How to stay Classy and Elegant whilst SINGLE | Behaviours to Avoid as a Single Woman

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Ladies! Are you single and basking in all the freedom and glory it has to offer? Or do you view singleness as some kind of curse?
However you do view it, there are ways to ensure you remain elegant, classy and dignified in this stage of your life.
This week's video explores 10 Things you Must Avoid doing when SINGLE!
In many cultures, if you are single at a certain age it means you're destined for a lifetime of spinsterhood and this can be very harsh but there are ways to ensure that you remain high value and productive during this point in your life.
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@nicoobrowner Год назад

What I did when I was single: ☝🏼Worked on my hobbies and talents ☝🏼Became very discrete and never complained about my singleness in public and to others ☝🏼Worked on myself and my character (eg. I was once short tempered 😂, through God, I fixed it!) ☝🏼Focused on others and loving them, especially those who felt lonely, like me 😊 (widows, the elderly and shy teenagers) ☝🏼Focused on giving and generosity! ☝🏼Prayed to finish a higher degree that was lingering for too long 😆 ☝🏼Prayed for a good man, everyday and prayed God molds me for him. ☝🏼 Prayed for gratitude and contentment in my Singleness. That was the hardest. But man came and he LOVED the woman that I had become! Singleness IS A GIFT when you use it wisely 😃

@Manifesting_Secret_Sketchbook Год назад

Proud of you WELL DONE

@warnacreamadeicecreamskool6305 Год назад

A great one

@connieholmes4853 2 года назад

Not to allow a mans attention to determine your self-esteem, great advice.

@blaakcoffee 2 года назад

Powerful!!!

@theonehun6385 2 года назад

She read me for filth with this comment because I just started really loving myself and I see all the mistakes I made and it made me sad but now that I have been working on myself I'm much more aware and happy and I have stopped believing the lies

@blaakcoffee 2 года назад

@@theonehun6385 congratulations beautiful!!! Loving yourself is the best

@ms.ednapost 2 года назад

Excellent advice! However, as an older woman I advise younger women not to chase a marriage license and push out those voices about getting married for the sake of being married. Commitment, trust, love, and devotion does not come with marriage unless both partners agree. A woman may have societal approval being married. But at what cost if you’re married to a man who is not worthy of a truly elegant woman? A woman should always ask herself if a man worthy of being the father of your children.

@dianea3926 2 года назад

Another round of applause for the ever gorgeously elegant Vivien!!!👏👏👏👏👏Wow!!!just Wow!!!

@ehodne973 2 года назад

I have been single since my divorce in 2005 and am LOVING IT! Ladies; truly embrace and be thankful for your season of singleness, as it truly is a gift. I have been doing things like attending gallery openings and traveling since my divorce. Things I didn't have time for while married. There are other obvious perks to singleness such as blessed alone time! Time to just be and enjoy the moment. When you are married you are focused on work, your husband and possibly raising children. Honestly ladies, there really isn't much alone time/down time. Take advantage of all that you can as a single lady now and enjoy! ❤

@lubegajoshua6609 Год назад

Thank you dear

@mambojambo1255 Год назад

Yes ,always be positive and shine like a star .Be elegant and live a dignified life .

@2m.channel794 2 года назад

Noted.Thank you ❤️

@kimberlygoode477 2 года назад

U made some great points thanks

@theglobalgifted 2 года назад

I'm beautiful, desirable having high values 😍🥰 I've set boundaries and standards for myself. I'm happily single, enjoying my singlehood as I keep preparing and developing myself. Thanks for sharing, Beautiful Mentor🥰

@sarahkennedy1481 8 месяцев назад

Very difficult if on a modest wage over 55 and no family. Seem few men of value out there. Also hard if someone wants a child

@nattyb2924 2 года назад

1. Stop giving off an air of desperation 2. Stop telling everybody you hate being single 3. Stop giving wife privilege to a man who is not your husband 4. Stop trying to make yourself the center of attention 5. Stop subscribing to every single dating website in existence 6. Stop lamenting about past heartbreak at every opportunity 7. Beware of the singles club 8. Beware of the jealous streak 9. Beware of not setting boundaries 10. Surround yourself with happily married people

@fideliachiamaka5620 2 года назад

@@mementomori1022 I don't think that was the motive, she was only trying to take notes and it was nice dropping it here so someone can screenshot.

@SandraSmith-fp7cr 2 года назад

Thank you.

