i truly hope you're doing good now. also you are beautiful. you are important. even if i dont know you personally, i love you. always be happy and raise your vibration. 💛💛
Find it funny how when im going through something at the moment or interested in a certain topic, you upload that same topic that same day or a day after..
everyone is beautiful in their own way, everyone is special, unique, valuable and wonderful :) find your own path and be yourself no matter what ! Be Kind, Be You, Be Free Isabel Missing your content so so much! thanks for posting this beautiful video Sending love xoxo
I'm crying while watching this.... people around me are nice but always stab me from my back... even my parents. I recently keep comparing myself with someone i saw online from instagram, last night i tried to delete the apps but less than 2 hours i re download it again... i think can't live without instagram. i also have suicidal thoughts.. Isabele, thank you so much u lift me up thru your positive words.....i will makes myself happy, i'm working on it🙂
Isabel l love what you teach only if people learn this from an early age this place would have been a much better place. I look up to you because we share the same sentiments, please don’t ever stop you are making a difference in this world and I hope young people listen to you and what you teach. Thank you may god richly bless you and keep you uplifted so you never stop teaching this.👍
I think with this mindset switch, one should also be cognizant of their behavior. Our behaviors are a choice and our choices are a reflection of who/what we are. I think people can get carried away in thinking they are all good and fail to see how they have contributed to certain issues surrounding them. Taking ownership and knowing you have the power to change and reframe that, is everything❤️
Thanks for never changing even though u have ur busineess ur extremely busy and life coach but u have no idea how much power u send us that makes us single mothers better and happier 😭😍😍😀
Stop comparing yourself 1. Focus on yourself ( find things that make you happy and fulfilled) 2. Limit social media ( if it’s makes you feel bad don’t give an app on you’re phone that much power over you 3. Realize you’re worth come from within( you decided you’re worth. are you constantly talking negative write it out and change it) 4. There will always be someone better than you but it’s so much more to you
You are a very inspirational woman, your videos changed my life. I always watch your videos when I feel sad and it is very helpful, it gives me so much strenght. Thank you!!
OH MY GODD!!!! just today I was upset and sobbing after comparing myself with someone else. I don't know where that comparison came from but I did it. And now I just opened youtube and the first thing that came up is this video!!!!.thankyou universe I am so grateful. Extremely thankful❤️
Love this video! Having blinders on is such an important part of being true to ourselves. Especially in a world where "inspiration" is everywhere, it's easy to focus so much on what other people are doing or saying, even those we look up to, that we lose ourselves in the process. It's easy to think others have a secret to life that we lack, and try to emulate them so we too can realize our dreams, forgetting that the secret is to be whole-heartedly, unapologetically and unconditionally ourselves. I've really began limiting social media and making more time to connect to my soul to align to myself and be who I was made to be. Learning to validate ourselves and know we are good enough allows everything we do to automatically be good enough. Everyone looks for results in the external world, but they ultimately come within. And they come when we no longer need them to be worthy but know we get to create the lives we desire because we were worthy all along.
I was overwhelmed with comparison last night with my job. It's still hard but that last little bit you said really helped. This video came at the right time.
I absolutely love this video! I also love your whole look, super classy and chic, and I swear you're getting even more beautiful 😍😍😍 I'd love to hear you talk about living your life without validation, how to get to a place where you're no longer bothered by who validates you or not. Love you so much Isabel💕💕💕
I really need to hear this because I was doing fine with my confidence. Then I was looking at "the instagram models" comparing myself to them, again. But this video is a reminder that I don't have to do that and aspect my self the way God made me.
Yup.. literally searched this. I’m having a hard time with the moms who look like glamorous Barbie’s and make it look easy! I’m a hot mess and some days. I just don’t have time to do a full face of 💄 makeup. I have a hard time with this and I’m so over for competition instead of clapping 👏 or each other even on the bad days. 🙏❤️ love and light 💡
I have really been struggling with this as of late. As a small RU-vidr I feel like I need to have a beautiful perfect flawless life in order to get people interested in me; which is really discouraging. I really needed to hear this message today
Yas u have done one before with the same title. at first sight I thought it was from last year but omg a new one!!! So upbeat seeing this topic again💗💗
this is one of my worst habits and I struggle with comparing myself to others on social media ALL the time. it's very hard to get out of this mindset but this video was very helpful, thank you for making this!
