HOW TO REINVENT YOURSELF W/ SPECIAL GUEST VICTORIA MONET (EP. 42) 

SIDE NOTE: Victoria's hair is SO beautifulllllllllllllllllllllll!

Wow, what a nice and positive podcast from Men! So refreshing to see black men having an uplifting conversation with a black woman 🙌🏾 great topic and episode!

She has an absolutely beautiful singing voice

I just love this woman’s vibe, voice, and songwriting! 🤎🤎🤎

Aspiring artist and single mother here. Thank you for having Victoria Monet on here and asking her all these questions. Definitely doing music and having women like her and Kehlani crushing their careers while navigating motherhood has been super inspiring and motivating for me to keep doing what I love. Love you Victoria!!!! ❤️

great episode! I loved Victoria’s analogy with taking the street vs the freeway. I needed to hear that. It’s so easy to feel pressured by a self-imposed timeline that you overlook the development & lessons that come while you’re putting in the work.

Crazy how much I relate with Victoria with being vocally softer. Being talented would always push you to the forefront. Some (me) enjoy blending in & working within a group like a choir or background singer.

She’s gorgeous! So soft spoken with fantastic energy. Great episode!

I was with y’all ( except Victoria, I get what she meant)until the Latino/Black debate You can be Black and Hispanic, You can be White and Hispanic , Indigenous and Hispanic , Mixed and Hispanic. Hispanic and Latino is an ethnicity not a race. Victoria is right when it comes to the N word. That’s why it’s all of the sudden it’s cool to be “Afro Latino.” Other than that I still enjoy the Podcast ,and Victoria is that girl. Been rocking with her since that feature with Nas on You Don’t Understand 🤎

Watching this a year later and it still being extremely relevant is amazing. The way y’all navigated this conversation as a whole and the metamorphic transformation is all that we are trying to grow and change in our lives is relatable in the best way.

Not all Dominicans consider themselves black. However, as Jalon said the slave trade was there as well. Before the slave trade the native people were Taino, the same race of people who inhabited Puerto Rico. They are now distinct. The island of Hispaniola is made up of Dominicans and Haitians. So the population at large is majority descendants of Africa. Now Dominicans are considered to be Afro-Latino… heavy on the African decent mixed with Spanish (Spaniard) culture. As Spain came in and dominated DR. Yes, the race was mixed. Just like slave masters were getting it in with slaves and produced Mulatto or mixed people. Colorism is also an extreme issue in DR and accepting or acknowledging the African decent in which we are is mundane to a lot the people. If you consider the food of the island which is a Caribbean islands, most of our National dishes are of African culture, Mangú, Mofongo/Bofongo, Platano (Plantain) and it’s very similar to African and other Caribbean food. My mothers family are what you consider “dark” Dominicans and although my mothers family speaks Spanish, they are black… there’s little to NO integration there, and my grandmother will tell you. She is a black but the rest of them are in denial. How do you share an island with which once wasn’t separated with Haitians but you not black? You’ll always get a mixed answer from Dominicans because most of them are unknowingly black and feel superior because of the color of their skin. If you disagree God Bless. It’s all love 🇩🇴🇺🇸 The ones who get it.. get it and the ones who don’t DONT. I hope I don’t start a riot. Keep doin y’all thing! This is my favorite weekly watch! Love y’all and thanks for keeping me up on game! 🥃💎🤍

Wow it’s really crazy how UNDERRATED!! This women is like .. she has this certain tone and voice that’s incredible and I feel as if she needs more recognition from the society. One thing about Victoria is she’s very ahead of her time and you know her talent should be well-known to say the least. This girl needs her cookies 👏🏽👏🏽 because most of the songs thats out that has millions and billions of streams and views all because of this brilliant women right here. I really appreciate her music and the way she sets certain sounds , the mood and tone of it , her music is very different from this society today. I love how she has a old soul . She’s showing many people that soul hasn’t died and it’s not going to. And her and the color BROWN wow! Because i love how much she cares for the color brown some people might think the color it’s just a “color” but like she said the color has a deeper meaning to it every color does but it feels like home to her * if you guys didn’t know the color brown is a mix of blue, orange, purple , green , red and yellow originally* so this color is somehow representing Monét because she’s gives this bright and lovely personality but with a mix to it lol . I hope that one day she gets the attention and eyes that she deserves fr.

