✓Become self-aware. Face the bad things about you. ✓Stop complaining. Take action. Have goals. Instead of complaining, take action. ✓Don't give your power away. ✓Focus on your progress. Better yourself. Anything is possible with the right mindset. ✓Put yourself first. Your health, mental well being should come before anything else. Learn to say no to wrong people, wrong circumstances, things you don't agree with. You are worthy of a new start, of a fresh start.
I like the "focus on the process" Tipp. Because I am still bad in many things but I made process the last years, I have two jobs and attend university, I was never this successful in life (successful for my standard). Comparing myself with my past self helps a lot.
Self-preservation is farrrrrrrr more important than having a boyfriend/husband that is disrespecting you and showing No love or appreciation for you although he says he does!
Hi beautiful omg I’m 39 years old married to a narcissist we have 4 kids. Been married 17 years he decided to leave me and our children. It’s been a rough journey but I️ found hope in self help videos and the universe brought this video in the perfect time. Thank you so much I️ do mean something I️ am important I️ deserve to be loved and valued
I can sympathise. My mom has been married to my narcissistic father for 24 years. She is starting to take her power back. I am so proud of you fighting for what you deserve...
Take this time to focus on you, love yourself and don't listen any bad opinion. Focus on you! Go be happy, you are free now, let the past in the past, what's matter is who you are now and then.
I suffer from depression and anxiety your video has made me think about my life and given the push I needed to start over and improve life so thank you x
Take it one day at a time. Clear goals and positive outlook, and don't look back! I'm going through similar. Remember we all have something we're going through, no one has a perfect life. All the best xxx
Just left a toxic relationship of 7 years and this is just what I needed. Time to continue my self love journey like never before. Isabel you got me through so many dark times, thank you so much for sharing your light 💛
Take responsibility in every action we make, be kind to your self, please don't punish your self, stop blaming people it doesn't chane the situation and care less about peoples opinions otherwise it will affect you. Thank you for sharing this wonderful tips you helped a lot of people and i am so proud of you for being AWESOME!
I haven’t watched many videos of yours nor have I been subscribed for long, but the few words of wisdom I’ve heard from you have helped me tremendously. Even in moments I’m in the middle of tears. You’re an angel. Thank you.
Your video is like an answer of my prayer. It comes on the right time and fits my situation now. I loved and on a relationship with someone for 10 years but he is very toxic, he dont respect me, he doesnt valued me and make my self so low. Watching your video makes me awake.We should live for ourself, we should make ourself number 1 priority. We born to this world not to pleased other people, we should create our own happiness and not make other people as our source of happiness. Thank you
you have done nothing but make me become more positive I really appreciate you as a person so much! Thank you I seriously don't know what I would do without your videos 💓
Thank you Isabel for uplifting us when we feel low and even if we do feel good, you remind us how to appreciate ourselves and what we have forgetting about all the negative things and people that affect our lives. ❤️
Hi lovely, I ran across your video and as I listened I cried. I've been through so much heartbreak in my life which I did not deserve, I am a great person with a good heart, I am not completely healed but I am on my way to a new version of myself I am loving me and I acknowledge that what was done to me had nothing to do with me it was the other person. I pray the God continue to enlighten you with wisdom so you may continue to do videos like this that really touch the heart. Blessings!
Hey Isabel! I truly mean this from the bottom of my heart... Your videos have changed my life. I discovered your channel about a year ago during what felt like a time when I was very lost and depressed. Your strength and positivity brought me hope. I'm a firm believer in the law attraction because of you! I still face challenges today but I feel stronger and more empowered than ever before. My ritual is playing your videos in the morning as I do my makeup. I love you so much!!!! Stay beautiful
Oh wow. This was exactly the video I needed! I was just thinking a couple of days ago how I needed something on knowing your worth, been struggling to keep myself up lately ... But here it is, exact same thing on the thumbnail! Ah! I am ecstatic! Thank you, Isabel! Commented before even watching the video because this is really what I was thinking about and ... I'm just so shook that the law of attraction worked in that way. Feeling so blessed to see this video! Thank you! Thank you! Thank you!
Your videos truly changed my life for the better. I believe I already said that on another one of your videos, but I couldn’t help but comment. You are just a blessing to my life. Thank you ISABEL!!!! God bless you 💛🌷
Just wish if you were there when I was a teenager. I could have saved several liters of my tears and several hours I spent shedding them. Appreciate you so much for this beautiful channel. Love your channel. Thank you so much.
I always have the problem that people around me start to disrespect me more and more over time. Wheter its friendships, relationships I was in. Even some of my Coworkers. I realised that the biggest problem about that is that I never respected myself that much. So people will treat you, how you allow them to treat you. If you respresent strengh and selflove nobody would ever even have the idea to treat you with less respect more and more over time. and if they do, then you would be that person who is good without them and have the courage to think "no i dont need to be treated like that". So lately I am working on myself, how to reach my own goals, built more confidence and value myself. Thank you for all your videos about this topic, I think it helps a lot people. Greetings from Germany
I just stumbled across you yesterday and I can't stop watching your videos. You are helping me so much right now. Everything I need you hear you are saying. I believe everything happens for a reason and I think I just found you now because I'm ready to hear what you have to say. Thank you for your videos, thank you for wanting to help others. You are amazing!