@drcynthiabmcneill 2 года назад

Nicely summed. ❤️

@fluffyhedgehog7963 2 года назад

@@mementomori1022 who is being rude here? I don’t think it’s nutty

@angelaamadi2120 Год назад

Nice

@octaviabraye1654 2 года назад

Yes 👍! Take it from a woman.who has been married 25 years, haste makes waste. If you marry the wrong person it can cause a lifetime of pain and misery. Single woman have opportunities of dating and selecting. Take your time with relationships and marriage, there is no rush. Be very careful it is a lifetime commitment. Never enter a marriage unadvisedly and without wise counsel. Ladies the long engagement is a bad sign. Never stay in a toxic relationship just for a wedding ring 💍 Perfect love cast out fear. You will know in your heart when it is truly right. Men will show you two sides. Learning which one to believe takes wisdom. Time eventually reveals the person behind the mask. Take your time and let time reveal. Best wishes ladies.

@wachiraofficial7619 2 года назад

God bless you!

@habibahseguga3285 2 года назад

Thank you 🙏.

@naomicampana 2 года назад

Thank you 🙏🏾

@achommiriam9665 2 года назад

Thank you for the wisdom

@sakuraesther6309 2 года назад

Thank you miss

@flygirl3544 2 года назад

I’ve been single for six months now after a long term relationship and I’m the happiest I’ve ever been in my life! I’m dating myself, exploring myself, educating myself, loving myself; setting standards for myself. Thank you my elegant sister for reaffirming this today!

@billybobbybill2924 2 года назад

Amen To that I also too been single these 6months, it’s been so eye opening, I can’t even bare to be around toxic energy I know I want to be in love and married but I am really REALLY enjoying my solitude lol

@LovelyVibrations 2 года назад

Me too!!!

@maggief1851 2 года назад

Enjoy Honey,single life is the best don't let these couples deceive you.No one can love you no more than you and God.

@boicom7 2 года назад

When you find someone that truly loves you and you love him too, you will know the difference.

@Weelsa 2 года назад

Yessss! Ditto here!!

@drcynthiabmcneill 2 года назад

You are just pure awesomeness! I have been happily married for 10 years and counting, this is my second marriage. You nailed it about valuing self and enjoying your single life. You have to be a happy “me” to be a happy “we.”

@blktauna 2 года назад

LOL I'm 62, never married and while I would not mind a partner, I have no need of one and do perfectly well without one. We need to break the cycle of having parents and society beat us up over it. There's nothing to beat yourself up over. Cultivate your own happiness and enjoy your life. Living well is the best revenge.

@chidiekpeluchi9413 2 года назад

Oh my gosh! Living well is really the best revenge. I am giggling like a little girl here because i am living well with my three handsome sons after my ex-husband cheated on me. I am divorced and blessed. This is getting sweeter 🤩

@sbella6719 2 года назад

Well said! 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

@GoddessOfLove-pr7ek 3 месяца назад

Yes absolutely agree with you and feel the same way as a woman in my mid 40's.

@realpristine 2 года назад

I had friends who wanted to basically trap their boyfriend with a baby and didn’t care about marriage. I had to remove myself from those women quickly 🤦🏾‍♀️

@starrjohnson1327 10 месяцев назад

I work with two women who did that. One has 2 children. The other has 3. Both are still running around. They "date" married men and brag about it. They asked me to hang out. I always make an excuse😂

@luciaiglesias1456 2 года назад

Ladies, being single is just polishing time as you become the highest caliber woman imaginable and take your time picking the best suitor!

@GoddessOfLove-pr7ek 3 месяца назад

Exactly

@IevaKambarovaite 2 года назад

*A lot of the times a woman sees the signs when she's being used, but she chooses to ignore them.* This is so true.. I think very often if we look back we'll realise that we saw those signs and so called red flags as early as the first few dates, but we just chose to ignore them. Women are so intuitive. We've got this immense gift. We have to learn to trust our intuition and not ignore it.

@MISS.SWANKY 2 года назад

Yes I feel this same way!!!

@purplelove3666 2 года назад

Everyone is intuitive, it depends if you want to use it or not,

@miglinejean2057 Год назад

Agree

@wollywood2012 Год назад

oh my god yes

@Manifesting_Secret_Sketchbook Год назад

Gift of fear by Gavin De BECKER

@tennilledebysingh5819 2 года назад

Absolutely on all points! It's a special time in a woman's life & I hope more women see that. It's a time to grow, evolve, have fun & develop your personal principles, values, & boundaries to live by, especially within dating. Stay true to your desires & be authentically happy. Single or in a relationship, you are still you, full & complete with or without him. We women live in a special time that is meant to honor us & it's time to understand how much power & weight we have with men. Technically we call the shots, but some are so weak & desperate they choose an unhealthy relationship & they can't see this. We have the power here, please please don't give your feminine power away!

