Anyone can improve if they want. We don't need a role model to tell us that. He is just an example of someone who improved their life. Another example: About 8 months ago, I had zero muscle in my chest area. I couldn't do 1 pushup. Now I can do 100 pushups in 15 minutes and am developing a big chest. Anyone can do anything.
I generally agree with the idea of having sexual polarity in a relationship. As someone whose active duty Hamza has a very romanticized version of what that lifestyle can do to a relationship. Military couples have some of the highest divorce rates by profession. The woman gets bored, you're unavailable, she craves attention, and she will find someone else to give it her. Be mysterious to women, but don't put yourself in a position where you're absent. She still needs your attention and validation to keep the relationship strong.
I agree with this. I think there should be a balance between absence and availability because if the man is gone for far too long the woman might end up feeling depressed from a big lack of attention from her man.
You guys all remember back in 3rd grade when we all thought we’d just meet someone and they’d be loyal and our opinions on politics wouldn’t matter and we’d all be happy with one another?
Just got rejected after I thought things were going good and this video makes so much sense , I was giving too much info away and getting too familiar too quickly
As a person who loves being alone for a while, I think I'll not have this problem but hopefully I'll never have this problem, I just need to improve myself, This year will be my year.
Was in the middle of composing a Word document entailing the core principles presented in this video when I came across this old maxim: "Familiarity Breeds Contempt." It is an old proverb that delineates how "extensive knowledge ... of someone or something leads to a loss of respect for them or it." Now that's something worth pondering forever.
Hamza, you never cease to impress me with this PRICELESS knowledge and wisdom you share with us! I'm 25, and I have NEVER heard more truth from elders or teachers than this, EVER. It's all coming together, it all makes so much sense! It's like all the wise people I've met knew these things but they couldn't quite nail it, yet here you are connecting all the dots. I thank you, as this is the perfect time for this, a time when I'm DMing girls like never before, and I'm quickly realizing what works and what doesn't. Man. Also mad respect to the new Adonis arc. This man is a true leader, coming to the aid of Jeffrey. Peak masculinity right there, I love it 💯🔥💪
@@r.a1301 LOL! 😂😂 I owe a lot of my mental health success to Hamza, cause with things going on I probably would have cracked and quit my channel again, the pressure in my life is intense, but no, I'm pushing through 💪
@@aksula-1 happy to hear you're improving. I'm in the exact same boat. We'll both make it brother. I think maybe I should play less destiny and do some more productive stuff instead 😂
@@r.a1301 I do lmao. I barely play this game at all 😂😂 90% of the time I'm editing making content and working my job, 5% I'm sleeping and 5% I'm out doing stuff. Lol dw, I'm not a no life gamer anymore, I am WAY too busy nowadays
I always think of a relationship as a cake. the most beautiful cake in the world. but if you eat that cake too fast, in the end there is nothing left. take the time to eat that cake (can be slowly, can be with huge intervals) the longer it last, the happier you are when you get to eat it again.
Lately i started looking back at myself 6 months ago and suddenly noticing all the improvements that i have in my life right now. The only thing that bother me is Not having my friends in this journey with me . They are focussed in their lifes as it should be , i feel that i just need someone that is going to the same process as mine sometimes.
it's like a dopamine spike. If you spend more time with your girl every day, you'll be really happy in the short term, but it'll drop down a lot lower than your baseline. But if you spend some time away from her, it'll be hard short term but will make a better long term relationship
I’m ngl this comment gonna get buried but I just got outta jail and I found this channel. Everything he’s saying is right. I can’t do it. I’m not strong enough.
Why have I been doing the "wyd" thing this whole time, without even thinking about it. Usually reply with "Things" or "Good question" "Guess" and such, thank god I'm doing SOMETHING right. W Hamza.
