How To Let Go Of People's Perceptions of You - Lisa Nichols

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All of us have probably had or currently have relationships that make us feel judged. These times of relationships can make us feel like we need to prove ourselves, however, remember you have nothing to hide, nothing to prove and nothing to defend.
We cannot change other people, but we can change the way we think about ourselves. Can you wake up tomorrow morning and be content with who you are?
I would love to hear from you. What was the biggest lesson that you learned from this particular episode? What did you need to hear? What was a #BOL breakthrough out loud?
I look forward to hearing from you!
Your sister in prosperity & in possibility.
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@tinathompson591 4 года назад

I HAVE NOTHING to PROOVE! NOTHING to PROTECT! NOTHING to HIDE! NOTHING to DEFEND!!! I AM ENOUGH 🙏❤🙏 GOD BLESS YOU 🙏🙏🙏

@emmaking9246 3 года назад

ABSOLUTELY NOTHING

@Markworship2012 5 лет назад

This was food for me, for so long I was married to people's judgement of me and I was engaged to trying to prove myself to others but today I divorce myself from people judgement, I disenaged from trying to prove who I am, and I embrace Mark and love me some me. BOL

@savannah2053 5 лет назад

Yes, say it!

@carolnimo7060 5 лет назад

Same here... Wow this msg was made just for me....

@littledetailsbydarby3240 5 лет назад

This is Beautiful 😊👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾🙌🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

@daniellehardison3645 5 лет назад

Thank God you found much love in enjoying your next days a day

@josphinejelangat7406 5 лет назад

Woooow.....eeeh thanks brother this is what i needed

@hebrewrising4815 5 лет назад

Loved "It's your job to "like" yourself first and everybody else's "like" is optional!"

@MarikaTheEmpress 3 года назад

Me Too !!!

@susanoline5823 3 года назад

Thank you!

@kDaniielle 5 лет назад

Yes girl! This is the TRUTH. Been practicing this lifestyle for 6 months and my life has changed dramatically! I can’t even believe the changes in my life, it’s all in our head. Until you can control your mind, you will have no control on your life! ❤️

@SafeFirm Год назад

Control your Mind, control your Life,…Love it! 💕

@stephaniesimmons4390 5 лет назад

Yes YES! I no longer stand under the umbrella of “their perception” of me. Put the umbrella away because the sun is beginning to shine! Yes, YESSSSS!

@queentomca 5 лет назад

Stephanie Simmons yes girl ❤️

@AJENKINS1920 5 лет назад

I needed to hear “Other Peoples Perceptions of you is none of your business “

@Greenlynxmedia 5 лет назад

AJENKINS1920 Me too!

@ericamorris3132 4 года назад

At this very moment in my life I needed to hear this. I’ve spent my whole life pushing to prove people wrong and change their mind about who they thought I was or Am. I’ll now work towards committing to myself and becoming the best version of myself. #BOL

@1sornram 2 года назад

I had a big argument with a sibling today and later came across this video. Your comment really resonate.

@graysonbaker6552 2 года назад

I need to hear this I spent my whole life pushing to prove

@d.m.c.4650 5 лет назад

When it's many perceptions, it's disheartening. My light has been dimmed. I have been silenced and buried by the weight. I needed to hear this. Thank you Lisa for a great start towards Freedom!

@rosannefeneley4156 5 лет назад

I'm also subject to many perceptions, from others, and it has greatly weighed me down. But now, maybe, just maybe I can take all this on board and BOL.

@saranyasudheeran3184 4 года назад

THANK YOU LISA! #BOL..HONOUR THEIR OPINION N STAY TUNED TO YOURS.. Let go the tug of War..n stay peaceful😍

@thequeenchosen1533 5 лет назад

#BOL Lisa I have struggled with this all my life but today I choose me. I love myself more. This video is right on time. Thank you Lisa

@mlimayassin1182 5 лет назад

Yes yes yessss I just lyk it, I love u lisaaaaaaaa😘😍😍

@lynndevil1 5 лет назад

We do NOT need other people's validation. I personally DON'T, (and haven't for a very long time,) care what ANYONE thinks of me I don't need their endorsement. I ONLY need MINE!!!!! Thank you for sharing this Lisa. You are a star!!!

@AaronMartin-xp2tk Месяц назад

I love how your grandma blatantly put it, “others perceptions, ain’t NON of our business” ❤️

@sereneriversTV 5 лет назад

Wow! Lately I’ve been trying to manage others perception of me. It is so tiring. Today I am committed to showing up o every situation comfortable in my own skin and not worried about what others think of me.

