I used to be a checker at a neighborhood grocery store. This guy saw me talking to one of my regular customers. He handed me a note & asked if I would give to her the next time I saw her. He seemed like a nice guy & so I did. They ended up getting married. 😊
@@CoffeewithCareyLong -Term- Relationship is dead globally all due to smartphones. No one meets women anymore face to face like before smartphones came out. Cold approach is dead too. Today women don't even look or smile anymore, all on their cell phones 24/7 on dating apps for hookups. No wonder why men have given up!
If a guy likes the look of you, then he will approach you. I've been point blank asked for my number, asked if I need help reaching anything (I am only 5'), had offers to load my groceries in the car on a number of occasions, three times got chatting and been asked to go to the coffee shop ...... Etc etc. At 46, how did I meet my husband? New city ..... Apartment complex held a new tenants coffee evening. He was on his way out to dinner, noticed me through the glass wall, and stopped. Manager told him ..... "Move quick because I've had two guys already ask about her". He took courage in his hands and walked over. Ten minutes later, he had picked up our coffee and I had grabbed our cake. One week later, we had been out to dinner and enjoyed a sightseeing Sunday. Six months later, we were engaged. He is super successful. Well dressed. Highly educated. Witty. Slim and fit. Kind and supportive. Why had he been passed over? Because he is 5' 6" . Broaden your horizons if you want a good man!
I bet there is a difference in the courage level it takes to approach a dainty 5' woman vs. one that is nearly 6' tall, no matter whether she's curvy or slim. And just like there are few men who have the cojones to approach women taller than themselves, there are few women who will at first sight - be physically attracted to men that are shorter than them. I'm not saying it doesn't happen - but I think it takes a bit more knowing each other for that to work, kind a needing a chance to grow on each other...
I also see them and enjoy the view and cologne but only take a bite if they ask first. Me Too is the law in California. Our first dates are always somewhere where there is no camouflage or fake up: Beach, swimming, gym, sauna, horse riding, skiing or tennis courts. What you see is real and not fake.
@@CoffeewithCarey My fave is my gym club sauna. Open 24/7. No chunkies or fatties dare to enter. The fake up will melt like cheese at these temperatures 150 deg F.
A few years back I was approached by an older woman around my age, working a Kiosk in a major department store, who told me I was handsome...I don't get those comments normally, but thanked her. Of course we had some small talk when I'd visit the store, but I became turned off when she admitted (and women usually tell on themselves after a while) how she left her long term marriage to a very good husband and great father because she "got bored". She offered me her number, so we exchanged. I threw it away, deciding to not waste time on someone who threw her marriage over something so correctable....Women look at a mans future - but we guys look at their past. Still, was flattered by her attention, but I enjoy my financial security and peace.
Did you think that she was going to share the true and accurate details of why she got divorced with someone she had just met, and who had not yet earned her trust to deserve her most personal stories? Maybe she got bored with being demeaned in public settings or bored with all the time she spent alone because he was cheating. You had not yet earned the right to her story and I would fault her for sharing it with you as a stranger. 🤷🏻♀️
@@CoffeewithCarey - She said she got bored with HIM. She volunteered all the information freely, so I took it at face value. If she wants to lie out of the box thats on her. Who's talking about rights? Nothing on me, I didn't interrogate her, I just let her talk. I'm glad she shared it, it helped me understand a little of her nature.
The view from your high horse is still the view of a single guy. There may be more to your story, but, assuming you found her physically attractive, you should have pursued whatever short-term opportunity there was rather than projecting into the future.
@@srbaruchi - I've lived enough in my 60+ years to know the key to peace, happiness, preservation of my wealth and...my sanity, is to carefully tread when it comes to, or practice complete avoidance altogether of "short-term" opportunities. Those can result in some long term losses. She was ordinary and didn't possess anything singling her out from any other woman. I found her story rather sad and her future to possibly being one where something will never be enough. I'm also old enough to understand that a woman of her age is foremost looking for security and to return to a life of "easy mode". I made a vow to myself that in my older years, I'd never again raise another child, nor support another woman. Be Well.
