How To Respond To A Ghoster Who Comes Back

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How To Respond To A Ghoster Who Comes Back
Narcissists, love avoidant's, toxic people and ghoster's are notorious for employing passive-aggressive, confusing, manipulative text message strategies to hook us in, so it's important you know how to respond.
I will show you how to ice them, protect yourself, keep your boundaries and more.
This video is a handy resource if you find yourself dealing with a narcissist, love avoidant, toxic person or ghoster on a regular basis!
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@Kitbats 6 месяцев назад

This quote helped me, "If they cannot love you where you are at, they cannot love you where you are going."

@kennyweiss 6 месяцев назад

Well said!

@triciadreas9835 11 месяцев назад

When your actions don't match your words, that is a huge red flag no matter my history ❤

@sherriflemming3218 11 месяцев назад

No integrity = no trust.

@nylaclancy2655 10 месяцев назад

That's manipulation

@funnygirlever 8 месяцев назад

Amen!

@sharchannel1836 6 месяцев назад

Yeah

@trishg8852 6 месяцев назад

Agree!

@Jrockilla137 11 месяцев назад

While I can sympathize for people with avoidant attachment issues, I do draw the line there - they are not my issues, and it is completely unacceptable behavior to me.

@kenyattahockenhull5636 11 месяцев назад

I’m with u on that

@sherriflemming3218 11 месяцев назад

Ditto. No time for them. Are They Giving Me Breadcrumbs? Coach Craig Kenneth ( avoidant attachment) It's impossible to have a texting relationship ---Natalie Clarice Texting is a toxic, avoidant behavior has been normalized in society. It's artificial intimacy.

@matilda4406 10 месяцев назад

Now that I'm thinking about it, it's future faking too! Leading you to nowhere

@catherinepatricio2119 6 месяцев назад

What is avoidance attachment issues?

@rachelford8852 5 месяцев назад

Attachment Theory

@fundamentalcoach 11 месяцев назад

Ultimate gift to ghost back: power of mirroring

@annnee6818 3 месяца назад

This is what I did. Feels good. Well actually it feels rotten but the only thing that makes it slightly less shitty is that I have the discipline to just let it go

@sarahbright5231 Месяц назад

Same feels shitty but I’m not chasing a ghost

@user-gg6qj1pn5h 4 месяца назад

I can't believe they would have enough nerve to try to come back to someone they ghosted-discarded!!

@DispholidusTypus Месяц назад

It's a test too see if you are still interested in hanging out with them and their also trying too figure out where you are at in life as far as financially and money, asset's, power, and social stability and status!!! Go overseas too Thailand, Phillipines, Japan, Germany, etc!!! With that being said use caution there as well but I guarantee you you will enjoy and experience the culture, scenery, food, and all around atmosphere as well!!! The women in those countries are more feminine, submissive, respectful, polite courteous, and typically way more attractive than MOST amercian western women!!! Go by yourself fist and foremost and then bring a really good friend with you the second time but don't bring any women over there at all whatsoever!!! I can assure you that will ruin very special experiences you will have if you do!!! Get your passport 🛂 and get your ASS too MARS 🚀

@Ngan.marianguyen Месяц назад

right???

@user-km4ul2ry4d Месяц назад

Because people with narcissist personality disorder have no shame or remorse all though they'll pretend to to get the supply they need, they're very sick individuals no cure or help for it

@user-gg6qj1pn5h 4 дня назад

Oh but they do try!!

@d.s.3225 11 месяцев назад

You ghost them back, that's what you do

@thirstonhowellthebird 10 месяцев назад

I ghost back too but at that point I know who they are and I’m done. They are game playing and jockeying for power, control and to degrade and demean.

@carolnahigian9518 9 месяцев назад

karma

@irina1siren 8 месяцев назад

It’s called mirroring. And if the ghoster didn’t see a problem with the time span they took to reply to you, then they’d be a hypocrite to see a problem with you taking the same length of time to reply back.

@susanh1447 7 месяцев назад

I don’t ghost back. I’m now done, and I’ve gone NO CONTACT.

