Some random tips i learned 1. Virgin Olive oil or castor oil for your lashes in an empty mascara container is a MUST everyday for 1 or 2 weeks. It will make your lashes longer and curly 2. Being a bad bleep doesn't mean you have to be rude for no reason at all. It means you know your worth and you are confident and you love youself ofc 3. Fake it until you make it. I was not confident at all, but i faked it until i made it. It works trust me. 4. Being popular is not about having terrible grades and being cool. 5. Cheap rings. You will loose them anyways. 6. A little red lipstick ''inside'' your lips and lip gloss on top works like MAGIC 7. Be whoever you want. We will die anyways.
that took a bit of a dark turn tho don't you think.... BTW I LOVE YOUR VIDS YOU GAVE ME SUCH A CONFIDENCE BOOST!!! I ALWAYS WATCH YOUR VIDS AND I NEED MOREEEE!! I USED TO WAKE UP AT 7:30AM AND LITERALLY ALWAYS HAD NO TIME FOR SCHOOL AND LOOKED SO UGLY WHEN I WENT BUT KNOW I WAKE UP AT 6AM AND I LOOK MUCH MORE FRESH!! LOVE YOUUUUUUUUUUU
When I walk I always look to the ground... I simply feel that I don't have the right to walk like I "own the place" because it's like people are going to judge me and think "she's not good enough to walk like that, she looks weird". I don' t know, it just makes me kinda sad
Nah, hell no girl u better walk like u own that place, other people's opinions doesn't make u money, u gotta stop caring abt them judging u, people are going to judge u either way, + their judgment reflect their own insecurities, jealousy... and by the way you ARE enough, worthy and precious. Wear what makes u feel good , do what u think is actually helping u grow, i got something that may help you, it's going to be hard, scary but worth it, u get a paper and u right (*write lol) in top "what would i do if..." exp: what would i do if i was confident (or if love my body...) and your write at least 30 things each on of it is a daily challenge. Hope it helps and again U ARE GOOD ENOUGH.
Dont care abt em you ARE good enough to be walking like that,Don't let those jealous people get to you!,I've tried walking like I own the place and it really makes you confident,give it a try!
I used to think that way kinda too. I dont exactly remember how I overcame this but like I used to slouch and look at the ground, until my friend told me I looked weird walking that way erm then I realized it actually did. look nobody cares. nobody cares how you walk unless u walk weirdly so if u got that grand, lovely, pace -- they wouldn't be callin you arrogant until and unless they r jealous. plus if someone judges you for walking like a queen then fuck em they ain't the right ppl
Here is another tip: Always surround yourself with good people and good influnces. Do not hang out with people who are bad and do drugs. Instead, make new friends who are nice and encourage you!
“don’t be shy” 🤡 Something an extrovert would say. Trust me, if it were that easy I would have a bunch of friends by now. I can’t just get rid of my social anxiety, sorry.
I'm an introvert, and I got over being shy pretty early on. It's mostly about lifting yourself up by knowing your worth. If someone doesn't agree with how you are, it's their problem, not yours. When you go to talk with someone, convince yourself it won't be that bad. If it *is* that bad, then whatever. You can convince yourself again next time! Every time you do that, you gain more experience and it gets easier the next time. You learn more about how to talk to others and are more used to doing it. Try not to worry, you got this! It takes some time to break out of your shell, and you will never be the same person to others than you are to yourself, but just believe in yourself and stay calm. You got this! ❤️
@@dionabutshemakesplaylists social anxiety, shyness, introversion are 3 different things. Sadly, I just happen to have social anxiety. I can’t throw it in the trash or break out of my shell. Trust me i try to every year but it makes me super uncomfortable and I just turn red. Maybe next school year will be my time tho. Idk. I just can’t stay calm sorry.
@@evxelyxn That's completely fine! I had assumed that you were mostly just shy, but I agree, social anxiety and shyness are definitely very different. I've never really had to go through social anxiety myself, so I can't really understand your situation. I have heard that some people deal with anxiety with calming scents or other techniques. Maybe something like that could help? Anxiety sucks, so hopefully you can overcome it! And don't forget to always believe that you can, because that's true!
