How to react when someone insults you? Dealing with Rude People - Personality Development Tips

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How to react when someone insults you? Dealing with Rude People - Personality Development Tips
Hey, welcome back to Skillopedia, the place to learn skills for the real world and improve your personality and soft skills training. Well, today we are going to talk about how to deal with insults and how we can respond to them. An insult is nothing but when someone speaks to you or treats you with disrespect. Have you ever been at the receiving end of an insult? That’s not a very pleasant thing, is it? Well, what do you do when you are insulted? Do you insult the person straight back? Or do you break down and cry? Or do you simply leave the place and avoid the person who has insulted you altogether? Well, today's Personality Development video is going to teach you about how you can respond effectively to people who insult you or make fun of you. This life skill lesson is a glimpse of our personality Development course conducted at our learning centre in Mumbai.
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@skillopedia 6 лет назад

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@cristinasullo2137 6 лет назад

Skillopedia - Skills for the real world this is really helpful for me

@niecybaby1960 6 лет назад

Skillopedia - Skills for the real world You forgot Race!

@janpreeyanankwanjaipanich3745 6 лет назад

Skillopedia - Skills for the real world : very nice trips I really don't know how to react when ppl act rude to me so i just ignore it and walk away. Sometimes it is harder when ppl insult me but they did not point to my name as when i walk into the place they are and they start talking shits out without naming to me but i can know they are insulting me.

@smileyface8832 5 лет назад

niecybaby1960 She's speaking to all of us in general. So it doesn't matter what race you are...

@fatimaansari1112 5 лет назад

Skillopedia - Skills for the real world Can you also make the video in Hindi and Urdu?

@chynaajade 3 года назад

" When someone puts you down, they are already below you."

@cynthiad.9569 2 года назад

I love this one. Thank you!

@chynaajade 2 года назад

@@cynthiad.9569 .....You're Welcome. Happy Weekend!!

@yummykitchendirect4528 2 года назад

100% true

@speedymclips1572 2 года назад

I told my crush why I like her because she is asked the reasons. Then I trust her and tell the reasons why I like her. Now she spread them in the school. Now everyone humiliated me. Please tell me how to get over this. Please guys. If things gets worst I don't know how to handle. 😭😭😭😭💔💔 I feel like I'm a fool because I trust her😭😭 please help me. What I do to this😭

@justinamusyoka4986 2 года назад

Its always better to look up,down is dangerous.

@arthurfleck8681 5 лет назад

rude people are the weakest , notice how fast they lose their mind when you reply to them even though they started it

@nady2265 4 года назад

@@arandomdude5682 should of told them to eat shit and die... pardon my french

@cesar518 4 года назад

Facts, some people start talking sh*t and when u talk back then they say, ok that’s it stop it or stuff like that

@babydo1ll 4 года назад

Vampiresoap nah bullies just have a crush on you

@7minutesago4yearsago29 4 года назад

@balla x Or they have something going on at home and they’re surprised that you react because they can’t even react when it comes to facing the person who has done the same to them

@babydo1ll 4 года назад

Nora B. nah nigga they gay

@ggreddy3568 Год назад

I have been bullied for years. I can’t get rid of person in my life . Initially I cried and got depressed a lot. I was depressed for a long time. Then eventually I accepted the situation. I actually started ignoring the person who bullied me. I started walking away instead of responding to the bully.. I actually developed habit of developing the anger in me to success. I got successful by setting goals for myself and acheived them. I grew in my career concentrating on work., lost weight . I converted negative energy to positive energy. I became a successful confident person. I did not allow bully to win over me . I told myself . Be brave, be strong and fight . Don’t give up. Success will be yours,

@user-gl3vr5vm9r 4 месяца назад

I have the same problem I have to see this person everyday and the insults are deadly. It make me depressed and this person get even more upset if I respond.

@tperk 18 дней назад

I am guessing this person is your spouse. It is truly difficult to shut down bullying because you live with that person 24/7.

@arunbharath4548 3 года назад

The real maturity comes from understanding of others feeling.

@VaibhavaMusic 5 лет назад

They insults us because they know we are better then them

@aartchase1074 5 лет назад

@Buggs Bunny Probably in his head he is intimidated by the idea that being white is superior to other races and feels insecure about that.The reason for him to say it is he intended to mock white race by refferring that they always see themselves superior.That is the picture he wanna see

@SR-mf6bh 5 лет назад

They insult you bcoz they are sure you are not going to give back

@ArmyBTS-em4oc 5 лет назад

That's hella true!

@reddbehrens 5 лет назад

They hate us because they ain't us!

@gretaalejandra9584 5 лет назад

My former friend Adam is a sob

@SuperBhavanishankar 4 года назад

there are so many good people in this comment section, i wish we all meet and hug and live together

@hsjqkahfbejabvse1659 3 года назад

Hahaha, true

@NOOBGAMER-lz5wp 3 года назад

Yeah love you guys

@e.conboy4286 3 года назад

Remember the great Coca-Cola song ‘I Like to Teach the World to Sing in Perfect Harmony’ ? We need to do that more often, don’t we?

@brendond.3158 3 года назад

You need money?

@NOOBGAMER-lz5wp 3 года назад

@@brendond.3158 Yes

@gerrimiller3491 2 года назад

I find that mean, evil, rude people have the lowest self-esteem and has jealousy deep within their spirit. They admire you

@barbeezlife Год назад

I learned the best line... it's simply this when someone makes a rude comment.... "ARE YOU OKAY???" I think this line is fantastic because it deflects it back to the person and makes them think what the heck is going on! You could even add the line ...You don't seem okay !!!

