You're different, though, Leon. You're honest about what happened to you, who you became and who you are. Many narcissists don't want to be on this higher level of operating. And, you're exactly right about the power. We must come out of agreement with a narcissist. They have no power except what we gave them under false pretenses. Once you accept the truth, you'll accept yourself, Jesus and the bright future a narcissist promised but couldn't deliver. You're doing good work now, Leon, by sharing the truth. Thank you! 🌞☦✌
Fyi they're not YOUR NARCISSIST. They belong to themselves. You saying MY NARCISSIST is still showing your emotional attachment to your abuser. That's borderline Stockholm syndrome. They don't belong to you and they're not YOURS. You're just the current person they're using. Sounds bad but that's exactly what's going on. You liked the fake person they first showed you and u want the lie to come back to feel happy again. Sometimes we can push the bad things out bc they hurt and only focus on the few little good things they did so u wouldn't leave at "that" moment. They keep track of what makes u comply and what makes u mad. It's like handing them a remote full of ur buttons to push. Like a puppet. "If I say something nice to her then she'll give me money". That's roughly "why" they'd say or do something nice. It's to get out of u later on. You PAY for those nice gestures usually double if not triple of what they gave.
@@daviedood2503 I'm confused. Is there someone who said "my narcissist?" I reread my comment and did not use that verbiage. Was this directed toward someone who did use that language? I intentionally don't use that terminology because I don't claim them, nor do I feel emotionally attached to them or their false self who mirrored me in the beginning to get what they wanted.
I took my power back from my narcissistic adult son and my life has been so much better, peaceful, and I finally know my worth. It’s sad because I poured so much into him for years just to get abused, betrayed, and talked about. I can’t even see my granddaughter because he uses her as leverage to control me. God had enough with him abusing so he instructed me to cut him off, starve that demon. Now he’s crying, missing me, and wanting to reconcile but acts like he did nothing wrong. Nope, I’m holding on to my peace buddy.
If I told you what led me to this channel, you’d probably think I was joking😂 but I tell you one thing…it was meant for me to be here because most of my life, I’ve run into narcissistic people. Not too long ago, it happened again, but this time, my level of discernment was on point. Thank you
You are helping me thank you🙏🏾 and you're right- I always felt sorry for him because I saw that broken little boy who wants and needs love but I can't keep trying to love you while you hate me and purposely try to hurt me
I saw that broken little boy too and between that and the love bombing, the lies, the masks he was wearing, the deception, he had me FOOLED and played me FOR the fool. But, no longer Frodo! Now, I know what to do look for and what to do if I ever come in contact with one of these types again. All Praises to TMH G-d perpetually ❣🙏#IAmLearning
These videos help me a lot. It takes a lot of courage for a diagnosed Narcissist to tell who they really are. Narcissist hide behind several masks their entire life. To come forward before thousands and eventually millions of viewers is really appreciated and helping so many people.
I broke it off with the narcissist I was dealing with, and he tried to come back & was making up all these excuses to come back. I told him straight up, "you're a narcissist & needed to seek therapy." That did the trick. He stopped messaging me after that.
"_I don't need you" "_I found myself" "_When I'm not around you I feel better" "_I don't need you" Holding it to the right moment, it is coming soon...
I have a great deal of respect for you Young King! You are not just being brutally honest with yourself about yourself. You are doing it in front of the world! That takes a strength and courage that only Almighty God can give you! I pray God continue to direct you on your journey! Stay strong and NEVER GIVE UP!!!!
Thank you so much for waking me up to this. I allowed my ex to treat me in such a way that made me feel worthless. I literally had to sit back and just take it all in. He would always tell me you pushed me to cheat and seek others, or when I leave your gunna realize you took me for granted. Thank you and God Bless
I was a broken child had a terrible childhood a mother who hated me an evil personified stepfather so glad I'm an empath couldn't treat people in the despicable way narcissists do,I told him that too.