@DDR-Expert 7 месяцев назад

@@susanh1447 Get the hell out 👉

@duncanmac2195 5 месяцев назад

She ghosted you means she is with another guy. She comes back means it didnt work out.

@chrissemenko628 5 месяцев назад

He and she are interchangeable. He goes out hunting and then returns to me.

@user-gg6qj1pn5h Месяц назад

lol…so true

@user-km4ul2ry4d Месяц назад

Definitely on the money, and it's with more than one person simultaneously narcissist personality disorder! Been there

@julie5668 8 месяцев назад

If you know you've done no wrong and still you get ghosted, don't chase after what runs away from you. That's my belief anyway. If you don't respect you, no one will.

@salliegallegos918 5 месяцев назад

Julie, I agree 100%. The problem is that they randomly reappear. I guess next step is restraining order. Blocking and going No Contact doesn’t work when they appear at your doorstep.

@jackdeniston59 4 месяца назад

Women quite unknowingly betray men, and do not bother to ask how, or bother to listen. For example, women readily talk about mens sexual performance. This is betrayal that will get you ghosted. Feel free to disagree/come up with excuses.

@karenlynch8348 3 месяца назад

Idk anyone who chases a ghosted? If they do they will surely get more of the same

@tenelleharris5696 3 месяца назад

@@jackdeniston59grown as you is don’t tell nobody this bs again 😒🤦🏾‍♀️ smh you deserve to got ghosted ‼️

@annnee6818 3 месяца назад

@@salliegallegos918 You've probably got a narcissist there, that's horrible. But the reply was not meant for you, you obviously can't ignore someone on your doorstep

@JessicaJLandi 10 месяцев назад

Boundaries A polite wall Remembering how peace & joy returned when they were finally out of your life.

@janegreen191 6 месяцев назад

Abuse is when words don't match actions.

@imbookedandverybusyhoney Месяц назад

I never give a person a 2nd chance to ghost me! If i ever thought I was being too harsh and unforgiving, i simply remember how they made me feel when they initially ghosted me! I dont have time to waste my time! Be strong and set those boundaries, and most importantly, dont allow people to disrespect you! Great video ❤

@macareuxmoine 3 месяца назад

This matching is a badass move! That means ghosters that pop up after weeks can wait for you for weeks… they’ll go crazy 🤭

@joannedomingo2398 9 месяцев назад

I dated a man like that. Very frustrating. I left him. He was an avoidant, did what he wanted when he wanted and I would wait and wait .

@jwhite5396 11 месяцев назад

“Every emotional reaction we have was learned in childhood.” That really hit home…. Based on what I seen in childhood, I need some new skills! Wow.

@leahr9038 3 месяца назад

What I like about this video and what stands out to me is that it doesn't villianize the other person. People are scared. People are hurt. People are incompetent. It doesn't make them evil people for not handling situations directly or responding how we believe they should. Just have compassion, for the other person AND for yourself, and always honor what your needs are. Thanks Kenny.

@AchillesRage501 5 месяцев назад

when someone ghosts me I just tell them have nice life

@robinchilds7492 7 месяцев назад

The narcissist I was with always said "I love you" but he never showed any affection. He wouldn't put his arm around me when watching tv and he walked 30 feet in front of me in public. He drove to Florida, 1,000 miles away and promised to call when he arrived. He didn't call. He sent a text message letting me know he had been there 6 hours and made excuses why he didn't call. I texted him back letting him know I was at the emergency room. He didnt read it until the next morning. Then he turned it back at me and asked why I didnt call him. That ended the relationship. When he came home I ghosted him for 2 months. I had enough. My motto now is " I give what I get "

@audreelebdjiri727 3 месяца назад

I give what I get great advice. Ty😊

@lauramckiernan3213 9 месяцев назад

I do not match bad behaviour with more bad behaviour. I send a text and tell them that whilst I don't agree with their communication style I know it comes from a wounded place so good bye and best of luck with their journey.

@sohaibamrani4175 5 месяцев назад

The matching part is so real and once you start doing that all the attention slaves (who just wanna receive without giving) start fading away from your life.

@KimimaruOnara Месяц назад

It’s funny how people have a problem with your behavior when you match theirs.

