The pain in her voice!!! My son just turned 2 & I think something is up & this is why he’s been by my side since day of birth!! I’m going to make an apt asap with a professional to ask more about this topic!!!
Thank you for your testimony. Very needed! My abuser would take me, and other 9 and 10yo girls, to baseball games, on "special field trips" etc. I wish they had asked WHY my teacher, a 26yo man needed to befriend young girls!
Sorry to hear what you went through or experienced as a child. The best method to healing, well into adulthood...is telling your story out Loud. Never ever think, it was your fault. The more you bring the truth to lite, the more you heal inside yourself...your (child like) will be able to move on, and you will become strong. I know, because I too went through it...and many others. You are not alone.
I feel so bad for this woman! And it has always been a fear of mine . my daughter and I have spoke about this OVEr and OVER. I pray this will never happen.
Omg 😭 I have two eaughters, and it is my worst nightmare! I mean, even if I had a boy, it would still be my only consern! All I want is to build a relationship with them so that they trust me and tell me everything!!
When I was abused when I was 8 I used to play out what happened with my barbie dolls. Once my little sister asked me why I was doing weird stuff with the dolls but I just didn't say anything and changed the game. To this day my parents don't know about my abuse. He was a family friend called Daniel and he would come have tea with my family. And I remember being so awkward when he came inside. I wish I had more strength to talk openly to my family but I'm still so ashamed of what happened and how I handled it. I know I was only 8 but it's completely broken how I have relationships with everyone. And how I judge myself. I also know my mum will never forgive herself for not noticing the signs and I don't want her to feel bad about it in such a deep never end way that I do. I'm now 29 years old.
I have said a prayer 🙏 😔 😌 🙌 for u to receive comfort, hope, strength, & peace beyond what is normal regarding this issue in life. I'm terribly sorry this has happened to u & U deserve to have a life that is liveable & enjoyed 😉 So please 🙏 take the process & speak aloud ⏲️ Ur story. U have helped someone today & u didn't even know it as u typed this comment out. 💛
Im a 11 year old girl. And my stepdad is sexually abusing me. But i don't wanna tell anybody, cause if i do. I think my littlebrother (made by my mom and step-dad) won't have a good life whitout his daddy... What should i do??? 😢😣 I don't wanna live like this!
PPAP Guy Please tell your mom what's going on. If she doesn't believe you, then you go to an adult, any adult and tell them. I understand if you're worried about your little brother not having his father but it is very wrong what he's doing to you. I'm sure your little brother wouldn't want you to keep getting molested once he's older and realized what's going on. You cannot keep this in. Please seek help. Tell several people until one of them helps you. I hope the best for you, I hope you can be free of this nightmare your going through. Be strong, don't be scared to tell. It's not your fault.
I was sexually abused from when I was 6 until I was 12. I told my mom last year, when I was 16, and I had a lot of the same fears as you. How was she going to feel about me? Would she believe me? Will this ruin my brothers' lives? I just wanted everyone to be happy, and I thought staying quiet would do that. Eventually I told her. I'm not going to say it's easy, it's the hardest thing you will ever do, but it will make you feel happy and you need that since you have been unhappy for so long. When you're ready, tell someone for your sake and I promise it will be okay.
I think it is complicated because when they are infants and babies they are in diapers and are being bathed by adults. It is difficult to teach them how to trust and who to trust. They cannot discern the complexity when they are tiny.
this is far too vague to be helpful. My girlfriend was sexually abused by her grandfather from ages 3 to 6. The memories were repressed until she was 15 and she had a nervous breakdown. She had to drop out of school for a year. She received therapy in France for 3 years and then her family moved to the US for a fresh start. She's now in her 30's and her grandfather is dead. She still suffers from contamination OCD and anxiety. When she was being abused she said she didn't want to visit her grandparents but her parents said that's not very nice and forced her to go. They didn't listen to her and ask why. She also had to sleep with the lights on because she was afraid to sleep at night. Her grandfather would molest her in the middle of the night.
Lets include the peer perpetrators that are connected to the pedophilia networks. This is something that seems hidden. A peer or classmate that know about these child exploiting network seek out kids that seem vulnerable and they lure them online to these predators that are waiting by to exploit these vulnerable innocent children. It is very sad all when they was trying to make buddies. This need to be seriously addressed.
