How To Stop Kids From Whining - Stop Tantrums 

But my kid still screams. Even when he gets his outside cage time for 5 minutes.

Put a bag over the kids head put em in a dark closet and never open it again. I got it :)

Literally searched for this after my 3 year old has whined alllll morning. Fixed the problem almost instantly! Wow! Thank you!!!

So what about when she’s not even looking at me and whining? She doesn’t know I’m trying to ignore her. And sometimes I don’t have time to wait for her to stop and tell her to come do something with me, like when we’re going somewhere and she’s whining about getting in her car seat or while we’re driving. I can’t escape her.

It s work for me my toddler is always whinning so i ignored him.then he cried more so i ignore him again i put myslef listening to the music then after a minutes he stop crying and said mommy i want some juice then i react for that and talk to him that whinning is not good if he is crying like that then no one bmver listen to you if he is going to tell what he wants then evryone is gonna listen to him..thats my experienced to my toddler..

I’m 11, i have to use this on my cousin. Her mom gives into her so I have to teacher her. I told her I was going to check was time she would leave. I said, “lets go ask mommy when youll leave!” In a sweet voice. She said “I DONT WANT TO LEAVE!”. She jumped around, whined and fell on the floor. When she cries there arent tears. She looks at people wanting them to do something.

whining is like nails on a chalkboard for me

This is what I have been dealing for 4 crazy years and still going on. And it really really drives me crazy I don't know what to do.

Thankyou so much!!!! My grandson acts as if he hates me. He literally has fits along with screaming at the top of his lungs on a constant basis when I'm there. His mother holds him all the time when I'm there yet she says she doesn't. I leave with a migraine every time I'm there because of the chronic crying. I truly struggle with it.

That simple she said. So if they start throwing things across the room, just ignore? I work with kids who act like that. I'm sure they learned it somewhere but do I just ignore?

Soothing voice....

"...put a bag over the weed, and put it in a dark closet..." I was almostwilling to literally do this. :P "..and in the child's brain, something clicks..." MY BRAIN JUST CLICKED!!! How can a two minute video be so profound?! !My second child has cried since day one and now that he is over one, and running the show, its hard to take back the reigns. Thank you so much for this video!!!!!

Ignoring doesn’t work on mine.

my sister keep crying I GOT SO OOOOO ANGRY EVEN I WATCH THIS I STOP HER THANK YOU

i don't know uh.. but i love uh lady for just telling me how to save myself in this situation...

I don't have a kid, and won't for years, but thank you this was helpful.

You know what, I saw a baby Elephant throwing a temper tantrum, and, all the adult Elephants just kept walking by the baby Elephant, completely ignoring the baby. And, the baby Elephant finally just stopped, and caught up to the other Elephants.

It does really work but when my mom home she broke my rules ...

Everyone in this video are so sweet, talented, and beautiful!! I love them all!!!!😍♥️

I found the easiest way to get them to stop is to say I want to whine too. And just start whining over stupid things whine "I want a unicorn that farts rainbows" or "I want to swing from a cloud" really stupid stuff like that. Me and my cousin took her daughter's to the park and we were getting ready to leave when her youngest started whining that she didn't want to leave, I was tired and so was her mom and it just popped in my head, what would happen if I stated whining at her. So I started, then her mom started, yes we did get looks from people passing by because here was two grown women whining about unicorns and clouds. But it worked, almost immediately, she stopped and looked at us then the people staring and got so embarrassed that she never whined again, we had explained that that's how we feel when she whined. Plus for some reason it was a great stress reliever and me and my cousin walked away laughing and smiling about it.

I’m watching this to and sending screenshots to troll my raging friend

Instructions not clear. Put a bag over the kids head and locked her in a closet, but she didn't stop whining and now the cops are here. Please halp.