@sandancer45 11 месяцев назад

Your exactly like me, i watch actions and if they do not match my efforts im gone. That goes for everyone, no one gets away with disrespecting me. We are adults and know what we are doing, i understand that sometimes its a genuine mistake but i dont wait around.

@kareng6049 3 месяца назад

My adult children feel I cut people off too quickly BUT if actions don't match words I'm out, contact is deleted. Life's too short for BS. 😊

@sandancer45 3 месяца назад

At the end of the day, its your life to do as you wish, people come and go all the time.

@alexandrapomeroy8050 9 месяцев назад

I agree with you Kenny, I’m a 3 strikes and your out. Self preservation kicks in. Actions really do scream loudest.

@opicinus 11 месяцев назад

this feels like one of the more practical approaches out there that is not only effective but also is fair and reasonable by taking into account “everyone’s on their own journey.” seems super helpful with any communication/scenario, really. glad i found this channel :)

@indiakxoxo 9 месяцев назад

Don’t. I accepted my ghoster back bc he claimed he was depressed and etc and we talked consistently and was good then he ghosted. One day I woke up to the silent treatment again and unsure why. So just talk to people who are emotionally stable. 🎉❤ peace and love

@user-km4ul2ry4d Месяц назад

Boy are you being bamboozled! Start studying narcissist personality disorder Google study every piece of Information you can get drill it all into your head for months, there is absolutely no cure or treatment for this, he's doing it because he's seeing someone else and believe me it's more than one woman, silent treatment is a sick game to them they secretly enjoy hurting you and all this is abuse worse than physical trust me been through it

@thatdivinebeing 5 дней назад

Love your videos, Kenny. Thank you for your wisdom. ❤ So enjoy my own company after years with a narc. Looking back, I can't believe what I went through - the pain, abuse, manipulation, deception, and devaluation. I thank God for the lightbulb moments that led to a journey of healing that continues with each day. I wish the narc well in their universe. My boundaries are like steel now and I'm super happy living in mine. ❤

@bpassion4fashion581 10 месяцев назад

Omg Kenny ! I feel so normal after listening to this video. I get triggered by the way some people communicate / respond over text and I didn’t know if I was the problem. I am open , communicative and have no problem being vulnerable , but I had to learn how to create a safe container for myself and match their behavior. This is not only true with abusive people , but for me is a sign of someone not wanting to invest . Either way, not everyone deserves our best .

@citticat2 7 месяцев назад

Absolutely - go on with your life and do things that make you happy. After all the abuse - why would you want them back?

@TheSeekeroftruth1 10 месяцев назад

You're an Empath, Kenny. We are a rare breed, these days. IMHO, you gave this person way too much leverage - you had three fingers up (three chances, three boundaries broken, three red flags), needs to be one count you're out. I, too, have had to toughen up. It's really against who I AM, but its self protection, people will hurt you these days, they don't care. We do not 'match them', we do not play their games, we are not them. Playing games is not natural to an Empath, you might pretend to be OK with waiting 4hrs to text them back, but you are not OK and ultimately, WHY would you even want to text back someone who has said one thing and done another, this person clearly is not someone to trust? Just get rid of them, there are 8 Billion other people out there, you dont need these people. If you accept these people, you will keep attracting more experiences like them.

@mesalouis8976 10 месяцев назад

I hate being an empath!!!☹️😭

@Sheila3114 7 месяцев назад

I'm an empath too. Sometimes I have to put up my wall's up. Ppl are too toxic sometimes!

@anais8455 3 месяца назад

An empath means childhood trauma

@hotchocexpresso 2 месяца назад

If any man calls himself an “empath” then he doesn’t understand the psychology of attraction & has to break out of his emasculation, heal from trauma, & regain his mojo & masculinity.

@theoneschroeder8552 3 месяца назад

And we feel fantastic by watching your videos after being ghosted lol ! Thank you I wrote everything down🙏

@tinyfacemcgee9211 11 месяцев назад

Love this! I’m way too sensitive to rejection to date! That’s why it’s easier to start as natural friends. More on dating for people over fifty, I mean, if I have to go through another narcissistic break up I’m gonna become a nun. How about matching what we give in relationships compared to what they give, I.e. lopsided relationships

@shirleygonzales5284 11 месяцев назад

That's for sure.

