How to let your crush know subtly you are interested; and how to tell if he/she likes you 

I feel like dating is still like this. Constant games and everyone's overly insecure.

That moment when both you and your crush like each other back but you're both too shy to talk to each other lmao

I love how you do your videos. It's like really talking to people in a private place, and just giving advice to them. thumbs up!

I don't think I want to ever fall in love again and that I will die alone, there are just way too many rules, and it's exhausting!

I have a theory that texting long conversations early in a new relationship will weaken your bonds. We live in a society that loves immediate gratification. Texting long conversations makes us feel warm and cuddly inside. But there is a problem. We humans use only 7% of our communication in words. So body language and pitch/tone of voice are not stimulated. When we text we have no idea whether or not she/he is actually interested because they can fake it so easily. Then our minds prepare for the worst case scenario and we start to feel less comfortable with the person. By not texting long conversations on the phone your craving for the other person intensifies. You thus try to see them more often and your time spent together is maximized because it is limited unlike texting.

You said looking down might be a sign of being 'uninterested' but it is actually a sign of attraction. When eye contact is made and someone looks down, they are submitting themselves to you and it is a very reliable sign of attraction. -With all respect Matt

kimayla, just smile and wave when you see him, and that's it. If he's not talking to you, don't talk to him. But don't act like you are mad about it. In fact, it would be good if he could see you talking to other guys. But still smile when you see him, so that you look approachable. And now, the ball is in his court.

i love the way you speak the way you give advice almost feels like im sitting next to you and youre directly talking to me thank you so much. i have a crush but its too hard to talk to him but i never noticed him til i started noticing him looking at me.

I love how you whisper to us like we are the only ones who you are talking to

Ask questions about her life..problems or issues she is having. Everybody has "stuff" they are dealing with. And when she figures out you are really there for her, it will help the two of you bond.

-going away party- I bought her lunch, gift, card, movie. We cruised in my camaro and opened it up a little. She was laughing the entire time. I was happy. We had lots of moments were we we're bonding. It went great. And she loved it.

so so helpful thank you! it makes so much sense I understand absolutely where she's coming from and it really does work!

Lol I like the way you were whispering at the start of the video, that was cute! I agree with what you said, your absolutely right. Nice work Thank you.

I froze when I see him, idk what to do...

one time I saw my friend's snap selfie. I told him how did he looked without gel on his hair. he saw my message but didn't responded. but another day he put a picture of how he looked like. I forgot to say he looked cute but I didn't said it because he ignore my message before. :( he always ignores my message but always is nice when he talks to me in person. this is why, even in friends happens this rejection stuff not just crushes. T^T

The one time I smiled at him we had an eye contact flirting moment and he said hi and waved. The problem is I’m not happy enough to smile all the time. I had the luck to see a dog passing by in that moment which made me smile

You have the best advice :) thank u!

u r very insightful and soft spoken and I admire ur delivery. good stuff!

another amazing installment.. you're always spot on "") thank youu for droppin knowledge

I told my crush that I liked him and shortly after he got into another relationship :(

Why am I watching this? I'm in a relationship lmao

thank you. so far you have the best advice 🌹🌻💐🌷💋

I love your advice! You're amazing Marie! :)

Thanks, this video (and some others from you) makes me really calm about my whole situation! I became very nervous and restless, feeling I HAD to do something, like 'time was running out', scared that he gets a girlfriend in the meantime. But I get it; you should just go with the flow. :) Ps: I'm from Holland, sorry if my English seems a little weird.. :P

Thanks so much for the helpful advice😀👍

#best advice giver ever. I love you so much . U are really helpful

Your videos are awesome !

Kitchen, try talking to him online, and then see if he contacts you. After you make the initial contact, the ball is in his court. If he starts texting or messaging you, then yes he could be interested.

Eye contact is everything and than the shy smile and flirt with lifting the eye brows is showing he likes you

thank yoooouuu this was sooo helpful!!! :))))

Thank you MsActor, you are so kind.

you give me hope. i go to a community college and ive been noticing this woman breaking eye contacts when i look up everytime. Idk why i can see he looking with her peripheral, but the only thing that confuses me is that she talks to other guys like nothing, but when im in the room she looks at me, but i act like i don't see her but i can see her looking quickly. idk ive been single for like 2 years im scared to get hurt again.