As a very shy and introverted person (but very loud and bubbly when with close friends), keeping my head up when entering the classroom helps a lot! As well as smiling and practicing a good posture while sitting, walking, standing, etc. I used to always slouch, but because I’m in uni now, I wanted to change for the better and one of my new friends told me that her impression of me is that I am a very bubbly and friendly but shy person, who’s also elegant in a way she said was hard to describe but she said that I just give off that energy (maybe because of my now good posture?) Oh! And I used to always deny that I liked wearing makeup but it was just because I was shy and not confident enough, but now, I wear it everyday, I even retouch in the classroom every now and then😅 It’s purpose? Of course it’s not just to look fresh, but to look pretty for myself as well😉💘 So just, be you, do what you love, be with the people you usually hangout with but don’t forget to explore and meet other people (I made friends with people who I once thought are way out of my league to be friends with, but they turned out to be really kind and caring friends, they also helped me get out of my comfort zone) lastly… GURL/BOI, DO THE THINGS YOU ALWAYS WANTED TO DO STARTING TODAY WHILE YOU’RE STILL YOUNG!! Wear makeup, dress the way you want to, try out new things…making memories is a must!💖
omg you gave me so much inspiration, it's very hard for me to make friends, firstly BC I'm shy and introverted and secondly I'm not pretty or attrative, which is probably why people don't talk to me. And I really hope ppl come up and talk to me, BC I'm shy to start a conversation
@@ralthefish1880 Omg it’s an honorrrr!🥰 And oh believe me, I think I looked ugly before, but now that I’m in a much more healthier & happier mental state, I can see the beauty in me rather than just getting jealous by others’ beauty. Also, sometimes, it’s YOU who has to start the conversation-just be you (i tried pretending to be a different person before, it was exhausting and not fun at all)
“Dont be shy” is much easier said than done for most. Some tips for overcoming shyness/anxiety is start off my saying small things to people randomly, like asking someone for a pencil or where something is. It can really help you practice talking to people and baby steps is the best way to overcome anxiety. Dont be too stressed about it. Also maintain good posture, try to make eye contact, and smile. It will make you seem more friendly and people may talk to you more often.
i am a 12 year old girl and i have a fear of being myself. i am afraid of what every single person thinks of me, one glance and i think, “do they think i’m ugly?”. Every school day i have to deal with people calling me “big nose” because i have a nose bump. i always try to convince myself that i am gorgeous, but it’s hard. it’s hard when i’m being convinced by stupid middle school boys that i’m ugly and unattractive. it makes me feel unhappy with myself. every time i go to the school about it, it’s always the same thing. “they are just learning”. Learning to beat others up with their words and not giving too cares about what they are putting out to let the world hear? not an excuse, in my opinion. but whatever. i am watching this video because i want people to like the way i look. i’m terribly jealous of the popular rich pretty girls at my school, they seem to be liked by everyone. i hope one day, that i will be able to just be myself and feel true happiness with myself. if you are struggling with something similar or different, just know, your not alone, and whoever makes you feel that way, is jealous of you or is trying to make you feel bad for them to feel better. but the truth is, when they make you feel bad, it really doesn’t, make them feel better. they think it will, and that’s why they say stuff, because they want to feel better, as well. ❤
You're only 12. Don’t loose your precious time thinking about how you look. Focus on your happiness, hobbies, time. I hope you will have a great Teenage, girl. You will be the queen in your teenage.
I’m 12 too lol. I’ve never experienced that and people say I’m pretty but I think I’m ugly lol so I just wanna be confident. And those stupid people just don’t see the true beauty that’s hidden in u. Your gorgeous I bet! And nose bumps- there’s nothing wrong with them- I have one. You rock gurl- don’t listen to those people!