@sherriflemming3218 11 месяцев назад

Best to dodge the bullets in the first place. At the first sign of love bombing, future faking or gaslighting, recognize the manipulation, control and abuse for what it is and RUN! Boundaries, a backbone and a bs meter . Stand in your power. Speak your truth and have zero tolerance for crumbs, bs, disrespect or any abuse. Don't settle for anything less than you deserve. Opt out! Asymmetrical relationships are unbalanced. Transactional and conditional. Trauma Bonds are not about healthy love.

@tanya2700 6 месяцев назад

It's funny how these abusers have dead eyes. Nothing inside

@tishgoss9259 10 месяцев назад

I wouldn’t even try to explain to them. My walls are already up and I don’t give second chances anymore. I just move on because that is who I am, that’s what works best for me.

@irina1siren 8 месяцев назад

I pretty well agree with this. If someone has clearly shown disinterest, then I think 1) they havnt earned my vulnerable analysis; and 2) I don’t want to invest in spending my energy and hope into explaining myself to them bc chances are they are avoidant and will not change, PLUS then they feel like they have the upper hand by knowing I am affected by their actions. And I don’t think someone who isn’t genuinely interested in me should know the inner workings of my thoughts to exploit later by breadcrumbing or playing cat and mouse games to satisfy their own egos of “getting me”.

@User37621 2 дня назад

@@irina1sirencan you give some female insight - I pursued a women and she showed a lot of interest along with a date ending with a kiss and texting for a week after with alot of good morning goodnight how’s your day. Then when I tried to set up the second date she ghosted…but is viewing my IG all stories immediately! Wtf ?

@21Casey50 8 месяцев назад

I love your advice. Good Stuff! Being ghosted is abusive behavior. Being to needy can make me rush into relationships to fast. I have a clearer vision / plan to deal with people who are not fair. People's actions speak volumes! Love people for who they are not who you want them to be. Kenny you are a ray of hope!

@WeR1bodyNChrist 9 месяцев назад

❤Wow, this is similar to my experience today. And I thought to myself to “ghost” that person the same length of time as I had been ghosted. Long story short, it worked out for my good!!! I will continue to live my life joyfully and with integrity, not letting anyone steal my peace.❤ Thank you for sharing your story in this video. I am a new subscriber.

@carmenr9251 5 месяцев назад

What if you work at the same job, fortunately I haven’t saw him or his new women , almost a month now

@Jakilyn 8 месяцев назад

I totally agree with having standards and boundaries. This may seem cutthroat to some, but if you really want authentic, genuine connections - it's necessary!

@PeachyPaigeMusic 11 месяцев назад

I really appreciate the practical-action focus. I find this kind of small but effective action steps are the most helpful things in my recovery. And trauma often blocks us from being able to think of those on our own.

@charlenerhoda2024 10 месяцев назад

I feel exactly the same. Wow. This is such a powerful message and spoken with such simplicity that every point became like a gold nugget for me. Thank you so very much.

@Deb1650 Месяц назад

I need to remember that it is not what happens to me, it's important how I respond to it.

@matthewcamillo695 2 месяца назад

This is why talking is far better than texting. Testing is too impersonal and leaves too many questions on the table for mis-interperaation (sp). the same texting device has numbers on it also. Call.

@PolarBearPredator Месяц назад

Wow Kenny you really nailed it by saying it depends on YOU not a set rule. Wow love it! New sub!

@carlosettienne5412 Месяц назад

You're so correct , couldn't believe someone would have such similar thoughts on how to respond to ghosters, boundaries and matching, non negotiables. WOW..!

@piuli1418 11 месяцев назад

I so love all this honesty, directness, braveness. ❤

@cathy_clarinet 11 месяцев назад

Really good. I’m right with you these days about matching (mirroring) the other persons interest or behavior. Sometimes I double their ghosting time. Ghost me 4 hrs, I’ll respond in 8 , etc. Can you give some examples of what you say when you let them know, if you do. A thing I noticed with narcissists, is that if you say to them you will begin treating them exactly as they treat you, they freak out!!! Sometimes anger and sometimes they run for the hills 😂. Never do they think, oh maybe I should treat you better.