Carey, you've got great conversational style. You're so right about meeting people at grocery stores. The grocers have put alot of work into creating an atmosphere of saying "yes" to purchases. Why not ride that wave for free?
I had a man approach me in the Aldi parking lot...lol He asked if he could place my groceries in my car for me. I saw him at the check-out, he was in front of me. He said he saw me in the store and waited for me to head to the check out before he checked out. I had no idea! He gave me his number and asked if he could take me to dinner. I took his number and sent a text a few days later. We had lunch. He was cute, very gentlemanly, business owner, but too young for me. I admired his confidence to approach me. I wish more men had his style.
Well, if I’m JUST being friendly and they say that, I might say “well feel free to pass my friendliness along..” but you’re always have to be trying to figure that out, and there’s absolutely nothing wrong with a natural mistake. It doesn’t have to be embarrassing. And nothing wrong with asking which pretty much broadcasts your interest.
Most married women area "available" just like they were single. Most women filing for divorce already have a few orbiters in their rotation. A man wearing a wedding ring shows responsibility and looks safer than one more single guy who is on the hunt.
It depends on what you are looking for, but I never notice a ring. I make eye contact give a friendly smile, if I get one back that opens the door. If you are finger checking you my miss her signal that she is opening the door. So what if she is married, you made a friendly contact.
This is EXACTLY what will happen. And even if not married, they will always say "I already have a boyfriend" --- even if they don't! This is one of the first things that all women learn to do.
One of your best videos, because, you give a lot of ideas on how to (start/break the ice) on a possible new relationship, and that rejection is no big deal, Thanks
I'm 57 and women chat me up at the supermarket all the time. I'm not attracted to women my age, but I'm polite to them. However, I don't stop to chat. Men really start to die off around 55, due to heart issues and strokes, and men generally prefer younger women, so the pickings for women get slim pretty quick. That's my theory as to why female attention toward me has increased dramatically. Women even outright tell me I'm handsome now. It was much different ten or even five years ago.
Men are dying off at 55? No, that’s not anything I can back with science. And not all men prefer younger women so I don’t agree with your theory but I will say that some men get more attractive with maturity in their 50s which is perhaps why you’re enjoying compliments.
I have never seen this happen to anyone, and as a man it certainly has NEVER happened to me! When I hear stories like this, I really have a hard time believing them. You say "all the time"?????? For almost all of us men, it is more like "never".
unless people are talking about eating sleeping or pooping I never believe anything is happening all the time. My sweeping generalization/ exaggeration flags get thrown and I’m leery. He also said men are dying off at 55, and that it is slim picking for women. So how am I supposed to take the rest of what he says at face value? But I do know that a smile on your face and a friendly lighthearted attitude will take you far in attracting people to you and if you’re willing to say hello, or start a friendly conversation, you might be surprised…
I’m from Houston. We talk to everybody. First trip to London I was down in the subway waiting for the next train. There was a woman sitting on the same bench and she was checking me out. So I said “hello”. She got up and left and a few minutes later returned with a cop who asked me why I was bothering this woman.
I highly doubt that is true. First of all, there are not random police officers hanging around in the London Underground and finding one would be really difficult in a few minutes.
@@brianthesnail3815 it’s a story and tell me all the time. I’m used to it if you listen to fellas women are running off screaming and jumping off of bridges just because of guy who believes he is not good looking said something friendly. Lol.
LOL! After answering the cop, you should have told him "We'll, I guess I should have told her she's a skank and please walk away far enough so I can't see you".
Let’s be real here - the vast majority of men today are not going to approach a woman they don’t know, in the grocery store (or anywhere else for that matter), to ask here out on a date. Sorry ladies, but that custom went the way of the rotary phone.