@Divemuse 5 лет назад

#BOL Nothing to prove, nothing to protect, nothing to hide, and nothing to defend. Just out here in these streets being me at my own standards.

@raniaconsolationigiraneza2535 3 года назад

Yes yes yeeeess

@kamilahspeaks2200 4 года назад

The Holy Spirit revealed to me while you were speaking, Respect is about how you treat someone not about whether you agree with them or not.

@doughouston917 5 лет назад

#BOL I can divorce myself from the opinions of other people. Respecting their opinions doesn't mean agreeing with them.

@tippysgrammy3118 5 лет назад

Wow! I'd never associated my actions (trying to be pleasing to everyone at all times) with trying to "control" their perception of me. Thanks for that assessment. I was born the youngest of 8, and feel that all my life, I've tried to prove that I'm "enough". At 54 years old with an adult son, granddaughters, and college degrees, I'm still learning and growing. THANKS, LISA!!!

@michelesutton9404 5 лет назад

I needed to hear this today!! I been mad trying to change what someone has been saying and thinking of me without even KNOWING that’s what I was doing until I heard this. Telling myself I will “Show them” when the best thing is to let go and let them be themselves #BOL

@terreaserebeccaaiken9938 5 лет назад

Yes! The tug of war is such an accurate description of what it feels like to “try” and manage another person’s perception of me. It always feels like a huge resistance and I end up feeling frustrated because I could have given my time and energy to something better. Grateful to be learning this now and have it reinforced by healers like you. Thanks Lisa! ❤️

@maimohamed3590 5 лет назад

U look stunning, I love the atmosphere around u also, thanks a lot for sharing always😍🌻✨👌

@jaiavm7128 3 года назад

Break Through Out Loud: instilling in our little ones (our children) this notion of living ourselves, regardless of others opinions is pure gold! I will make it part of my parenting practice to repeat your grandma’s wisdom to my daughter. Thank You!

@divinejustice8750 3 года назад

Be authentic to the very essence of your true inner being. Don’t try to change for anyone because people’s perceptions or judgments of us is none of your business. Know that you are good enough and live freely on your own terms in your unique life journey. Great message Lisa Nichols!

@jenicemurphy1663 5 лет назад

This is truly a round table discussion. So many of us women's and men's live in silence of trying to upheld or live down what other perception of oneself.AMEN

@nickhyland7179 4 года назад

BOL: “They’re going to be committed to whoever they are in the moment. And our job, your job, is learning to dance with whoever they’re committing to be. Versus changing their commitment.”

@PeteS_1994 2 года назад

I’ve been listening to this everyday for the last few days. I know it’s the right advice and I’ve tried implementing it although at times it is hard. But I guess it is how I perceive the situation where I see someone else’s opinion.

@ddg80sbby 3 года назад

I really needed to hear the part about how we are trying to control other people's perception or judgment of us. It recently came to light for me that I have codependency issues that I need to work through. I can get so caught up in what other people think, believe, and say about me. My #BOL is that it's safe and neccessary for me to let go of trying to control other people's perception of me. It's tiresome! And it's distracting me from investing all of that time and energy into cultivating and evolving myself into the woman I'm becoming. Thank you, Lisa!

@thatianasantos8486 5 лет назад

I loved it! This is so true, once we stop worrying about what people think about us, we feel more confident.

@niairwafi9616 5 лет назад

Lisa, I really need this. It stings a lot. Because I always find the need to monitor other people judgement of me. Now when I found me and love me more, as you said other people opinion is none of my business. Woah BOL.

@bettytv4730 4 года назад

I can relate. I always try to find what people think of me and sometimes my so called friends come and tell me what other people speak about me. I always get bothered and start explaining. Now That's their business. Am done

@SarahDavison 5 лет назад

Love this , I've lived my life being judged....I'm gonna learn to LET IT GO!! Thanks Lisa x

@aminanur5782 5 лет назад

Lisa, I need to hear that, thank you so much, love you sisters!

@yazzziii7120 4 года назад

I’m so glad I found your videos . I need this in my life !!!!!

@elliekel8148 5 лет назад

Thank you , you provided me with "aha"s that my soul truly needed. You are a gift.

@shantareid2770 5 лет назад

You do not know how much I appreciate your words right now and how much your words are needed at this time. God bless.

@danastewart9281 5 лет назад

I love listening to you while I work on my computer. You have been such an inspiration for at least 5 years. No matter how far I've fallen, you always encourage me to get back up even stronger than before! I have to tell you as much as I love all your videos, my favorite story is when you talk about winning that swim race!