Listen here, this theory is facts. I went to the gym one day and had an intense workout. I mean one of those workouts where I went to the dark place and tested my body under fire and pressure. I came back home and my girl came over. She asked "how was your workout babe?" Like she always does. I replied "I trained so hard today I became a God". The way I said it and the way I looked in her eyes she damn near jumped on me. Mind you that same day she didn't want me to go to the gym. She wanted to come over so we can bake cookies. Let's just say my communication and mystery skills went up by a thousand and so did everything else. Hamza you speaking straight facts brethren
@@fr0zdify the thing is you don't have to tell her directly what you did, twist the answer a bit if it's necessary to answer. Like Girl: What did you do this week? Guy: I was preparing to conquer the fking world
Whenever a girl asks me: "-What have you done today?", I always look deep into their eyes and with a poker face answer with: "-Yes." It creates a funny\awkard situation where we both laugh while giving them a little hint that I'm not going to answer the question. It works so well, most of my friends started stealing it 😅
I currently have a 15-day holiday, and after tomorrow i'd be meeting up with my friends, and whenever a girl asks me this question, ill respond just like you said and ill make an edit back. x)
Hat's of to hamza for making this video at the right moment you've changed my life and i do not want to live like a jeffery but each day i feel like i'm at an Adonis level but their is more work to do.
I have been really attracted to a girl in the past few days, and now I realize that I was being too close to her, I feel that the mystery and attraction is much less than before, I wish I had seen this video before, now I realize the mistake I made with such a beautiful woman, Greetings Hamza, you always tell the fucking truth.
Even if he disappears or gets cancelled, We should not get worried and rather work on ourselves. This is what he wanted from the start. This is our only choice. Good luck boys
17:12 you MUST variate your time at work. If you go to work 9-5 and get home usually by 6, some times you need to get in at 8 or 9. This creates mystery, and don't say I worked late, more along the lines of, I had something to do even if it's to work late. Something this simple, I dropped a girl home after a date she initiated. She knows I should be home 20mins maximum 30mins..... 45min mark she messages me asking if I got home. 1hr mark I responded, that I am home, had to make a stop. Hope you all get it.
This video literally changed my perception of love. I have been texting my girlfriend every. single. day. And just telling her how much I love her and all, but I realised that if I am always going to be available, she is slowly but surely going to lose interest because she just knows that "Oh, he's always available so I know what he's doing all the time". If I don't always text her and talk to her less, she is going to be thinking about me more. Thank you, Hamza.
Thats a cool unique name were dose it or you come from, also how did you meet your bitch and how do you think you keep her exchanging sound waves with you
I have been doing this since last 6 months … I talk once every 2-3 days. She misses me like hell and gives me much more respect. Also, the quality of the conversation gets better when you talk after a few days. At first, they will be angry seeing the sudden change in you. But then you gotta act like you have other important things to do than just talking to her. If she wanna stay she can, if not then you wouldn’t stop her. Thats where she gets a “L” and you get the “W”. From here onwards, she will wait for your text/call and miss you… Most importantly, she will respect you!
why do you need a video on that. Do you seriously not know the answer to that question yourself.... become something. You think Dwayne Johnson, or Andrew Tate, or Vin Diesel, or Jeremy Meeks are insecure about their baldness????? NO. Because they are SUCCESSFUL. They have accomplished things in life. The reason you are insecure about losing your hair, is because without it YOU. ARE. NOTHING.
My only issue with remaining mysterious, is she’s going to eventually find out the truth. The bigger the fantasy the harder the fall to reality, at least in my case.
Preach brother! I used to dread when girls would text me and be like: "what are you up to?" or "what did you do this week?" cause I had no idea how to respond but now I am DYING to have some people ask me that to be able to practice my social skills and to polarize myself again.
This is also why getting your sexual urges under your control is important for a wife. Idk how many times I've heard of husbands banging their wife into the bed 7 days a week until he gets bored and wants variety, then ruins his own marriage. However, if you control your own sexual urges even with your wife, it allows you to maintain frame and make sure she's always in the position of wanting you more than you want her. Guys....recognize that the sexual urges you feel can be channeled into literally anything else. Working out, learning something new, ext. the longer you do it, it develops into a habit. Practice the habit long enough and it'll develop into a personality trait. A permanent part of you. Don't let your body demand you around, force your own body to submit and obey you. If you can't even be masculine enough to exert dominance over your own body, you'll always struggle and suffer in life.
@@KingBongBoon That means I have never F@pped my entire life. I don't believe in reincarnation but I do believe that Universe dies and reborns and dies. So I have not f@pped for an infinite amount of time.
Thank you for all this, about 5 months ago I was fat, shy and depressed. After discovering you, everything changed. Now I can see my first abs. I'm not giving up yet, now I'm going even harder. Thank you Hamza, you changed my life.
