How To Use Words That Makes Men Fall In Love With You 

Just love yourself so you won't feel like you need someone else to love you and you won't put up with anyone's mess.

Toxic relationships involve pain. When you grow up & realize real love doesn’t hurt, you aren’t attracted to those who hurt you.

The juicy part of the video starts at 11:55

When a person is ready and needs you in their life, he or she will let you know. No games, straight talk and a plan. I met the love of my life and we both knew. Be honest and you will find that person that is right for you.

Yes, I believe this Father Alex. Pain makes men feel alive. Women already know physical and emotional pain very well-bleeding monthly, childbirth, etc. Men’s feelings are shut off at a young age. So a chance to actually FEEL something in an acceptable way through pain or violence, is a relief to them. Part of their fascination with women is women’s ability to easily and openly express feelings like pain, sorrow, etc. Many men are obsessed with suffering emotionally.

The guy I'm hooked with has been using most of these techniques on me for a long time and I never knew . I never really paid attention because I made it clear from the beginning I didn't want any serious relationship and stuff. Its just now i realize what's he been up to with all this crazy and incomprehensible behavior. Damn this dude has been strategising for sooo long trying to get me hooked.

In order to attract the love that you desire, you must take care of yourself first. When you love yourself, accept yourself and put yourself first, everything falls into place. The one thing that blocks you from manifesting a healthy relationship is when you put everyone else before you. 💙RU-vidr That Helps People Overcome Toxic Relationships

I tried this method that you said to tell the guy that you're not just out here dating no expectations and it works!

*I have learned not to worry about love; but to honor its coming with all my heart.*

He put a sock on the microfon 😃😃🤣

Omg I really fell in love with your manipulation tactics when you said “imagine someone says to you ,I don’t want a relationship and then they give you a flower” . That’s definitely mind F*** someone. I wonder how that can be switched when your dealing with men. Can you give us an example how a woman can use that tactic with men.

Haha yessss! Watching this makes me realize that I am really so naturally toxic 😅 breaking promises, going cold, than act sweet. Say i dont want something serious but then giving them a lot of love and affection and appreciation. but I have to say, doing all these things don't give long term results. It will also attract unhealed man who dont have enough selfesteem and who got time for that really? So if you want a fanbase sure, this is the way. Make them obsessed, break their heart, become their fantasy. But to find real honest sweet love than this isn't the way to go i learned. It's super inauthentic and manipulative being so calculated with everything you do. No idea how to do that healthy secure stuff though, maybe I should watch more Matthew Hussey content instead 😜

This was pretty good and much so common sense, I fell off because i started being too real and forgot ppl still need a little mystery lol, TY

This was a really good video, you’re information and delivery of information has evolved,it’s great

His puppy hair style makes me smile. Keep it up! I love your humour 😅🫣

This is exactly what I need to see more of. What to actually say!! Just hearing the words gives us better understanding

Damnnnn. 😂 You sir have won over my subscription. Although I won’t be watching this video, I have watched several of yours. I fall into the slightly Asperger’s category. I’m taking your advice and using the power of my silence. I am worth having a partner who accepts me and my social challenges/disadvantages and is willing to be patient and understanding. Anything less will not work. Plain and simple.

Love the long videos thanks Alex 🤓

What a video! I've never heard people talking about this topic so clearly.

That content is genius!

Great advice for someone with NPD. Otherwise this is garbage if you want real connection. Only a Narc would use this info to con their way into someone’s life/mind.

You are very intelligent. Emotionally intelligent to be exact. I love it 😬

6:45 hey little Tyrone 😂

he pulled out the DEEP voice for this one ya'll lol

Great video alex

Alex, i appreciate all your hair styles lol somebody tag me when he get dapper !

Great info! I kept getting distracted by you drinking the coffee on the mic

The good looking kids thing really really got you harrrd! 🤣 Its in every video??

I have this autistic trait no good with flirting at all or sharp tounge. My Dad is the same, very good memory but he's not very witty.It's all about emotional intelligence, commenting on what's going on at the moment in a playfull intelligent way.

That's fire Alex 🔥

It's not like we autistics don't know how to talk. We just are fucking blunt. Some of us are brilliant poets and writers!!

This dude I work with has DEFINITELY been watching your channel lol 😆 that's crazy that I recognize too many things in your videos 😭🤣

I enjoyed this one

Demi here, God bless you for saying "friends first."

Mindf*cking people is not nice and causes a lot of suffering too, to the other party involved. When someone says they don't want a relationship, believe them. I'm done with people who play games.

The beginning got me crying but atleast you honest 😂

Thank you for this video,it’s amazing

The fact i do All these already unconsciously clearly shows i been a subscriber way too long 😅😂 Love u Alex

Hey I know I’m late to the game I just discovered your channel two days ago and I’ve now formed an addiction 😂. I know you mention about being into art and everything you literally remind me of a modern day relationship coach “Basquiat👑’ ❤

Ong i love ❤️ this video tooo much !!!

I just liked the video bc of the opening ! Lol so true!

Let's be honest - if you let the other person speak more than you do, encourage them to talk through questions, they also tend to like you more. They walk away feelingvthat you like them and the interaction went well. 🤷‍♀️

Please make a video for how to talk when u been in a long term relationship and he lost a bit of interest.. but the connection and attraction is still there however u can feel they are taking u for granted. To reactivate the beginnings fire :) ty!!

I made notes out of this video. (As I mostly do ) The information is unique and valuable. The depth of the understanding you have is unparalleled, Alex. Respects 🙌

You make me laugh Alex, you’re so smart and such a good communicator! Love you so much homie!

