Not sure if I totally understand. You say that perhaps this individual hasn’t truly obeyed the gospel, and I agree that could possibly be the reason he continues using curse words. While that may be true, I do know that the apostle Paul writes in Romans 7: 14 - 24 that he continues to struggle with sin, and that the good he desires to do he does not. I just feel that once we obey the gospel all our bad habits do not just instantly disappear, although I may be wrong. Still trying to understand myself. Sometimes something that’s supposed to be so simple seems very complex.
When I was little my dad and I passed by a couple and the man said a word I’d never heard before so I asked my dad; he said it was a swear word and only stupid people use them because they can’t think of an appropriate word.
If the tongue, could not produce word it would lose power, but know Satan learned from God, now we Wright word, more than we speak, and Christ him self showed you how much power that has, and look how wreckless Satan new we would be with that power, this is our proving hour to the Father ,well who seeks redemption Mercy and Grace
Words can kill more than a gun...we all have to choose our words wisely or we can kill someone emotionally physically and mentally.I agree with you ^^^
Yep I lost to taste of cursing, not saying that an occasional one doesn’t form in my head or slip out but it bother me to the point when I hear it from others (especially when every other word is a curse word) it feels almost like an assault.
I beg to differ, and here is why... I have a real bad problem with "cursing/cursing" and it has NOTHING to do with whats in my heart. It stems ( at least with me ) from what i heard as a child and not having an education in language I.E a household that used 4 letter words and mother with a 9th grade education and NO father, a lack of discipline and love. Before you judge someone walk in their shoes, you are wrong!
@@trimmin420 My uncle and other adults of my childhood shed profanity on us as kids, I won't swear around kids cause I know what it did to me. I believe this is an evil spirit that possesses us. It is extremely difficult to break through it at least for me. I've had so many aggravating jobs that I get aggravated real easily and then I start swearing. I may just imagine the worst of the worst of everything piling up on you every day for 50 years and that's the aggravation I have to work around I know Jesus is going to redeem me from it I just don't know when, as followers of Christ we have to work on the sins that invade us. My faith in Christ will be stronger than my urge to swear, because I'm covered by the blood of Jesus Christ. We have a blood covenant together.
When I quit cussing it was amazing on how easy it really was....what still sickens me is how television will bleep out certain curse words but when they use the Lord's name in vain they don't bleep that at all...what's wrong with this picture America?
I have cut out TV 25 years ago.. I sometimes will visit a friend who has a TV playing and I am amazed of how filthy even the commercials are. I saw a commercial that had 20 kinds of peppers and somehow it turned into a male impotency medication ad... I threw a fit because children were watching this TV. My friends just laugh. It's not hard to live without a TV. My normal is not Main Streams normal and I'm OK with that.
@@kingotto6352 I feel the same way...It's sad that parents don't think there's something wrong with what their children are being fed every day. It's pretty much everything that you see and hear anymore. My convictions say it's unacceptable and people think it's crazy....
number one rule ...quit watching tv....television/movies promote swearing...also try to substitute a curse word with a different word....you can substitute on F word for instance by saying Rats...you'd have to experiment but just always be aware of your speech and it'll help....also if you watch tv or movies...my rule is if within two or three minutes of a movie there is already cursing then i already know the whole movie will be filled with curse words.......notice some movies will have a seen where you'll here 5 minutes of pure F bombs...movies like that you need to turn off......the more you stay away from being around those words the less you'll use them.. but being around them so much will just sneak into your vocabulary.
Super Poacher I do too pal. Almost every time it’s because of something that another human being has said or done. I guess we have to forgive ourselves as well as others to have peace within. May God bless all of us👍
Super Poacher being in the service, cursing is/ was an art form! People may not notice that you don’t curse anymore but you will catch yourself having more self-control. Congratulations!
I asked my pastor how I stop swearing when my Daughter was born, and he said we spend half our life learning to swear and the other half trying to forget how to swear.
