But if the angel is not putting efforts as well in a relationship then he’ll simply walk away with his heaven.Men also hopes for gifts,flowers,compliments from his girl.
toxic men have dream girls but they do not have the character to keep their dream girl. dont take it personal. you could be his dream girl but he is not worthy of you.
Important Notes: +Neediness is unattractive and pushes people away from you. +When someone doesn't want you, it makes you want them more. +A man will do anything for his dream girl. +Masculine energy: wanting to provide with what he has, willing to care for you and do everything to make you happy.
#2 is a very stupid and very easy way to get blown off and ignored by a guy who has a crush on you. This is literally one of the biggest, easiest fuckups a woman can do with us. This is 10x more true in the post metoo bullshit. Any woman acts like she doesn't want a man in this day and age, she WILL lose him. This is the same kind of stupid game playing shit that, like making a guy chase you, playing hot and cold, trying to flirt with all the guys but him, is going to be taken for being a dishonest and manipulative woman that is a complete turn off and he's going to blow you off and ignore you. I bet you guys tried this already, didn't you? And he stopped chasing you and started ignoring you too, didn't he? When you pretend to not want someone you better be ready for them ignoring you, because men don't work like women. We don't do this stupid shit with reverse psychology. We want women that want us. "I would never want a man this easy to get" you, yeah that's YOU. Don't be hard to get. Not putting out isn't the same as being hard to get. All of these stupid games are the kind of shit you can probably pull with some inexperienced fuckboys but you just try and watch what happens when you pull this on any kind of a man who's older, who's more experienced, or has any kind of integrity or standards just watch how fast he blows you off entirely. 3:57 this is stupid and terrible advice. Watch however many women here tried this. And watch how he pulls back. Watch how he ignores you. And if you try and act like you don't like him, and do this being hard to get shit, he's eventually going to pull back so far now YOU are stuck chasing HIM. I've seen women do this shit so many times, and each time some dumb young woman does this she looks like a total ass in front of all the other women, because maybe a lot of the men don't, but the women definitely know what just happened and why. He won't pull back because you gave too much, he's going to pull back when you pull back. My God this is stupid.
Once I felt in love with a man, but when I discovered that he met with another girl, I blocked him. The whole situation hurt me really long time, but Alessia made me realize it was correct behavior. After that he wanted to get me back, but there is no more possibility for this man. Ladies, know your worth
Same thing happened, I was starting to get deeper feelings for a guy, then I found out he had emotionally abused some girls in the past for YEARS, he resulted to be a covert narcissist. As soon as I found out I dumped him and ofc it hurt me but I will always put myself first
Same happened to me, he told me in the beginning he has dated girls who were crazy, one wanted to study medicine just because of him, he had women standing in front of his house, he talked to his ex on the phone while I was in the same room claiming it was work related. I should have walked out right there but I gave him a chance. I regret it so much. NEVER AGAIN. @@user-th3ez5sj9y
finally someone stated that feminine energy doesn’t work for everyone , especially for those who went through much and who are willing to take responsibility and challenges.
As a man I want to advise women - never get intimate with a man until your wedding night. This may not be the "traditional" thing to do nowadays, however it is one of the reasons why there are so many people getting used abd discarded. If they try it with you then tell them that if they are actually serious then they will wait until the wedding night. That way you will get rid of those with the wrong intentions. Many men will tell you anything just for you to fall for them so that thry can get intimate with you. Once you give them what they want then they will very quickly lose interest and respect for you. If he really wants you then he will marry you. Even if your engaged then do not do it under the assumption that your going to get married anyway, as I've seen many engagements crumble for various reasons. Also when you get intimate with a relationship partner then when things go wrong then you wont be as hurt as you would be if you gave yourself fully to them. So wait until your wedding night. That way you will filter out the wrong types of men. Intimacy is sacred and not to be dished out to a person that you may or may not end up with in the long run. In constantly doing so, then you'll end up having a body count of double figures by the time you actually end up with the right person for the long term. You owe yourself much more respect and self love than that. Only one person should ever be entitled to intimacy with you and that is your marriage partner.
@falakchanga8435 my bf and I are still young. We didn't have s£x but...we did get intimate....we saw each others' bodies, despite I told him that I wanna wait till marriage....but I ended up giving in...he doesn't love me just for physical relationship..I hope ...but does it mean that he disrespected me? But the fact that I was not okay with being intimate at such an early stage before even dating, I ended up being OK with going to his house to have "fun"
thank u sm for all u do for us, u heal part of us u didn’t break and u taught me to see things for what they really are and not what I created in my head, thank u sm Ilysm 💜
Alessia, I adore listening to your 'No!' right after you described a bad behaviour. It's iconic at this point and so spot on! I learn a lot from you, greetings from The Netherlands, neighbour 😊
this was so inspirational I usually don't watch videos like these all the way through, but I respect you so much for giving us confidence and reminding females that we are powerful as we are.