My daughter just gets more angry and more angry and throws a bigger fit when I ignore her. No matter what I try she doesn't learn. I'll ignore, I won't give her her way....nothing. she just gets worse. I never dealt with this with my 3 boys. Even though one threw massive fits and was sensitive. He still was easier than her. She yells at everyone, hits everyone especially me , whines and throws fits. I am at a total loss. Girls so much harder than boys. On top of having a 12 year gap between my youngest boy and her. I had more patience with her as a baby and now I am to the point of just breaking down in tears because she is so defiant and angry. I want to enjoy her but I'm not. And that's really why I cry.

Yeah that is too easy. Kids have a lot of will power.

I keep saying “im not going to beat my kids like i got beat”......and then i met my step daughter... and im highly reconsidering

the worst thing kids do however from birth guys ,from birth i made sure they would NEVER whine nor cry for no reaon, i did what this nice lady said from the start my kids are very independent now

Thanks!

This is just making her cry more cause now she thinks I'm ignoring her

Great content !!!! Very useful !!! Thank you so much ....Implementing immediately asap

u are purely pure pure

my child whine more in public and cries at 7 yrs old and i found out why its because when he was a little baby he did not cry as much more less he did not say as much so now he is making up for it and i hate it!!! I did ignore it in public but people looking at me like wtf tend to your child why he crying and some older adults come to his aid and im like why is the happening right now all i need is to get him to stop by not sheltering and giving him attention but it never works out. what to do??????

I am 11 and I am watching

Whining is more sadness-like, while shouting is more anger-like.

I treated my kids like and adult from the start they never whined after 3 years old never ran to me crying they dealt with their own issues effectively with and adult demeanour since the age of 5

you smack them >:)

it doesn't work like that

You saved my life, thanks u!

I have a stupid brother. He has alot of cars so he makes like a row and if you just WALK past it or even TOUCH it he will start whining and crying.

We have tried this, doesn't work

Istructions not clear i put a bag over the kids head put it in the closet like you said and then i got sent to jail like wtf

Really you got kids

So I have a three year old niece that screams bloody murder and we have tired many methods but what can we do?

Great info, nice vid

Does this work with 14 month olds??

Did she just give permission to put a bag over your kids head?

My brother has a child, we live together. When the baby whines, they just shout at the baby, nothing else. I cant do anything to stop them since they are elders

my 4 year old baby brother cries always at 2am

I was slapped when I kept on whining. It helped. My parents were right because I could be very annoying.

Best advice ever!!!

What should I do what if my wife and my mother in-law don't want to ignore the kid when she whining and they upset with me when I told them to do that. My daughter is 20 months now. Please give me an advice. Many thanks.

There’s another way, you punch it till it stops whining

Yes. Simple but she has to go to school, the bus is coming and she still screaming crying, i cannot have the patience to wait for her tantrum to leave. I gotta be hurryyyyy, yell at her or miss the bus, Talking is so simple everyone knows that moms have to stay calm, but kids always put you in some crazy situations

This is just like training dogs lol love it

Just don't have kids

Do you have a solution for my problem? My neighbor Whines and I can’t go too sleep at night

that's the worse suggestions I took ever, it makes the kid can't rely on you and can't trust you for his needs and want, they despair.

Just deal with it

I think many people lack critical thinking. She is merely saying to ignore whining behavior and when the kid speaks normal, then immediately react to normal behavior. There are many variations to this method, and many other ways. Most toddlers lack vocabulary to explain needs. Whining is easy. They want something. Then there is whining because you said "no". I am not against physical discipline. It has a time and place. You actually don't even have to hit a kid hard. Even a small smack on the bottom very lightly with a stern voice will make any kid cry. Many parents go overboard because of frustration and don't realize their strength. There is no one parenting method that works. A parent that never spanks there child but has great communication skills can have a kid that turns out fine, or horrible. Usually external sources and influences and lack of engagement in kids life result in child hanging with wrong crowd...a whole other subject.

Damn this makes a lot of sense

*It didn’t work*

good trick

Wow! Worst advice ever!! Ignore it, and walk away, and than they begin to scream like psychos. Clearly this girl doesn't have kids...