@RinnieButterfly 11 месяцев назад

Its TRUE!! THAT LINE THROWS THEM OFF SO MUCH! 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

@gokulprasad691 5 лет назад

If someone dislikes you for no reason, then give them a slap. Now they dislike you for a reason.

@rimjhimkaraki8070 5 лет назад

gökûl prásàdđ so funny! But I would be dragged out by security 🤨

@hinazeb6752 4 года назад

Hahahahaha good one

@jenifermenezes6279 4 года назад

Sense of humor

@satyamshrestha7440 4 года назад

My man

@spacelyman9482 4 года назад

EXACTLY!!!!!!

@SCSC-qz7rr 3 года назад

When you ignore them, they don’t stop. I had a neighbor who was bullying me all the time, I ignored him and he continued until I stood up to him. He was in shock that I was not afraid of him any,ore and I felt he became scare of me instead. That’s how you deal with a bully, you confront them.

@robinfarrar3493 3 года назад

Yep. Confrontation is the only thing a lowlife understands. Ignoring your bully tells them they’re right about whatever they just said. Besides, not putting a bully in their place means they’ll feel free to come back time and again because...what’s stopping them?

@Dian-ny8um 3 года назад

Exactly! Same happened to my mother's abusive, maniac husband and his family.

@teacher.felipe.ignacio2450 2 года назад

Right, avoidance isn’t the solution

@jerrylanglois7892 2 года назад

Yes, bullies are also cowards.

@favour-ug8og 2 года назад

Yeah same here my boss wife bullied mi for long time auntil the extent of depression and anxiety but she didn't care but one day l said enough is enough right now she fear me not bullied any more.

@Treblady 3 года назад

1. Express how you feel - “I feel insulted by what you said” 2. Ignore the insult - move onto something else or walk away 3. Return the ‘insult’ with a joke 4. Report the insult - tell someone else who would listen to you 5. Do some self care good for yourself every time you are insulted

@tiffanibilyou3773 2 года назад

Thanks for summing this up

@aartipatel6033 2 года назад

In short v can just take it.... And get insulted repeatedly

@alvinss6486 2 года назад

@@aartipatel6033 ...so that you become strong enough to handle any insults.. That's good in fact..

@Shittypants69 Год назад

I cant think of something hurtful to say back.

@rupal9708 Год назад

3) is the best solution

@Asperatus07 2 года назад

Even though I agree with the "silent treatment" I feel like giving a rude person a 'slap' once in a while and showing them their place is a great thing. *You savagers out there, keep going you good.*

@maryamsyed9987 4 года назад

Bully: you look ugly Me : Excuse me I am a human not a mirror

@sirishadasi263 3 года назад

Good humour

@brendond.3158 3 года назад

Look up the word "Human" it means sea monster....lol

@pxssiblyxfficial5616 3 года назад

@@brendond.3158 It means Homo sapiens which is a person or a thing like you or me lol if you mean something different please give proof or site the evidence I'm kinda curious

@pxssiblyxfficial5616 3 года назад

@siddharth meena You must be her dream crush then.

@starqanimatez862 3 года назад

Thug life

@mariewilliams194 6 лет назад

People act superior to boost their self esteem.

@universethetruth8827 5 лет назад

Marie Williams so true, it’s so inmature.

@iiamimperfect6285 5 лет назад

Please tell this to my classmates

@jasonzheng5145 5 лет назад

I naturally have a pretty good self esteem, sometimes my self esteem gets too high but I don't realize it until the moment is over. Although I have a higher self esteem, I still get very sensitive when someone insults me or asks what I am doing, I also cry if someone comforts or compliments me.

@user-db6ov9xn9w 5 лет назад

Like pewdipie

@maxvy5163 5 лет назад

It's so immature

@vikitheviki 3 года назад

I just stare at them and it's fascinating to see how they just melt away 😊😊

@adelineproverbs3139 3 года назад

So true. I have done that!

@stephendacey8761 3 года назад

The advice was good, but the comments made a lasting impression on me. I have dealt with so many bullies over time, and if people started showing each other more respect, and work together rather than always putting others down the world would be a much better place. To all the people who have experienced bullies I wish we could all unite, and gather all the bullies and put them on some deserted island, and leave us all alone.

@amanjoshi6801 2 года назад

I want to throw all the rude and bully people from a high mountain

@abc-hx5ir Год назад

😊

@Shittypants69 Год назад

They are confident bc they are behind a screen. If it was real life then i would leave a lasting impression on their worthless faces

@breaks3085 11 месяцев назад

When i was young i never got bullied, but when I got older an maximised my potential, I got bullied an ever since it hasn't stopped,

@riseinfinity9382 5 лет назад

I hate those PPL who are consistently talking loud in front of you to insult u indirectly , provided they r fools n failures themselves and teachers don't even scold them ! Hit like if U agree

@SincerestSawa 5 лет назад

Rise infinity right they talk loud cause they desperately want to be paid attention to

@jamesmcduffie5592 5 лет назад

THEY WANT ATTENTION!! TO LET EVERY ONE TO KNOW THEY IN THE ROOM!!😒😒😒

@cutegirly886 5 лет назад

100 percent Correct

@angelneo8985 4 года назад

@@SincerestSawa the those people are called jerks

@chandrakant4051 4 года назад

i hate them really i am gonna to change my school bus because some foolish lol and dumb rough boys always always talk in loud voice and just try to always make comment on me i hate the and want to kill them

@muradosman9998 4 года назад

That’s why I stopped working at offices since ten years and that’s why I like Amazon Prime and ordering online. The less you deal with people, the more peaceful your life would be. We live in an evil world.

