.
3:53 I wanted to ask that, I am 27 and thinking that sometimes I think the possibility that maybe Allah is not written it for me (not like giving up) but I am okay with it because I am single but I am trying to reach my goals and dreams and I am not pausing my life, so I accepted that if it is not written for me. But does this mindset prevents any possible chance to meet someone or to get married? Because I wanna marry but I am okay with the possibility of not getting married ever if it is not good for me I know Allah provides the best for me. What do you think about this kind of a mindset?
Well, for me personally i guess she should answer your question but if mine will help i guess you should also consider it. Firstlywhat is written is written and cant be changed. But sometimes it can be changed thats if it has potential of shifting talking about how deep your connection is with Allah, here am not saying when you have deep connection with Allah then whatever dua you make is going to be shifted or answered like you cant make dua for allah to change the date you are going to die or make dua for allah to return to back in your mothers womb so that you can be a girl or a boy not that type dua. What am saying here is if its written it will find ypur way regardless how old you are but if its not written then those dua you made allah will save them for you until you reach jannah then you will see your dua right in front of you allahu aalam what is that but the reward is massive, and you also talk about whether you should be okay by not thinking, i guess its important you think about it but dont let it consume you soo much, i remembera popular hadith the messenger of Allah says he would feel sad for the youth that passes away not married so its important to think about it because its the sunnah of our beloved prophet and your chances of getting closer to allah and going to jannah is easier when you marry the right person for the right reason and its a dream for every parents. Am 28yrs single also lost my dad 6yrs ago my mum 3 months ago that is enough reason for me to probably say am okay to not want to marry but thats the only thing that will make them more happier. In shaa Allah you are exactly where allah wants to see you and your spouse will come sooner or later just keep your intentions pure and by allah will make everything easy i hope it helped you salam alaikum.
@@khadijahuthmann alaikum salam, I guess there is a misunderstanding I am not saying I do not want to get married or not using chances for getting married, I am just saying that since I am single I just focus on living my life and sometimes I am just considering that (not in a hopeless manner) maybe marriage is not written for me but it is fine, I know Allah will provide the best in Jannah. By saying I am okay with it I meant that😌 but as she said we can only know when we die whether it is written or not. So maybe it is a wrong mindset since it can attract the wrong people in our lives but I consider this as a possibility not every person get married. But I assume focusing on an idea ‘there is one for me that Allah chosen in this world’ is better as she mentioned. May Allah ease your hardship and struggle and bless you with Jannah😊
@busrakucukkendirci if you want to get married even tho it may seem your okay with it not being written. But lowkey you want to. Read TAHAJJUD it is the key to all problems. Read it everyday, and I think this is a sign your gonna get married soon in'sha'Allah
the problem with me is where I live (europe) there is literally no men available in my nationality. I mean neither do europeans talk to me or make a move nor an other guy with other nationality do. So the only platform I can talk to men is instragram or facebook. I talked to bunch of people. The problem is either they are far away or they are pathetic. I`ve never been able to talk to men where they have real intentions they either wanted something sexual/see me as an object or had weird character. I`m not picky Allah knows I spoke to every men possible (ugly,handsome, middle, with job, without job, my nationality, not my nationality even disabled ones etc.) It literally doesn`t end up well so I stopped talking. I`m waiting for that guy that will talk to me in real life and take actions. I`m really fed up not finding someone online. And let me tell you neither my family nor my friends help to find someone so I gave up and I`m fed up to be honest.
I want an advice if anybody could help I would consider it as a sign from Allah swt - I got a proposal and it's quite ok but I feel the this is not the person I prayed for not the kind of man I wanted..my family and parents are happy with this proposal and all seems well but here I am still not happy but cannot reject because the proposal seems good and I am 29 and have lot of acnes and dark spots and have very low self esteem but big dreams which is a bad combination I know but I am soo confused....I am torn between the duas I made and pictured in my head and now this happening im not even attracted to the guy and feel like he's not the one for me but I cannot say this and reject ...I will be questioned why and I fear I would not be able to explain to my family why....I want a brutally honest answer if I should shut up and accept/ if I am really being ungrateful/ or whatever it is...I really want some real advice...I feel soo stuck
Personally, if I was in your position I would reject. Your gut feeling is telling you that you don’t want him, which is a big enough sign from Allah to not go ahead with it. If I’m being honest, you should work on yourself to become more confident. If roles were reversed, would you want an insecure partner? You should focus on being the best version of yourself, rather than being in a life long commitment with someone you would be miserable with. That marriage is gonna be hell cause your insecurities are eventually gonna show & men always use it to their advantage. I get everyone has their insecurities but judging by what you’ve said, it sounds like the guy seems decent on paper & the reason a part of you isn’t feeling it, is because you think he’s too good for you. You really need to focus on yourself for the time being. Because you will meet someone who has the things you want in’sha’Allah. Maybe you could get to meet someone that YOU want to know & take your time with it e.g. dating apps. Not necessarily what your parents want.
😂😂😂 you are so funny but what you saying is truth Wallahi dua is biggest weapon Muslim has ❤❤ Dua is your biggest weapon we need to remember story of Ibrahim and zakariye they both asked Allah to give them children so many years asking Allah same dua
But what if it's me not allah i am the one who didn't study so i failed and i am late one year I can't say allah have sth for me in the future it's me who made my self late and if i worked from the beginning i would have been in other place having better chance
Sister why did you delete my comment? In which i advised you not to use foreign ideas to islam to sell your sessions?! I was curious to see if anything changed and to my surprise you deleted the comment. You might think what youre doing is subtle, but if you made any money, it would be haram money. What a shame, my intentions were good with advising you.