@rubio9478 10 месяцев назад

They will never introspect. It's part of their sick disorder.

@hairstonwilliams2770 7 месяцев назад

Kenny, you are a mentor. Tried and true. Its great to have the opportunity to hear your wisdom. A father figure I did not have and am very appreciative of.

@melissa3986 11 месяцев назад

You’re so helpful. So glad I found your channel. Thank you! Going through this right now.

@youtubealiasoriginal 11 месяцев назад

Thank you Kenny for being someone that focus LESS on the narc and more on the power/focus in yourself. I think so many channels here on YT only focus on the narc, almost obsessing, so these are good advices😊

@kennyweiss 11 месяцев назад

You are so welcome

@matilda4406 10 месяцев назад

Yes, you are right. That's a correct observation. Very few actually focus on "how" to process and value yourself. And doing it kindly to the other person and to oneself. Takes a lot of investigation, maturity and love.

@shirleygonzales5284 11 месяцев назад

Thank you for all your love and wisdom. I've been listening to you for a while, an you have helped me out a lot. I had to set my boundaries. I love that honor there boundaries.

@heather_5 2 месяца назад

This video is GOLD. Thank you! Timely message for me! I always felt that the best thing to do with these types of people is to match their energy... YES!!!

@PamelaWildman-Williams Месяц назад

Excellent. Initially i wanted if this fits with Christian ethos - and for me it does! This gentleman is teaching us wisdom. How to guard ourselves. I haven't heard anything that purports to nastiness at all. Ghosting is so very very cruel. Mercy is not about allowing someone to rip our hearts apart with feelings of no meaning to life - i see explaining our actions if required without nastiness. So far this is good sense. Im very grateful x

@juliepeterson9670 5 месяцев назад

I love this video, it's so refreshing to see a different approach to standing up for Yourself. Thank You!

@lnilsson1376 2 месяца назад

A ghoster can also be depressed person, or someone with adhd. BUT - and this is a big lesson for me - its possible to be empathetic to it and still say "look I get you have your reasons, but Im not going to be able to stay in touch with you and be a nice person, since this behaviour persists." I have had to cut a few people of for that reason. Kept giving them chances, but they need to go to the root of their behaviour, and I need to choose if I deserve to keep my peace or if I have patience with this in the long run. A tough lesson, even with friends.

@kaycarter492 11 месяцев назад

I’ve made detailed notes and u have a good point about childhood trauma and how it affects ur responses to cold narcicstic twats by I now know what I need to do to grow and protect myself.

@dianeyvon 11 месяцев назад

Love this! Found your channel today and am so glad ❤

@agnesbajna7071 7 месяцев назад

Your words are just GOLD !!! ❤

@tanya2700 6 месяцев назад

Perfect video for me right now! Spot on, massive huge thank you!

@nicoleschmidt6226 10 месяцев назад

I agree with you 💯 percent. Been there done that! Their actions must match their words.

@131Hania 11 месяцев назад

Match them. This is AWSOME. because i do have people in my life who takes a day to answer. Now i know what to do. Thank you for sharing.

@jenniferpoitier 4 месяца назад

This is so relatable to me. Thank you for this video.

@patosborne2442 3 месяца назад

Great advice! 💗 Thank you Kenny.

@CleonAlleyne 3 месяца назад

Wow! This gives me the answers to how I feel most of the time with the friendship with a good friend.

@sarahhoek2491 8 месяцев назад

Thank you so much for this! Amazing video 💖💖💖💖

@paulaismael6549 10 месяцев назад

Absolutely brilliant. Thank you very much, you have taken off the pink glasses off my face. 🙌

@hyperbolic-time-chamber-strand 11 месяцев назад

I wonder if this person will watch this video, LOL.

@fastingcoach9711 6 месяцев назад

Brilliant brilliant brilliant The roots of evil are embedded into the fact that one does not others respect one’s boundaries!!!