@molly_smarty287 4 года назад

Murad Osman I totally agree!!

@spacelyman9482 4 года назад

Very good comment.

@ritabona1 4 года назад

True!

@ranjaniravishankar3938 4 года назад

I totally agree!

@souvikchowdhury6875 4 года назад

"We live in an evil world.," 100% true and this evilness will increase day by day. A victim of this evil world.

@kukekuruatjiimbi1895 2 года назад

When it comes to such people, I learned and went through a lot. As people differ you know exactly who to respond and who to ignore. I left many communities because of wicked people and every time I left I feel more peaceful believing that God will fight on my behalf. My God is a fighter.

@marfand1181 2 года назад

I am glad I found this , last day I was insulted by my family member , it all makes sense . Thank you 😊

@josephcoatofmanycolours6305 3 года назад

I am good at ignoring people, I don't hate people I love them but when I see people who are haters and gossipers I tend to stay far and that is why they hates me.

@noahkiegojulianne765 3 года назад

Haist i totally agree 👍 they are everywhere...

@jayasairam1234 3 года назад

Yaaa me tooo

@capriflorez7162 3 года назад

Me 2! BRO

@varshasaxena9281 3 года назад

I agree.

@rispathequeen 2 года назад

Me too

@susammageorge2848 5 лет назад

Jealousy is the main reason

@jillbirkin5004 5 лет назад

really

@meganwalker3831 5 лет назад

NO ITS NOT IDIOT

@nelaf.3255 5 лет назад

@@meganwalker3831 yes it is, you're probably a bully yourself

@princessbulaclac9077 5 лет назад

Yup, most of them are

@sobeeshroyal3622 5 лет назад

Exactly wright 👍

@mehzabin099 2 года назад

When you ignore this kind of people they try to say something more harsh so that you react, I have been facing this kind very often. And these people never ashamed of their deeds.

@vidg1928 2 года назад

Agree to most of the points mentioned here. But ignoring the insult is not always a good thing to do. From my experience i'd say that it will only lead to welling up of negative emotions inside you until one day it wil all burst up especially if an introvert is at the receiving end. That might even lead them to depression. The best way is to keep calm and give it right back probably in a humorous way! Right then and there!

@sreem6343 Год назад

i had took it up burned for 12 yrs, then the person said something right after my grandpa funeral and I reacted very heavily..

@veroniquediallo6055 Год назад

Yess!

@rinnierinnie4410 5 лет назад

Stop caring about what ppl think of you ! 🤗🤗🤗

@nicolebts5100 5 лет назад

It's hard not to

@pearl3334 5 лет назад

Nicole Gacha exactly..people are assholes. So they like to target you. So i stopped showing them my weak points.

@leonweskeradac8239 5 лет назад

Easier said then done

@marysimon9982 4 года назад

I literally can't. Your advice is good but they literally sit near me just to make fun of me, and I get so mad. It's hard to calm myself down from that.

@sumedhaa821 4 года назад

@@marysimon9982 yes same is happening with me actually they gave me perticular name and just make fun of me every day shout the name loudly in class room to make every one laugh on me but i can't do any thing , but i keep my nerves so clam just to avoid those stupid peoples

@rakesh059 5 лет назад

I was insulted very badly today by a person whom I trusted, just walked away from that place, felt sad for a while now feeling better 😊

@anishadhingra4552 5 лет назад

Take care

@kevin080592 4 года назад

I can relate.. it was tough but when I cut off my life from that person my life got better

@chytra939 4 года назад

My boyfriend’s X abused me for no mistake of mine !!! Before even getting into relationship I did ask both my guy n his x are they over with the relationship... and both agreed ... after few months later this X of his comes back and insults me so much .. that I thought of ending my life .... when checked with my guy .. he coolly tells me that no she din abused me ever neither scolds him ( I never hurt pple ) but other pple hurt me so much that I get into depression...( I seriously don’t know whom to trust and whom should I let go ) Hope I find peace myself !!!

@monicajain9001 4 года назад

That happened with me also...

@monicajain9001 4 года назад

@@ashishpal8208 Shut your mouth...

@deborahwolff5651 2 года назад

I have been on the receiving end of insulting people. It is very hurtful. I avoided these people altogether. It's jealousy and Insecurity. Confrontation and ignoring , walking away are the best ways to deal with these kind of people. I take a walk and get exercise; it makes me feel good

@spicesmiles 3 месяца назад

My goodness It is incredible being in all of your presence. I am amazed at how some folks jump on someone ( just because their opinion is different) and they completely ignore that their opinion is different to yours yet you aren't doing the same by jumping on them. Sigh I’m glad I found this video & comment section💞

@CWdudeyo 6 лет назад

I don’t agree with ignoring an insult either. Because the person continues to insult and never stops.

@fade9209 5 лет назад

That's true

@llewbach77 5 лет назад

The fact is some people have a prejudice towards a certain person because of their nationality, Race, Religion And I agree it never stops untill you face them head on!.

@jxalxo09 5 лет назад

True

@venessawhite3312 5 лет назад

Ciara Wetherell so true

@Sharperthanu1 5 лет назад

@@llewbach77That's discrimination.In Ontaro Canada the thing to do is file a complaint with The Ontario Human Rights Comission.In America If you can prove that someone discriminated against you you can SUE THEM.

@janeyd5280 3 года назад

I think putting bullies in their place should be taught at school. Bullies are the ones with the problem.x

@gloriousspark3850 3 года назад

Unfortunately the schools have been corrupted as they have focused on teaching immoral bases than healthy development of young people

@historiqueafricaine1225 2 года назад

I agree

@muradosman9998 2 года назад

Well said. But unfortunately schools, principals and teachers encourage this behaviour by being pessimistic out of fear of parents' reaction.

