The secret of good seduction is not to idealise the person we are trying to get together with. They are - ultimately - still just another human being, whom we would in time get very irritated with if the seduction worked as well as we want. That is a thought to lend us confidence.
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FURTHER READING
“We are never as shy and gauche as we are when attempting to seduce someone we deeply like. The thought of someone this perfect coming to take an interest in us seems at once tantalizing and entirely implausible. We develop vertigo and, too often, fall. Behind our insecurity lie two conjoined fears: that we are exceptionally awful. And that the beloved is exceptionally perfect. Both ideas are hugely destructive - and false…”
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16 авг 2017