@shadatrapp6796 5 лет назад

Hey lisa!!! I love this and the message that I needed to hear was what grandma said ! I dont need to worry about others opinion of me because I know I cant please everyone and people are going to talk no matter your circumstances so I'm NOW committed to self!!! Thank you Lisa ❤

@julieparker1351 5 лет назад

Lisa, I love your energy and love your message. I so needed to hear this today...Thank you!

@agakantor 5 лет назад

Thank you Lisa for sharing this message, I love it!

@goterri2013 5 лет назад

Thanks so much! This is a timely word... I was so worried about what people thought of me, constantly changing to fit in with them instead of being me!!!

@YoungG704 5 лет назад

Needed this today. Didnt know I needed it but, yes yes. This was uplifting to my spirit and soul

@chastitypadilla2725 3 года назад

I loved the reminder that other people's opinion of you is not your business. "Your opinion, my opinion" Yes YES!!!

@AnjoliMonae 5 лет назад

Thank you, I needed to heart the wisdom of your grandmothers words and the love and power of your words to KNOW and be proud that I am asking myself the hard questions and allowing the "feedback, even when it stings a bit" during this time of transition in my life... I was being made to feel like me being able to do that was too much and why do you want to do that! but I kept feeling deep down that is was right for me, although very painful at times, I knew it was good in my soul to do this... Thank you, Tribe, Thank you for reminding me of Who I AM and that I am on the right track.

@amethylle 5 лет назад

I needed that. Thank you so much. That was a BOL to me- especially when you said that it’s our job (MY job) to “learn to dance” with whoever people are committing to be at the moment. It’s given me the freedom to take back my power & time & just focus on ME- which I was neglecting. Thank you for your videos, your’s along with a couple others really helped pull me through a hard year last year.

@maxinec5228 5 лет назад

Thanks Lisa! Shining my light brighter than ever even when those around me feel uncomfortable with it! Their opinions of me are none of my business! 🦋 ❤️

@shyvondapritchett8637 5 лет назад

Soooooo LOVED and NEEDED this one!!! 🙌🏼

@neishasmith5487 5 лет назад

Thank you Lisa this mean Alot to me I just love that line your grandmother said so true, I always been kind to others I notice when you're bless people try to up you down, Lisa i listen you and read you article I learned a lot how to leave people judgment of me and be me. God bless you Lisa continue doing the good work blessings

@sonyalynch8032 5 лет назад

This just fed my soul. Thank you! I’ve been exhausting myself trying to prove I’m enough and not being enough for me. I like me.

@Illuminance33 4 года назад

I just discovered you today! I found a place to stand! Thank you for sharing your experience and your wisdom. You are absolutely right!!! "when you commit to be the best version of you then people perception of you will have less than an impact ever before" the light just turned on, thank you!

@cmh7377 5 лет назад

Confirmation 🙌🏾 Thank you. I’m going to be committed to myself like never before. God Bless you ♥️

@markedanewby8285 5 лет назад

I sooo love you!!💪💪💖💖This is right On time!!

@nisreenmalhis90 5 лет назад

Trust myself and trust the process of growing and flourishing. Thank you Lisa. You are Awsome🙏

@janicesutton3938 5 лет назад

Thank you for sharing as well as your grandmothers words of wisdom and inspiration.💞

@MaritzaRodriguez-ln7nq 5 лет назад

All your messages suit me in making me a better me. Thank you Liza

@OFullah 5 лет назад

Big sis......I needed to hear this. Over the years, I’ve spent my time trying to prove myself and changed the perception of others. It drove me nuts. I’ve come to a realization that my perception is the only one that matters.

@mrsprovarci823 5 лет назад

I needed this today. Thank you

@Bellina8211 3 года назад

Thank you for this! I get so caught up in wanting others to validate my journey or my story. That’s speaking to the fact that perhaps I haven’t completely engaged in it or embraced it. A past people pleasure, I also have to let go of others’ perception and just be me and love the person I’m becoming. I encourage my students to do this but wane in my commitment to self. This is very humbling and empowering. Blessings to you Lisa! 🙏🏽

@AngelaMDavis-tf8tw 3 года назад

After going through trauma and abuse, new levels of awareness have come through hard work. Thanks for another caveat of assistance towards wholeness

@TheKirstyHorn Год назад

Wow the BOL was the analogy of the tug of war. That was so powerful. I love that. Honouring someone is not the same as agreeing with them. You can say I honor and respect that as your opinion of me and that is different to my opinion of me. And that's ok. I commit to developing and evolving me passionately because you can't change others, but you have full control of yourself. I agree wholeheartedly with your grandma and I say it often, someones opinion of you often has very little to do with you and everything to do with them and its none of your business. Tomorrow I will wake up and give myself a big like! Every like after that is optional. Amen Thank you for being my sister in prosperity and possibility.