@sarahdesimon5781 2 года назад

Chastity is a treasure. Thank you for the very high standards of dignity you teach women 🙏🏽

@tracyburroughs9695 2 года назад

Enjoy singleness. Yes, it is a blessing.

@barbaralinson2697 2 года назад

Yes!!! Stop giving wife privileges to a man who is Not your husband.

@maggie3315 2 года назад

I am 60 and I have been single all my life. Relationship always short term for me it's my destiny I know now. I am going to marry myself and try to better my life by myself.

@jasminemwanza9586 2 года назад

You're like a big sister that I always run to for advice 😊

@monalisawm 2 года назад

The only one who needs changing is your child wearing pampers! An adult will change when he wants and might not be you!

@GoddessOfLove-pr7ek 3 месяца назад

Right 💯

@fazeelafazal8615 Год назад

Love this topic and I love your British accent. You are right women should not give themself to men if he is not their husband. I respect myself, I will never give myself to a man unless he is married to me. 🙂💃

@PrizzT 2 года назад

I am 42 and I am so fine with singleness. So much fun and so much freedom, I love the "me" time whenever. And you are right, being single is a blessing.

@marlena408 Год назад

This is so inspiring thanks for sharing your story. I started my path to reinventing myself a year ago, I'm now living healthier, confident, stronger, making 6 figures, having leisure to enjoy family &friends. I feel happier and living my life for myself. This is to encourage someone "you can start anytime to have a reset it's worth it! I'm striving to continue growing cus it's a journey❤

@monica64340 Год назад

Congratulations sis! Thanks for encouraging others with your story, I will love to get tips from you too.

@marlena408 Год назад

@@monica64340 Change your mindset, read self-help books, expand knowledge, budget and don't spend on impulse, save, take your finances seriously, eat healthy, exercise your body, meditate; the list goes on... I hope it is useful to you.

@lunamoon448 Год назад

@@marlena408 How did you grow to 6 Figure? I'm honestly trying to work on my personal finance this year.

@marlena408 Год назад

@@lunamoon448 ¿l learnt to be frugal, minimal on spending, saving and paying myself first through Investing, made Plans, growing passive income, Read a lot of books on finance, followed my plan consistently.:)

@mariana23273 Год назад

Congratulations to you that's so brave of you thanks for sharing🥰

@AJ.943 2 года назад

You look beautiful in that gold color Vivian! ♥️ And wonderful video! Stay classy ladies!

@carolineurpatyan1713 2 года назад

Thank you Vivian for your education. And by the way, you resembles Serena Williams!

@jacquelynb4222 2 года назад

My divorce is almost finalized and these were perfect points that I tell everyone myself. Singleness is so important. With it I've learned so much about myself, the importance of a family unit, trust, and marriage. I'm in no rush to get there but I'm so glad there are other ladies in this world who cherish singleness. It is an opportunity to learn and grow so you can meet the man of your dreams. Remember ladies, you can only offer what you are. So if you aren't at 100% then you don't have 100 to give. Heal and grow in your season of singleness.

@imusingmygrandmasaccrnsoye9440 Год назад

These are great ideas, no one should sell themselves cheap! We must love ourselves as single women, then we will attract the right guy for long loving valued relationship! Above all, we should pray for what we exactly like in a man!

@shavonnelogan5026 2 года назад

This is the advice I’ve been looking for as a single 42 year old woman! I’ve been doing it all wrong and I knew it. So glad Vivian was able to address this.

@misbahailia3345 Год назад

Your positivity is contagious. 💖

@beckybanks2952 Год назад

Same to me at 40 I've been so worried

@pinky-ud1rt Год назад

Same hun shes made me see something diffrent

@GoddessOfLove-pr7ek 3 месяца назад

Same here too.

@purplelove3666 2 года назад

Hey elegant lady, can you make a video on why men casually make babies with a woman but not marry them?. I have seen some celebrities do this too,both white and black , I honestly hate it. Then again, why do the women even entertain it?. Can you make a video explaining?because I am sure if the men asks their hand in marriage they would say yes. Thank you.