Thank you Asherxs, I didn't even notice it until I saw your comment!

i like your advice.. very serious and realism

I really appreciate your videos, thank you :)

Sometimes I feel I'm slowly becoming older by the day and that I'll die alone. Well the best part is that I'm prepared for this :)

Hey! don't know if you remember me but i commented on your vids a couple years ago just subbed again to you I've missed watching your advice because it speaks to me so much!!

Thanks, it was just what I needed

I love you!! So wish I found you years ago!

Warren, don't tell her! Because if she doesn't feel the same. And honestly, there are so many changes as that time in your life, you're better off just being friends for now. And you never know, down the road...

Marie, I like this girl whom I had two classes this semester for weeks now. In addition to being co-workers, I also offered my help helping her move to her new house recently. She was really grateful and these days have been helping me a lot at work and we flirted when we text each other. But the thing is, today when we were walking home after work I noticed she was sorta quiet and was unresponsive to our conversation. She was walking urgently and I could feel she was moving away from our conversation space and when I asked her what she was doing this break, she said she'll be alone and asked me if I thought she was introverted. i spoke my mind and after the short conversation she said she had to stop by Walmart out of the blue and we departed seperate ways. Idk, I get this vibe she wanted to avoid me so she went to walmart. Was she ever interested in me? sorry for the long message.

You have a new subscriber from today on :)

She loved it, we were as a group and my sister offered to drive her car...she smiled and got in mine. Every time we are alone...we stare into each others eyes and can't stop smiling. She's very beautiful inside and out. She asks about every girl I've mentioned, she recalls minuet details to non important things. She stays by me, touches me, smiles, and stuff. That tells me she IS paying attention to me. So I am 99% sure she likes me, and I like her.

Your amazing :)

best video ever. thanks.

Hey I have a problem where I felt i was finally getting somewhere with someone on a college course that only lasted like a month and by the end I finally was about to maybe break into something. the chemistry was so strong, and I felt they might've liked me. But then after the course stopped we talked a bit in a group chat but then their phone broke and after about a month it was fixed and by then we lost all contact. We have each other on social media but live far and don't talk. Kinda wounded me, it's like being left on a cliff hanger, this was January.. now I'm just like still missing them nearly every day even though I'm so busy? Please help?

Can I ask you something that's been playing on my mind...... Whenever I walk through the door at work, he never says good morning....I have grown interested in him. He will walk by me lots and I have caught him staring at me but he never intiates conversation. I have asked him questions and he leans towards me and answers....it's confusing me! And I don't know what to do 😥 thinking of giving up as it's upsetting me and it's making me feel uncomfortable at work.....

You have such a nice smile. :-)

Kitchen, don't ask. He is clearly nervous. I would just continue talking to him. The more he is around you, the more comfortable he will be around you. Then, you can have that chat.

Thank you for your videos! What if someone more outgoing gets to my crush everytime we are in a group? I am more shy and reserved. She is very open and hugging everyone especially him. I feel like he doesn't pay attention to me after that.

brandon, I would stay in touch this year, and then ask her out when she comes back over the holidays. And maybe you will work together again next summer.

Sp, I have this crush on this guy who I have never met in person, but we follow each other on Instagram and Snap chat. He always likes my posts on IG and always sees my snaps first, but I have no Idea if he really would like me or have some interest in me. I have been rejected for being attached too quickly, and I really would like to start a conversation with him, but I'm nervous that I will get rejected or Ill scare him off if I say something weird. How do I start communicating with him and get over the nervousness? I have the tendency to like people online since its hard to find someone to talk to in the gay community, and I feel like that's a problem too. any advice?

key is to stimulate human curiosity, organic flirting with out the smell of DESPERADO. SPot on Marie

I'm confused... So this guy last week started the conversation with me and I've been very shy to start it myself. After 20mins I managed to get his phone number to keep him posted on something related to work but he hasn't replied for 2 days. I know he is dating someone but seems as though they're not really committed to each other because the other guy is seeing other guys. What's going on with this? Also, I did ask a different question on another of your videos. I would appreciate your help since I love the way you explain things and I'd like to know your perspective!