This was awesome!!! 😅 I know you address talking to people in public, that helps me so much! Thank you so much thanks for making this video about the grocery store!!! ❤️ 😊 Loved it🎉
The best line I ever heard/saw for a grocery store was in a movie with Steve Martin called My Blue Heaven. He sees a woman that he wants to approach (played by Carol Kane). She’s standing in front of a glass door in the frozen food section. As she opens the door he comes up behind her and says… (paraphrasing here) You know it’s dangerous for you to be here in this section. She turns to him and asks why. He leans in close and says, Because you could MELT all this stuff! Believe me when I tell you that it’s MUCH better in the movie than I can explain here. If you haven’t seen it, look for it. I’m sure it’s on a streaming service somewhere.
Carey, you're a Chicago girl! I miss Dominick's, it's long gone. I agree that this is a great strategy for a man to break the ice by asking questions in a grocery store. A very similar strategy is for a woman to do the same in a hardware store. If you frequent the same establishment all the time, it's advantageous to get to know the employees also. This way, if you see someone of interest talking to an employee, you can step in quickly to greet the person you already know and be acknowledged by the other person. Good talk.
A farmers market is actually a place where I am comfortable talking to strangers. I used to sell nursery stock at a farmers market. It was actually a good place for meeting people.
@@CoffeewithCarey Men are careful of smiling which is a sign of simping (placing her on a pedestal) behavior. Women want to ride a horse that she can not always control.
Its funny saw title lol, i met both my late wives in grocery stores lol. And my girlfriend now in parking lot of grocery store, late eives were both at the butcher counter, i helped puck meat out, and ended up talking.. my girlfriend now actually found me in parking lot, i was going to go in but had an urge, i selfsuck, and she saw, stayed until i was done, she was amazed, ended up going for lunch, and that was 6 years ago, everyone seems amazed at tallent? But normal for me, figured it out as kid. I love it, not hurting anyone, i do all the time, even now, in college id pick up women in bars, betting and sharing tallent, but long term relationships were grocer stores lol Tyvm
I have no idea why this popped-up in my feed, but, even though I am a married man, and not looking around, I thought that I would watch and listen, for the entertainment value. I then realized that a man had probably flirted with me, while I was looking for a specific cat food, for an elderly neighbor’s cat, a few days ago. (I sometimes shop for a mobility-impaired neighbor.) I then recalled that a seemingly random woman had been quite helpful with advice, in the cat food section of a different grocery store, several months ago. Of course, it could simply be that people in the “cat culture” are more likely to speak to fellow cat folks, but it could be that the cat food section is a particularly good place to intentionally meet others.
Let's be clear that Caucasian men should NOT begin conversations with women they find physically attractive with the intent of a relationship. The woman could potentially ruin the man's life. Caucasian men should look into mgtow.
@@kimmorrison9169 I think if you have a negative attitude and assume people are bad or rude or not friendly that is what you draw to you if you are like us and assume that you will get a great reaction and people will be appreciative of your friendly nature… That is what you will find. 🤎
I like to approach women at the supermarket and say " i want to take you to a 5 star restaurant on the first date and pay for everything " . Then i say " psyche" and walk away.
Once I asked out a local broad in front of others to dinner on the condition that she will have to pay, since I don’t have any money! She turned down the offer! And I’m glad she did!🏴☠️
Strange how this popped up when I just had an incident Friday at the grocery store. This woman actually stalked me through the store. Didn't say a word, just followed me. At the checkout she was there behind me. As I was done and started to walk away she says excuse me, don't you want my number? I turned around and said, "umm, no". "Why not, we walk through the whole store together." I look at the cashier and said I have no idea who this is or what she wants. I walked out, loaded my truck as fast as I could and left. Y'all be crazy!
Problem with the grocery store is that they're shopping and want to get their stuff and get home. But I have a few intro lines I use there, like - too many choices! they keep moving things around! - which is true where I shop. Do you come here often, is tired, but it may make her smile, or get a cold look, could break the ice. Rarely I may get the chance to ask her if she wants to get a coffee, but often it doesn't happen.
Playful, flirty lines like, Are cheetos really good for you? Ever heard of the snickers bar diet? Can get a smile or a laugh and start things off. Cat/dog food section does have some possibilities.