@Jarmy Fuzble Now THERE is an intelligent response...if you have an intelligent defense for cussing, I have yet to hear it. Something about this video struck a chord for you to respond, so how about and intelligent debate, otherwise my suggestion to you would be to keep a muzzle on if all you have to offer is "...brainwashed idiot". Lol Please...move on, Genius! Lol
LaRee L. Hughett I have one for you. How bout you don’t worry what I say. This is a free country and besides that you supposed God from that ridiculous book has yet to be proven otherwise. Cussing is important for emphasis in situations.
I had this problem and took a vow of silence. It took about 3 days of not saying a word before I could control the words I produced before it was too late
I'm struggling with it too and it's so odd that quitting everything else was so easy I think it's because I'm still mad at the world for all it's done to me
My dad always told us if you want to show your ignorance use 4 letter words to express yourself. Then he added there are so many incredible words in a dictionary for you to learn and express yourself. If you need one, I'll buy you one. I still pass this on to kids today....
I believe the use of profanity is a sign of deep anger and rage. When my mother passed away when I was 19, others around me noticed I was suddenly cursing, which I never did before. God helped me over the years to cope with her passing...and convicted me to stop the profanity. But I have taken notice that people who curse heavily almost do so with an angry growl in their voice. Even if they curse in casual conversation, there tone of voice gives off that same vibe of anger.
I was raised in a Christian home but the basic cuss words were said by all no taking the lord's name in vain or staying the F-word that everything else was said by everybody including the children I try too hard over the years to quit cussing prayed about it read books about it and I still tend to say shit if it's a sin I'm confessing it to y'all pray for me don't judge😊 I'm not angry... and I'm highly intelligent I can articulate my words very well some of us were just raised by heathens
Its what i needed to. Anger and vile thoughts bring perpetual sadness. God almighty. Purge thy soul of this and other sin problems. In the name of Christ ..Please.
I used to cuss and the one that really bothered me was when I was angry was the God D word cursing God but started instead saying God help me. It works.
That's the one that slips out of my mouth. I dropped all the others years ago, but if I get hurt or if something causes me anger, here it comes. I try, but I doubt I'll ever be completely rid of it.
I've never been around cussing. My grandparents were Holiness pentecostal . I started dating the wrong men and I started cussing.. when I came back to God the urge just went away as did smoking .. it's been a month.
Changing bad habits only happens with help from the Holy Spirit. Putting all the effort on people only to have them continue to mess up makes them give up thinking it will never happen. Seek the holy spirits help and when you make a mistake receive Gods grace and forgiveness and continue seeking the Holy Spirit while confessing you are the righteousness of God through Christ. The desire will leave for some immediately and for others with time. Don’t give up!
Thank you. Does that mean I'm not saved? I remember kneeling at the alter 7 years ago and felling saved. But now I'm not a good light as I can be for my family and friends. I don't know if it's the devil telling me I'm not saved or was I just going through the motions and I never truly receive God into my life.
Eric Charles, the enemy is the author of confusion and the father of lies! Get into your Bible for the answers you’re looking for, profess your faith and hang out with fellow believers. Let the Holy Spirit be your Guide. 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🇺🇸🇺🇸🇺🇸
@@ericcharles1111 Phil said it. Baptism is when we are buried with Christ and when we receive the gift of the Holy Spirit. But more importantly the Bible said it. Acts 2:38 NIV - Peter replied, “Repent and be baptized, every one of you, in the name of Jesus Christ for the forgiveness of your sins. And you will receive the gift of the Holy Spirit. And we can't do it without His help. Biblical Baptism is essential. I hope this helps.
Cursing, bad/short temper and lack of self discipline/control are my most difficult problems. I am full of anger, resentment, rage, and, I hate to say it, *unforgiveness* , though I need more forgiveness than anyone I know.
I’m just down to slipping when I hurt myself or when I get mad about something and I’m still working on it. I’m oh so much better than I was a year ago and getting better everyday with Gods help I will win Amen🙏🏼
Cussing is so normalized anymore that it's very difficult to stop. I remember the day I laughed at a swear word instead of gasped. Now it seems so normal.
"But I say unto you, Every Idle word a man/woman shall speak he/she shall give account of in that day" OUCH "For He is faithful and just to forgive us our sins, and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness"
I served in the Navy in the 80's. In my 50's I recognized I was too old to cuss like a drunken sailor. I believe my immense change began shortly after I was baptized in 2019. I thank God every single day for All his help, even when I know I didn't deserve such Mercy and Grace!!