I went to court to and got a protection order and and a arest order if he comes near me again. I lock him out of my home and life. I went for counciling and now my mine is my own again . No more double minded. I refuse to think of him I will not give him my time and energy. Im glad I met him because I learned a lot about myself and what I absolutely hate and will not tolerate in my life. I'm glad he treated to kill me , hid me and his verbal abuse finally opened my eyes.
I am soooo glad God led me to your channel! This realization really saddened me initially…but I have literally learned more useful, freeing & empowering information in less than 50 days of watching your videos than I have in 50+ years of observing & conversing with my own dad (who has always been present/emotionally unavailable in my life).😢 🛐💟✝️
Thank you for being so real! These are truths and so affirming. When you walk out if the twilight zone and get your power back and remember who you are, that’s gold.
Praise the Lord! I thank God! for you. You give me the confirmation the gift you got like no other. But God!😊 God put wisdom in me, the strength to and knowledge to handle the narcs., and to hear you speak of the experiences, truths.. how to handle all. It's a w e s o m e! to hear, a blessing. I told the narc you messed with the wrong woman this time and he knows that. He forgot WHOM l belong too. Thank ya Lord! Blessings always.💕
Is being “found out” or recognized for being a narcissist embarrassing/humiliating for them? Is that why they immediately discard someone for figuring them out?
Thanks 2 you Leon and Lee Hammick i became aware what i was dealing with. Jesus gave me the strength to leave him again. 5 months no contact all the glory to God ❤
Write your book please Leon..You keep it real. Almost everything you said is true I am free from 12 years and a marriage to a narcissist. Now I can breath again.
This!!! I’m finally at a place I could hear this! I HATE making someone else feel as low as I’ve felt but he didn’t mind hurting me, so ima look at it as what comes around goes around.
Wow Leon you just saved my Soul. Thank You from my Soul. My child came back for 6 months. Oh boy was I Glad to see her. OMG I IM a powerless piece of Shit. I worked on my co- dependence I thought for years. Well am I in Pain I’m 89yrs old and Really needed the help. The help is gone and a Big mess. I love JESUS and with your info I will Find healing and peace. God Bless You. You found the strength and Courage. So will I🙏🙏
Leon i hope you are not distracted by all this attention. Your work on exposing the Narc is so important. I pray you dont get side tracked by all the ego stroking. Your vulnerability is valued just as it is. No chaser!
Wow I've been listening to your videos recently and I'm really surprised at your accountability. They say your teachers are from the light and the dark. I really appreciate that u help people. I'm kind of taken aback. I'm truly sorry u experienced what u did in childhood. I'm glad u reiterate not to let the narcs back in because empaths would start feeling sorry and want to help heal u
Thank you for listening. I truly appreciate that. Glad that my videos help you. My childhood was good up until those things happened. I’m good now. I appreciate your comment too🙌🏾🙌🏾
Goodness. Well, I guess you know how the rest of us feel. I'm hoping you get therapy for what caused your narcissism. It's no way to live like that. You have to feel the emotions. I'm praying for your healing.
You're appreciated for your advice on how to deal with a toxic person,my ordained spouse is a narcissist and I have prayed to God to change and give me someone else but to no avail but when I landed on your channel and started listening to your advice,lol I'm winning and I'm an empathy. Now, he's telling me, he has never met a mysterious woman like me. I use your advice, and with God on by side, I'm now winning. Keep up the good work big brother.
Honestly, I wasn't ready for this😬... @ 3:54 And it's not like I never knew about this child-like neediness part of a Narcissist when they are deprived of getting their Grade AA+ supply, but something about your unique way of saying the blatant raw TRUTH made it sound brand new to me!
You do give people HOPE and Help them in a tremendous way ...This narcissism grew rampant . A direct result of childhood trauma . What should be addressed is how to heal and become better people learn from our mistakes forgive ourselves and others ...The key to all of this I strongly believe is in UNDERSTANDING ourselves and eachother .Understanding Why ?why do people do what they do? No man left behind . We should act as brothers and sisters to one another and take an interest in helping me help you to help me to help you . The downward spiral that takes place in our families in our communities and in society is when we abandon ourselves and eachother. Our experiences give us an opportunity to learn and the ability to teach . If human beings intentions were to have compassion and eachothers best interest. If people were open to growth and willing to face thier demons and develop self love and self worth ...I IMAGINE how far we could reach. And what would that look like? A life that wasnt robbing your prescious time with pain and deception. Barely functional hardly awake .