You can see who you are dealing with, do they have children, tattoos, makeup and their attitude, saves a lot of time.i seem to run out of money for a date with hungry kids so it doesn’t go any further or I never see them again.
Whenever I see a woman holding a can of dog/cat food, I say "well I guess the in laws are coming to dinner". The entertainment value of the reactions are priceless, lol.
I am 6'3" and I get asked alot to pull something off the top shelf for ladies who can't reach that high up. They are always grateful and occasionally I will sense when a lady would like to start up a conversation but unfortunately I was born with a dry sense of humor and I always reply with something goofy like "well maybe in your next life you will be born tall! 😂😅 And then head home wondering what might have been if I could just get a little more serious about meeting someone.
Off the top of my head… “For the price of one home-cooked lasagna meal, I could even clean off the tops of all your cabinets! Would you like my number just in case?”
@@CoffeewithCarey Are you talking about you cleaning my top shelves or me cleaning yours? The last time I reached onto one of my top shelves, something bit me! Hey but nothing better than home cooked lasagna with fresh garlic bread except you wouldn't want to try mine. A friend once called it A Touch of the Amazon Rain Forest Lasagna! But seriously (sortof) what state do you reside?
@@CoffeewithCarey Thanks, but also know that I'm 75, so the age range of women I can go up to is more shallow; maybe 65+. There is also the possibility that some I meet that say they're already in a relationship are really letting me down easy because they prefer a guy taller than my 5'5" height.
Cat food isle say “now all I have to do is figure the one they’ll eat today” works a very high percentage of the time. Cat lovers always enjoy talking and showing pics of their cat. Even better than the cucumber section in produce
I always look for ladies at the grocery store. Most look like they just mowed the lawn, lol. Women rarely look up and around, they are uninterested. Good luck everyone...
One good line that comes automatically is when I see a cart almost empty or has more bottled water or something non alcoholic or whatever, “ looks like you gonna have a wild party tonite!”. The intention is to generate good vibes and that’s all! If there is a fun replay I continue, on the same generous intentions, bringing light fun for the sake of a short fun conversation. I might also come to talk about the potatoes in my basket or whatever it is there. At the end I say hi and thank them for a nice and kind conversation. It lightens my mood and fear of conversation so it helps me in general. Hopefully the other side too.
Yes! I love this. Except your wild party line could definitely go over somebody’s head if they are not paying attention, or a little distracted. You’re not always expecting somebody to be facetious in the grocery store. 👍
@@CoffeewithCarey the reason I even open my mouth is for my own fun.. if they join in is better and if not the same. And I know sometimes they might not hear me and it’s so ok. I’ve sparked many fun conversations like this and as a result one of the cute cashiers started hitting on me too. I also talk to the cashiers, in special when late in the evening. I am thankful for them being there at that hour, and I ask them about the time they came and how long they have, if their feet hurt and so on. Or I pretend to pay with a banknote like you swipe a card. It gets funny
Good sunny Saturday morning to all of you!!! For all of you that usually listen to videos while you do something else - this is one that actually needs watching too! And a pen and a piece of paper for good measure! If you're just listening - you're missing more than half of her suggestions - go have another look! And for gods (goddess') sake - like and share it and/or support it with some comments. This video deserves to be +++ should be well on it's way to being viral - it's loaded with super - and more important - absolutely usable advice! Carey - this one is right on par with the other one last week in quality content. The other one touched the heart, this one is chock-full of easy to translate and adjustable info! You rock!!!
@@CoffeewithCarey I bet! I can see how much effort and also intent + goodwill went into the making of it! I just don't get why you're not getting any more traction? You're using good shorts. You're utilizing your community page very well with interesting polls + frequent messages. You should be growing by bounds and leaps. Maybe better keywords, tags, etc in the titles and experiment in the info box as well? I wish for your channel to become so successful, that get so flooded with replies and comments, that you can't keep up with them any longer and you not feeling guilty for it, LOL.