So well spoken, humble, and wise. Beautiful talent and soul!

Cardi identifies as a black woman… however she doesn’t really come to mind when I think of black women. So I get what Victoria meant 🤷🏽‍♀️.

“I don’t wanna have it”😭put Victoria in the hot seat

My spirit led me to this podcast and im so glad it did. I needed to hear this. Victoria is a beautiful soul and i thank you all for being you💚 I've subscribed and will be tuning in consistently.

Wow I’m so glad y’all featured Victoria on this episode there’s not a day that I don’t get in my car & listen to her. She’s one of my favorite rnb artist

Outstanding episode!! Y’all’s joy and your willingness to share with the world is such a blessing

This is my first time coming across this podcast and I’m sooo impressed. I just wanted to leave that feedback because this was such a breath of fresh air, great representation, and right on time! Thoughtful questions with insightful responses. Good shit 🤎.

This was straight JUICE!!!!!! Thank you guys so much for never missing episode after episode!!!

This episode couldn’t have come at a better time! So powerful! Great tips at the end of the video!!

This episode is the one that put me on to Nice and Neat! One year later still watching y'all! 👏🏾

Wow. This was such a powerful episode. So many gems man! Keep it up yall. Stay blessed!

I think it’s the ‘illusion’ access. I hear a lot of people say you can receive 100 DM’s but that doesn’t mean you can actually connect and have anything meaningful. So it’s so important to connect to the real people in your life. Great episode as usual ❤️

So happy to see my lovely on here!! All of my favs at once is a gift 🤎🥃🤎🥃🤎🥃

Yooooo…. So many golden nuggets dropped in this episode. I wrote down so many points made here. Genuine souls in front of the cameras. Much love to you gentleman and what you’re doing for the culture. 💗

I'm so glad I listened to the entire video definitely needed all the gems drop by everyone in this video. The part about transitioning was my favorite. Going through it at the moment; turning 30, heartbreak, at crossroads career wise. I feel like a Phoenix trying to rise from the ashes.

I LOVE this podcast. Grateful to have gone down the Chanel and Duke Rabbit hole because it landed me here. I have a newfound respect for Victoria. I always have supported her but this podcast let her share her journey and speak her mind. I love when she said I was preparing for this! It reminded me of her song “Ready”! I love how hardworking and self directed she is & still remains so graceful. Thats SO inspiring. I always discuss with my friends how she is the perfect level of stardom. Authentic, genuine, raw talent, and paid! Forever a fan 🤎

This interview/episode was amazing! Victoria is so freaking talented, and I truly hope for her to achieve even more success and happiness. If that Victoria/Silk Sonic collab comes, it’d be amazing!🙌

I love scrolling and seeing my fave podcasts with the crazy link-ups🥳

This episode was AMAZING!Thank you guys so much for this!Victoria is a GEM 💎

wow, loved the conversation! just listening to this, so thought provoking and victoria monet has such beautiful energy and seems so grounded and love love love when she talks about life and the journey. She really is doing her thing!!!! thank you for this beautiful conversation, feel really blessed to have heard this and wish victoria monet nothing but the best in her career, she will go really far, congrats!

Love seeing our people vibe together

Wooow. I’m so happy this popped up in my algorithm! Y’all are such a vibe with the interview and Victoria is so sweet and talented! 💖💖💖💖

Oh y’all hit this one on the head. Great job! I love Victoria Monet and the topics and questions were super relevant and enjoyable.

This was so good and fun to watch ! Her voice is so sweet and soft !!! Definitely gonna tune in more to the channel 💫

I love her energy

I APPRECIATE THIS EPISODE SOOOOOOO MUCH!!!!

Really appreciated this episode! so many gems

what an insightful episode ♥ the way you all navigated this episode demonstrates the intentionality and care that you all posses and I appreciate this interview very much, thank you

Ohhhh this is a good a- positive show. Ya’ll hit some major points and her chill energy gave it balance. I love me some Victoria Monet! Give her all the flowers!

These brothers did a fantastic interview. I loved the respect they gave Victoria Monet. She's so 🔥 deep. We need her Artistry. Congratulations to her on her Grammy. I know they'll be many more to come....❤❤❤❤

Yess, I love Victoria!

