Hi,akka..im mom of two kids nly 2 yrs age gap..my mom,inlaws r passed away..my husband is vry busy in developing buisness..im also in a village..im jus 25 appo..its a vry challenging for me too raising up my kids all alone at home..not even i hv my freinds or neighbour to share with..i hv post partum depression not even know tht name..i wakeup daily at 4 am till now for my kids to go to skl &prepare, pack bf,lunch,snacks all alone..now im 36 my son is 10th he is topper in skl,my daughter is 7th smart girl ..still its long way to go ..but ipo neenga sollumbodhu nanum tirumbi pakrae hw i managed everything all alone nu..tnx for sharing akka..i too proud of myself & every mother in d world 💕😊❤
Wonderful 😊 you are a strong mum. We all have so much to learn from you on how you battled post partum depression and how you came out of it. It will be useful for many mothers here. If you are ok with it, please share with us.
Tnq akka ..means lot to me ❤..but d truth is still I'm facing tht issue somewhere in my life akka..as I'm living in village weekly once plan to go out to town for some fresh air & restaurant at Friday nights aprama pasanga developments,achei ements pathu konjam energetic ayruvae akka.. pasanga encourage panni youtube chl onnu start panirkae akka.. motivation chnl..but I'm not consistentcy pasanga thittuvanga ...I'm not perfect akka but epdiyo manage panidrae by god's grace...do u wish chk panni parunga enoda chnl ungala madri perfect irukadhu..but neenga chk paningana na again motivate agi video poda start panirvae & shows to my kids ...tnx akka ❤
Whole life u narrated in minutes, practical very practical, sometimes parents also not in a situation to support us, etc. as you told immediately after maternity leave we go to office, no words to describe that... Really I too have cried and cried a looot. Like u I too have two daughters. One in 12 th so I have to act as a teenager with her and another child 4th so I have to be a kid with her, but PARENTING IS BEAUTIFUL 😊😊God has gifted us....
I think you have shared maximum and parallel gave enough suggestions to avoid smothering, be confident mother. Please discuss about 40 Plus problems also. It's tough to get an understanding husband. You are blessed. Not everyone gets everything. Thank you so much for sharing and suggesting.
Since I share earning half of the money for buying house and paying bills, it takes pressure off my husband, so he is relaxed and he can share the housework half. It's mutual hard work from both wife and husband.
Hi Narmada! I really enjoyed watching this video! I am in the USA and going through the same scenario like you explained! Absolutely relatable and the choice of words are really affirmative! Would you be able to share a video on how you planned our different classes and also supported on academics for the kids while working.
Hi akka .. Super video .. I watched it fully and enjoyed listening to you. I shared to my friends too. Thank you ❤ for making such a thoughtful sharing !!
Hi sistet.. I'm your new subscriber.. Very inspiring speech.... My second baby is four month old... It's really useful for me to manage my work and family..thanks for sharing your experience... Feeling motivated
Very inspiring vlog dear. I'm sure ur kids will remember u and Parthi for all u've done.... n r still doing for them. Great, hardworking n committed parents. God Bless!
What a wonderful video Mam! Thank you for sharing your story. I loved it, very inspiring. Please post more videos about meal planning and organising for working women please.
Very positive , encouraging and motivational tips and advices dear 👌👌👏👏👏 Thanks for sharing your life experiences too and you all stay blessed forever 🙏🙏🙏❤️❤️❤️
Hi sister beautiful video . Can you pls share how you raise kids in multicultural environment . Being Indian and British . The challenges you faced with the kids and their mind set ? How kids adapt to Tamil and British culture and how you explain good values and will they take that ? Can you share pls in next video thank you
I completely understand what u said..After I delivered my 1st one we moved to Kolkata everything was new to me language, people etc..Within a yr I delivered my second one appo we moved to Hyderabad My parents used to come in a while only .Again with these kids we moved diff places like Saudi, Kolkata now in Chennai Don't know how 13 yrs passed...Still managing Idhula my 1st one is a Spl kid
It’s really helpful and encouraging dear. Now my second baby is 9 months old and just going to restart my career in uk . For first one I was having childminder in india but now here I was confused and stressed as how to restart the career. Thanks for the lovely video 🫶🏻you and your husband did a great job.
Hi Akka first of all bottom of my heart ♥️ I’m really salute in ur motivational message Eannode life routines ea Appidiya video wa pottu irukenge But im in Japan 🇯🇵 very difficult struggle life lessons Really naan ean crying panni tan inde video fully pathu mudichen Ippo my kids Eangelukum rombewe arithale irukange
Hi mam🙏ennoda sister jayanthi ungaloda big fan,eppodhum ungala romba admire pannum,1st may health issues irudhu samikita poiduchu mam😰😰😰edho unga kita share seiya thonuchu mam🙏🙏😭
Instead of learning from the mistakes which we make, those lessons and all other essential things which we are supposed to learn are supposed to be taught in schools. That is the only purpose of schooling so that nobody would have made any mistakes or misconducts in life. And chances are less for mistakes to happen in the world.
My younger one is in primary only. Elder daughter in grammar, we both are against sending kids to tuitions. So she just wrote the exams and got the placement. But I have heard there are a lot of tuition centres everywhere prepping kids for 11 plus exams, its a big business these days.
There is a huge difference in the way Our parents raised us in our teen period and We , raising them . At times, they are at loggerheads with the Mother, wants to study in the night time peacefully, not willing to talk randomly with the parents, unwilling to take rubbish thrown at them etc. Despite being educated and were a Working Mom, we were stuck up badly in this phase. Have u faced or facing such things in your parenthood Narmadaji?
Hi lavanya, We have the rule of going to bed at 9 no matter what. So they can't study at night in our house. They have to study in the evening and in the morning rule that we strictly follow. I never faced the situation of kids not talking to me, they always cherish the time we both spend with them, they look forward to it 😊 it is mainly the upbringing by our child minder who is British. She taught my kids the respect for elders, cherishing small moments and being thankful for what they have in life. She has made a big difference in our lives 😊 we are ever so indebted to her.
That's the reason I start pretty early in the morning 😊 In my work place they depend on me, so I make my own rules. I work on the timings that are suitable to me.