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You might believe your triggers are justified but what if they are distorting reality and not working in your favor? Being able to resist these reactionary thoughts and feelings and maintain control is easier said than done. Lauren Nanson shares her trigger journey and the passion she leaned into to reset her narrative. Ultimately, developing resilience techniques to help young people navigate an increasingly triggering culture and become mentally strong. Lauren Nanson is a resilience coach and speaker who specializes in helping adolescents recover from mental obstacles and setbacks. Lauren had to overcome cancer early on in life, and the mental difficulty of the situation challenged her to develop resilience techniques which she continues to use to this day. After seeing how the pandemic wreaked havoc on the mental health of young people, she set out to use the lessons of her own endurance to help those who were affected. This talk was given at a TEDx event using the TED conference format but independently organized by a local community. Learn more at www.ted.com/tedx

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@suhubu1
@suhubu1 6 месяцев назад
A friend in college never got triggered. He found rude comments or whatever might trigger others as humorous and would just laugh. Loved thst about him.
@Rickarot
@Rickarot 4 месяца назад
Sounds like he has no boundaries
@Fernandez218
@Fernandez218 4 месяца назад
what's to stop this college roomate from getting into a relationship or friendship with someone who is abusive and staying with that person forever?
@sw6369
@sw6369 3 месяца назад
he's under deserved
@connie27100
@connie27100 2 месяца назад
Avoidance coping mechanism to laugh every thing off.
@BharatSingh-il6jh
@BharatSingh-il6jh 2 месяца назад
Maybe deep down inside he is suffering and the laughing off is just a coping mechanism he adapted to survive....?
@jordanclose700
@jordanclose700 Год назад
I like that you not only helped us identity the problem but also gave us a practical tool to overcome it. Well done Lauren!
@LaurenNanson
@LaurenNanson Год назад
Thank you TED and TEDx South Howard Avenue.
@katyschildmeyerksapparelde2441
Nice work Lauren. As a child I didn’t have friends until I was 13. I learned some of this early. I even wear a bracelet that says fear is the mind killer. That said there is also a practice to know when to speak up or when to walk away. Sometimes the message will not be heard by the person doing the triggering. All good stuff and I think you did well in associating science and theory to practice!!!
@LaurenNanson
@LaurenNanson Год назад
@@katyschildmeyerksapparelde2441 Fear is the mind killer- I love that. It's so true. And yes there is a time to speak up! And your voice is so much clearer and powerful when you're not speaking from a triggered place.
@Monamie44
@Monamie44 4 месяца назад
You are AMAZING, Lauren. I truly enjoyed your speech so much and learned so much. Stay happy and blessed xx
@samsoltan7165
@samsoltan7165 Год назад
Resiliency is so key. I keep hearing everywhere and I'm glad so many more people are spreading this message to empower people to make things better.
@tracyburton3458
@tracyburton3458 5 дней назад
Gosh, I really needed your wise words this morning. My in-laws are coming to stay later today and my father-in-law is my trigger, to the point that I now dread their visits. I was planning to quietly leave the room every time he wound me up but now I will definitely be using your suggested approach. Thank you. :)
@JulianaMarie_
@JulianaMarie_ Год назад
This is so needed in our culture! I'm so glad this is public for everyone because people need to hear this!!
@Hightxde
@Hightxde 4 месяца назад
They gave me two un skippable ads on a video on how to not get triggered.
@motherlovesaman
@motherlovesaman 9 месяцев назад
I love using Ted talks as gaining knowledge to help myself and others. I love how some Ted talks happen just when you are ready to listen to the message and actually apply it. I grew up on the Rez and am scared that I raised children that are coddled. The triggers here in my community here on the Rez may end a little differently than other communities. I have always remained cool under pressure and turned my negative environment into positive. I even have been in life threatening situations where I was not scared and was able to diffuse the situation to resolution.❤Thanks you all ❤
@stevenpetersmusic
@stevenpetersmusic Год назад
I’m so proud of you, Lauren! This is an incredible talk, and so needed for time. I can’t wait to hear more from you! 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥
@UpwardBias
@UpwardBias Год назад
Thank you for your comment! I really appreciate how you expressed your thoughts on this topic. There are so many different perspectives and experiences that make us all unique.
@ValeeSingleton
@ValeeSingleton Год назад
This was wonderful! CEO is a great tool that I’m glad to now have in my back pocket. I also enjoyed hearing your personal story and how much you have overcome, learned and now get to share to help others. Thank you!!
@lindsayallinson310
@lindsayallinson310 Год назад
What an amazing and timely message. So many of us can use this important reminder to distinguish truth from trigger. Thank you for sharing, Lauren!
