@@AG-vp1ok he gave me flowers on second date, admitted that he is "rude" and when ask to clarify, he said he is just blunt. He texted 3 times and deleted it when I was at the movies with a gf claiming he was worried. Later in the relationship he dissapeared for 4 hrs and when I said I was concerned, he got defensive. I learned a lot from that relationship.
Ok I see what you’re saying but my question is, when do you start counting from 0-3? I’ve been dealing with a woman from about 4 months now. We’ve been seeing each other 3-4 times a week. It’s just now gotten to the point she’s emotionally invested. Hope my question makes sense.
Soooo... here's an update. It's October 31st and last weekend I got engaged to a man I met in June. Here's the lesson.... when people are certain about what they want and manifest it and have wisdom and faith, they don't waste time. I'm 50, my now fiancé is 56. Wedding will happen in a few years because we want to build a house first. So the question for you is... what do you want? A wife? A girlfriend? A companion? And... what lifestyle do you want? And does she want the same? Clarity matters.
Intimacy isn't sex. Intimacy is the connection between people rooted in trust. Sex is a physical act. Most women want to know a man can be trusted and grow to feel comfortable with them before they have sex. So... the more time you spend together, the more attention you show (without being creepy) they more trust will build. Men who are desperate for sex without establishing intimacy (trust) first is a turnoff to women who know their value.
