@MelonTeax there's a way you can turn up your lips a little bit like you're smiling - but just a liiiitle bit, so it doesn't look like you're walking around smiling like a creep lol. You can try it out in the mirror first
I’m an introvert but in my old school, my old friend never left me since I started, no matter how rude i was, Then I started a new school and my classmates basically jumped on me and since then, we’re besties
I'm moving to a new state and start school the 22nd, I don't know anyone and I'm very different than most people, and this is my first year in high school and in a public school. My interests include rock music and video games and I have 0 clue what's popular so idk if I can even try to fit in. I hope I can have your luck and people will like me. I also only own a flip phone, my fashion sense is strange to most people ( I dress in an alt style) and I doubt anyone will share my interests. Idk what to expect.
Wow 4 minutes ago? I'm actually really early! Can you consider making a video "Things to do before the school year starts"? I have been looking for some on this topic. Thanks! 💗
THIS WAS A TIP COMMENT THAT TURNED INTO A COMMENT WHERE I SAY RANDOM THINGS ABOUT MY LIFE... ☄️ Tip for everyone: Do this since the first day, I was dumb and did It after some days... I paid the price of being alone at school and In the bus for 8-12 hours a day for 7 months, ONLY the last month was quite better, since I made one friend... Just because everyone started avoiding her, so she started talking to me? This comes from someone who can't let someone they know see them without feeling extremely anxious and trembling... Yeah, I can't approach people, not even look at them, It doesn't matter If I know them or not, If they are not my best friend I can't, Imagine the troubles I have talking, my voice doesn't come out or I mix up words... ANYWAY, not here to talk about my life, follow these tips since the first day, sit In the back of the class, someone will sit next to you for sure and probably they'll say something or they'll have a conversation and you can just join In OR just listen, but being interested, they'll ask you something sometime... :))) If you're just to shy to look, just uhm... Just stay there, show what you can do... Trust your interests... Show them... Someway... Like have your own style to attract people and yeah, smile when people talk to you and always reply, even If It's awkward and you want to die because, you wanted to talk and take out the million words you have stuck In your throat since A LOOOT OF TIME... But you just can't 'cause you're just to shy, but you're an extrovert and you are starting to fear abandoned these months and you think you're going through depression, your psychologist can't find a solution, but says that you are almost depressed and CAN'T understand why YOU HAVE SO MUCH ANXIETY YOU CAN'T EVEN SAY HI TO SOMEONE WHO SAYS HI TO YOUUU... And your envy taking over you, but noooo, you can't show It... YOU CAN'T... YOU JUST CAN'T FEAR SO MUCH ABANDONMENT TO BEEE THAT PERSON... TO BE SO JEALOUS, SOOO ENVIOUS ABOUT EVERYONE, EVERYTHING, EVERY FRIEND GROUP, EVERYTHING, YOU ARE A TOXIC INSIDE AND YOU KNOW IT, BUT YOU DON'T WANT TO BE IT, SO YOU TRY TO FEEL LIKE YOU'RE NOT SO YOU BEHAVE LIKE YOU'RE NOT AND PEOPLE BELIEVE YOU ... But you just want to tell them... "I'm toxic, go away...", but still you need them, so you won't be totally depressed... BUT you can't tell them you are envious about saying "GOOD MORNING" to their TEACHER, because at that moment they are not talking with you, they don't want you, they hate you, they... Are better than you... And want a better friend... Than you... Even thought, you can't show them, so you just don't know If you need to go or not, because probably they hate you, just because they GREET THEIR TEACHER everyday... You feel like they're more important than you... You feel like you are never enough to have a friend, anyone as a friend, even your best friend, because they didn't choose your same school, because they have made a frown for two seconds straight and you know you are dumb... THE DUMBEST PERSON IN THE WORLD?? MAYBEEE. You can't stop, thought...You really can't... And you feel like nobody Is your friend, you need a constant remainder and you will never believe It... Not for more than some seconds... Starting to believe they were fooling around and they didn't mean that you are your friend, but that you are NOT their friend... OK, C'MON... I'd go on forever ruining this comment section, so don't read this, because I'm just a weirdo, you can see It by how I'm writing this at the very end... I hope no one Is so tragic about having "no friends"... I just needed this... Good Night 🌃 or Good Morning 🌅 or Good Afternoon ✨ or Good Evening 🌆... Love you whoever you are ♥️ Hope you are good now 😘 Living your best life ✨ With so many friends 👀 Or good ones 🥺 And If you're not... ❌ Remember so many people are dying today 😭 We don't need more ⌛ Okay? ⬅️ I thought this comment was longer 💫
Thank you so much! I am going to a big school and I don't know anyone there (except for my sister + her friends but her friends are technically not my friends. This will really help me make friends
Amazinggg, I love this, btw long time no see I've been soo busy😩 but point 2 made me laugh, I should ask for directions even though I know the directions😭😅
Im that girl that school who literally no one likes but asks stuff from me all the time. Some times im a people pleaser but sometimes i can literally block them out and be down right rude which is why im not good at making friends. And if i change and do these things poeple would be so confused and probably concerned...