i was having a really good day today, and so recently I’ve been struggling with self esteem and confidence and building relationships with people. I kinda struggle bc I care too much about what other people think and what to say and all those stuff when meeting new people. So I decided to change and like about a month ago, I quit social media. I decided to stop focusing on other people and focus on myself, and it worked so good, but then I started to worry more about my friends and how I haven’t reached out to them in long and how I don’t want to stop being friends, and then I started texting them but then I realized I don’t like texting that much so I kinda took too long to reply to some of them and they say it’s okay, “take time on yourself” or whatever, but I can’t stop thinking on how they are doing, but I can’t call them bc I’m scared on what I’m going to say or if I will come out as boring, or like idk its very bad :(. So yeah I don’t know when to get back on social media because I notice that it doesn’t benefit me and it distracts me from important stuff but I want to have a balance. I’ve tried like timers or like screen time, but I always end up not being productive and instead binge watching YT videos. today I found myself logging in to Instagram and then I scroll and then I see how my group of friends are hanging out together and they are having fun, or other people having sleep overs and that makes me feel bad because I want to have that, and idk why it scared me like “well if I was there I feel like I would be left out, or they wouldn’t like me” and stuff like that and it’s driving me crazy. :(:( idk what to do. I want to hang out with my friends I haven’t seen in like months but I’m scared it will be awkward or something and it’s affecting me greatly :(Any advice?
Personally I’m struggling with that too and what works best for me is to take the first step myself. Some people might always have other people step up to them first, but a lot of times you need to take the first step yourself and talk the people or ask friends if they want to hang out. Other people they feel lonely too, they want that connection too and to be able to hang out with friends so when you take action they will be more likely to ask you along another time because they then know you would like to come as well. They may not do it after meeting once, but they probably will if you start keeping more and more in touch with them and suggesting things to do together. The best thing you can do is just try it out and if it doesn’t work out then it doesn’t. Sometimes in new phases of your life certain friendships (slightly) fade away, but don’t worry new ones form as well. People and situations change which is why sometimes friends don’t always stay or fit with you forever and that’s okay because it also makes room for new opportunities
Thank you for making this video. Thank you for having this channel. Your words remind me of what I already know about myself. Thank you, Thank you, and Thank you !
it's so important never to compare yourself to anyone else. you can use them idolize them in a way to help further push you to become better yourself but we are all individually different. you also never know what the person you are comparing yourself to is going through. They might seem like they have the life you want but in reality, they can be miserable or not as happy. Furthermore, you haven't experienced the life they currently live, you only see a photo or few second videos that are generally marketed that way to make it look great. But it could also be that maybe they are enjoying their life and they are happy. And if that's the case you still don't know if what they do for a living is for you and the amount of work they did to get to that point. Everyone always wants the bright light and stars but nobody wants to sacrifice their eyes to get there. You would be very surprised to know another person's situation is extremely different than how you play it out in your mind of how they are actually living. Just focus on yourself, find a passion or that gift that you enjoy, and when you do just keep working at it. if it makes you happy that's all that matters. Keep working at it over the years and eventually, you can cultivate it in all areas of your life such as health, money, relationships, and happiness will follow.
This came in DIVINE Timing!!!!🙏💖. These reality TV "stars" / "celebrities" don't help. It's a matter of you feeling comfortable with yourself and be comfortable with your decisions
I'm so glad I stumbled across this video. I've been subscribed to you for 3 years and this particular video was recommended to me at the very best time, I've been going through a lot the past 2 years and it has started to really become challenging to reassure myself of my self worth. This video helped and inspired to have a different perspective on things . I hope I can put what you said into my daily life. I hope I can come back as a more confident and assured person 🤞
Recently, I have deactivated my Facebook. And I feel so much better about my life. I have always compared myself to other women. I just turned 38 and I am so tired of the negative thinking about myself. I suffer from low self esteem and it’s a struggle to stop all the negative bs. I am so glad that I found you Isabel. Thanks for the inspiration.