@vds4252 2 года назад

You nailed this video All true Thanks for helping all women As a single mother who comes from a country that values married women more than single womena

@tmichellewalsh6230 Год назад

I'm actually more elegant than I thought..54 yrs old ..never married..too many offers..I have similar views..love it ..was always a different type of person..thanks for clarify..class and elegance

@GoddessOfLove-pr7ek 3 месяца назад

Me too. I am the same way. 💯 I enjoy my freedom, my time and space very content with my own company. Just being free-spirit, single woman. Continue with my healing, recovery, meditation and spiritual journey. The positive side of spirituality. ❤😊 Peace, love, light and blessings to you. 🙏💫✨💜💜🌺🌹

@GabyDee7 2 года назад

Become your best fabulous self while single. Enjoy life!

@Price8903 2 года назад

Being single and working on yourself is better than being married and miserable. Take your single season to focus and self, and when you do date vet, vet, vet, vet, vet and don’t settle.

@naomikennedy6472 2 года назад

Oh how I love your videos ....They are so educative . Can you please do a work place etiquette??? Let God bless you sis , your videos are really helping me to be the classy woman I desire to be. Thank u so much for always sharing.

@jessicaboisabi7905 2 года назад

Hey viviane I love your hair. Can you share your hair secrets, what hair you wear and how to style it so elegantly like you do❤️

@loisthomas5465 2 года назад

Thank you for this. Awesome message.

@ifunanyaokonkwo943 Год назад

This is coming to me at the right time. I was recently promoted and deployed to a semi urban village to work. I was truly devastated and the only reason to bring me back to the city is marital ground. I felt so awful with my life, imagining starting a new life in a strange environment. It was the only moment I regret being single. But honestly It’s making sense to me right now. My mum encouraged me so much to work there instead of seeking for redeployment. Coming here, I’ve been reassured of the positive part of it. Thanks so much for sharing.

@cbh2409 2 года назад

being single is a privilege that millions of women in some countries do not have. I am sooo grateful to live in a free country where I can live as I please. The only part of this video that I disagree with is doing self-improvement for the sake of a future relationship. Just do self improvement for ourselves, for our own happiness and fulfillment, and to be a better person for the world as well. But, maybe no man will come along. And, that's ok if we've learned how to be happy regardless.

@dogopatience9163 2 года назад

You just shared liquid gold, ma’am🥰 I always feel refreshed watching your videos, it’s like a natural cleanser for a woman’s soul.

@Meesha-Gay 2 года назад

Refreshing talk as usual, thank you. Numbers 1 and 3 is important for women over 40 because it attracts narcissistic men. They spot desperation from miles away and charm their way into our lives and once they find what they can get from you they begin to play on your insecurities and desperation, manipulate your thoughts and try to make you feel off balanced and dependent on them for rescuing. Then they take whatever you have and dump you and move on to the next 1 and 3 lady. I've seen it so much nearly caught me recently but I knew the red flags and I wasn't as desperate as he thought plus I wasn't about to give him any spousal favors but he tried. I got help because I talked about him to my close friends and I was able to hear myself think when I talked about my concerns; little things I overlooked accumulated and I was able to walk away from what I thought was a God send.

@juliettekigundu147 2 года назад

More girls need to hear this!. So true and many can’t quite articulate it like this.

@parveengordon9524 Год назад

I don't know why women including myself, we might spend so much effort taking care of ourselves only to be railroaded by men who have no respect or care about women on a whole. The onus is on us to value ourselves more and to always find ways of adding value to ourselves by being independent and self sufficient thereby taking our lives in hand and be accountable for who we give the chance of even holding a reasonable discourse with.

@rejoicennedi 2 года назад

This came at the nick of time for me. Definitely watching again so it sticks. Thank you 🙏

@bethzaidasanabria8280 2 года назад

I agree with all you say. Your wisdom is a blessing to me and my daughters. I wish I had you when growing up. But I’m still young and it’s never too late to learn. I have been single for years and I love it.

@angelicwoman9245 2 года назад

At long last Vivian..someone who doesn't think dating sites are the only way to meet a man.Thank you for talking about this. I'm a professional 61 year old very trendy and independent woman I'd love to meet the right guy but after 9 years I'm not prepared to have anyone in my life..he will need to bring to the table what I do...I refuse to put myself on a dating site I want the old ways of dating getting to know a person...before listening to your video I truly thought is it just me not wanting to date from a site but it's true its a lazy way of finding the one...Thank you

@rebekaewusie5388 2 года назад

I agree! Many younger RU-vidrs that have a large audience of women advocate for being on dating apps, saying that 'everyone's on them' 'just get with the program' but I don't believe it's the only way to meet a good person!