Loved this episode!!! Very great conversation, especially the end

Her voice is angelic

I love seeing black excellence. This was a beautiful one ☝🏾

Loved this, love yall love her! great conversation

My first time seeing this Podcast! What a superb show!! Thank you, youtube algorithm for sending me based on the fact that you know I stan Victoria Monet

Great interview--- I absolutely love y'all and Victoria's advice in the end!!!!

I luv this! I’ve become a big VM fan but have never seen an interview.

I love victoria monet!!! this is your moment is my song!

This was a great conversation! The transformation advice was amazing

With the Cardi thing. Dominican is an ethnicity not a race, so she’s Hispanic but that don’t mean she’s black😭😭🤎

Ahhhhhh she’s so beautiful and insightful, a this was a pleasure to listening to

I'm really thankful for this interview 🙏🏼 💙

I enjoyed this podcast. I love her as an artist and seeing this interview is really inspiring. She’s inspiring and serene. Thank you guys for creating this platform.

great interview overall but those last words of reinvention really brought it home! Great job fam!

I live for Victoria!!!!!! Her success is so inspiring & she reminds me SO MUCH of myself!!!! I pray continuous success and happiness for her!!! 💕

She’s pretty and definitely so smart about what it is she wants out of her career balance

Y’all in Love Stuttering 🤣 Shwoooot Me Too, Such a Soft , Smart Beautiful Queen ✨🤞🏾

what a perfect wholesome episode, whew!

Great group of men awesome conversation

Omg not Ms Vicky on nice and neat! Liked the video already, i know this episode is gonna be 🔥

I dig the vibe of this interview. ✨💕✨ 49:55 You guys have gained a new subscriber. Blessings! Bravo

Love me some Victoria Monét!! 🥰

Such a beautiful soul 🥺🤎

Great interview. I love herrrrr

Î look her to this lady +how she entered thee game + î actually admire thee same influences being soft spoken with thee power of words + thee beauty of art! Yess! Prince was always ahead of his time sonically + î agree authenticity will always align life. Lauryn Hill is a prime example of a mother in music + it's actually so necessary for that type of influence in music period. Women are teachers even wiser with mothers. And î just got to the part about Lauryn Hill as Î was typing this. I absolutely thought of her setting that precedent. Moon energy most definitely just brings out thee creativity those unseen vibes m÷ as an artist definitely look for too.

This was dope, thanks for the video/podcast

This was such a great Interview, I really love Victoria's aura

I love this woman

I really enjoyed this episode. My first time kicking it w/ y'all. I'm finna Sub!!!

She’s blessed!

Omg! I loved this episode! Victoria is such a beauty and as you guys stated “a creative artist” ❤️ always love and look forward to Nice & Neat Thursdays!

Best interview ever! She is wise.

Thank you!

I loved this episode!

LMFAOOOOO the cardi meg moment took me outttt

In love with this woman. IN LOVE ❤️

Really dope interview 👏🏻

Keep the guest coming please it add a little to the show ! Hello from 🇫🇷🇫🇷🇫🇷

Moving without paralysis 👀👀👏🏾👏🏾

great interview!

I vibe with Victoria so much, I feel like we'd be besties if I knew her

Amazing advice!!

Had to get on my other channel and give this a thimbs up cause yeah!

This was excellent

great convos 🤝

Look at her now 🥹🥹👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

FIRE ASS EPISODE 🔥

I liked this podcast right from the beginning

I feel like Dominicans consider themselves as black when it’s beneficial. 🤷🏾‍♀️

She looks like she could be Meagan’s sister! They favor a lot.❤

The head bobs at the beginning need to be a gif 😂

Love. Love. Your podcast. Always looking forward to listen your perspective on things. I was wondering though, how come the sound is coming through super quiet because my volume is on the max and I can't hear. But when the ads come on, it scares the living creature out of me. I noticed this was the same with other vids too. Is anyone else experiencing this issue?

I had to search for this video lol it’s in the playlist tab not on your channel!

This was exactly what I needed 🤎

This was amazing:)) just one thing! The audio was really quiet and i struggled to hear all of what was said in my car. May be different with headphones but just to keep in mind:)

44:14-44:33 that analogy was fire S/O 2 Queen V

Y’all are confusing race, ethnicity, and nationality. They are NOT synonyms!