@yummykitchendirect4528 2 года назад

But they talk about bullies in school now and kids they know from the age of four.

@janeyd5280 2 года назад

@@muradosman9998 agree and have seen it.

@julajennifer9225 2 года назад

True . It is good to ignore the person who insults you and take it lighthearted

@rajbhardwaj2180 Год назад

Yeah u are right buddy. 🙂 Which state are u from?

@Portugal309 2 года назад

I needed this just a few days ago I tried to guide a new employee and she was like waiting for me to say anything to her so she rained insults calling me black monkey coming from the mountain and I look like devil because am black. In my entire life I have never come across narcissist it's horrible being insulted because of your color,and the fact that I couldn't respond to her insults that's when she stood like if she was ready to slap me ......I couldn't hold back so I gave a her the *devil* eyes and said to her she can insult me because she is insecure but if she try to point me leave alone slapping I will mash her and fold her like chair then swallow her like a devil she stated so lately she seems afraid and she can not face me so never let the person insulting you to get away with it stand your ground and show them you are human too and the world has enough space for everyone to stand on

@VP-ve5ug 6 лет назад

Ignoring an insult will just make the person do it over and over again.. I believe it is important to let the person know powerfully..

@thankyoulifetips 6 лет назад

VP True as hell

@simreetarama9981 6 лет назад

really ?

@srinivasteki9458 6 лет назад

What you will give, will return back to you at some point of time. It(insult) had came back to a person that i know. He used to insult others.

@shadmairshad5857 6 лет назад

True...it's necessary to let them know n take out our anger so that the thing is not repeated further ...

@huzaifah4016 6 лет назад

If someone insults the tree repeatedly he will definitely get tired Because The tree just ignore that all the time

@nylasarmiento2898 5 лет назад

people insult because they are bitter. they insult you because they are not able to get something from you .

@sumittayade9855 5 лет назад

I liked your thought

@227Love 5 лет назад

Nyla Sarmiento thank you!

@SincerestSawa 5 лет назад

Nyla Sarmiento accurate

@ilovecanines 4 года назад

I think they also do it to exert power and control over you.

@tansyveejones6749 4 года назад

Exactly!

@mamimaningouekomadeleine8839 2 года назад

I HAD THIS VERY PROBLEM AND I REPOTED IT, THANK YOU KEEP ON MY DEAR LADY, SINCE THEN SHE DONT COME AND PASS IN MY SPACE ,NO MORE I AM SO VERY GLAD FOR YOUR STURDES, WE LOVE YOU, GOD BLESS YOU.

@Pappa-Bear-71 3 месяца назад

Something that has helped me lately. I look at the majority of people and think these people have absolutely no importance in my life. Especially people I work with, none of them are my friends, their not my buddies, they are just people that work at the same place I do. Therefore they are not important enough for a response. Bullies hate not being important enough for a response. If they give you their opinion, ask them. Is that your opinion? If they say yes tell them their opinion means nothing to you, their not that important in your life. Silence is the best, but remind yourself this person has zero importance in my life. My family and friends are all that matters when it comes to opinions.❤❤❤

@sunlikeful 4 года назад

Sometimes getting yourself out of an environment that harbours insults is the best thing you can do for yourself, comebacks to insults and staying calm don't always work.

@boltb3706 2 года назад

That doesnt work as well. I had a bunch of women chasing & stalking me on social media to harm me more. Never give up your ground. Hit back hard...and they will scoot. Bullies are shitty people with trash for self esteem.

@billa1870 Год назад

@@boltb3706 It worked for me. I walked away from a family that I had been very close to for years. The husband was having mental health issues and was on all kind of meds. He used to be fun, but then he changed; and one day I just hung up the phone and cut the whole family out. The other members of the family were hurt the most. I also left a job that I loved. Not many people can say look forward to going to work every day. I did, until my supervisor had a plan to wash me out like he has done to others. It was a losing battle. I retired early and took my pension. The story is much longer in regard to this. My evaluations were exemplary, otherwise. Records show I left in good standing. Big changes were made after I left. There was an investigation as to why I left. Karma is real.

@snakedr67 5 лет назад

I’ve learned that those people seek a reaction. They want you to stoop to their level. I’ve also learned that if you just simply ignore them and treat them as they don’t exist, they get even more upset until they burn themselves out.

@angelAngel-sl8gy 4 года назад

True

@rogenacousins1766 3 года назад

true , treat them as they don’t exist that's what I do she don't like that lol

@jessiemwenga9512 3 года назад

Thanks.

@sanjanagrover7436 3 года назад

But ignoring is not always the solution. Confronting them immediately is right. We Shouldn't be quiet for the first time so that it doesn't happen again

@chandrikanair6224 2 года назад

yes correct

@morriganriver8471 Год назад

Thanks for this. It's helped me realise the bully at work is insecure and jealous of me. Thanks for boosting my self esteem, that was a great lesson xx

@dhruvparate2696 Год назад

I believe using humor is the best defense. Also, not everyone but u got to feel Yourself better. Just knowing, u r making the best of the time u've got, does more than enough.

@shirifshirif9506 4 года назад

The #1 Mistake is when dealing with those kinds of people is "Being nice". Show them your dark side. It doesn't have to inbolbe violence or being necessarily rude but be assertive.

@valh6203 2 года назад

Agree

@xxcarlita31xx 2 года назад

How?

@sakeena3053 2 года назад

💯💯🙌🏻

@ptj767 2 года назад

Yes it does

@vivekwadekar864 2 года назад

But if that's not in your blood /nature? How would your react to it as if it's killing your personal life too....

