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Many women struggle with making a man fall in love with them. they believe that to make a guy fall in love with you requires aggressive, direct action. They believe that in order to make him fall in love, she must impress him with her awesome traits.
The truth is that to make a guy fall for you, it must be done unintentionally... at least the illusion of it.
Most women don't struggle with making him want you, it's the love that's the problem. To make a guy love you, you must first get his interest and make yourself the weak one. The one who can't control your emotions in front of your man.
This is done through a few ways: The superficial way would be Responding fast to his text messages, validating his ego, and make him feel strong.
You will also confess to a "wrong doing" that you did to reduce suspicion. This will lower his resistance. It's important to do this because if there's resistance, then he's not going to allow himself to love you.
But the best way to do it is to allow your weakness to become your strenght. We all have weaknesses that we repress because of fear of losing the person.
As long as you don't repress it, the weakness can be used as a strength, wherein, he lowers his resistance and sets the proper ground to allow love to flow through him. It also allows you to transmute his desire for you into love.
But it has to be done from time to time. It can't be a thing that happens all the time. It has to be occasional glimpses into your psyche. This allows you to go from just a sexual being, to a flawed human being who wants to be loved. This arises in us sympathy and can potentially turn into love.
So lets suppose that you are emotional at times, or get sad from time to time, allow yourself to put it out there a little bit more than usual. This will give you a good polarizing affect that's needed to make him see you in another light.
But lets say you are a bit emotional and you try to hide it, or lets say you really miss him but you try to hide it, you wouldn't be as charming and as seductive. You have to have men sense your other side, your softer side.
For example, i can be a bit confident but at times i can be a bit too emotional. I get angry at times and almost every day i struggle with my impulses.
So in your case, you have to have the sexual aura but at the same time the little girl who needs a savior. Its all about hitting at a man's masculine side from the aggressive to the softness.
As soon as you do this back off. Once he feels he controls you, back off. Once he feels that you are dependent on him and that you stroked his ego, take a step back.
Suddenly don't respond to a phone call, or a text. Take a bit longer to respond to his text messages, and start acting a bit bored. Not overly, but just a bit bored. This will sturr up his insecurity and guess who he has relied on for self esteem? YOU! Now you have him under your grip.
Increase it two fold by seeming interested in somebody else. Make sure to cover your tracks (making him gay) but include someone else, or at least the thought of it. Attend a salsa class or somewhere with other men. But make sure it's a hint or else it'll be too obvious.
When people realize that your love is not unconditional, you begin to work harder for their attention. Similar to growing up and knowing that our parents get mad at us when we misbehave. This potential threat of losing the person sturs in us fear and anxiety, the right kind that makes us want the person even more.
27 июн 2017