@haihai5293 11 месяцев назад

This guy is the best I swear.

@cookingwithchefeandfriends3017 8 месяцев назад

I totally agree with you. I have an issue with timing of text . If you text me and I see it im gonna respond. I dealt with abrupt abandonment and just got ghosted for a month it brought so much anxiety to me. I didn't know what i did and was very confused. Everyone has their phone on them like just answer the text, if your free or when u get free. Thank You for this i needed this.🙏🏾

@kimortegastrongwarriorbrid5334 11 месяцев назад

Ty you so much Kenny. I use everything you taught me, to help in coaching my clients. 👍They are always amazed

@AlejandraKnowz 4 месяца назад

In my option.... if they just ignored you without feeling anything bad or see you value. No need to express, explain anything about you to them... just skip them.. doing nothing.. no contact is better cos they are not worthy for ur time anymore.

@madnessintomagic 4 месяца назад

Thank you. I needed this.

@MsKariSmith 7 месяцев назад

Excellent chat....I loved the tips! Information is power...to understand yourself and those you deal with!!! Thanks so much. K

@kennyweiss 7 месяцев назад

Glad it was helpful!

@FeelingFrequencies 8 месяцев назад

Loved this and definitely pay attention to actions over words and matching how people show up 👌🏻

@josefinemilo 11 месяцев назад

Thank you! Great video!❤🙏

@leadyourmarketplace 7 месяцев назад

Great stuff Kenny

@insider235 8 месяцев назад

You are a good man and a good communicator

@Oliasn8 3 месяца назад

Valuable insights and tools here. It remains fascinating to me how these issues seem to have grown given the advent of and increasing preference to text rather than call…or God forbid we actually just meet face to face and truly communicate! This is of course apart from any of the contributing factors of trauma. In terms of the limited aspects of communication within the medium of texting I much prefer to keep these exchanges to a minimum. Such as…”when does it work to give you a call?” Or, “are you free for coffee in the next couple of days?” There’s just too much nuance that is unavailable via text messaging. I appreciate your take on this, Kenny.🙏🏻

@lindaread9838 Месяц назад

Thank you for being so transparent. And helping others on their journey to healthier relationships ❤

@kennyweiss Месяц назад

You are so welcome!

@user-ch8sd3jt8g 5 месяцев назад

Iam also somebody who is open and gives a lot as in time and energy and an open ear to somebody that needs it and then, I feel hurt when they don't do the same for me. Not anymore!! From now on I'm going match what I get from others and not give away to much ar the start . Thank you so much!! You described me down to a "T" 😊

@burymeinbaldwin5896 10 месяцев назад

This was spectacular

@wordsofgraceandhope 23 дня назад

thanks for sharing your insights and some powerful truths--love how you remind us that we are responsible for our own inability to have proper boundaries

@thetraveller6578 6 месяцев назад

Wow, what a piece of great advice!

@ThePossumone 10 месяцев назад

This is great It’s difficult as a Christian to follow this But it makes psychological sense to me ❤

@prithimadawson434 5 месяцев назад

Agree.

@CottonWoodBlues 5 месяцев назад

I am a Christian too and I agree with you. I love the pychological aspect of it. But I always look at things from a Biblical perspective. After coming out of a really bad relationship in 2020 which I am still majorly damaged from albeit way better after making changes, I do agree that some of these things help to get with ones life on the rod to recovery after bad relationships. But having Jesus in my life was the biggest factor in my recovering.

@prithimadawson434 5 месяцев назад

@@CottonWoodBlues I was hurting when I was watching these videos and trying to understand things. But then I took the decision of walking by faith and not by my own limited understanding. I feel better. I’m happy I have Jesus.

@PamelaWildman-Williams Месяц назад

Thank you - I was hurting then I saw another Christian on board and gave me such comfort. We Christians are part of a family even though we don’t know each other. ❤️

@KamDhillon-Rai-hh3yq 4 месяца назад

Thank you. Very informative x

@Keepshitrealok 3 месяца назад

Excellent Informative. Thankyou for sharing your intelligent advice!