i’m 13 and last year i thought negative things about myself but i learned that everyone who had made fun of me and called me ugly didn’t feel good about themselves, it’s better to just ignore them and realize how they are making you feel, i hope you’re doing better now
No I don't think it really works ...it is often so harmful for us...we loses our own self respect...we start doing the things for others and they might be not good for our own selves 😢 be yours not of others...it's our own life no one can imply their rules 🥺🥺 I think so
@@azkasmavy232 We shouldnt do stuff for others, I'm also shy at first when I dont know them but when they ask if I can do something for them I choose to ignore them or look away. They stay quiet afterwards
more tips to be popular -always participate in any activities -dont say bad words it will make others think your mean -dont use your phone alot it will make your eyes tired -wear clothes like you arent insecure about your body like they say your body your rules -read books more often this will help you in your studies and you might never know you might top the class -drink 8-10 glasses of water everyday others will think you have a healthy lifestyle and you will be a role model to them dont be insecure like i was before, you are amazing and great no matter what, be strong
I have little to no self confidence, and I hate it. I'm awkward, insecure, and struggle with standing up for myself to ppl who r naturally on the mean side. Hopefully these tips can help lessen my social anxiety for the upcoming school year😧
More tips! :)) (specifically for school) 1) paint your nails!! (If you aren’t allowed then use clear nail polish to make your nails shinier) 2) keep your hair brushed/ clean 3) clear your hair/shower/bathe every other day because every day will ruin it! 4) have a long/ relaxing sleep 5) don’t wear too much makeup! If you want to wear it, wear mascara, lipgloss ( not sticky or coloured too much!) and some powder 6) keep your skin moisturised and healthy, skincare is a daily, twice a day thing to do!! 7) keep your teeth brushed and clean 8) if you have no uniform, wear clothes that make you feel comfortable and look good! Don’t try and go against the dress code, it does not make you cool. 9) if you have uniform, don’t try change it too much, if you can then wear small things like leg warmers (with skirts) and bracelets 10) keep your head held high and have good posture! (Don’t act like you own the place though or you will probably get teased) 11) have a decent and not too large main friend group but branch out a bit to others! 12) don’t be rude or start fights, again it doesn’t make you cool, you just look stupid and get into trouble 13) get a cute bag and accessorise it with pins/badges if you want! :) 14) wear body spray/perfume and deodorant EVERY day! (Don’t go too over the top just so you smell nice)
I always walk with my head high and a good posture, just because it's what I'm used to doing, and it makes people respect you more for being aware of your manner.
I’ve got absolutely horrible social anxiety. Every time I walk down the hallway it feels like I’m being stared at. When people are laughing around me I feel like they’re making fun of me. Over long breaks I feel like my friends hate me. It’s so scary. I’m trying to work on it though. The posture thing luckily hasn’t been an issue for a while, since I started doing baton. But confidence is really something that needs work
as dramatic as it sounds id really suggest to get therapy if u have the option or at least try to see where this originates from and find a solution based on that. if it helps u maybe tell urself things like its not always about u and people usually mind their own business? its kinda mean lol but it helped me. besides that the thing with confidence is that no one knows if its real or not. as long as u fake it u can be as anxious as u want inside. i hope itll get better for u
@@alanerrrrofavalor you can watch videos of therapists on RU-vid for free. It worked for me and also learning a little psychology behind human behaviour might help. God bless you. You're a beautiful person inside and outside. Keep shining 🌟
Don't try to be popular. Just be who you are. Aim to be known as more kind x nice than "popular". Being popular comes with a lot of cons. I witnessed that first-hand as I am close friends with someone who is so popular that now she has severe trust issues and mental health problems. Being attractive is not only your looks, more importantly, it's also how you present yourself.
reminder! your here to learn, not for fame. i used to always wish to be popular but i realized chasing after the popular girls wasn't really gonna benefit me. but if you truly wish to be popular go right on ahead! just wanted to remind you
I’ve learned through switching schools every one or two years that if you really enjoy the area you’re working in, the friends you have and the subjects you’re learning, you will excel in school/ the subject and get better grades. Every time I didn’t like where I was or felt uncomfortable, stuck and lonely, I burnt out and my grades dropped. So either fake it till you make it, or become truly confident and make the school your own. Find genuine and better people to hang out with (I mean those who don’t brag or put you down constantly as a “joke”) and look on the bright sides. Also, I found that having a hobby or genuine interest in something you’re willing to learn more about in your free time can either distract you, or give you the motivation to keep going. Either way, do what you want to do. You’re doing great and I love you
one thing i learned is that its okay to be introverted. Im an introvert but in school i always try to appear more extraverted by making myself insanely uncomfortable with talking infront of everyone and doing crazy things so people think im cool and i wanted to be just like my extra extraverted friend but im me and thats perfect. Remember you dont have to be a certain way.
@@ralthefish1880 I think with the right friends I’ve turned myself into an extrovert but I think it’s just my adhd with my friends. I also got more comfortable around my classmates in all classes so it’s easier to talk.
Finally! This is the first time some one is saying the truth abt being popular unlike all those movies we see...that being popular doesn't only mean wearing pink and pink, applying tons of makeup, getting low grades at school etc.
Confidence! Confidence really is key. I'm not an ugly person, but when im just sitting there having a panic attack in the middle of class in complete silence nobodys going to think im hot lmao. i figured out by just talking to people (as difficult as it is.) i had a lot more people interested in me :) Even like a small group of friends to be openly confident around helps a lot.