@jfp061000
@jfp061000 Год назад
Lauren, you have such insight, sincerity, and wisdom. Listening to you speak was enlightening and deeply spoke to me in terms of similar experiences. Thank you for sharing your story.
@shapookietv7666
@shapookietv7666 5 месяцев назад
This is gold. Pure gold. Thank you.
@helloandiemarie
@helloandiemarie Год назад
This is so powerful!!! Thank you for this, Lauren!!!
@UpwardBias
@UpwardBias Год назад
Thank you for your comment! I really appreciate how you expressed your thoughts on this topic. There are so many different perspectives and experiences that make us all unique.
@hannahlewis2493
@hannahlewis2493 Год назад
Wow. Such an important topic. So applicable too. Thank you for sharing Lauren!
@bradleymoore7622
@bradleymoore7622 Год назад
Wow, this talk was informative and absolutley amazing. I laughed and cried and learned. This is the essence of a TEDx talk right here well done Lauren.
@yadirakorovesis4805
@yadirakorovesis4805 Год назад
*pulls out her "CEO of my mind" name plaque on her desk* So motivating and encouraging. Loved LOVED LOOOOVED this talk!
@LaurenNanson
@LaurenNanson Год назад
Hahaha love the name plaque idea
@jordanschumacher6759
@jordanschumacher6759 Год назад
Such a great talk! Thank you Lauren!
@LaurenNanson
@LaurenNanson Год назад
Couldn't have done it without Thought Leader!
@maxkorovesis2749
@maxkorovesis2749 Год назад
Love this perspective. So important in the world we live in today
@UpwardBias
@UpwardBias Год назад
Thank you for your comment! I really appreciate how you expressed your thoughts on this topic. There are so many different perspectives and experiences that make us all unique.
@kelseamayyy
@kelseamayyy Год назад
Lauren is a captivating speaker! I thoroughly enjoyed this talk from start to finish. Bravo!
@joelsalomon6585
@joelsalomon6585 Год назад
Great topic Lauren! Thanks for sharing your story! It totally resonated with me.
@coltongreysoper2134
@coltongreysoper2134 Год назад
This was incredible! So refreshing!
@GiffordGribley
@GiffordGribley 15 дней назад
Ketchup on steak! Never! Thank for the CEO approach it’s a good reminder to find that centered confident inner perspective even if the other person is hard to deal with or triggering.
@Juxtapose76
@Juxtapose76 4 месяца назад
If it's not an act it sounds pretty powerful, hopefully it helps us all to think in better terms. God bless..🙏💖🕊️
@marketingdirection
@marketingdirection Год назад
Well done Lauren! Taking your life challenges and being vulnerable and sharing them to help others is more than admirable. Keep it up!
@9Encounter
@9Encounter Год назад
This was fantastic, Lauren! I want to teach that CEO tip to my kids! I love the story about the mice too. Resilience really is so central to our mental/emotional well being. You are an inspiration!
@susannahomundson8450
@susannahomundson8450 Год назад
Can't wait to start practicing this! Thanks for the practical yet profound tips Lauren!! Very inspiring.
@jaciakornwise
@jaciakornwise Год назад
🎉love this. Brilliant topic … and so powerfully delivered and engagingly written ! Thank you !!
@sofiavega850
@sofiavega850 Год назад
Loved the CEO exercise!
@hugovaldez9587
@hugovaldez9587 6 месяцев назад
Very insightful. Fits perfectly to what I am going through. Live the quote at the end.
@phithai-vietdo6285
@phithai-vietdo6285 Год назад
Such an inspiring message and reminder to look within at ourselves. Love this message Lauren! Thanks for sharing your wise tools and practice with us!
@carolinawebb6414
@carolinawebb6414 Год назад
This was amazing!! I love that there was a practical formula to put into practice. So helpful!!!
@emilyemanuel2167
@emilyemanuel2167 Год назад
Love this Lauren, this is so insightful and you are a great communicator!
@yukee1127
@yukee1127 6 месяцев назад
10:30 how to build resilience and not to be triggered
@FreddytheIV
@FreddytheIV Год назад
Wonderful topic, even more wonderful delivery!
@kfishhypnotist
@kfishhypnotist Год назад
Great work Lauren! Identifying your triggers is half the battle. Great work!
@Gracieici
@Gracieici 7 месяцев назад
Thank you, Lauren 🥺💖
@sarahcrosby9758
@sarahcrosby9758 Год назад
Wow! How good was this talk!?! There were some things in this I needed to hear in this. Will be working on CEO. Super helpful and needed in the world we live in today.
@stephonstrode8683
@stephonstrode8683 Год назад
This is incredible, Lauren! Thank you for sharing. ❤
@danhaug2296
@danhaug2296 Год назад
This is so good Lauren! Great story-telling, and a compelling message. Thank you for sharing your story!