I struggled a lot too but the way I was able to do it was to confess openly to friends and co workers that I was now a Christian (it was hard but I had to do it) and that allowed me to live up to the expectations that people have towards Christians. A lot of small prayers throughout the day asking God for help and eventually over time it became natural to me. Thanks to God I never ever curse anymore, even when sometimes I have thoughts about saying a curse I quickly suppress it and rebuke it.
Phil will you please pray for me I grew up loveing the Lord all mighty and I've back slid and try to get back to serving the Lord but the harder I try it's seams like I get pulled back in sin and I'm 55years old now and need all the prayers I can receive my name is James and the devil has me in quick sand and keep sinking I will keep you and your fine family. You are a GOD sent servent that I know you are filled with the joy of the Lord.i thank you for telling the world about Lord God Almighty.. I will try my best to get back on the narrow road thanks for you praying for me James.👍✌️
I'm struggling BAD currently. I'm NOT giving up! I have repented (so many times I've lost count) & born again. I have a problem with expressing myself without using "negative" words. The Holy Spirit will help me, in Jesus name.
I developed an immoral mouth and cussing habit when I was twelve. I am twenty seven now and saved by Jesus about two years. I have become sincerely convicted of my filthy language and have grown more sensitive to hearing how distasteful it sounds coming from others. Only to point my own finger back at me saying: GUILTY. I pray to the Lord to purify me of this sin and confess to him that I am wrong and he is right. Super grateful for videos like this to assist me in my walk in growing more conformed to Christ. Let us pray and admonish one another as believers in all our trespasses against the Lord and continue to develop the inner man. It is the will of of God that his people be sanctified. Let’s lift each other up and be holy for our God is holy. Peace and love to all of you in the name of Jesus Christ.
I want this so much.Pray for me and my boy.We lost his daddy 9 years ago. Our boy turned 13 yesterday. I am lost my heart is still broken. God will see me through -I know that in my mind.
That's a Hard One, but He Will Always Remain In Your Heart.(s) Think of the Good Time's and All of Wonderful Memories. Just KNOW that He Would Want You Both to Have a Happy Life, NOT Full of Grief and Sorrow. Each Day Is A GIFT.
Sadly, those of us who served in the military learned how to cuss very well! After I got out, cussing unfortunately didn't stop! My cussing lessened greatly as I was improving myself, namely cleaning up my sinful lifestyle. To this day I'm still cleaning thing's up.
I’ve had a lot of trouble with this when you around it all the time on a job site and a new Christian it won’t come quickly , your still a Christian ! You just need to keep trying and pray!!!!! If you mean it you’ll stop!
I was raised during the era where fathers told their sons "stop your crying or I'll give you something to really cry about". In so doing, I learned along with my friends not to express feelings, but to hide them. That's what the tough guys do, right? The problem being that feeling hurt made me uncomfortable and that turned to anger which is OK for a "tough guy" to express, so long as it's done verbally and not physically. While not expressly taught to "cuss", I saw other men model it and in time it became a kind of emotional punctuation in my speech. That being my experience, as often as I hear someone "cuss", I regard them as someone who just needs to be more honest about what they're feeling and better at expressing themselves. That's made me less critical and more empathetic. In terms of curing myself of cussing, learning to cry again has been a big help. Crying is a far more honest response to the uncomfortable feelings that once drove me to cuss. I suppose it could be said that cussing is a dishonest expression of what I was feeling in as much as it was rooted in secondary (reactionary) anger over the primary feelings of hurt, sad, disappointment, frustration, loss ... etc. A scripture that seems to support what I'm saying is found in Proverbs 15:1 “A soft answer turneth away wrath: but grievous words stir up anger.”
I can't believe I actually came across this tonight. Just 2 nights ago as i was listening to my music (David crowder band at that moment) n got to wondering how can I believe and be listening to Christian music n still curse like a sailor!!! And yes...i need to learn more self control.