I'm literally watching videos like these so I can redflag women more easily. I want to be able to disqualify gold diggers and entitled, narcissistic, shallow, high maintenance women without needing to waste more than one dinner on any of them.
i started my healing journey 9 months ago and ive noticed ive been more comfortable recieving and being in my feminine energy. even if you have had to be in your masculine energy because of trauma, with time, you can heal yourself. remember to be patient loves, i can assure you it gets better
Definitely great advice. I just dealt with a situation like this and I handled it just how you described it in this video. Thanks for the confirmation.
Oh my god thank you so much for the video. It’s been quite a while since we talked and i was really thinking about throwing a little hint to him but since the ball in his court he needs to apologize and approach to me. NEVER REWARD BAD BEHAVIOR 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻
Persephone thank you for your words,they are very comforting and you are such a Nice lady you deserve Love as you share yours with us and thats your greatest gift x
thank you❤ this made me realize i can do so much better, my ex best friend set my standards because he used to take me orchestras and Musicals and id get all fancy and dressed up, but all my new bfs aren't even doing the bare minimum
I clicked eventhough I am not interested "to make" anyone chase me. I am here , trusting someday when it's the right person , he will do that without me having to do anything for me. If I really liked someone the biggest thing I can do is smile ❤ wishing you fulfilling love people
You’re so right! I think this video was really helpful, we should have standards and respect them. It would be awesome if you could expand more into how to enter our feminine energy and also some good traits every nice woman should have. For example men are expected to be gentlemen and provide, but what about women? I would like to be my best version to attract a partner who is his best version too :) thanks!
Your Majesty, Alessia, thank you for this adorable video 💕 the phrase "don't fall in love with your own illusion of someone" opened my eyes on my life...
My goodness, this has helped me a lot. And i confess i was guilty of falling for my own illusions. I wanted him to do this and that, always asking for attention and always explaining. But thank God i woke up from that, i am building myself up now. And i will never settle for less than i want. Love you ❤
Thank you. I needed to remind myself of this. I like him, but he's getting more energy than deserved from me right now vs his amount of effort. He has done nice things so far don't get me wrong. He brought me books as a gift. And I love books so I do appreciate it and let him know. But it's still not enough effort to see me around his schedule. I feel I should pull away but he constantly keeps contacting me. Any adadvice is appreciated so that he steps his dating game up. I feel intuitively it's a good connection.
I got so excited to see the title of the video. But when i saw i felt so ashamed and i cried whole heartedly because it triggered the part where she told us not to do certain things to man and i did that exactly and for the good four years , i have tried to mold him, i have waited for him but he never did anything for me. Though its been two days and i have left him. I hope i will heal myself soon. And I truly love your videos. Thank you so much.
You just saved me love like I did all the things and after listening to you my mind goes like crazy 😭 now i will make my self better I let him chase I want that men but this time I am not going to beg I will attract and this is what I learn from you you are too adorable ily💗✨
Important life lesson, just be nice, kind and understanding these alone shall get you far in life, never expect things from people in return always just do good and good comes back in some way shape or form. I also think that good personality is the most atractive thing on this planet looks are just a bonus and everyone needs someone who cares and looks after them wether you are male or female at the end of the day we are all human beings and we have feelings/emotions.
I really needed this video 3 years ago hahaha I was "in love" so badly with a guy that didn't want me, and I knew he was bad for me, so I had to fight my own feelings, it was awful omg😮💨 😂
You are my lights after my bf haven't texted me back for 32 hours and i might break up with him after watching this. I love your video. Thank you so much. I'm so grateful that i found your channel🥺 I will take my energy and power back to me.
i love this video, while you are talking, I was really crying specially when you say you are already whole without man. I really need this right now. :)
Hello Alessia,I love you and thank you for your video!! They help us a lot! My question is; How can we improve our feminine side and become healthier women with healthier feminine energy? Thank you for your answer already! Have a blessed day/noon/night/morning!!
I don’t understand because a lot of people say that to attract men you have to be independent, You have to be the woman who don’t need anyone you have to be the woman with personality who don’t need a man and peoples said that it’s what men like ,but after your video, I think that you’re right and that’s better for me because i prefer that someone take care of me, and I love to be feminine, so thank you so much