She is so right!

I wish you were my auntie or something, you are so awesome:3

Hi! I recently asked u a question about the guy I like on my cousins football team.Havent talked to him yet but I plan on doing so. The past two games he had looked at me a good amount. Also he went up to one of the guys in they team and talked to him for a few seconds then the guy turned around and looked at me then looked at the guy I liked and nodded. So later we made eye contact and I smiled. But he had a really straight face on when I did that. It almost looked kinda mean.

what if we've never spoken?

thanks..though it happen infront my eyes..but i see your point!!appreciate it men!

but what if my crush in my school doesn't even know me we ve never had a conversation

Hi marie, its quite hard to explain but I need your help! I have a friend named Francesca and we are very close. I feel like another girl is trying to compete with me to be Francesca's friend. I try to be friends with the other girl and avoid any competition or tension, but she always leaves me out or treats me badly. What should I do? I dont want any competition, so why cant all three of us be friends?

Sarah, stay friends with Francesca, regardless of what that other girls is doing. If Francesca is a good friend, she won't allow someone else to influence her friendship with you.

Congrats on the 500th video!

Hi Marie, I am having trouble trying to find out if someone likes me. I can't tell whether she is interested in me. I mean there are times in which she has asked me for a hug and times when she doesn't. However, when I have asked her to do things she has always said sure or yes but still she is hard to read in my opinion. I need some advice

Sam, it is never too late. But is there a connection? Because I think you both would have felt that right away. If you have to contact her, or approach her a lot more than she initiates conversation with you, then she probably isn't interested.

I got broken up with by my boyfriend a few weeks ago, and I think that I am in love with my best friend and I don't know if he likes me back in the same way. How can you tell if your best friend likes you the same way? Also is it ok to move on from a relationship after 3 weeks of being broken up?

Hi Marie, so I have a crush on a guy one year older than me. The only problem is that he is my father's employee. My dad has a physiotherapy clinic and the guy I like work as a receptionist there. Should I forget him already or should I still try to get to know him? Also, if I may get to work at the clinic. If I work there, do I stay the "boss' daughter" or can I be more of a coworker for him? Please help me!

you always remind me of avril lavigne's mom! gorgeous video

My crush is my great mates pt client. Hes opening his own fitness Centre soon and she's coming to it. Im doing administration work for him at the centre and keep thinking I'll never get the chance to talk with her outside of all this fitness thing.. We've had about 3 conversations on Facebook that were 20 seconds. Spotted each over in the gym and had little to say the both of us. Both of us have avoided talking in the same group class in the old gym, we just cant start and keep it going.

Hi Marie! there is a guy in my Jazz band, who I know is very shy, but he is always staring at me, and always holding the stare for a longer period of time than a normal stare would be. Also, when the session is finished, he almost gravitates around me, walks near, doesn't leave a certain radius from me....does he like me?

Hi Marie, is it ok to touch them lightly while talking to them?

Alright guys im gonna ask this girl I like out on the last day of class May the girl have mercy on me

hey marie, this girl likes me and she knows I like her too, yesterday I made the biggest mistake, she came up to me and said she likes me but I said "I don't like anyone"..... She said "that's weird" and walked away.. we have known each other for 4 years but we rarely talk. How do I tell her that I like her???

Renee, find some way to talk to him, even if it is in a group situation, when a bunch of you are standing around in the hall. And then, the ball is in his court. What I mean is, talk to him a little, not too much, and see if he approaches you.

Hi so this guy that I have been talking to for a while hasn't talked to me in about a month. What should I do?

music, this is a great opportunity for you to text him, Facebook him, whatever, and ask how he is doing. That you all miss him and hope he gets better soon. And then see if he texts you after that!