@blooming_Lotus1493 10 месяцев назад

I used to do that, but after a certain point I decided to stop mirroring toxic behaviour, I stopped trying to play shrimk to understand toxicicity and recognize disrespect when I see it. Unless it's a work related situation, it's just a waste of time, it's stressful and ultimately very disrespectful. I learned to tell flaky, mind game playing people to lose my number after the 3rd strike, people know exactly what they're doing, I don't even expect to be a priority or anything, just the bare minimun of respect and consideration like any other human being, if that's too much to expect, then I have no business wasting my precious time on someone who think it's okay to request some of it only to leave me hanging or to be lied to my face, sometimes repeatedly... Same thing is true for gaslighting, narc family members that hide relevant information from me that I have the right to know about, I'm too old to be getting bamboozeled left and right by fake friends or shady family members, I wish I knew earlier that it is okay to walk away when respect isn't present. Nowdays I have no hesitation in using the block buttom, and it's so much better.

@21Casey50 8 месяцев назад

I love this! Very smart advice. Don't waste your time on people who are not worthy of your time. Yes! i have been using to block button. A sign of a heathy recovering person. Feels great!

@leilagomulka5690 10 месяцев назад

Fantastic insight .

@jacquitaylor2256 Месяц назад

I am so glad I found this, its like you spoke to me directly. Thank you so much

@user-nv6ot7gf2f 3 месяца назад

Thank you so much for putting this video out there you look amazing in the purple This really helped me heal faster because now I realize I'm not a victim thank you

@Mamabear497 11 месяцев назад

Thank you, I've been on the journey to heal my inner child for my son who is three months old,❤❤❤

@Xxxxxrrr6464 8 месяцев назад

Big thank you. Boundaries!

@deeevansnola8178 10 месяцев назад

Thanks for your content. I love your style of dress. Happy Saturday!

@user-vb9bq7uj7l 5 месяцев назад

This is amazing! I wish i knew all of this information before i met the past 2 narcissists i was involved with

@yvettelafleur17 9 месяцев назад

Thank you so much❤ ,our childhoods were the same Was ghosted and it hurt so much but because of my recovery knew my reactions were past trauma Ive decided no contact same situation I choose to protect myself ❤

@chill3346 4 месяца назад

I needed this

@Gigiyoungerme 11 месяцев назад

Thank you Kenny

@Survivorofnarc 11 месяцев назад

Perfect timing. Thank you so much.

@kennyweiss 11 месяцев назад

You are so welcome!

@angelesgutierrez8912 5 месяцев назад

Thank you, I had been looking for so many answers for quite some time and you are giving them to me. I really appreciate your videos.

@kennyweiss 5 месяцев назад

You are so welcome!

@kenyattahockenhull5636 11 месяцев назад

Thank u for this information

@shannonwashburn4126 Месяц назад

Thank you. Very valuable lesson.

@tishgoss9259 10 месяцев назад

This is excellent advice. Where have you been my whole life.

@thirstonhowellthebird 10 месяцев назад

It would be great if we could communicate like that but a narc will gasp and treat you as if you’re needy, clingy and insane and tell you they were just busy and don’t have time for tit for tat games then smear you to the world after they’ve lulled you in 25 times to believe you matter. Normal people yes but a normal person wouldn’t ghost and treat someone like that repeatedly so that person is a narc and needs to be cut loose. Otherwise, wash, rinse, repeat will just be endless with these types.

@esmeraldayachting 5 месяцев назад

Wow! That's a nice video, bravo!!!!! Interesting points!!!

@kennyweiss 5 месяцев назад

Thank you very much!

@DeepThinkersClub 10 месяцев назад

Kenny, I think some people are not very deep, so if you talk about something deep, and their schema can’t process the info, they go into brain fog 😶‍🌫️ and they just can’t respond at that point. I have found this to be the case a lot! 🤓

@matilda4406 10 месяцев назад

True. But it shows that they are not at his level. Not really an equal yoking and values are not aligned.

@DeepThinkersClub 10 месяцев назад

@@matilda4406 Yeah, plus the energy is off. Getting on the same frequency is super rare too.

@matilda4406 10 месяцев назад

@@DeepThinkersClub yes.. sigh..