"Silence is the sign of approval".. So when you don't speak up/ don't correct them, that is signaling your approval, which feeds them indeed! If you stand for nothing, you'll fall for everything #JusSayin #realTalk
My friend laughs in the other room when I'm listening to your videos!!!! She just doesn't know, this is helping me get back to ME!!!!! My narc ex has his mom texting me now. I'm gone!! No contact since last year. I know his tactics now, it's predictable so I just laugh and keep it moving. Thanks for all your videos. I appreciate them and I know others do as well!!❤️
Leon you are helping me so much. You have done great healing work on yourself by facing your demons and being so open and honest. Thank you and God bless you
Absolutely Love ❤ needed This Video Leon Thank You I have watched Several Narc Coaches Honnnay. You Beat them all I extremely love you Your Delivery is Phenomenol🎉🎉🎉
Leon , I just started watching your channel and wow!! Lightbulbs flashing all over the place! Thank you for being humble enough to share your most sensitive experiences. It validates all what I had and do experience as an empath. I had a narcissistic best friend for 12yrs and I don’t know how I lasted that long. Completely platonic as he was truly like a big bro to me…now I have a new friend who is just like him but it started off on physical attraction but because I didn’t give him what he wanted…he ghosted me n came back after 2 mths with a texted joke like nothing happened. We are completely platonic now but just like my former friend, I really believe this new guy and I could be friends for a long time. There are qualities that I believe this new friend can teach me from running a business to simply being a mentor in life since he has experienced way more mishaps in life than I have. How if possible can one be friends with a narcissist? Is it in their control or should it just be completely organic? Funny this new friend admitted to me his experiences of child hood abuse but I know he hides it by making it into a joke or layering it by hiding behind his grand personality. Thx
Thank you so much Leon. Your videos are truly making it easier to be able to stay no contact and actually go through with my healing process... I am currently in therapy as well because I feel like I do have some narcissistic traits from dealing with my ex and from my elders. God bless you for these videos 💜
You tha man Leo...Most of these ppl got channels are Narcs pretending to be normal i can see most of'em are fake but Leon by you admitting to your narcissism, i have a lot of respect for You Leon💪🙏....your channel is my favorite and i luv your advice....You tha man LEO!
You have helped me overcome my hope for a relationship and see him for who he really is! That and I was able to see messages and shit for my own eyes. Thank you for doing what you do!
Leon you are a very very special person, to be so straightforward, honest, venerable, I certainly hope you are for real, thank you so very much for your education!!!!!!!!
For the first time I have to say I don't agree... you should not tell your narc you want to leave cause that's when they lose it " if I can't have you nobody will "
Thank you for this Leon I am blown away you are describing my 40+ year relationship. I thought it was love when he came back but when he came back he was horrible to me. I got my power and life back its like the air I'm breathing is fresher.
Much Respect 🙏 Mr.Leon you just told my Ex Narcissistic I was to Strong for him he had a Broken Childhood He is now on Suicide Watch Continue to Tell your truth The Hospital was the one who called me I called his Children for Emergency contacts.
I have a very close friend, I think I was 4 when we first met. He has had a narcissist as a boss for years and now he got angry enough to get rid of the creep, at least for a while, but not without the classical outrage.
Thanks Leon! Please keep making these videos! You are helping me to overcome my toxic relationship. I need to hear it the way you are delivering this message.
hurt people ………. hurt people. My first husband had buried some very deep childhood wounds. They all came pouring out when I got sick & old sexual addictions manifested, along with a lot of other toxic behaviour. I didn’t realize that I’d never said no to him before that. He lost control when I asserted boundaries. He tried at first, but just could not face his demons. He did exactly move in to marry very quickly when our marriage ended at 22years & to make a point of telling me that there was a “one & only” after all. The NPD markers are all now very evident, as was the deeply rooted childhood hurt issues.