I wish i knew this stuff in 5th grade. Because i struggled so much in 5th grade 1. I had none of my friends in my class 2. The girls in my class were preppies with their stanley cup and the boys were annoying unfunny fortnite kids 3. I lost a friend
thank you for these tips! but, one of the things that you listed here is something i regularly struggle with and that is eye contact. im afraid they'll look back at me, so i avoid doing so.
For social media, I think that it’s important that you shouldn’t be using it in year 7 because there could be stuff that could cause harm and stuff.. ❤
Have someone idea what to do? I got bullied from boys in my class. I talked with teachers, was rude to them and now they leave me alone. But because of that the girls in my class hate me. Idk what to do.
Why do they bully you? Do they make fun of your outfits or something else, like you ratted them out for something? If you can answer soon it would be nice. I'd really like to help you with this 💗
@@prettytopia I think they had bullied me because I am Ukrainian but it is in past. I have resisted they had problems in school and now they not even dare to look at me. But in German it is not common that girls resisted when boys do something to them. Some girls even made bad things because the boys said it to them. I just think if it is possible to be friend with the other girls because now they find me weird.
@@prettytopiathey don’t bully me anymore. I’ve resisted they had problems with teachers and now they don’t even dare to look at me. But in Germany it is not common that girls resisted to what boys do. Some of the girls had done bad things because the boys said them to do this. And now the girls in my class find me weird that helped me. It is a really big problem in generell. Btw thank you that you responded 🩷
@Sdgbnmmbgg I'm glad you were able to stand up to them. It's better to be considered weird for defending yourself than to be a pushover. I hope you're able to make good friends soon ♥️
So we have this like 1-5 grades are in the same shift and 6-9 are in another shift (for example 1-5 are the morning shift and 6-9 are the afternoon shift) and im going to 6 grade soo im really scared like there are some older kids that i dont know and a lot of other things ( in 1-5 grade you have only 1 teacher for all classes but in 6-9 grade you have teachers) so this video really helped me thank you so much❤❤❤
I really don’t know what’s so hard about making friends since i have had many friends since the day i started school😅But I get that some people might not be as social as me and it's totally ok❤
I can be social with my friends lol the problem is actually getting a friend to be social with... Tbh this video is mostly for me I'm trying to turn my social life around and shite 🥲
I always do those stuff since it’s my persona …but because of one mistake that I made, I lost everything. What can I do now? Everytime whether it’s after a month or day people be like ‘ I don’t want to be your friend anymore ‘ like just because of one mistake I did months ago or even years..
My school is very different...Everyone doesnt like me they always want to pick me and annoy when i am alone noone stands out for me i get bullied everyday abt my period my look 🥹 i wished one day somone stands up for me i only have my self i even have fake friends🥹😭
Don't be 💗 a new school is the perfect place to make new friends because you are free from drama from your old school and most people will be curious about you. I hope you have lots of fun there 😊
The person who's right beside you in class, like the desk on your left or right, can still count 😊 even if you're the only person on your row you can still join a club 💗
I think I got lucky tbh my other videos were getting zero views until I posted the school bag essentials video that has nearly 50k views now... I'd say just post videos until you get one that RU-vid gets viral
Highschool is so fun if you hang out with the right people I miss it sm 😅 just follow what trends you can afford to (fitting in is important to some extent, lets be honest), be a generally nice person and study a lott. I'm sure you'll love it 💗
I have been starting to want a asthetic RU-vid channel so I need a name for it but I don’t know which one to pick😅 1. Fluffy_☁️clouds x_x 2. Asthetic🍓_strawberry✨ 3. Moonlit~whispers🌙 4. Fruit~loops🍡 ( pls pick one so I can make my own RU-vid channel )
I wish I could swap schools because all the girls in my class are pick me’s and the boys always get in trouble so I’m definitely not going to be friends with them.
No it’s like I grew up with them, since elementary school and my mom thought I liked the people in my class so forced me to go in the school they were all going to😭😭 ( I told her but she didn’t believe me)