@cynthiawilliams8495 5 лет назад

Thank you I needed to hear that I have fought with this all my life and now that I'm changing I can see a lot of things I could not see before because of my focus on people opinion of me thanks

@marthabaptiste5399 5 лет назад

I listen to you and grow . Your life is the example of how much our lives can change . Thank you so much.

@tammyjoseph1150 5 лет назад

Thank you so much! Somethings are needed to be declared out loud, I am Enough! All while really understanding “Other people’s preceptions of me really ain’t none of my business. Food for thought

@priya_cutecia 5 лет назад

I have been doing exactly what you tell here in ur show and when I gt to listen it from you..bam!! You sealed it!! U put the stamp on it!! Ur amazing lisa!! Am learning a lot from you. Lots and lots of love your way beautiful ❤️❤️❤️☀️

@eberychifumbe2109 3 года назад

I needed to hear this right now right this minute. Thank you Lisa ❤️

@veronicaatondo3549 5 лет назад

Your words and energy inspire me and move me. Thanks so much for sharing your light 💖😊🌺🌺🌺

@janiskirstein892 5 лет назад

Been watching and hearing you for years. You are a true example of transformation and revelation. Thank you for shining your light.💝

@cpitchford0821 4 года назад

I needed to hear all that you had to say what you had to say. I had to grow up with little guidance from anyone . I was a foster child and I had very little people who really care for me. I had to learn to believe in me and I so glad you said what you in this video clip.

@antoinetteosei7067 5 лет назад

Thank You so much right on point..Lisa Nichols your words hit home and very powerful words..The words are food, for my soul.

@JaclynMcKeown 5 лет назад

Love watching you and hearing you. I relate a lot to your story. To answer your question what I really needed to hear was that with relationships...I notice that I do do things to try to change my parents and siblings and coworkers perception of me....like you said, I cannot change their perception of me. I can honor the opinions they have but I think differently about me. I can stay humble as well as powerful in my womanhood. I am holding my truth to be the best version of myself. You are a Queen.

@reneanorman 5 лет назад

Omg yes yes!!!!! It took me a while to get this. Every now and then I fall back into it.

@abent8313 4 года назад

Thank you for helping me with letting go of other people’s perception of me. Even the people that I am lose to

@lifein226 5 лет назад

Well this really got me... i was one of those who could really worry about how and what people could say about me ..Thank u Lisa.. 😍

@michellemoore925 5 лет назад

The statement, and calmness where you stated "I appreciate your opinion of me . . ." was powerful. I agree it takes the emotion out of the conversation but allows me to keep my power . Thanks for the message.

@timelessvibes3287 5 лет назад

thank you Lisa. you’re a beautiful representation of Mother for all of us. Always encouraging and always a pleasure to hear you speak 🙏🏾♥️

@aldenmayloves 5 лет назад

Thank you Lisa. Putting much concern to what others think/say about me is my struggle. Your message awakens me that I should focus on becoming a better version of me with all humility. Just so sick to prove myself to others and it negatively affects my self-esteem and self-worth. Thank you for reminding that I have nothing to prove.

@sarahmarie-jq7lr 3 года назад

I needed to hear this! Thank you so much.

@minoritynursereportsheet6398 5 лет назад

We need more of Lisa in this world ❤️

@vivekthakurathi1627 5 лет назад

RECEIVED AND FOUND WHAT I WAS LOOKING FOR :) I AM BLESSED AND TOUCHED

@marilyndandggardens5547 5 лет назад

Lisa I just said I'm moving on . It gives me grate joy to be able to stand up and MARCH full steam ahead. Thank you!!

@lillianbalkum5975 4 года назад

Thank you sis! What your grandmother said has been my mantra, and it has given me a new perspective of how to respond to people that dont take the time to get to know me. Sometimes we have to speak over ourselves,especially when we feel that family (inlaws)especially dont except us. I see the God given spirit in you,and receive your life changing wisdom. Thank you so much!

@Ms58Jo 4 года назад

I have learned that I have no control over what people think of me. Nor should I care. Awesome lesson.

@emarosegumaru 4 года назад

The great lesson that I think was for me was that I am enough. 😊❤️Thanks a lot for answering your calling, Lisa!

