How to know if you're DONE HAVING BABIES & your family is complete 

Looking at my son, my answer is : I am so blessed to have him. I am done.

I have been struggling with this a lot lately because I have a 5 month old and a 2 year old and I feel done. I never thought I would say that after two, I've always wanted a big family but I honestly don't think I have the selflessness and the patience to stretch myself any thinner than I already have been. That said, when I look long term at Thanksgiving, Christmas, adult life, family dinners, Christmas morning, etc. I 100% envision 4 kids, like no doubt about it. But it's easy to envision 4 kids when you aren't with them day in and out trying to make every single one happy and feel loved and attended to. It breaks my heart so so much to say I think I am done.

As a mom of 5, let me say that being busy with 3 is the same as being busy with 5. It's really that much harder to add one more, or two more ... I know you said you're done, but let me assure you that if you want one more, you won't regret it.

its an interesting thing; i rember 2things the day we brought my daughter home; #1 I looked at ALL my family and said "I will NEVER look at the VAS Deferens the same" AND I also said "it was an amazing once in a life time experience" and I do agree with you, its not ANY ones decisions but YOURSELFE!!!!!!

I have been battling the decision to add a third or not. My heart burns for another but there are days where my 2 stretch me so thin I can't comprehend how it'll be with 3. I don't want a 3rd if it'll hinder the 2 I already have, but that burning desire for a 3rd doesn't want to go away.

I’ve known since I was five that I’ve wanted at least two kids two or three years apart. Hasn’t changed and I’m 22 now. I mean, still no kids and I’m waiting to find that special someone, but I’ll be okay. I’ll find them one day.

I never comment on videos but I just would like to tell you that I have listened to this video more than 6 times over the past couple of years. I come back to it every time I feel "klucky" or indecisive about whether to have more kids or not. This is one of the wisest videos on the topic that I have found online. Thank you for sharing your wisdom and advice! It has helped me tremendously! 🌸

I am so done having kids. Pregnancy was the worst. That's how I made my decision.

Thank you. I originally didn't think I would have kids. Now I have 2. 1 is 7 and the other is 5 months. I'm contemplating a 3rd! Life's journey is truly magical. Thank you for your support and wisdom.

This was THE most down-to-earth videos I’ve seen about deciding to expand or not. I felt like this was the heart to heart I needed today. Thanks for posting! :0)

Wow, this was so helpful. Thank you! We actually only have one child and at the moment we feel like our family is complete... But we get a lot of negative opinions from others about it. I love that in this video you focused on NOT PAYING ATTENTION TO OTHER PEOPLE'S OPINIONS!!! Thank you so much, I really needed to hear this 😄

Amazing video I can def. relate very much!! I have a 3yr old & a 2yr old, & I have been on the border line of having a 3rd child so many pros & cons in between. The thought of having the 2nd child feeling left out, or even the 3rd because they're smaller than the other 2, it makes me jump into the thought of well I can also wait another year & have 2 babies back-to-back & make it a 4 instead of 3 wth! But after seeing your video I think the 3rd can complete our family. Thank you for sharing your experience!

Thank you for this ❤️

I have two girls 5 & 3, I'm thinking about one more but I am terrified to do it again.

I want another but my husband doesn’t. The desire has been very strong lately and I’ve been praying for months that God take the desire away from me if it isn’t meant to be and to help me feel like the fam is complete and leave it alone. I’ve thought about taking the IUD out and letting whatever happens happen, but then there’s my husband that doesn’t want another... there’s no easy way to have peace about it that I’ve found. No easy answer 😢

I needed this. I love newborns.

My husband and I both had children prior to our marriage. We have a 9 month old together, the pregnancy was a little rough because he was so big and I didn’t sleep much. Not even 20 minutes after delivery I told my husband I wanted another one. We spoke of having another one and saw another baby in our future, we even purchased a home with an extra bedroom for our future chicken nugget. It’s been a little rough working from home and being a SAHM, my husband works 12 hour shifts and there are times I do feel like I’m “alone.” We haven’t been actively trying. We had an uh-o moment during “exercise” and it was at the peak of ovulation I felt scared that I could be. My husband came home last night and has done a complete 180 now saying we shouldn’t have another one, insinuating that if I were in fact pregnant he doesn’t want to go through with it, we should focus on traveling, he thinks it will be too much for me etc. I’m conflicted because while raising another one will be hard I did want to experience it one more time going in with the idea that “this is it”

Thank you for this video .

I had PPD with my 2nd (he was in the NICU so I think that contributed to it). I keep debating a third but I don’t know it I want to risk it.

What do you do when you get baby fever? I don't want more kids. It feels complete, but I'm terrified of weakening and getting pregnant again. 🥺 I hate pregnancy 🙈

7:30 she wouldn’t be able to care for the children she has if she had another child at the apparently healthy, youthful stage of life she is at. I can’t imagine what must be going on. Best of luck with everything Ms.

Yeah I think I was born broken a little bit cuz I do not have that instinct with the newborn thing. Once we had our son that entire drive just disappeared for me completely. I struggled so bad with the first two years of our son's life and was borderline miserable thinking about having a newborn again just sends me to a pretty dark place. For me though I don't get to decide how many kids I have God gets to decide that because struggled with infertility. So I just don't take birth control and if we end up with a second it'll be another little miracle

What's your accent? American? Australian? NZ?

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Dont have any.

Don’t think about it. Just get pregnant - the more the merrier 🤗