Marie your advices are so authentic.. I must ask you i met the girl that i like in a club but i didn't go upon her like i did in the past but until me talking to her she made clear that she was there, (with glances etc) eventually i went to say hi.She responded me and she took me to the bar to order a beer and then after me tasting it she went away immediately claming her friends were staring at her and she had to go, later i went again to say goodbye..What is your opinion about my moves?

So this junior and I have been texting and it's quite obvious we are both interested it just isn't official yet but there's also this boy in 10th grade (I'm in 10th too) and he likes me and since it's summer he doesn't like see me with the junior so how do I let him down easy?

MARIE I HAVE A QUESTION. i liked this girl almost a year now shes known i liked her. marie do you think it is too late at this point

Hi! What is your thought on dating a guy from a different high school? I am doing cyber school temporarily because I move a lot and am about 30 minutes away from his school. I was going to have my cousin talk to him for me but he wont so I am planning on introducing myself the next football game. So just wondering about dating people from different schools. Thanks!!

Ok so me and this girl have be best friends for like a year now and we barley see each other out of school but it seems like she gets all jeleous when I date someone like she dosent like me any more..... And I really like her what should I do

What if you watched this video too late and have already been showing all kinds of anxiousness and desperation to your huge crush. Now what? It's all wrecked? :-(

hey I have this guy in my 3rd period class and I'm afraid he doesn't like me what do I do?

Ok I need advice and obviously I've stooped low enough to RU-vid but you look and seem very wise so PLZ help.

Tristen, you've got to distance yourself from her...until you can look at her as a friend only. and that will happen. At some point you will probably wonder what you ever saw in her! But until then, try to meet new people. Because otherwise, you will continue to be hurt, because you will see her with other guys and she will continue to look at you as only a friend.

Hi Marie, we spoke before, like I told you I am deeply in love with my housemate, things now are getting normal, we are friends again, but I dont want to be in that friend zone, I just want to find the right occasion to say to her how she made me feel and how special she is for me, but i never see that moment, she doesnt want to go out just with me alone. Before I started to have feeling for her, she know i mess around with few women. Dont know what to do ? and i cant really see that she is interesting on me like maybe it was in the very beginning !!! Regards

how would I know if he's playing with my heart or being serious with me.

How do I talk to your crush when she"a around her friends?

Hey great advice. I just have a question though. there's this girl at my job that I like. But we barely talk because were in different departments. But when she sees me , she always says hi to me and gives me a smile. Theres times when she passes by me and she looks down at her phone. Is she interested in me ?

If i always text him, should i wait till he texts me first? he never does

Hi Marie! I have a question. My crush is going away to college very soon and I really want to tell my crush I feel. But I don't if I should tell my crush how I feel or just stay friends because my crush is going away soon. Please help.

Tyreke, don't ask her out yet. Just be friends with her to make sure she feels the same way. A lot of things change in high school.

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how do you deal with someone who denies their feelings for you? how can you tell that they are?

Hey, just as Warren has said...my crush is leaving to go back to college. Shes out of state and I'm still in town. I am her boss, and at first she was just ok..even annoying at times. Over summer,things changed. I spent as much time with her as possible..went as far as switching shifts almost every time, hanging out when I couldn't make a switch,etc

hey there marie :) okayy so i need help there are a couple of guys who tend to freak me out, some of whom are way older than me. i feel like i need some sort of protection like a fake boyfriend but the thing is i dont have any guy friends i would look for others but the only one who seems intimidating is someone who i have complications with. what do i do? theyre not dangerous and i cant speak with them because i cant face them. please help

ieod, I really don't believe in that friend zone thing, where if you don't act fast enough, you get stuck in it. I truly believe if you are meant to be together, you will be. Remember, chemistry happens right away, and then you build the relationship around that.

I have a connection with someone ( I think) I want to ask him out but sacred. I don't want to make things awkward if doesn't feel the same.

I wish females would realize your subtle, indirect cues on letting males know they are interested really doesn't work. Most guys don't catch on to weak misleading mixed signals.

In school I have a crush but it's wired because I'm friends with people that know her and she is popular and I don't want to mess up our friend ship what can I do btw I'm in middle school