@MiniLee-v2o Год назад

You are a 61 year old grandma why do you want to date at this age?

@gugumazibuko6275 10 месяцев назад

I like the way Vivie said "Stop it" She doesn't say avoid. Avoid can make you stay in the omfortable zone even if it things taste sour.

@JOI.with.an.i 2 года назад

Can you make a video of some boundaries elegant ladies must have ?

@lifemate3962 2 года назад

You gave me the most important lesson at this moment 🙂.

@tisheetee 2 года назад

It's funny how now that I care so much less about relationships, I suddenly attract more of the kind of guys I used to think didn't want me. I don't even look forward to giving my phone number anymore. Life is weird😅

@empoweringmindsforgreatness 2 года назад

This is an all round amazing message. Thanks Vivian for this. I love every point. More likes and loves for you….

@AFocusedLiving 2 года назад

That’s why I prefer Godly relationships it focuses on one man and one woman only forever.

@nahambohilma8598 2 года назад

Very good, l will consider this in my interactions.

@onadejibunmi400 2 года назад

God bless you real good ma. Stumbled on your video today and am stock... Watched 4videos already and would watch more later. And YES, I am COMPLETE and being single is but a passing phase of life.

@Wiiniihvlog 2 года назад

Personally I am single and I enjoy it. I want to know myself better before being in a relationship. Thank you for these advice ! Your videos are always of good quality.

@karencollins2440 2 года назад

Excellent tips, Vivienne! Especially giving "wife benefits" to a man who's Not your husband. Your elegance and wisdom is inspiring. I love your videos. Thank you..

@savinthesun Год назад

I have been struggling after leaving an abusive relationship, thank you for this video. It makes me see the good in being single even when I struggle with loneliness. Waiting for the right one is better than being with the wrong one.

@HayleyMarie72 2 года назад

You said nothing but facts! Even though I knew this info, I'm glad that it's being restated!!

@annabelkalai7610 2 года назад

“It takes a refined mindset and a heart of love....”. So well put!!! 💯💯

@queenkeesh8660 7 месяцев назад

I’m happy no one call me to do everything cus I’m single I still have a life jus cus I don’t have serious relationships and a husband sn Tina turner did get married in her 60s she waited on right man and time her 2 nd time

@ruthbraden-l6h 7 месяцев назад

Excellent points. Marrying just to be married or to have someone who can help you escape from a miserable situation are no longer are valid points

@user-co7tt6bl Год назад

I love you from Saudi Arabia. Thanks for the automatic translation. I enjoyed your videos

@emerald2046 2 года назад

I do not believe the lies, Vivienne. Thank you for always being a big Sis 💗

@Noortje394 2 года назад

Although I do all the things that you mentioned. I do notice that the humble and caring women always get left out…. It has been always like that for me. I think maybe it has to do with my aura… I would consider myself a nice girl. But nice girls also always end last. Men like exciting and bad girls and I’m not like that at all. I have been single now for 5 years and have dated quite a lot through online and via via but they are just not that interested in me. The guys that I like they don’t like me that much and the guys who want me I’m not interested in… I’m trying to make friends and maybe hang out more outside and meet people more in a casual way but it just so hard. (Excuse my English it’s not my first language :)

@manelgamaeathige6857 Год назад

Thank you Vivian. As a single , I am having a happy life. Learnt a lot from this vedio.

@ellenaeller3373 2 года назад

Stay off dating sites

@eloncano3743 2 года назад

On point! Wise thoughts. I hope more young women come accross this video :-) Thank you for building this content.

@daniellephillips9079 Год назад

I love being single and living alone, relationships take a lot of time and energy. Self care is the best. Marriage is a illusion.

@gingerb9997 2 года назад

Thannnkkkkk youuuu my dear....I pray desperately that a lot of women watch this!

@favourmonday5515 6 месяцев назад

Your videos are the most educated I have seen on the internet. Thank you so much ma’am 👏👏

@LotachiFitMum 2 года назад

Thanks for this. I’m focused on my fitness channel and inspiring people to be active. 💪🏾

@joyfuje2021 2 года назад

Thank you, you look so elegant.