@yasmine4077
@yasmine4077 5 месяцев назад
Thank you , for adding strategy
@angelerodrigue1843
@angelerodrigue1843 5 месяцев назад
Excellent presentation. Thank you Lauren for sharing what you learned.
@byedgington169
@byedgington169 Год назад
Well done, Lauren, great ideas, acronym, and closing. Good work.
@leahannwhite1111
@leahannwhite1111 Год назад
Outside forces triggering us are imagined. 💓
@BrilloBrillas
@BrilloBrillas 4 месяца назад
CEO.. great . Thank you Ms.
@GraceUnlmtd
@GraceUnlmtd Год назад
Love this topic! Great job!
@LaurenNanson
@LaurenNanson Год назад
Thank you!
@monicafay
@monicafay Год назад
Great job! Loved meeting you and sharing the red circle with you!
@melliel690
@melliel690 Год назад
I hope and pray everyone would breathe and be calm before typing or speaking negative opinions and judgements on others. Love you Lauren and definitely need more truth with love messages! 🧠 ❤️ God bless everyone whi watches this! “Be anxious for nothing, but in everything by prayer and supplication, with thanksgiving, let your requests be made known to God; and the peace of God, which surpasses all understanding, will guard your hearts and minds through Christ Jesus. Finally, brethren, whatever things are true, whatever things are noble, whatever things are just, whatever things are pure, whatever things are lovely, whatever things are of good report, if there is any virtue and if there is anything praiseworthy-meditate on these things. The things which you learned and received and heard and saw in me, these do, and the God of peace will be with you.” ‭‭Philippians‬ ‭4‬:‭6‬-‭9‬ ‭NKJV‬‬
@GHACHAM
@GHACHAM Год назад
Great talk and important topic!
@LaurenNanson
@LaurenNanson Год назад
Thank you for watching.
@f.l.y1931
@f.l.y1931 Год назад
I LOOVE THIS!! I LOVE the question : “what would person who I want to be do?” SO GOOOOD!! And I’m LOVING show so much of meat is in this presentation 😃straight to the point just how I like it! It’s SUCH a great exercise to be CEO of my own mind… especially imaging what person I want to be and what this person would do… and training ourselves to self control… SOOO GOOOD!! Love it!😍😃🤍🦄🌸☀️🤍🤍🤍🤍🫶🏻
@UpwardBias
@UpwardBias Год назад
Thank you for your comment! I really appreciate how you expressed your thoughts on this topic. There are so many different perspectives and experiences that make us all unique.
@btwalley
@btwalley Год назад
Critical topic and addressed in a practical and engaging way, thank you!
@OliversLoveMusic
@OliversLoveMusic 2 месяца назад
CPTSD and Me.
@shortscape_
@shortscape_ Год назад
This is awesome. So proud of you Lauren. Well done 👏🏼
@nathanaelsuitt270
@nathanaelsuitt270 9 месяцев назад
Thank you for this talk! Such a blessing Before this talk. I was a walking trigger. Now I am going to work on being a CEO of my own mind God bless friend
@fridayschooltheband
@fridayschooltheband Год назад
This is so good. A message our generation needs desperately
@kuboarder09
@kuboarder09 Год назад
Great talk!
@sharonbk7310
@sharonbk7310 Год назад
Thank you, Lauren! I picked up another great tool I can use. CEO! I absolutely love it!❤️ very informative talk. 👍
@raymundking5692
@raymundking5692 Год назад
Well done, Lauren - I am so proud of you! ❤
@clivec10
@clivec10 11 месяцев назад
Well done Lauren . With the greatest respect, for someone so young to master this , is very impressive. Love the humour also !
@sarahholguin2164
@sarahholguin2164 3 месяца назад
Thank you. This was so helpful! 💜
@wiamamamou2162
@wiamamamou2162 Год назад
Thank you Lauren, this video is so helpful
@hannahnicole1004
@hannahnicole1004 Год назад
This is sooooo good!😊❤
@alexzanabria17
@alexzanabria17 Год назад
Awesome Lauren! Great communication skills. Loved the Winston Churchill quote at the end lol
@marysuefarrier8699
@marysuefarrier8699 Год назад
Well done! Interesting, engaging and wise.
@malzhomeslice89
@malzhomeslice89 Год назад
Would be great if everyone took a few minutes and watched this . Very simple exercise that could help anyone.
@UpwardBias
@UpwardBias Год назад
Thank you for your comment! I really appreciate how you expressed your thoughts on this topic. There are so many different perspectives and experiences that make us all unique.