@@CoffeewithCarey Yes, they're called NYPD. Kidding aside, older males have more hurdles these days, but I shall implement your suggestions and let you know. Thx
I have a friend who would go to an unfamiliar grocery store in a different section of town and ask an interesting looking man if this was his usual store and if he knew where a certain item was. I worked at a DMV for several years and have no problem talking to people.
One of the major grocery store chains in Ohio, has a Starbucks inside near the checkout area. That would be perfect for a safe, no pressure first chat.
After dating and being engaged twice I just stopped caring what women want or even care. 50 now and life is freaking great and I’ve grown a nice bank and retirement account. Hunting and working out with some fishing is much more fun and zero drama except for working on what you to buy next. I’m out and I’m a 9 Chad.
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Pleasure to meet you! You’re not the first from down under, but you are certainly a welcome addition! I hope you find plenty of new insights and things to ponder from the channel! 😀🤎👍
I cracked a very nice looking lady up a few weeks ago in the grocery store - she went past me with a grocery cart that had a wheel that was making a constant "scree scree scree" noise, and as she went past me, I made sure she saw I was looking down at her cart, I could tell out of the corner of my eye that she was a little put out, but determined to pass by. A few moments she stopped by the dairy case to get some milk, and as I strolled up, I said "Out of ALL the grocery carts in this store, you just had to get THAT ONE!" and she busted out laughing with an "I know, right?"
There's always someone else - at least with me. I've also run into gals with enough "baggage" to fill a cargo hold of a passenger jet. I'd rather spend my time and money helping others who have life a lot worse than me. Stay wise. Be careful with your heart. Ciao.
I give honest compliments, for instance, if a woman comes through the door, and I’m on my way out with my groceries ; I ‘ll say :” That color jacket looks so lovely on you ! “ However, I complimented an older guy on his houndstooth scarf, and he was so startled and defensively announced: “ I’m MARRIED ! “ ( I’m a female ) 😊
Carey, you are correct,....do not invite someone to your home for the first date since it is too early to trust them. Do not try to show off your house as you will only attract gold-diggers. First date should be out in public, a walk, coffee, something inexpensive where you can talk and get to know the person. Movies or dinner are not really my choices for a first date (too much of a money commitment and not necessarily conducive to talking). Rejection is perfectly fine, the bigger worry is picking a bad person.
Movies and dinner are not good. First date choices. Agreed. Nor is coffee unless you align it with that walk, you were talking about. I wouldn’t worry about anything. Not rejection not choosing incorrectly. Worrying is not something I choose to do with my energy.
Beth, I’m in the same boat with a clerk at my grocery store. I really turn on the charm and she is super attentive. Her name is one I had never heard before so I asked her how to pronounce it, etc. Then “where are you from?” Turns out it is one of the central Asian countries north of Afghanistan. Hence almost certainly of the Islamic faith. No chance of a relationship.
A grocery store and even a laundromat are better than online or at a bar for meeting people. The first two locations are better for seeing people in their quiescent state and get visual clues what things they like. Online and a bar are filled with people trying to be something they aren’t; too many filters.
I love this! It seems so many women these days avid making eye contact. I'm 48 and it didn't seem to be this way in the past. Do you have any comments on why this is so? It's as if people are so distrustful of one another anymore. I live my life with no regrets; you are right about avoiding regrets, even if you get turned down.
Bob, try an experiment; just keep a gentle smile on your face and see what happens. I think so many people are just oblivious and seem unfriendly, but would love to make some connections.