@leenamathew6496 4 года назад

Revealing how you feel is like giving them access to the key to hurt you when they wish. This is dangerous if you are dealing with a Narc.

@roshalllambert 4 года назад

I agree with the narcissistic part and if you are with a narcissist telling them how you feel is the worst thing you can do but you can use this technique with a friend who you know very well and if their actions affected you negatively in that case this can work.

@sanjaykumarsingh8144 3 года назад

Why world is full of wicked rude insecure people.Good people r doing good for themselves without hurting anyone.Goodness without mental power is a weakness. People should develop there logical powers to cope up adverse situations.karon

@ovidiodemorizi 3 года назад

That’s what I was thinking

@defenderofdharma983 2 года назад

I told my narc mom I hate seafood. Now she makes sure it's available all time.

@faridkh6213 2 года назад

Exactly!!!!!

@mrahcs8005 2 года назад

Insult is a blessing, the one insulting you are miserable people

@thaethaeyukhine2832 Год назад

This video is useful as it describes the kind of person who insults me directly and she also stimulates other colleagues to insult me in the workplace. She has the same manner and actions exactly mentioned in this video. She attacks me many ways and pretends like she does nothing.

@victory9015 4 года назад

*REMEMBER* those who insult you or being rude to you : - They hate themself - They hate their job, their life - They see your life pretty happy and not so much stressful and you are reminder that what kind life it would be if they would choose differently. - They really doesn't about you or your life, they just want someone to put down, insult, and being rude to you, because they know that they aren't alone with putting you down, insult or being rude. So they have support for putting you down. - They are weak!

@robinfarrar3493 3 года назад

So put the useless ‘person’ in their place and be done with them.

@saloshniejagathesan1577 2 года назад

Totally agree!!!!!

@nandlalajay1594 2 года назад

Life is not easy when your close ones behave like that and you can hardly do anything except keep calm and suffer internally.

@aileenninawabingga4746 2 года назад

I actually I think they need hug 🤗

@julieshrout9835 2 года назад

LoL, amen. Weak people are everywhere. I seriously doubt those money whoremongers would ever survive (especially women) on naked and afraid,

@charusharma3445 5 лет назад

I believe that people who makes fun of others are completely insensitive because they would not ever realises how their rude comments affect badly to others..

@alishagoel7994 4 года назад

Charu Sharma true👍🏻

@break_8260 4 года назад

if they are insensitive how do they enjoy that....?

@marysimon9982 4 года назад

@@break_8260 They do it on purpose.

@MelB868 4 года назад

Charu yes like my niece made fun of me. I told her that hurt my feelings and all she said was your too sensitive and made fun of me for the same thing that night the next day and the next day. I know I’m fat without the constant insults. One time I told her I lost 5 pounds since thanksgiving. I’m still overweight but she needs to stop insulting me.

@chisomololo9138 4 года назад

Well, they need to stop.

@azodnems4799 3 года назад

I’ve learned this . I’ve learned to adjust. I’ve been hurt and mocked to death by someone whom I never expected would do to me. I’ve learned a lot from this person and I’m now numb and free from it. Insulting someone seems make him happy and gain confidence and so I let him be without being affected by it.

@leonijojo2240 2 года назад

Absent you have singed he gets annoyed I spoke for justice what to do

@sacdaabdurhman 3 года назад

“Leaders can let you fail and yet not let you be a failure.” Sharing some love from small RU-vidr

@dhavaldabhi920 4 года назад

Responding to an insult might be the solution at a workplace but except for those places, responding always works against us. I have always tried to explain myself whenever I felt insulted hoping that the person opposite to me would accept his/her mistake but instead they got so satisfied, they start insulting even more. That is the worst feeling ever.

@boltb3706 2 года назад

Dont respond or explain. Use the same language that they used for you...raise a hue & cry....see them scoot.

@larajones175 Год назад

Never explain yourself to people who have no respect for you. Let them know painfully that You Ain't got time for their disgusting stupidity. Sorry that happened to you. They're beneath you And they know it. Insecurities are loud.

@moriahnicholson907 Год назад

@@larajones175 exactly

@muradosman9998 Год назад

It’s their parents’ fault. Bullying is inherited. Parents bully their kids, and when their kids become parents, they bully their kids, and so on. Misery root leads to misery leaves.

@anaramendybekova3544 9 месяцев назад

true

@edwardgaines6561 5 лет назад

Respond, not react. Stay calm. Thank you!

@saimashafat7704 5 лет назад

I always do that

@Nawalsamer04 5 лет назад

i stay calm but they say i am scared they on insta bitch i didnt even want to fight i was nice like 1. i am not free for you bull shit

@Punkelly. 5 лет назад

@@Nawalsamer04 same here this is just means that ur smart and ppl who think u were scared are just dumb af that they didn't get it

@universethetruth8827 5 лет назад

Yeah I need to work on that

@supersarah5673 5 лет назад

@@universethetruth8827 same here

@elieteoliveira-janus2416 2 года назад

This week for the first time I come across your video. I saved it to watch in a quiet hour. I did it! And I loved it. Thanks for share with us your knowledge.

@soarhighsmitha.av04088 2 года назад

So good to listen to these tips....I was really going through all the examples u mentioned and was wondering why people are behaving like this? So.. thanks for ur enlightening video. For my mental peace and well being soon going to quit the job....Stay blessed and keep enlightening.... people going through these situations can be benefitted

@VaibhavaMusic 5 лет назад

when someone insults us The only thing we need is support and today nobody supports the true and honest person

@nishagupta5981 5 лет назад

But atleast we can have a ray of hope

@mildredvidal2714 5 лет назад

THERE IS NO SUPPORT. NOT A ONE. IT'S REALLY SAD.

