How to Look Polished & Put Together 

My grandma too 💟

My grandmother taught me to be simple yet polished. My mother taught me to embrace my natural beauty, not to try and “fix” it. I’m grateful for both lessons.

Does she still have good soft hair?

Are you enjoying it? I know I am! I work somewhere where I don't necessarily have to look nice or put together whatsoever and I let myself go for a few months. Now I'm taking the time to think about an outfit I feel nice in and do something different with my hair just for fun. I'm loving it and I think my husband is too!

I AM enjoying it. It makes a statement about who I am as a woman. The women with tattoos, piercings, green hair and men’s clothes aren’t the only ones who can make a statement with their clothes. Lol.

@@sklanguage589 Yaaaaaaaaaas

You go girlfriend

SK Language oh how wonderful!!

I agree with you 100%

Brina Lee absolutely right 👌👌👌👌

yes keeping your shit together helps your life and the lives of everyone who comes into contact with you!

Yes! Self care is soooo important. We have to love and take care of ourselves

Totally agree my grandmother and mother always go "fixed up for them and to hell with everyone else opinions "

Braty Baby FACT

🤭 what a cute way of describing her

Same here! I only wear jeans for plane travels. Dresses and skirts most days for the past 10 years!

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Rachael D. That's great. My mother didn't teach me it, had to learn it myself. My mom still don't wear them 😉

My mom told me to before I started going through my rebellious teenager thing. I didn't listen to her after that and learned the hard way. Always wear your shape wear kids. Especially biker shorts. Lol.

I did this with my daughters when they were little❤

YES! I love to dress simple and non distracting. It makes me feel like my natural beauty shines through. If I’m wearing makeup it’s additional spf via a tinted moisturizer, some mascara, and a tinted lip balm (again with extra spf).

Also if you add a nice heel to it. Would elevate the Outfit soooo much more. Heels make the big difference.

FreddyMyLove is a beautiful RU-vidr who has a video on how to style jeans in a more feminine way. That’s for anyone who wants tips.

I agree

Yes!!!!:D

Yes! :)

Yesss pleaseee

Yaaaaas!

I would love this too!

This is really empowering. I’m often afraid to wear nice clothes in public in fear of being seen as “stuck up”. I’ve actually started getting ready and trying to look nice every day and I’ve noticed that I’m much more productive. I also started wearing dresses out in public which is something I’ve been scared to do for yearsss. But it’s nice to know that someone else “dresses up”, or puts in a good amount of effort everyday. I feel like less of an outcast now hahah :)

McKenna Loree’ I agree with you! Except for the gym wear. Gym wear is okay to wear while doing an activity that requires it, like going to the gym or running around the block. Also, my femininity icon is Grace Kelly. She is just so elegant, feminine, and an absolutely natural beauty. We have very similar hair color, body types, coloring, and wardrobe preferences. Plus, she married a prince and became a princess! Who else is better to get my inspiration from? I highly recommend looking her up.

Same happens to me when I dress up, i got the the point when I would dress down a little bit when I know I am going to meet some people who dont dress up at all because I know that would make them feel uncomfortable and to avoid their comments but I think im gonna stop caring because I know is just jelosy.

Seass finally someone like me.I felt sometimes alone.Yes, love to skirts and dresses.They are beautiful and make us feel good

I also live in Manhattan and this is true!

I am from germany and FINALY someone who understands me!!! Jeans and trousers are just sooo uncomfortable, even when they are stretchy or sth🙄 👗👗👗✊🏻

I thought I was the only one who can’t stand jeans, dresses + skirts ftw

I am 25...n i think she is way more mature than me😂

I’m wearing my apron and baking a loaf of sourdough!

me too :D I got into 50's inspired clothing a couple years ago and I haven't looked back since! The way the clothes were made back then create a lovely hourglass shape, and high waisted shorts are so much more comfortable than mid rise that cut off at the same place as men's pants do, makes total sense that certain cuts work better on women!