Another suggested tip: If other people make you feel less, then don't think whatever they're thinking about you, think of how unique and amazing you are. Always think that you are MORE than just enough.
A lot of these are easier said than done. I’m one of the quiet kids at school. My guess is that most people think I WANT to be left alone and not socialize but it’s really the opposite. I want to talk and hang out with the rest of my classmates but they never seem interested in talking to me, and I’ve tried initiating conversations with people so idk what to do at this point. I don’t know what’s wrong with me but… whatever I guess.
Me too i'm so quiet at school and i think every day when i will leave this school i have 3 years but now 2 years to study,i hope you got a lot of friends be brave ❤
its ok to have emotions and personality not everybody is extroverted and loud, its ok to take time to warm up to people, you dont need to be friends with everybody either its ok to not be overly nice
Remeber that it's ok to be shy. Just because you're shy not talkative or "popular" doesn't mean you're not attractive. And trust me shy and "unpopular" kids are literally amazing. And as the "quiet shy kid with social anxiety" just saying hi or being nice to shy people really makes their day trust me. And when you get to really know them, its even better
Thank you, your are simply amazing, and I love how you basically know every thing you need to know to have some glowups! You are beautiful as well! Thank you, lysm!
anyone wondering about the vasceline on eye lashes, I have been doing it for months and it makes them darker, longer and healthier. I use mascara and curl my lashes during the day, then at night I use vasceline! It works 1000%
ormer popular kid who’s now in college here!!! here’s what i can say/the advice i can give 1. grades are a plus but don’t matter as long as you’re attractive and somewhat problematic 2. people will pick appart your physical appearance and you may get extradited for not looking your best 3. being in a sports team is a one way ticket to popularity whatever popularity you had in high school will be gone practically overnight once you graduate and step out of that high school for the first time, so don’t get too comfortable + honestly it wasn’t worth it lol, too much drama
One tip from me is that when you walk, walk with good posture, chin up and don't be stiff. Look relaxed even if you don't feel relaxed. Fake it till you make it babes. At first maybe wear headphones with phonk music on. And walk on beat and imagine you are walking in those supermodel edits. Think as if you are in a movie, edit, drama etc. Keep going like this and then slowly take off your headphones but keep the whole music and vibe in your head. HELPS ALOTT
You have earned yourself a bueatiful subscriber! Ty for all the advice. It's so weird how people actually know this without other people telling them. That's how people learn but some people just..know! Anyway thx so much!
Very hard to do some of these (me) -Not be shy -dont say sorry -find main group of friends -stand up for what I believe -ask for help -trust gut feelings -act confident -write down my feelings (always think someones gonna read it) -be myself(wanna be like that nice girl to get friends) -have nails done (i bite my nails) Your tips are great its just hard for me
🥺🥺🥺 ohhh ...but yeah ....you can find your own way, any other unique trait that can help you to improve your personality 🙃... because it's you ....and must have some rare ability 🙂
@@azkasmavy232 yeah.. I struggle from social anxiety and it sucks. Not really the talking to people I know but i feel like im always being judged and im the weirdo kid who doesnt talk. All my feelings bottle up in my head and i never tell anyone.. sorry for making a paragraph 😞
@@B4NGCH4NN don't say sorry..I can understand it's hurting when you underestimate your own self....but listen...no one is 100% perfect....and those tiny stupid things you see in yourself as WORST must not be seen by the people you feared about ....so don't worry 🥺🥺🥺
Soo, I wrote down my feelings not too long ago about everyone, everything and I left my book at my friends house and they looked thru it, took photos of it and sent it to ppl, we sorted it out but that just reminded me of that
about the dont wear the same clothes everyday thing, this kid at my school always wears blue hoodie basketball shorts paper mask mid top/high top shoes and hes one of the most funny and popular kids at my school
@@Celestial_Ocean yeah most likely, people usually get popular for have a specific trait that sticks out like being the meanest,the nicest, the best looking, etc. ^^
kindie: pink beads 1st: blue beads 2nd: rainbow beads 3rd: white and clear beads 4th: black beads 5th: black and clear beads 6th: black beads 7th: wooden beads 8th: clear beads already ahead of you
some people think you need good grades to be attractive or popular, no u dont when I was in 5th grade I was popular for doing a mimicry of a cartoon character and I eventually became popular at school and that lasted for whole 3 years aka till 8th grade! so dont think that way and do something u are proud of. maybe some people might even like your talent.