This was the one video you did in a long time that was actually different than the typical stuff you usually do thats a bit more repetitive. You should do a video on how to find someone's insecurities in order to pinpoint complements on those

lol you are too funny man but all facts! Crazy thing is, I do all of these things naturally 😂😂 guess its the Scorpio in me🙌🏽

i’m not trying to make someone love me by my words or anything, im tryn figure out IF they actually wants to be with me or are they saying they never want a relationship with me to temporarily confuse me, or do they say it to convince themselves so they will easily act accordingly

Thanks for that special kind of intro dedicated to women clumsy in communication ❤

The guy I am dating doesn't want a relationship but he did give me flowers! 😂🤷

The master !!! You really know you're psychology ! THANK YOU FOR SHARING & BLOWING MY MIND LIKE ALWAYS .

Your hair is so beautiful

Fall in love ,leader or as a Partner ,interesting

You are a wise individual

This is simply wonderful, but to a point.... don't get me wrong, this shit is putting the icing on my Aries moon/venus in Gemini placement, but tactics are temporary.... real is forever! But thank you for adding to my insight refinement. Very needed.

Most guy’s put on a big facade with women about how they’re really plotted to objectify women. The conquest is a cover up to heal the wounded ego/inner child.

I am grateful for ur existence ❤

This is very insightful and well articulated. One of your best videos.

Yes silence 🤫 mindfulness be the strong calm person in the room

Alex you are a genius

i’m beginning to think my friend takes your advice 😂

Dying, I automatically scrolled to halfway of the video and you said b*** dont you know Im going to be here, it hurt😂

man i just hate that friend zone shit idk how to break it really

Yes, me!

I miss watching your videos Alex

Can you teach me how to be classy for the next topic please? Daddy- I mean Father Alex?

Oh you didn't. Not the dad went to the store brb noooo Too real man too real

Can you do a coarse on how to date and what a women should be looking for in a man while dating alot of times we don't know what we should be looking for or a clue of what we should be our expectation from the man that we are interested in

This is a beautiful video

The YES ladder is crazy

The descriptive word you were looking for is neurodivergent. And us neurodivergent people (adhd and autism) do indeed struggle socially, unfortunately…

Intelligent man💣💥

@0:14 Funny you should mention Asperger’s - I was dating an Aspy and it was funny & hard AF at the same time. Sometimes he was totally unfiltered and I was not used to that and I tried to focus more on his non-verbal. I was truly heartbroken when we broke up

More vídeos like these pleaseeeee ☺️

I loooove your messy locs 😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍

LOVE your hair. XO

Here are the compliments that get me from least to most: beauty, smart, hot, funny, nice/good/ sweet. Yes, being seen as a good person is the biggest reward in my life. Being told that I'm helpful is my weakness. It's definitely a hangover from childhood.

I have always functioned Friends first. There is no friend zone as everyone has to start out being my friend. If a man can't be my friend then he would make a terrible partner. I want my playmate for life , we can earn together. I had a healthy relationship with my dad, so i don't need any controllers as a mate.

Alex, his friend, who know, he likes me told us in the restaurant, he want to be very honest with us, we should get married, he sees here a big potential. And then happend that, what you said. This guy kept looking at me and smiling. I think, he was imagine me beeing his wife. So it works, what you say. For sure, he was imagine us togehter for a moment like you said. And he likes me, maybe thats why.

That natural inclination to believe in something you speak of is called agent detection bias and it’s an evolutionary byproduct of humans. I learned that in a course recently. I know you know this

Presente!

Interesting

Do you realize that if women and men play the same game with each other it will be a complete mess not a propering relationship? 😃

Lol I ain’t hating but we are fighting each other through our audiences 🤣 but I got that heat for men.

This is easy when you don’t even have any interest in them in the first place. I trap any guy easily because I’m confident. I learn that was my #1 secret. Now words come out easily 🤭

Uh...i am not competitive at all. I am me. I like me the way i am and what so and so is doing doesnt concern me a bit. Ive always been that way. This is the third video ive heard you say that everyone is competitive..and no, not everyone. I just live peaceably. I walk away from competitiveness. It's too much drama.

Little Tyrone 😆

bro you playing with these girls emotions talking bout daddy not comming back hahahaha

What about flase promises what's if the dad never comes back how does that child process then..

SUGGESTION! -- the coffee slurping is a huge turnoff while trying to listen to a youtube video. thanks.

Are you really this funny in real life 😂

Father Alex your voice is perfect to record slef love meditation 🙏❤️🍄please 😁

Translation: "fulana de tal" = the supposed woman who we might be referring to but in abstract because we don't know her. Made me lol.

You are for real…excellent

lol 😂 I guess I gotta shut up it comes off as blunt or rude usually because people are boundaries pushers it’s upsetting.

Alex please help what if all the guys that are your neighbors always sit their chair right next to your door just to sit in front of each other and have a conversation why can't they just slide their chair over why they all have to sit right in front of my door in this apartment complex I mean they put the chair right next to my door knob the breeze way be full of guys...and there freaking kids too...why are these men disrespectful..what you think about this

😂 I must admit. 😂 he is playing. Friendship starts and u get to know more about the person

Your entire channel is based on Robert Greene’s “The Art of Seduction”.

Love these toxic titles 👌

Before words? Wth? Yeah no, we've always had the use of voice, therefore there has always been language expressed vocally in some shaped or form. There's no "before words" and "after words" times. Now, there has always been non verbal communication, that is true.