@@CoffeewithCarey I'll try it! A few years ago, I was at the grocery store and I saw the most beautiful woman imaginable. She was wearing black yoga pants, boots, and had a very ample rear end. I wanted so bad to talk to her but I had no clue how to start off the conversation! I felt I looked really good also, wearing a tight shirt that accentuated my chest and arms. I kept going close to her but she never said anything. Ohh, the regrets! lol
True story below- This is utterly delightful and a great brush up on skills that I once had but that i got rusty on and pretty much lost along the way of a marriage that didn't work and some other relationships with women who kinda couldn't figure out what they wanted. I'm single and 57(m). Ok: true story now: Spring 1992 I was bringing a bag of trash and some recyclables to the Bethel, Vermont "Transfer Station", which somehow was actually in among trees, not some bare ugly area. A woman showed up just after I'd parked. She was like 10-15 years older than me (I'm plenty attracted then and now to women older than me (and women same age or younger than me)) Out of her plain Subaru, she was, like me, unpacking and dropping off"single person" amounts of trash and recyclables. She was cute and I could sense that she was smart. Out of my lips with almost no aforethought, came the cheesiest bar pickup line (ive never been into spending time in bars, at any point in my life). So i just let fly "Come Here Often?" She lit up with delight and whether or not she'd been checking me out before without my knowing it, sge was aglow with affectionate and maybe even slightly desirous inclinations on her face towards me. Unfortunately I was scheduled to move to a spot 1.5 hours away and start working near the Canadian Border for a demanding position being lawclerk for multiple judges. I also had a pretty shitty self image and a lot of fears that I'd mis-read affection and offend women or get rejected by women. And she was obviously a really quality gem of a woman and i wouldn't have wanted just a fling with her and she wasn't giving off vibes like she would want just a fling. I should have at least gotten her number, though those were the days when most phones were still on cords plugged into the wall. I've always wished that I'd at least gotten her number and gone on at least s first date with her. I've got a photographic memory and I can literally picture her sweet smile at me after I asked "come here often" - i wish that I had not been afflicted with such shyness that I didn't know what to do next as she just glowed with appreciation that I'd shown her some attraction/ appreciation. So now it's 32 years later and I'm single yet again (but single is better than being with someone where neither of you are a good mutual fit). Sweet Woman dropping trash and recycling at the Bethel VT "Dump" somewhere back around May 1992, are you still out there somewhere, and maybe single right now? If nothing else maybe I can meet some very distant cousin or niece of hers, or just some similar kindred spirits, somewhere as I voyage as a single guy in ky late 50s amidst grocery stores and country stores in rural North/ Northeast Vermont. There's some woman who can be a lifelong sweetheart somewhere in my future. Thanks for the wonderful video. I just subscribed. Look forward to checking out other videos by you, you sweetheart woman doing videos like this!
Awww, Trevor, you are such a romantic. Look at all of the assumptions you made about her by knowing absolutely nothing at all. You were even able to read her mind in a multitude of ways. ;-) But yes, indeed even dropping off recyclables is a great place to talk to strangers and next time that opportunity presents itself I’m sure you learned to kee the conversation going for a bit!
One genuine sweet story like this more than makes up for all the MGTOW guys + Red Pillers that can't help themselves leaving their refuse behind elsewhere in the comments. Thanks for sharing and reminiscing!
People go to the store to shop, not to find love. Leave them alone lol I don't want people talking to me and given the look on people's faces, neither do they (That being said, if this lady approached me I would welcome a conversation with her)
See! There you go! So watch the video again and practice some of the lines that might work for you. You never know when you might find the courage and opportunity to talk to her!
Women in my opinion have killed dating with their overblown expectations or having men risk being called a creep for just approaching them unless you're 6 ft 2 inches & look like Chad or Tyrone. Instead stay on your purpose Brothers and the women will follow.
As a Brit this is all to embarrassingly cringing to listen to, however whilst waiting at the supermarket checkout conveyor today to pay for groceries, a lady that was also stood behind me in the queue caught me glancing in her direction, she looked at me and thought I was checking her out 🤣😁. Hahaha ... do you get it - checking her out ... Sorry I'll get my coat 👋😊 🇬🇧
You’re missing out Michael! You can cringe or you can connect with other humans. Doesn’t matter if it leads to a date… it feels really fantastic! 🤷🏻♀️
I am in retail wholesale it is easy to talk to customers and start a conversation with them and humor is a good way to start I make them feel comfortable and give them great service on products that we sell. I have built friendships on this from returning customers over the years and been in this business for 39 years and enjoy doing it. Talking to people is second nature to me I meet their needs as a customer That’s how I approach people. Have a great day.