@bethanyhopecoyle3261
@bethanyhopecoyle3261 Год назад
This was so awesome! So interesting relevant non-shaming encouraging really needed for our generation. I learned a lot. Really cool 👏👏👏👏
@tejinful
@tejinful Год назад
Great one 🎉🎉🎉
@amysprints
@amysprints Год назад
great job, congratulations Lauren!
@09070605uty
@09070605uty 3 месяца назад
Great ted talk!
@my_set_apart_life
@my_set_apart_life 9 месяцев назад
This was excellent. Thank you
@charissagreenarrow
@charissagreenarrow Год назад
Resilience!! So good!
@elijaharviso7279
@elijaharviso7279 Год назад
Wow this is awesome!
@UpwardBias
@UpwardBias Год назад
Thank you for your comment! I really appreciate how you expressed your thoughts on this topic. There are so many different perspectives and experiences that make us all unique.
@1matim
@1matim 2 месяца назад
thank you
@chic0chul0
@chic0chul0 Год назад
So very well done, Lauren! A wonderful balance of humor, vulnerability, and practical application with a hopeful vision and charge for the future for all listening. 👏
@colleengetz3991
@colleengetz3991 Год назад
Excellent! Well said, gorgeous 💜
@lindabentley7624
@lindabentley7624 4 месяца назад
So callus the emotion. Got it.
@sumonamitra5153
@sumonamitra5153 Год назад
Thanks a lot..loved it
@adeade8630
@adeade8630 4 месяца назад
Thank you for this video, and Winston Churchill got me laughing at the end. 😂
@jaquelinekyoda4152
@jaquelinekyoda4152 Год назад
Love it!
@Proverbs3.3
@Proverbs3.3 4 месяца назад
Wow God bless you
@pathonwardlifecoaching
@pathonwardlifecoaching Год назад
Well done!
@Superfoodsguy
@Superfoodsguy Год назад
🙌🙌🔥🔥 awesome Lauren!
@MelissaWeyers
@MelissaWeyers Год назад
YESSSS…. SO good!!!
@Superfoodsguy
@Superfoodsguy Год назад
Living that CEO lifestyle 🤙
@arshlierosyn9648
@arshlierosyn9648 6 месяцев назад
Amen
@WilliamMcPherson-q1f
@WilliamMcPherson-q1f Год назад
Lauren, awesome. CEO gives us a choice instead of a reaction.
@slowpoke96Z28
@slowpoke96Z28 Месяц назад
3:03, cause i wasnt there.
@higeeoff
@higeeoff Год назад
🙌🙌🙌
@lilabukvic4216
@lilabukvic4216 7 месяцев назад
But what by pepple who has ptsd. This is not so eazy. But I love concept❤
@goldenwine7055
@goldenwine7055 18 дней назад
Ok
@enki9006
@enki9006 7 месяцев назад
Shoes are not good, barefoot is when we ground ourselves with earth. She was right to be triggered by seeing the barefoot man but wrong to decide that shoes are a great idea and put them back on. Research grounding and wake up……
@tomrodgers6629
@tomrodgers6629 8 месяцев назад
Headphones work really well to. 😁
@tomrodgers6629
@tomrodgers6629 8 месяцев назад
The advance version of La, La, La, I can't hear you. 😁
@edayavuz1667
@edayavuz1667 9 месяцев назад
This isn't rly addressing the point u wanted to make but pls don't refer to our current knowledge on psychology as a reliable source for therapy. We don't know nearly enough to actually help anyone
@Sophie-Aiyer
@Sophie-Aiyer 4 месяца назад
You never address how the mice (previously exposed to trauma), could have become resilient.
@AnthonyButcher-z7d
@AnthonyButcher-z7d 4 месяца назад
CEO
@kamikazekhan2832
@kamikazekhan2832 4 месяца назад
She almost lost me and it was under a min of her talking
@kathleenkayk
@kathleenkayk 22 дня назад
She .ost lost me at the silly questions.
@databacusdata8989
@databacusdata8989 3 дня назад
Sorry no need of so much technical details , second part of video is self promotion and lacks basics
@stormfischerr
@stormfischerr Месяц назад
so basically “don’t develop ptsd despite your horrible circumstances because these mice didn’t!!” i’m glad that it worked for you, but this is such a bigger topic than 14 minutes. people don’t intentionally develop trauma, especially if we’re talking about childhood trauma
@EricCampbellUAV
@EricCampbellUAV 10 месяцев назад
sleep
@joshuarankin1661
@joshuarankin1661 Год назад
My guess is the lie is that you plike ketchup on your steak
@UpwardBias
@UpwardBias Год назад
Thank you for your comment! I really appreciate how you expressed your thoughts on this topic. There are so many different perspectives and experiences that make us all unique.
@PlaceboDiddley
@PlaceboDiddley 7 месяцев назад
I came looking for this comment. I'm pretty sure you're correct.
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