I really appreciate your advice! I’m trying to learn to value useless by taking my power back. I feel like I give so much energy to people who are hurting which causes more pain. It’s important to remember your worth so you can remove yourself fro these type of environments. Thank you for this video! 💕
Absolutely loved this. On point, succinct and a clear way forward that we should all adhere to. Thanks Isabel for being an incredible power box, loved the video and your energy.
I just clicked play and I just KNOW this video will end up in my self-help youtube playlist. You're the best!Your videos always put me in a good mood :)
This was beautiful. Thank you so much for inspiring young women all over the world including myself. I needed to hear this. It's very helpful. Maybe I'll be able to start applying these to my life.
Wow thank you i really needed to hear this ... I really like listening to you... Thank you and i will take your coaching and advice to make me better thank you i really needed that advice
Thank you for your advice. I always felt I didnt' fix in the box for the people. But come to think of it, it never happened for me and it never will unless I feel worthy enough. Unless I feel great enough. Self worth is so important for us and giving people what they want is also important.
1:09 1. Become Self-Aware 5:08 2. Stop Complaining, Take Action 7:12 3. Don't Give your Power Away 10:04 4. Focus on Your Progress 12:40 5. Put Yourself First
Thank you for being a huge part of my progress and overcoming my depression. I’ve been watching your videos and writing down the tips and re-read them when I travel or when I’m alone. I hope you continue to touch people's lives even if you are not aware of that. I’m from the Philippines and I’ve been sharing your tips to fellow Filipino who are suffering from depression.
I love this. Everything that you have said is right💛 hope it will help me to find myself. I feel so empty and I don't know how to find myself but thanks for the good words💛 God bless you💛
Isabel, one of my deepest wish is for you to know how I view you...You’re my inspiration. I know life has amazing plans for you, but when they are fulfilled please don’t forget us. You have no idea how much you motivate others. Much Love ❤️
You are amazing , because you are constantly giving to your subscribers with the most useful information that will help them all throughout their life ❤️ keep going
I'm new to your channel and wow I've watched many YT videos on this topic. But yours just resonated with me so much more and it was so inspiring. You have a gift! You are a lightworker for real! Thank you !!
I just want to remind u that you are one of the most beautiful, gorgeous, brilliant and inspiring women on this planet.. I truly love you and im so grateful for u to be on youtube.. you have no idea how much ur impact is extremely powerful and extremely positive on me and many many many ppl.. Please, for the love of God, never think about quitting youtube, bcz it's gonna be our biggest loss if we ever have no ability to get inspired and touched by u. Isabel if u ever feel down, please read this comment, I love you and I'm 100% so many others love you too. I truly am thankful for you to be alive. Again, I love you, u have such a unique shining very beautiful soul. ❤❤❤❤❤❤
I love how you mentioned bad family members too. I grew up not liking certain femily members for a good reason and other people telling me i cant hate them and ccancel them out my life because they are my family. Ive always been family oriented and protective of my family but after i while i realised family is someone who cares for you, it doesnt matter whether you are related or not. I wouldnt call someone family just cause we are blood related
Congrats on 80k+! I'm so lucky to have your channel as an aide in my current self-love journey. I'm so glad you mentioned that bit at the end of not expecting to be loved by someone else or for someone else to make me happy. I'm in a relationship with someone I really care for but I think I've been subconsciously overly expecting this of him and it creates a weird dynamic of disappointment and dissatisfaction lately. I'm definitely working on filling my own cup first!
I love to watch your videos and hear your thoughts. You seem like this really wise and loving big sister that everyone should have. It's so great to have internet so I can get great advice from across the Earth. Thank you
Im going to start watching this video each day first time in the morning for 21 days straight cuz I really need to know my worth, I've been dealing with depression since I was 18 now, Im 36 years old and since my mom died 3 years ago I feel worst everyday, worthless. I need to pick up my worth and my life, maybe not for me but for my 7 years old daughter, I dont want my girl to be like me tomorrow😢
I always watch your videos before I sleep. I just go to bed happier and more at peace! You’ve helped me through so many hard times. So thankful I’ve found your channel! :)
I definitely have to work on tip number 3 I gave my power to my husband. I came from abroad and he even has to approve what I am wearing. Thanks for the video
I just love everything you say, everything is so spot on and I really agree with the fact that only you can make yourself happy. The way you think, the way you act, the way you love, the way you deal with struggles, everything is in your own power.
Hi Isabel your one of my favorite youtubers....love u and u do awesome videos and there is some angelic quality about u. I don't know you radiate light. 😗
You are so amazing. Get it girl! I appreciate this video more than you know. I’m getting married and I’ve been trying to figure out what has been going wrong in our relationship. I realized that it’s because I stopped working on myself. I stopped loving myself and putting myself first. Thank you so so so so so much.
@@F0reverblessed every time I am on RU-vid I see comments like this. So what about the guy he needs no self-improvement cause he is a male?! It seems as though males are always exempt from these things. 😬😩
First Lady Queen Raynne happens to be a woman. I responded to her. Had it been a man writing it I would’ve commented the same thing. The comment was in no way directed to only women. Everyone can always use some self-reflection. 💕
I like the way your videos make me feel. I always feel better after watching something like this. Keep doing what you do. You never know who it might help.