..I not my very first hot GF...an older woman..ten-years older in a grocery store..I was a Keebler sakes rep and she was a marketer..I struck up a conversation and within a few months we were going at it like rabbits..and stayed together for over ten years...
The grocery store is a horrible place to try and meet someone. It's just not a comfortable place to talk. It looks weird for men and women to have long conversations there in front of people.
I never said anything about long conversations. It’s about a brief conversation, anintroduction and getting a phone number. Yeah, a long conversation in a grocery store is freaking weird! 😵💫
@@ssiegreen5292 I control the meat department. Women look so confused about the proper selection criteria for beef. I always suggest the Choice grade standing rib roast. When she asks for details I tell her I can show her at my ranch. This always works. We usually end up "cooking" before the first date.
@@crimestoppers1877 Eeeew - gross! Seriously - - - you and @danielmorgan + whoever the salty nut guy was - - - when you're leading like that - why not simply ask if she wants to FFF instead of maligning innocent veggies and other food groups? I will never look at a cucumber or a standing rib roast the same way, sigh.
I like making unsuspecting women laugh with a usually ridiculous comment relative to whatever they are totally engrossed in doing… Unfortunately between home delivery, drive up pickup, and shopping from home for just about everything online, there are a lot less people shopping in stores, so other than store employees there are far fewer opportunities for a spontaneous connection than before the pandemic. It’s often so dead in stores and restaurants these days that there’s time to shoot the bull or flirt a bit with the more sociable employees.
@@CoffeewithCarey It likely depends on the population density of where one happens to be and how much the economy has affected people’s spending habits. I’m in a suburban part of a fairly large city and other than the expected peak times store traffic is very light. It’s the sort of thing where Fri and Saturday evenings (after work/after dinner) at the local supermarket/big box stores presented occasional opportunities, but in the last 6 months or so, I’ve gone into the store and found myself wondering what happened. And that is with hundreds of new homes being built in the immediate area.
This is what happens if you absolutely fearlessly and genuinely don't hold back a thing. Admittedly I had had a few drinks but the fastest I have ever met someone and then started kissing was about 20 seconds. My friends and I had been to a couple of bars on a Friday night and arrived at yet another. A cute girl approached me and told me she loved my teeshirt. It was black with a gold glitter Rolls Royce RR logo on it. Kind of funny and ostentatious. We moved closer as I said you can come for a ride if you like. We were laughing and were admiring each other and next thing we were passionately kissing. My friends where like, what the?
Carey, I've been watching you for just a few months now after one of your videos came up. THIS video is so good. find out what works for you ponening is so wise. ima widower after 25 years with my best friend.may fave place to tease her was grocery store. She always laughed or smiled. I can't wait to give these a try. Quick story in my 20s, I'm 62 now I'd go dancing fri satnights.if I saw a group of lady's having a great time together I'd walk up to the table . ask the one I fancied. Is it your birthday? theyed say, yes, or no. if no I'd Say would you like to dance. typical they'd dance with me at least once. If they said Yes it was. I'd Say how about a birthday kiss? if they said yes I'd give Thema quick kiss. then ask them to Dance. No to a kiss I'd Say Dance? they'd say yes. it wasa great ice breaker!! and so unusual it worked really really well. obviously this wasn't done Ina creepy way just a fun approach. big smile and flirt. now when I'm ready I'm gonna try out the groc store. with yourtips and ideas.thank you.
@CoffeewithCarey thank you. it's a whole different world at 62 than in my mid 20s. But nice, fun, kind lady's are still here. We all just look a little different and have some battle scars. thank you for your response too.
@@camaroacrossamerica7266 The focus here when I originally started was a lot more on getting back out there after 50. So maybe check out some of my older episodes too. And if you get stuck, you can always follow the link down below to my website and schedule a coaching session. ;-)
@@CoffeewithCarey Claim your experience. A local body builder in my gym just won the Open class ( all ages and weight classes) at age 65. The next runner up was age 30. Tell us about women at the same ages? A 65 year old with a 30 year old? Not on this planet. The first wall for women is age 30, the second wall at age 50.