@jenniferskillings6561 4 года назад

I absolutely love you Lisa!! I am now commited to being myself and letting others be themselves and to not stressing over what they think. I needed to be reminded of this because I have been worried some co-workers might be thinking I'm crazy for standing up to the higher up but now I am reminded that it's just self-care. #BOL PEACE OUT SISTER!!

@lauraortega9986 2 года назад

Thank you Lisa! That was really helpful. I am dealing with other people judgements and i get caught up in trying to prove myself. It is relieving to know that people's opinion have nothing to do with who i am.💞

@zawadi9112 4 года назад

Wow! I have been struggling with that...and today marks the end .Thanks!

@gerrizungolo9308 5 лет назад

Great dialogue.....freedom from others judgement sure feels good. Thanks for the wake-up call!

@teacheranthonyyribeiro 5 лет назад

Simply amazing, Lisa!. Love you! I become wiser by listening to what you have to say. Thanks for sharing 🤗❤ Anthony from Brazil

@shantareid2770 5 лет назад

Looooove this one ...and the look is fab!

@heidielenmesamonsalve3292 2 года назад

Hello Lisa, this is Heidi from Colombia-South America. I'm one of your biggest fans. I admire your courage and your passion. Thank you. You can't even begin to imagine how much you have given me through your inspirational talks. I love you too dear sister.

@queenlorea2094 5 лет назад

I love your words of simplicity and wisdom!💞🌹💯

@teneshiajohnson4212 5 лет назад

Thanks for your encouraging words. I struggle with this I can relate to it. Thanks for the perspective my BOL is the rope example.

@davidsriverajr5549 5 лет назад

Wow, there is so much I wanna say too you about how your messages have helped me and my wife. Such a positive way of dealing with people and ourselves. So, thank you Lisa, THANK YOU!

@mauricedewaal3067 3 года назад

Thanks for sharing this. It good how you bring in the aspect of accepting and respecting the opinion of someone else over you without letting it control you. I've never thought of it in that way. It's very helpful. Thank you Lisa

@kerajj3325 3 года назад

I feel as if you just made me aware of what I needed to understand. Thankyou Lisa!

@marvinfoster20 Год назад

Thank you so much for this video it was right on time. For so long, I have been trying to manage people’s judgment that it has hindered me form ever dating or being in a romantic relationship.

@bibicrom1647 5 лет назад

I needed to hear that its ok to be the most incredible me because in my imperfections i will find the best version of me. Others opinions is not my focus and i dont have to change for no one but me.

@gregorymartin5592 5 лет назад

Thanks Lisa.I needed to hear that. My daughter has been saying that to me recently. Thank You again

@alexiscreates 5 лет назад

Thank you so much, Lisa! I have been struggling with this kind of imposter syndrome as I transition to working for myself. I'm excited for my new journey but I often feel like I need to get the approval of my family and friends. Hearing you say I don't need to defend or explain my actions really struck a chord with me. I need to remind myself that this is my life, and only I know what is best for me. Thanks for the reminder!

@Deekshgupta27 5 лет назад

You are AWESOME Lisa..!! Much Love

@joybrown3602 5 лет назад

I have learned so much from you and I am thrilled of the open door to connect to you. Thank you..........pretty basic right.......but seriously THANK YOU for sharing and pouring into "who so ever will". It is prayers answered on my end. Love and peace to you!!

@trankao4372 4 года назад

Thank you Lisa. I can't tell you how much I appreciate what you're doing. Saying the words of truth in a very loving way, helping people like me stepping towards our better future self. God bless you. It's a NASTY business trying to feel validated or understood. Urgh. I'm done seeking agreement elsewhere but from myself. My job is to love myself and love people regardless of their opinions about me.

@BeautiyForAshes 5 лет назад

THIS IS AWESOME! Ms. LISA , YOU HAVE BEEN AN INSPIRATION EVER SINCE I CAME ACROSS WHO YOU WERE! I FEEL LIKE I HAVE CONNECTED WITH SOMEONE WHO HAS SHARED SUCH PARALLELED CHALLENGES, ESPECIALLY BEING TOO CONCERNED WITH OTHER PEOPLES’ PERCEPTION OF ME...CONSTANTLY TELLING MYSELF THAT THEIR PERCEPTION IS NONE OF MY BUSINESS IS GOING TO HELP ME LET GO OF THAT! THANK YOU FOR BEING A LIGHT IN THIS WORLD AND SHARING YOU WITH US!! BLESSINGS, ALWAYS!!✨✨