This is just what i’ve been needing! Heading to college, I know it will be hard not comparing myself to the people around me but this was a wonderful video ❤️
You are such a beautiful soul ❤️ I have been following your advice from some months and I have changed a lot ..... Thank you for your help and positivity ✨
Yes, focusing on my true being has helped me get through bad relationships, take accountability for my mistakes within myself and with other people and to take steps towards healing the inner person I tried hard to suppress out of ignorance.
I love your self respect and trust me that is something that I have been working so hard on since last year, I don’t need to compete with other women, I am not better than them because I am aware of the genuine heart and soul I have and that is enough for me. Please Isabel keep spreading your message of love because there is many people that we connect with you like you have no idea 💞🥰🙏🏻
Thank you Isabel! When I'd seen your picture caption letting us know you have a new video up I didn't know this was the topic of the video, but I kept reminding myself to go check it out soonest chance. I'm so glad I did because I hadn't felt like myself the past day struggling with the exact topics you covered, so you can't imagine how grateful I am to have come across the exact video I needed this morning. Thank you always :)
I just want to say thank you girl! You helped me to overcome my anxiety about a year ago before I went studying abroad. And now when I'm in a bad place in life again, I come back to your videos and they help again. You're magic 💗
When you asked how we saw ourselves I paused and had a good think. And Honestly the thing that came to mind most is mundane. I don’t believe myself a person to have detrimental qualities but at the same time I don’t allow people to get to know me because I think I don’t have much to offer. I’m not exciting, funny, interesting, I’m just.... meh
I am already that beautiful Sunday.....I love that!!!!!!! I am going to tell myself that all the time now, especially in times where I worry I am not good enough, I will pause and say..... no....I am already the beautiful Sunday. Thanks, love from Australia xx this makes we want to go and crank Christina’s song “Beautiful” now ❣
This is the most authentic motivational speech i ever heard. I love Isabel because she's a strong woman who brings the best in people, and all of her work is authentic and valuable. Thank you, Isabel
Love you SO much Isabel. You helped me SO much to get through the darkest time of my life with your advice & tips. You helped me love myself & become more confident in myself. May god bless you always Isabel. ❣️ You’re such a beautiful strong woman. Sending you so much love & positive vibes all the way from Chicago ✨💖
You r so pretty ! I need the confidence to return to college. I wrk 7 day's a week...2 part time's to support my son ( he is 10 ) I want to go to school maybe 1 day a week. But i keep putting it off !
1. Focus on yourself -Make sure Youre fixing and mending the relationship With u -could Also be saying no to People -Do things that feel good about urself - Do things that make u happy for u 2. Limit social media -delete People unfollow block -u are Much more than a Photo on social media 3. Realize ur worth comes From within U decide ur worth U Dont have go With anything that doesnt resonate u What Do u allow to happen in ur life? How Do u allow urself to treat u? Is ur head filled With limiting beliefs? What Is ur belief system around urself Rewrite ur opinion on a paper as someone who love themselves How Much u love u How Much u allow urself to be ur true self There js So Much more to u than what everyone else says
Thank you Isabel, I always watch this every morning having my coffee before I start my day. Can you make a video about the power of silence? Love you as always.
Isabel, I just wanted to say thank you for making this video! Lately I've been in this weird phase of comparing myself to other people and just watching your video reminded me why I don't need to be putting my energy towards that. You honestly made me feel so much better, reminded me on whats important, and to not lose sight of that! Really thank you, I always love watching your videos, you are such an inspiration!💗
1000000000% agree! Thinking and living this type of way brings so much peace to your life. It's not easy to achieve and it is not always like this. But remembering this and always trying to get back to this mindset is key. Thanks for sharing the message love 🧡
Hey dear Isabel I’m so sure you are the Magic itself! This video came so relevant to me as I’m going thru some highly competitive days career wise.😍 I tend to always see other people as my benchmark in order to check whether I’m running full speed on the right track. But after watching your video, I’m so sure about that I’m working on myself, just for myself, not for proving I’m better than any others. ❤️ Your video/podcast is always a bliss in my life, shedding beautiful light and high vibration. ☀️ You’re doing something so incredibly GREAT!! Love
I love you isabel ♡ thank you so much for your positive advice it helps so much it reminds me that I'm not alone & everything will not always be okay but I need to take power from within & learn from any negative thoughts♡ sending good vibes to you & love♡♡♡♡