2:19 Ik it won’t be corrected but doing drugs/ drinking isn’t cool. People might see it as cool cause it really isn’t. It just damages you and it’ll be difficult to get rid of the addiction in the future
I'm about to walk to school with this cute beanie i made and for some really I feel anxious hopefully I'll overcome that fear today because I wanna express myself and not give af about others opinions on me
Friendly reminder: You can still be shy or introverted at school! I mean, people say: fake it until you make it but, if you really feel like you need alone time or even time to be introverted then be so, because faking it until you make it is okay. But just remember that you still need to be yourself and don't take it too far to the point you are not your true self. -love you! 💗
Hmm. As a somewhat introverted and socially awkward person who is louder and more comfortable around people I’m close with, I think this really helps! Though i was a little surprised that I did a lot of the things I was told not to do in the video lol. Most of the time I just fake it until I make it and pretend not to care when people tease me about my body and stuff. It doesn’t always work but I find that I do seem to forget about it after a certain amount of time so-? I’ll make sure to try to do these things so I can at least try to appear more put together and like I have my life together even if I really don’t. Oh and does anyone have some tips about insecurity? I feel ugly basically everyday haha.I am *extremely* insecure about practically every inch of myself so I would really appreciate anything that could help!
tips on a natural makeup look, i’m 17 and i’ve worn makeup before but like heavy eyeliner and stuff. this whole school year i haven’t work any makeup yet but i do want to start but i want a natural look :)
Ok, say, ur crush saw this video and she/he saw that the creator of this video said: “don’t chase anyone” even if, they liked u, they’ll never chase u bc of this video! And youll never chase them so basically, no one’s gunna make a move and y’all are gunna never find out how you like eachother😱
First of all, when I saw this video, it's actually related to me because I am actually an elegant type of people, and also I don't do eyelashes and chapstick because my eye type is cat eyes, and I wore mask bc COVID still here
So I just had to drop this I am extremely shy I just feel insecure most of the time and there's no one to talk to because people would laugh it of and say be confident like its just "normal" for me I really dont know how to be confident because I'll always be judged so basically I feel way too insecure of myself to be confident
I go to school to learn (but still fails)...so I never really cared about personality...but what you always need is manner and common sense. Thats not what I was thought but I learned it myself :) This is not a tip but how i feel about personality☺
Some of these were a bit discouraging Because I really wanted to be myself. Like I am still shy and sensitive, and people always say I'm very sweet and I like it that way. I also don't want to put mascara on or put too much on because I have very big eyes and they're kind of a rare colour and they are just too gorgeous. 😔💌 Also, schools have rules, you know ! And it's important for you to follow them. Like if it's a school for royals, you cannot paint your nails. Only natural tan colours if you really want to paint them. But the most discouraging one in this video was the "signature hairstyle". Everyone wants to do a different hairstyle. It just cannot be the same one over and over again or else it gets very tiring for the head. We need to do different hairstyles, like hair buns for Ballet, Braids if you want to go swimming, Or a hairstyle that no one had done ever. Kind of like making your own. It is fun doing different hairstyles. Just don't Make your head tired and hurt with the same hairstyle. Please be careful not to hurt yourself all the time.
Im surely gonna try these...i'll just start them from today cuz tommorow is my school starting cuz we were having winter break and i really wanted these kind of tips....thank u soo much! I subbed!😊😊😊😊🥰
Change myself to impress others: ⛔ Change myself so I can simp for the cute girl in the mirror: ✅ Oh and a tip for when you can't maintain eye contact: just look at the other person's unibrow 🤣 or at the bridge of their nose
THANKS FOR THE TIP BECAUSE I CANT LOOK AT SOMEONE IN TH3 EYE OR ELSE WHAT ILL BE LOOKING AT IS THEIR DETAILED IRIS CUZ IM INTRESTED IN EYES ITS SO BEAUTIFUL AND GORGEOUS
hi, can you please make a vid for how to improve your performance in school- i really need it- REALLY i tried to improve but nothing works our science teacher gave me one work and i messed up so badly that i- aHem- i hope you can make one-
Some of these really depend on where you're from. Where I'm from, shyness is seen as something beautiful and attractive. Obviously, still have confidence and speak up for yourself, buy don't be so loud and shove yourself into everything. That's frowned upon where I'm from.
