One extra thing I want to add to this because I know it'll be asked for this topic: "How do I act/what do I do in 3D with all this?" - as always, *it doesn't matter!!* It doesn't matter what you do or don't do in the 3D while you're doing this practice. *This is all INTERNAL WORK!* All of this is about how you're internally thinking about and relating to the people in your life. You don't need to do anything special in your external world to make the shifts happen. They WILL happen after YOU internally take your power back.
This is easy to introverts or people who live inside their heads lol so I guess we could have a video about how to interact when you do have conflict. I believe abraham would say don’t talk about it but if it feels worse to not express yourself in that state of frustration then I guess you let out steam somehow. I just get lost when I’m in the 3D and really want to confront the situation head on and talk talk talk to the person. Oooh so what about counseling bc I just started and with couples and I’m like I have having to bring the bad stuff up l live loa when I can it works better! Lol
I was the chronic invalidated character. And the gold at the very end, perfectly describing the false sense of power actually making one suffer, so big. So many need to hear that. The fact that it’s at the very end is just, idk, special to me. I’m so glad I found ur videos. What’s crazy is I realized I was addicted to wallowing in pain, I guess because it’s familiar, and just chose to stay for so long? Sometimes I found myself almost excited about these hate sessions I would have about how mad everyone made me because it was a release. I’m glad I finally woke up. Holy shit. Thank you Genevieve 🙏
Apologies are about respect to me and they are necessary, along with good communication, for a long term relationship if a partner hurts another partner. Noone should be a doormat.
All I've been thinking lately is "how do I forgive without the apology" . I want to forgive so that I can move on and release the resentment and anger that I still feel at times. And out of nowhere here you are popping up, a video I watched months ago but it didn't resonate at the time. I know I deserve the apology, but I don't want to want it anymore. I know it's possible, and likely. I just don't want the dependence on reconciliation with this person or closure for me to move on. My forgiveness of myself and them is all the closure I need. I feel that these statements alone are a step in the right direction
A verbal or written apology is almost a cheap band aid or a ticket out of actual repair. Changed behavior and repairing damage is the only valid type of apology. Forgiveness is knowing someone acted per your assumption. We're still humans and need to be accountable for respectful behavior.
You can let go of feeling hurt by him/her/them/whoever... and also can let go of the wanting to defend the old story just by welcoming these feelings in and while watching them they do what they do, then dissolve by themselves (layer by layer if it is a bigger baggage).
GUH, this is SOOO SMART😭👏🏼👏🏼 I was doing a lot of pausing, rewinding, digesting, replaying & note-taking to this one. Such key information🔑 & expressed so clearly & with great understanding… thank you💓
so many juicy bits. The self forgiveness is huge and I didn't realise I had a lot to do but if I perceive others not seeing me well then I realise now it reflects me. Ouch to the righteous anger. Been there..even when in 3d they apologise it wasn't 'enough' of an apology. Now it actually seems funny...from a distance I always wish I gave them a hug and said thank you. I can forgive that now and approving of self is huge too. Thank you
New sub here. Thank you so much. Really needed this. My sp has changed, treating me better but i am still seeking his most sincere apology despite all his efforts, still bringing up his past mistakes which i myself had unconciously manifested and thus, making us both feel bad. Now I realise, its this chronic invalidation that's really keeping me stuck from having the relationship of my dreams. Thank you so much for putting it this way. Now i know how to affirm with full belief and hopefully with more effectiveness. Thank you.
I can't believe how perfect the timing of this video is! This is exactly what I have been struggling with! I have been able to do the forgiveness thing and let go with others. But I'm having major issues with it when it comes to my SP! Thank you for this video. It unlocked something in me. I needed to see this today.
Hey Genevieve, I'd love you to do a video on the fear of getting cheated on / trust issues. For example, I know about the past of my SP and he hasn't been always loyal in his past relationships. Idk but no matter how much I put the focus on him being loyal to me, there's still this little voice in my head that says "you're naïve for willingly trusting him". I even get stomachache when he goes out with his friends. What would be a way to not be stuck in this reality of being worried..?
It is easy to think forgiveness is only for the forgiven. I like the image of energetic chord cutting that sets free both the forgiver and forgiven from being bound to a limited understanding and a past that isn't life enhancing for anyone. Righteous indignation is seldom if ever helpful. It is a noose for a wounded self. Sometimes the forgiveness journey is brief, and sometimes it is a choice and path we keep putting ourselves on because it is a life giving path to spend our energy on.
This is such a good video. I never needed an apology but I did feel incredibly invalidated. I caught myself expecting to be betrayed always. And now I realise why things kept happening. Thank you ❤
You are amazing. I've been struggling wanting not necessarily an apology, but for them for acknowledge that what they did was wrong. I needed that in order for me to continue seeing them as a good and honorable person with integrity, so I could trust them again. I still don't get how validating and loving myself can bring this change, but I fully get now that I need to feel myself into a reality where all the apologies and forgiveness had happened. Hopefully I can find a way to mentally get there. Thank you
Girl, I can't even explain how needed this is. I got into my manifesting journey almost 3 years ago and half the people I talked to made me feel like I was evil for wanting an apology, the other half couldnt explain the dynamic going on within nearly as well as you just did. So for that, thank you!! Could you do a video on ghosting in the future? :) xoxo
I have been avoiding this video. Finally watched it today and that bit around 17:30? Put so many things into focus. Like everything looks different now. Worst part? The apology i want isn't even related to all this other stuff.... but on inspection in this light? It is all the same. Your channel is really great. Thanks for the great content. ❤🎉
Also if you ever make a follow up video about forgiveness, a course in miracles and nondual teachings really bring all of what you say here full circle. We are all one. ❤
I love how you break things down for us. In every video you make it click for me. Amazing! Can you maybe make a video on being in a relationhip when sp hasn't 'changed' fully into the new version yet? I get triggered alot when he is showing up as the old version and that makes it harder to ignore the 3D because it is right in my face.