Girls today care more about looks than personality. If you're tall and good-looking, you'll get more attention than a nice and respectful man who is shorter or really ugly due to genetics they are what girls call "creepy". You may say going to the gym, working out, and getting abs will help, but for short men, having strong muscles and a shredded body can come across as compensating and arrogant to girls. Some men are so unattractive that working out won't improve their appearance due to genetics. It's a reality of today's generation that many men are unaware of. These videos are pointless and cringy. Don't try the things shown in these videos, it's really creepy for her DONT MAKE IT WORSE.
Wow just wow this is actually helping me a lot and am looking at this girl but am starting to notice am doing the things his saying so am really want to try his advice now
Hamza you used to upload daily these days you are almost uploading every 2 days is something wrong or have you changed the frequency of uploading videos?
I have to say though, that too much "polarization" as in when the man is away too long or too often, the woman will often feel bored and neglected and more likely to cheat. Look at military wives. And from my personal experience, I've been with married women who had husbands that were away for weeks at at time or they were always at work. Find a happy medium. Don't spend too much time together but also don't spend too much time apart.
This somewhat resonates with me. Ive had the incredible pleasure of knowing a best freind for 10 years, but she always seemed more active in the past with me. And ive completely fallen for her. But not having freetime activites and such makes my like a routine. Which is dreadfull on top of trying to find a apprenticeship and finding a apartment. She never really disclosed the reason for no interest. So i see truth in this. Being away, and not always there creates more topics, and interest in what goes on. I never really gave this much thought. But it makes sense.
This is True as fuck not a lot of people know that bc they are afraid to do that just do what he said guys u got nothing to lose . Good luck boys Ths hamza
My personality prevents me from being a Jeffery in this situation. I have too many odd things about me to reveal it all at once, and I’m not all that open or talkative in most situations. Plus I know my value, so I’m more interested in whether the girl will be able to fulfill what I’m looking for, rather than trying to impress her and acting like she’s the prize in the relationship.
Two weeks ago, I was thinking of all the things i did wrong when i was with my ex and this video is about all the mistakes i did. Thank you Hamza, you changed my life.
I already have this girl that really wants me to ask her out. Her hints are beyond obvious. The other day when we were talking in the hallway on our way back to class, she brought up Valentine’s Day into the conversation, and also asked if I have a date for prom, which she then not so casually said how we both don’t have dates to prom. I’ve remain mysterious and am still trying to feel her out, I’m going to get her number soon and escalate from there.
You didn’t remain mysterious you were just too scared to ask her. If she’s throwing you signs and you like why wait when you could of had her right there
Ask her, yeah your way beyond that point. Just like my brother lol, he waited so long and she told him after he finally asked her that she was about to forget it because she thought he wasn’t interested. She started to lose interest back. Now they are good but hey he was pretending he was doing it for good reason but he admitted he was being a pussy. Don’t be one bro, go get her.
@@UFCaddicted Ion even know if I like her like that yet tho. She fine as hell but idk about her personality wise. I’d rather get her number and ft wit her or set up a time for us to hangout rather than just ask her out on the spot.
Thanks Hamza really, I understand now why she left me, Never familiar again Now mysterious Now better than ever Now successful Now the most successful ex
My theory to why he hasn’t been posting: On his unfiltered channel he mentioned something about him possibly being infertile. So I think he has found out that news and has to work things out. I could be wrong and he’s probably on holidays somewhere but that’s just my theory.
Hello from Kazakhstan bro! I wanted to simply just thank you for making my life harder and happier. So, a few days ago, two girls did a REALLY big joke on my feelings, and that was a day a started watching you and changing my life for better. At first i was nearly depressed, but now i'm pretty sure that 100% happy as i child! Thank you for everything, bro.
Thank you Hamza now I am going to go do a very hard competition I don’t want to I was even thinking about trying to get sick or get some kind of injury to skip it But I can see now that if I go do it it will drastically improve my future self and make me more attractive to women and get some more respect of my brothers and coaches You’ve changed my life for the better this is EXACTLY what I needed to hear thank you so much!
I have a girlfriend who is a Senior in Highschool (US) and 18 yo, while im a Sophomore in Highschool 16 yo. Well we talk everyday and everything seems to be going good ,been dating for afew months, but this video kinda seems to point out some major flaws in Highschool relationships they try and spend so much time together but it causes more distance to be built than progress in the relationship. Mystery and fantasy are basic requirements in every relationship but so is the amount of time spent together, if there isn't enough time spent with her she will lose interest even faster than to much. Keep mysterious and distant but also maintain a level of affection and time (quality time is the preferred) that is healthy.