@techihandle 4 года назад

We don't need support , you need to be able to absorb the attitude of person insulting you, you just need to accept the nature of person and move on.

@techihandle 4 года назад

@Kayla Nguyen glad you liked it , i experienced this situation and this was the best i could do for my benifit and the other persons benifit..

@ksasaami 3 года назад

Thats so true

@blacktee31 6 лет назад

"In order for you to insult me I would have to value your opinion."

@heyrajaved1631 6 лет назад

blacktee31 true this!!!

@fabdoc6099 5 лет назад

blacktee31 ❤️

@dorothykay100 5 лет назад

blacktee31 exactly

@johnwunder3521 5 лет назад

my thought too,

@patriciabennett1819 5 лет назад

blacktee31 That is so good. Brilliant response!!!! Great advice.

@phoenixkb134 2 года назад

The mandatory isolation that the CoVid has brought into my life has made me so happy.

@zeeshanalisoomro8862 3 года назад

Miss skillopedia I love the way you maintained that SWEET smile on your face throught the video. I felt like my true sister was advicing me as I can feel you were also being genuine throughout the video. I could see that in your eyes and body langauge altogether.

@seanmeraou7640 6 лет назад

Jealousy is the real cause, is correct.

@ebonyspeight2644 5 лет назад

Wow , so your saying my mother is jealous of me mind blown

@thoidang6579 4 года назад

"Responding an insult is much better than reacting to it" - thank you very much! This is powerful to me 😊

@tommyparkerparker 2 года назад

Some people will do it just to get a rise out of you . And when you stand up for yourself justifyingly so with good reason in a positive manner, they feel offended and will play the " victim card". Abusive people most often fall into this category.

@MS-ns4ki 7 месяцев назад

Someone another buck tooth Beth got it in for me

@marlenerangel9376 2 года назад

Girl your music was bomb and at the right volume, not overpowering the discussion..thank you!.yes I believe journaling your progress is very good & self care is very important to withstand the constant abuse of negativity & insulting speech..and being quiet really makes those wheels spin in their head..they can't quite figure you out & that's a good thing bc they don't need to!

@megreads9 Год назад

We have a lot of these people in this world especially at work, I've learned my lesson, when someone insult you, be calm and smile in a that make them fear and look directly in their eyes to see their truth. They insulting you because you are more intelligent than them, you have a strong personality, you can by your words make them really count if you some day talk. I struggled a lot from these negative people so i choose to be away from them and not give them any opportunity insult me again then i reported insult for the management director and he's doing the right thing but in companies you can not do actions every time because it will low your professional status, so you have to make sure that the truth about them will be revealed some day. Don't worry about them they will be known some day with their lies and conspiracies.

@connie5768 5 лет назад

"I wonder why you feel the need to say..." is one thing a psychologist told me I could say. Also, "why would you say that to me?" puts it right back on the aggressor and demands an answer. Very powerful.

@kimberlys.7097 2 года назад

Ohhhhh thank you

@Vera-sc3ud 2 года назад

Even then, they still answer back that you are like this or like that so that is the reason why they talk to you like that. No care in the world.

@micha781000 5 лет назад

4 reason why insult you: 1 insecure, dont feel good about themselves, so they want to control others by putting them down. 2 jalousy 3 lack of understanding of your ability/problem 4 they like you and playful tease you 1 Stay calm, breath a few times first 2 Tell how you feel and that it has concequences what they do (also for the relation) 3 ignore insult completly, change topic, walk away 4 humor, in a nice way 5 report 6 self-care 😄 to feel good 7 document yourself, what you like about yourself, strenghts, achievements, character..

@kodisvarymaharajah9622 5 лет назад

Cus you cant speak english

@annabellem.medallapresto4125 5 лет назад

Nice. I got an idea. Thanks.

@user-xu1dh6jt7r 5 лет назад

Thanks man. U saved me 12 minutes 👍

@MMonalisa_ 5 лет назад

Thanks man!!! God bless u

@sonisharma4000 5 лет назад

4 th reason just made happy. Thanks.😣

@gloriaadu5485 2 года назад

Thank you i have had many people who try to put me down,it hurts but i continue to be the person that i am a good and kind person.

@rogielineseva406 3 года назад

Thank so much for sharing.i was insulted last sunday,yah your right,i just stay calm but after i reached in our home i still remember what they did to me.😌

@erikgification 5 лет назад

Just take it in stride. Always be positive, show that it isn't affecting you. Avoid insecure and ignorant people once they expose themselves. A lot of people lack basic social and communication skills. Do not invest in anyone who has personal, emotional or mental issues.

@ohsnapitspat6270 6 лет назад

How people treat you is a reflection of who they truly are.

@ROUGHKHATA 6 лет назад

Not like that

@phyllisarringtion5354 6 лет назад

amen to that

@sheliamccullough9418 6 лет назад

Hello Patsey you said that

@srinivasteki9458 6 лет назад

Yes 100% truth. Experienced by me. I know a person(family member) who insults cause he's rich and thinks he is superior and above all. He does the same to many people.

@nahidparsa1665 6 лет назад

Hello Pat

@raccoondon488 2 года назад

There were 4,000 dislikes to this excellent video ???? !!!?!?!?!?! That tells me there are a lot of socially ignorant people in the world.