@ShenaWittic 2 года назад

Great video! I've learnt so much ❤️

@007Agate 2 года назад

Thank you so much for your guidance. I really appreciate this page. Even my son ask me “mom you’re watching a video on how to travel?” I said “Yes, I always want to work on being the best version of me.” 😊 I have learned a few pointers from you on how to be effortlessly chic & pleasant. Last night I went to prepare my taxes and the gentleman was really taken back by my politeness. He said he wasn’t familiar with someone who says thank you so much. He brought it up several times & even asked where my parents were from & how did I get like this. I was honest & said that there have been many times when I was negative, crass & rude but I intentionally & actively work on myself. Thank you 😊 I look forward to hearing more from you of some examples of dating boundaries & standard. As a single mom a boundary of mine is to be home by 11p. I’d love to hear from others what are some of their top boundaries & standards.

@buzzlove8437 2 года назад

i am on a dating break & have taken the decision of chastity i.e 'no sex outside of marriage'. since i took this decision, i now seem to be attracting them even more.😃😃😃 ladies, be careful men can be real opportunists!!! my prayer 🙏🏽 now is to have business / job so i can be financially independent

@teenah2494 2 года назад

I like how you pass your message in a classy and simple manner.Thank you Viv❤

@njabulobarbie1505 2 года назад

I really like you✅💎

@jacquelinesmith-gaston2071 2 года назад

Very good advice...once AGAIN! Thank you!

@Fay-hu5oh 2 года назад

I wish I saw this about 3/4 years ago, I’ve had to learn the hard way 😩🤦🏽‍♀️

@romaiseb 2 года назад

A video on how to deal with toxic family members as an elegant woman… I’m respected by everyone around me, and carry myself with dignity, but my family are the only ones who bring out the worst in me

@user-ti8bw1ri5h Год назад

You might want to follow Dr Ramani on RU-vid, she talks about toxic familiers and narcisists. Dr Les Carter is very good too. Good luck, and congratulations on your journey!

@mumjarra Год назад

I just subscribed this video was everything. I am ready to grow and change my ugly ways and the single section also applies to married women as well. so much valuable infor thank you so very kindly .

@fazeelafazal8615 Год назад

I always listen to my intuition and it is always right. Yes, we cannot change a man. He will not change for a woman. I don't like online dating. This is not real dating, real dating in life is meeting someone and getting to know them. I agree with everything you say. Love your videos ❤

@arlenelovelace18 Год назад

I am single, and I am very content being single. 😊

@jamiepaulse9898 2 года назад

Awesome video, as always! Please do a video on how to handle unpleasant/jealous people and relationships.

@AdaUnleashed 2 года назад

Taking note of this video for IF I become single again lol.

@djeanmose9719 2 года назад

Hello Vivienne, i just love watching your video. Im obsessed watching it actually😅 your advice are amazing since i start watching your video i apply it to my life i consider you as my big sister who give me advice and your video give me confident.

@anabeskriva2455 2 года назад

Thanks Vivienne. Excellent video. It would be great that this one could be the start of a video series of elegance for single ladies.

@fragrancedeparadiso443 2 года назад

Praying that any single reading this, who haven't tasted the other side of Christ love may do so. It's mind blowing By the way this lady is one of the best things I've come across with so far this year

@nahambohilma8598 2 года назад

❤❤🙏

@rubynewby3519 2 года назад

Well said,Thanks for your informative, inspiring lessons 👏

@shedes1907 2 года назад

Your makeup is gun-blazing 😊 please do a video on that 🙏

@abisey943 2 года назад

You inspire me to better myself every day, thanks Vivian.

@broadwaystar2b Год назад

I am forwarding this to every fellow single woman I know 👏

@maycreations5 2 года назад

This is called empowerment! Thank you, Vivian!!!

@gladyskesse9373 2 года назад

You said it all thanks so much sister Vivian God bless you for such an intelligent woman of elegant 💋💞🙏🤝🤝🤝

@marlscarmona3205 2 года назад

Please post more often! I like your videos

@matoli_n 2 года назад

I real needed to hear this .being a single it's just a phase, thanks for this reminder 😊

@ndyndy2785 2 года назад

Thank u so much☺️

@zanele1145 2 года назад

Im learning English vocabulary from your words😘

@nahambohilma8598 2 года назад

Lol my too ❤💕

@ijeomanwichi1242 2 года назад

Plenty of sense in all you have said.I appreciate.God bless you💲

@nahambohilma8598 2 года назад

❤❤🙏

@freedmm3122 Год назад

I am 81 years young. My man is a very good man ,but we have not much time left and we have kids aand homes and finances that take consideration. We do have an intimate relations but I will not stop that. He has given me more love than I have ever had . He don’t lie and tell me he loves me . But I do intend to get the love I need or want before I die