BabydollyVintage Totally agree. I have an hourglass figure and, even though I’m a healthy weight and I do everything to be healthy, I do have a little bit of fat on my belly and in my thighs. Wearing high-rise pants and shorts shows off my curves and pulls everything in to give me a very feminine silhouette. I’ve never liked mid- and low-rise pants because they don’t work for my body type and I, personally, think that it can look really strange on women because of where our natural waistline falls. It’s like women today want to move their waistline or something. Also, these new t-shirt dresses that just remove all shape from your body just seem silly to me. It makes no sense for a woman to wear a dress, a feminine piece of clothing, and just have a straight piece of fabric with no shape and, usually, no pattern either. I have a couple but I always wear them with a belt at my waistline to give it some shape. The women of the 50s knew that women’s natural curves are something to be embraced, not hidden. I don’t know what happened.

I love vintage and retro fashion. I like the 40s and 50s also.

Yeah! Historical fashion gives me so much inspiration to modest classy dressing.

I wear vintage, classic and retro style clothing.

I love the "belle epoque" style. I have patterns from the 1980s with that feel. I look forward to getting my sewing/craft stuff organized so I can make some clothes that really fit and look well. Thank you for your videos, they are so helpful and remind me of how I used to be and want to be again. ♥️

I mean you can just wear them anyway! I feel like vintage is always in style

Ditto! I love the fashion of 15 century, 1830, 1860, 1930 and 1950. Wish i could wear those kind of outfits.

👏🏼🥰 yasssss

CarolinadiPadova Yes true.Thank You! I could add that If a woman doesnt have Grey hair,why do her hair in another colour? Natural can be incredible classy.Oh or these hair colours which are very close to the natural colour seem a good idea.

Thank you! I found this very helpful! I have black hair. My mum told me last year to buy a black handbag because I buy only one. She likes only black bags. But I see tan handbags everywhere in the fashion circles and I bought a tan one. I always felt like it didn't complete my outfits and now I understand why. I'm going to buy a black one this time.

As a blond what colour should i go for? Update: Nevermind. I tried light/middel brown bags- shoes and i think they are better than black for us.

I hope ur doing better!God has u and he loves u!

@ hello my feminine sisters down south

I feel the same 🙌 Brazilian sister here. It's amazing to know we're not alone

Adel Heine me too! Hello South African sister ❤️🇿🇦

Hi from South Africa too🙋‍♂️

A fellow South African in Australia saying hello!

How has the clear out gone? I recently emptied my wardrobe and I'm so happy I did 🤗 Hope you're having fun with it! X

I feel that too in Brazil. Glad to know I'm not alone! :)

@@juliecopernik3434 nosso país é puxado kkkkk (e nossa, brasileiros tão por tudo mesmo)

Ms. Mom ~ May I ask, do you have a brand preference for nude tights / hosiery? Ahead of time, thank you so very much!

No Nonsense from Amazon. I prefer a sheer but not sparkly pantyhose. I'm also pale so these also work in my favor.

@@nachogirlbrey5878 No nonsense is great pantyhose. I wear them to sometimes even though I prefer stockings. They hold up well and are very cost efficient.

Yes agreed!👍🏻

As long as we bring the polished energy into our outfit, it doesnt matter what ur wearing tbh

squishy booty I understand the point you’re making. I, however, do slightly disagree. I am in unanimity with you believing that energy matters. The distinction for me is believing it is also about the state in which we position ourselves. When energy it truly harnessed it effects how we choose to show up in the world. We intuitively desire to show up as our best selves.

I miss that too. I am reinventing ting myself and who cares if others think I am overdressed. It's my money. My life. My well being

Hi my fellow Dutchie ;)

@@kuki2349 Hey!! Wat leuk zeg :D

I was the same, started getting into dresses and makeup at about 18. I felt self conscious dressing more feminine for a while, but then it just became my new normal 😊

Muslima 101 yay! I was hoping I put it up in time for my UK sisters to catch 😍

that would be awesome