@eugenemcleod525 2 года назад

Thank you. My eldest daughter has done this for 25 years. I am so worn out. This has open my mind. Very helpful

@mcdonaldscharlotte5788 2 года назад

I was in the same difficulties before he helped me few days ago okay..., contact Dr wilson,🏃🏃...,he do alot of work okay.., and keep to his words

@Djtakies 6 лет назад

Ignoring an insult is not much good.. cz if once u ignore it they will do it again.. better shut their mouth that time only

@honeykhan1085 5 лет назад

But how to do that😔

@deepm7487 5 лет назад

Quite right. Should not be ignored.

@honeykhan1085 5 лет назад

My mind never works at that time n later i think y i didnt say this n that😔😔

@wondersky7520 5 лет назад

@@honeykhan1085 same here😢

@majeedmanchi3841 5 лет назад

Honey Khan even i feel same like u, wt to do for that?

@stxrmdc 4 года назад

The funniest part is, those people who insult others do not have the least of the capability to understand the smart and funny responses we make... it's actually funny too😂😂😂

@jethiya7990 2 года назад

Even I'm tired of it.🤣🤣🤣

@rosemarie7816 3 года назад

I just thought of the thing I'm going to say to my boss when she insults me. "Insults are not constructive or instructive. If you want me to learn something, I respond best to constructive critique."

@Joy-sm7iz 2 года назад

This was a very nice way of detailing the options we have for dealing with people who are not nice. Alot of times a video will tell us what to or not to do and not give us examples of how to , but you did, and is very much appreciated. Helps the learning process. Thankyou. 😊💖

@taneekasmith5782 5 лет назад

That's why I mind my own Affairs and live Private and peaceful

@TheSecretDwellingPlace 5 лет назад

Same here.

@hamidjjohn8833 5 лет назад

Same me

@thanos7082 5 лет назад

Buggs Bunny what?😂

@mattinator-si7rv 5 лет назад

Same bro

@harisbinsaeed 5 лет назад

That happens to private person as well, that is me.

@hanahassan849 5 лет назад

Simply ignore It really works and the person gets angry about themselves

@jiggaflo1 4 года назад

Yep lol. They get even more angry

@francescaverdi2555 2 года назад

In real life there is usually not enough time to take a few breaths to calm yourself.

@yusi_na9327 3 года назад

i used to get bullied n insults ...i used to cry alone but now i m gonna fight back

@ioannisdimitrakopoulos9062 3 года назад

Thats right bro they just jealous...

@mariamalinova5558 3 года назад

You should stand up foryourself

@emelia5526 3 года назад

I honestly think the absolute best thing you can do when someone insults you, especially when it’s someone bullying you, is to smile. It doesn’t matter how harmful their words are, just smile, even if you have to fake it. By doing this, you aren’t giving them the response they wanted and this makes them angry. From them being angry you have now taken control and turned the tables, but don’t just insult them like they were doing before, simply then walk away (STILL SMILING) knowing that you have automatically just won :)

@Kelle0284 2 года назад

Then you just look like a goof, or you look like you are embarrassed by what they said.

@xsports3253 2 года назад

That's not a good suggestion I guess bcz the other person's will think he will smile again if we abused him again So they will continue

@afreenbanu13667 2 года назад

They will insult again and again because they want to mistreat us publicly and when we smile we are just accepting their misbehavior

@valh6203 2 года назад

Smiling at someone bullying you is taking too much energy. It’s not for me. If I am boiling inside and have to fake a smile I would look stupid. I talk back instead. Let them have it. Tell them to F off. Show them I am not afraid and not going to put up with it.

@jamilgotcher365 9 месяцев назад

I like this advice and would like to elaborate, I think it would be good to smile but also say something like "Okaaaayyyy and arch your brows while your'e saying it with a tone that reads as if you think they're weird." So when you walk away, you give them the feeling that you think they're weird, which they are. Then smile and walk away, like get me away from this crazy person. lol

@cristelarts 4 года назад

“They hate us because they ain’t us” 😉😉 Btw, I love the tips. These are very helpful specially in work situations. Thank you!

@viviancaulkins5858 3 года назад

It's very hard to tune out insults. Thank you for this good advice!!

@truthhurts...6574 Год назад

Ignoring them is very effective. It sends a signal to them that they are insignificant and mean nothing to you. That drives them crazy and sometimes they will get more aggressive with the attacks. But it puts a public spotlight on them and their behavior. Now everybody looks at them like they have issues. I did this inadvertently not knowing the effects at first, but it's a game changer now.

@smitpanchal9875 5 лет назад

I'm 22 year old, i have been stammering since my childhood.. till now most of the people mocking at me when i speak. I was always trying to hide my stammering, now i have accepted my self as I'm.. After accepting my self as a stammerer if someone mocking at me so i even mock with them on my stammering.. And i am a person who stammer so what? But I'm good activity listener.

@jauimperfect1132 5 лет назад

Its ok twin...l stamer too... Am 24

@smitpanchal9875 5 лет назад

@@jauimperfect1132 we are blessed to have stammer.😊

@dlosha 5 лет назад

Never worry about those things which are just gifted to by nature.because u can just never change the nature so accept it and never get affected by what ppl have to say

@shankarlallal8922 5 лет назад

It never hurt others buddy. People those who hurt others they have the disability.

@hinaakhtar1406 5 лет назад

U know, my uncle was a stammer, but i loved him. He was the most nicest person among my paternal relatives. Value urself, be confident, surround ur self with people who love u. Dont spoil ur time thinking y they cannot accept u with ur dissability.

@BerishaFatian 6 лет назад

Telling someone how you feel about the insult actually it gives them the satisfaction that they need.

@itsmejm77 5 лет назад

Fatian Berisha yes.,

@shaniceturner4130 5 лет назад

right

@abowling5759 2 года назад

I agree completely!….it’s more ammunition for them to think of new ways to hurt you.