I have a wicked heart and still fight and often fail daily. But it is a pattern of repentance over the years. The Lord will not maintain a filthy house. It is He who wills and works in us for good works
Amen! The fruit of the Holy Spirit in Galatians 5:22-23 : Love, Joy, Peace, long suffering, Kindness, goodness, Faithfulness, gentleness, self-control…practice these things within your heart. It will help you to overcome cussing..
I heard my Grandpa say only one cuss word...ever. As young lads my brother and I were on the farm were flying these cheap airplanes when one landed on a stack of alfalfa bales that resembled an Egyptian pyramid of sorts. We decided that rather than wait for grandpa to retrieve the toy, we would just climb up and get it ourselves. Lo and behold just as soon as we got to the top...here comes grandpa from the house! He immediately yelled at us "Damn it! Get down!" We KNEW we were in trouble! Of course he was the absolute kindest of souls but my brother and I never crossed that line again. And I do my best not to use cuss words to this day. And I am now 63 with all the love and respect for him.
I am sure glad I just got to see this... but I was asking!! So there's that. I have been asking for this exact thing to happen and it just did. It took a while but whatever. Now I have it. 2020-03-21 @11 am . Thank you for posting this and I Thank God for inspiring the many who thought of this and posted it for all to see.
A man that goes to my church said to say," forgive me lord for saying the s,f or d word" It took a couple months of that to get it to stop but it did. I didn't even know i was saying it half the time. So knowing I said it, then erasing by saying I'm sorry every single time. It went away. Also not being around others who cuss and nothing on TV, movies or music that uses profanity. Now I'm sensitive to cussing. It's unnecessary and doing things unnecessaruly is stupid especially when it's vulgar or offensive. It's like burping in someone's face. It's really not cool.
Thank you so much for sharing your testimonies and your wisdom’s. You make the word simple to understand and give a old sinner and hillbilly like myself hope that I can live a cleaner life and walk closer to God. Thank you Sir
Please pray for me with the way I talk sometimes. I remember the first time I heard my mom say the “F” word, I am 25 years old. An I was so ashamed, now I wonder if my kids are ashamed of me sometimes? Thanks
I love you Phil. I am going to pray for both of my daughters to bear good fruit!! They are very young and need a good root system. Thank you for being a great Christian!
This is what I've been trying to do for years!! I was so good when I was young ,then I got into trucking and it just came about I hate cussing !! I love jesus !!
Some one I know had a problem with cusing when he first got save and said when cusing started coming out of his mouth he started praying in tongues.And that end that problem.
I’ll bet this man has to be careful with his time shared with strangers because people like Mr Robertson have a gift that everyone wants to be a part of. I’m sure if it was remotely possible he would share his time with most but it’s impossible to do so. This man is a rare individual but in the end he owes it all to God. I am inspired. Honestly I’ve never seen his show I’ve only seen his works in the last couple of days talking about God. Although I’m an avid Elk hunter I’ve never cared about ducks except the Oregon Ducks!! Lol I am learning. My wife has never been happier. God bless Mr Robertson!!!!
Matthew 12:36 and Colosians 3:8. It does all begin with being born again and the Lord will change your heart and your mind, then your language will change. Phil shared some good verses also. Matt 12:36 really hit home with me early on after trusting Jesus as my Savior. Thoughts of standing before God giving an account for every word that I speak is a chilling thought. Now my sins were forgiven on Sept 14, 1991 but God surely will recount our lives lived for him after we are saved.
I struggle daily with profanity my brother. I'm truly a work in progress. I'm getting better because I always turn to Jesus for forgiveness and guidance in this area of weakness. Thank you for the words of wisdom brother Phil.
Thank you Phil I seem to speak before I think about it first. It makes a big impression to those who are listening. A 90 year old man told me Bible stands for basic instructions before leaving Earth.
When people are first saved it’s hard for them to stop whatever their bad things are the closer you get to our Lord the less bad people want to do🙋🏻♀️
Lately it seems like every day I think of something I need to correct about my character and when I get on youtube Phil, or one of the Robertsons has a lesson for me about at least one of the issues that has been on my mind. It never fails, and that is what I love about these videos.
I really need this I've been swearing my life as I heard it my whole childhood growing up and I'm 39 now it's actually embarrassing and I really need to stop it please prey for me with that. ✝️🙏✝️