Genevieve, thank you so much for this video. I've been struggling with anger and resentment towards my SP for over a year, been watching many videos, reading Neville, yet something about the way you explained things here really snapped me out of it. I know I created those situations with my state of mind at that time, and there is no reason to be angry at him, he just played the part that I wrote. I still needed to revise a lot of it, because remembering would again put me back in the state of anger, Neville was very right when he said you can't truly forgive if you don't forget, so revising has emotionally detached me from those stories and I could let them go. But how do I go about forgiving things he hasn't done to me, it's just the way he was when we met? I know I didn't create any of that, because he was that way long before I knew him, and some things he has said and done to others still continuously pop up in my mind and I struggle trusting him, have fears he has those qualities are still inside him. I guess I could revise those memories too, but what I want from him is some acknowledgement that it WAS wrong, I can't be with someone who thinks it's okay to be that way, or to sweep things under a rug, or to make excuses...how do I embody the state where I get validation that he knows acting a certain way is wrong and he owns up to his actions instead of believing his actions were justified?
Thank you so much for sharing this valuable message!! I realize now that i do feel angry with them and Yikes 😑 you’re right, I’m not getting anything out of being upset- (it’s just an unconscious old habit, ego wanting control)😮it’s My Own Resistance that’s keeping the Distance. WoW💥 I am taking my Power back, 💫my Consciousness is all I can control ✨I am seen, heard, validated, loved...I am secure! I needed this right now, especially with the holidays coming, Lesson learned ❤thank you Genevieve
Oh, thank God. I swear my home page on YT is synched with whatever block and solution I need. I had been unable to flip the switch about this particular topic and you asked such important questions that I was finally able to get to the root and shift. Thank you 🙏
19:47 I do see staying stuck not forgiving is like protective but when I healed my life I started thinking these people aren’t in control IAM with the universal God energy so it let them off the hook and took away my protective wounds LOA is amazing for any trauma wounds yall! 💕
Thank you so much. Your videos are amazing. They bring everything together for me that I have learned over time and they are answering all the questions that I have had recently in a way that deeply resonates with my heart and all other parts of my being that just say yes!!!!
❤❤❤❤ thank you. So reassuring ❤❤❤❤ love the recognition we're making mistakes sometimes because we are only human - and that's ok - there's nothing wrong with us 😊
I have learned to forgive women who have hurt me. I learned not to give hurt, bitterness, anger, and so on free mental rent. The ones I did not forgive took up free rent in my mind for many, many months until I learned the power of being the first one to forgive. The ones I did forgive right after a breakup were gone physically and mentally which allowed me to be happy knowing that I am single and expensive as opposed to single and free. I have become high value!! All those experiences have made me strong enough to easily and effortlessly walk away. I am smarter in relationship also.
The person I cannot forgive is dead (my mother). I can forgive my SO - he’s great! But I would like a lot more thank yous, more money, flowers, and a ring.
What do you think of the idea of self betrayal, repressed anger, and fawning when trying to manifest an sp who cheated on you? Like what’s the empowered way to forgive? Codependency tends to lean towards fake forgiveness and holds grudges, smiling in people’s faces who we hate but don’t feel safe enough to do anything with the underlying hatred … how do you get to that point of REAL forgiveness in the heart vs just words and actions that look like forgiveness…? Your explanations are the only ones that actually detangle the demonic beliefs and deep hidden blocks. Tysm! 🙌🏾
What’s the point of receiving love or an apology if it’s not naturally GIVIN???? I understand healing helps, but it will never be enough for a wounded self .
The old story is giving me a hard time. What happens when we realize that someone has left us in a mean way and hurt us? Who will pay for this? If I forgive, will that person try to come back to me and realize his mistake
Forgiveness doesn't mean allowing that person back into your life, it just means releasing the need to be acknowledged by the other person in the way they weren't able to.
How you stand out with loa and I’ve done this for years on and off and fell off the tracks miserably but anywho you are standing out on you tube by making the point that the inner state of being really matters more than just imagining a reunion or apology, etc. bc if they had apologized why do you want it? To feel better in side. So you’ll have to feel better in that heart chakra jn your thoughts before you get that apology. And like your other video it’s like you help others by living in the state of forgiveness. They get to grow in love too. 🌈 ❤
Does the sp refer to the person you are married to or can it refer to someone you would love to marry , the limerance you spoke of in other video if it caused the SP to be pushed away and marry someone else in another country.. can the SP still be manifested back ?
What's going on when you are already being in the state of forgiveness with yourself and your SP and you are content with your self concept and don't feel the powerful need for the 3D to prove itself yet there's literally nothing coming from the 3D? Sorry for the long question... I've been following you for a few weeks now and everything clicks so much! I'm mostly okay with the way things are and with myself. I just really feel like something should have shifted on every level.... Yet there's still nothing moving from my SP.
if you're fixated on it, you just won't get it. Because the universe doesn't care how you feel and isn't going to do it for you when you're feeling bad and needing it most.
@ManifestwithGenevieve this is so great!!! Thank you!! Can you do a version of this for being chosen and prioritized? I love the way you explain stuff!! Thank you! 🤍🤍🤍🤍🤍