@halilonizaylor4048 2 года назад

Do it infront of someone they pretend to be a good person

@Cat-and-mouseyjdm Год назад

I find most people who insult you, don't give a damn how you feel.

@targoltran Год назад

Excellent points. In many cases, insulting comes from insecurities or jealousy. For me personally, I tend to not ever become angry. My strategy is, I withdraw from that relationship with a friend or co-worker. If it is a family member, I will have less interactions with them.

@rosariamueni6622 4 года назад

Ignore them,they are the less achievers.

@erroldcruz 5 лет назад

You gotta fight back. If the insults / taunts are consistent you must counter-attack, else you're a goner. I had. Reduced them to tears. Enjoyed it!

@break_8260 4 года назад

this doesn't work..!

@break_8260 3 года назад

@Tani_Leo if you do the same there is no difference in you and them..! although it's a matter of perspective! every person is different and something that works for someone might not work for someone else.! I would have simply focused on my work if i were at your place,.this works for me....!

@akakonoha 3 года назад

It's not always feasible to talk back to them. The best way is to not take on their energy, theyr toxic energy actually. If you smile & remain detached, you've won...

@rebeccagandi5301 3 года назад

Oh you Girl you are quite right Jealousy is the key point

@bhagyashrijoshi9537 4 года назад

Dont just walk away ...they might think you're scared....also being calm is most important...what the other person says isnt bible....respond without being aggressive

@kenneshamcdonald3670 4 года назад

Aggreed

@Gaurav-ep3sb 2 года назад

Yes You Said Right 😌

@chandrikanair6224 2 года назад

best policy talk to all not to them who hurt you dressup well and walk gracefully

@Kelle0284 2 года назад

Maybe the other person did say something about the bible.

@adelaalvarenga1669 2 года назад

Sometimes you have to walk away. If you don't want to end in prison. Because that is what they want. They don't care to destroy your life. Because they are not happy with their lives. Please walk away from them 🙏

@mso008 5 лет назад

Ignoring has always worked for me. You disarm the other person completely because you take away their power by not giving him/her the reaction he/she is looking for.

@SuperCHINKC 5 лет назад

Ignore is the best!

@hbermah8407 5 лет назад

Tried that this girl still keeps doing it everyday at class because shes jealous of me.ignoring doesnt work

@jita14 5 лет назад

True especially with close relatives - 1-ignore 2-distance oneself physically & if that’s not possible-mentally

@schoolshow94 5 лет назад

Law 22

@universethetruth8827 5 лет назад

Yeah I need to work on my acting skills, because I get easily triggered by peoples disrespectful comments and would love to just be aloof and act like it doesn’t harm me but instead it really takes a toll on me and I will be thinking about it. Arghh why can’t we be nice to each other it makes so much more fun when you spend time with people in a loving environment

2 года назад

What about narcissistic people.. they insult u, taunt u and manipulate u to break u down.. it’s good to teach them a good lesson and move on.. being good to them will motivate them to do more harm to others… that’s what I have learned in life

@Asskicker14 2 года назад

Very true, because they only respect power

@rajbhardwaj2180 Год назад

Yeah only tit for tat 👌👌🙃

@helenewebster9462 2 года назад

Thank you.

@jeannenicolas7545 5 лет назад

That neighbour of mine, had no idea of who he was dealing with. I wrote an extremely strong letter to management who then wrote this neighbour a very strong warning. HE NOW RESPECTS ME.

@Kelle0284 2 года назад

Does he really respect you, or does he just fear consequences?

@lindokuhlekhoza7571 2 года назад

He probably fears the consequences🤔 but that still means he got him off his back💁🏿

@gingerteddy618 6 лет назад

Stay calm. Express yourself. Simply ignore. Use humour. Report insults. Indulge in self care. Document yourself.

@saswatibiswas6770 6 лет назад

thanks for the short memo!

@atulpandey455 6 лет назад

lesson learned, you got it well. ready to be bullied again and confront bravely . good job buddy . you are a fast learner. haha😂😂

@SupaFlyBoyZz699 6 лет назад

Missed one Whoop that ass :)

@debaratichakma1134 6 лет назад

Ginger Teddy absulately agree with you

@mamatapatil5240 6 лет назад

I am 111th liker of your comment!😄

@Arun-cb4xc 2 года назад

I'm extremely grateful for this video, it helps us to understand and repel an insult! It was a pleasure to listen your video, ma'am!

@asifaghani7041 2 года назад

Thanks for your guidance.

@CallieRoseMartinsyde 3 года назад

My favorite way of disarming someone who's trying to insult me is to say, completely unironically, "Thank you." It almost always throws them off and gets them to leave me alone. But then again, I have a super thick skin when it comes to insults and don't mind taking the self burn. And it doesn't work against everyone. But it works often enough that I consider it a useful tool for my toolbox.

@EnglishPitamah 4 года назад

If someone say "Failure" Just say "I m not interested in ur autobiography" #Englishpitamah

@bshdiyysjns704 3 года назад

Kya baat kya baat kya baat very true line 👏👏👏

@mdmmalou 3 года назад

Thats a good one! 🤣👌 I also read this one: ' I'm not your mirror' 😃 Very helpfull to say to a bully!!

@sakeena3053 2 года назад

Thanks u did a good job, I was here as part of my college life struggles .worse ,I didn't make a genuine friend . So it's really hard for me to open up to others so feeling down by suppressing all my emotions

@rajbhardwaj2180 Год назад

U may have parents speak with them as don't keep stress inside u it will hurt u later