This is absolutley NOT possable if you have neibours who want there peace and quiet and a history of calling cops and complaining to your realestate to try and get you thrown out..do you have an option to stop manipulation screaming...and i mean intence screaming deliberately

Many people say spank them spank them.... Its like dude no. Thats not the solution. Thats just a easy scape goat and sometimes actually most of the time they start crying harder not to mention if your in public people look at you like your a physco. I saw a african american lady smack her kid like crazy and i was like wow some people should not have kids..... Dont be a bully try something else its 2017 there is better ways to disciplining your child

Hi

People are like "smack the kid" uhm no. A 1 year old doesn't know that them trying to communicate with their parents/guardian is stressful on the adult. They're simply trying to communicate. They don't just "cry for no reason". There's always a reason. Weather it's being hungry or not wanting to be alone. Maybe they're scared. It's a parents job to take care of the child and make sure they're ok. If you can't handle the crying don't have kids. One of my babies are 1 year and the other is 2 months. I have my hands full CONSTANTLY. I've never resorted to hitting. We sleep trained our 1 year old and he was self soothing by 4 months. It's all about how you parent them and hitting just results in violent children cause you're teaching them that it's ok to hit.

This doesn't work. If I ask my children to do something, whining ensues. If I ignore it, my kids will have gotten away with not cleaning their roon.

just like training a dog

Old school method that’s 99% will work. # 1 Find or buy a brown leather belt # 2 Nail a nail to which you can hang the belt by it’s buckle preferably in a common area playroom/living room. #3 When child cry use these words: stop crying before I give you something to cry about. Be firm and stern. If child doesn’t comply pop them on the hand. Repeat as necessary. This may take a few days but eventually they will stop crying for no reason.

My bro wines like a baby he had a tanrum over a cookie

1:21 put a bag over your kid and throw em in a closet lmao

so i need to put my child in a plastic bag and lock it away?

If you want your kid to stop whining, you turn around and yell back at them in their face and let them know they're not in charge.

Is shes talking about us?

First figure out if the child has a reason to whine. Have you lost yourself in your electronic world and forgotten to feed her? Is she tired? Lonely? How good a job are you doing as a parent?

she wont stop 😕

you turn your back,do your business,while the kid will try different ways to get attention.and guess what is one other perfect way?throw things on the ground,break stuff.i am sure you wont ignore that since one day he will break something made of glass and cut really bad and cry.ofcourse , you will ignore it "oh,there she is,whining again.." .. while your kid bleeds on the floor.next day you're with child support at the door and you struggle to keep your kid's custody..that if not he gets really bad health ,than you must think how not to go to jail.so easy for some ppl to talk when they don't know how many types of kids there are out there.

This teaching is misguided and harmful to kids. Imagine complaining about your frustrating day and your spouse pretends like you don't exist? Ignoring a child is never a way to teach anything. Connecting with a child is the way to teach. Help them calm down then teach them how to ask for things. Yes, it will take longer than we want it to because learning and maturing take time. We are the ones who need to stop whining that teaching kids that nurturing real growth and maturation takes too much of our time- so we're gonna train kids like puppies instead.

Thanks cause we got stuck babysitting A bratty baby that won't sleep

So when the kid is whining we put a bag over the head and put it in a dark closet and never open it again? Lol

Never thought about my children as a weed or putting a bag over their head

My brother want chips but he already ate chips but it worked now I can control him

Don’t even act like only children whine honestly I don’t see a problem with it everyone including adults whine about something when it bothers them now excessive whining is what I don’t like but I’ll just make fun of them and make that same little voice they make to drive them crazy that’s what my mom does to me too it’s honestly funny

I don't like whining, but I really can't hear her when she whispers in this video. Lots of good advice, but please speak up.

trying to listen to this video why this girl is winning and I cant hear lmao bare whispering

Once my dad spanked me with a belt so hard I needed skin grafts. He's in jail now.

I put a plastic bag on my kid. It worked. The whining stopped.

Did she just advocate murder 😅🤣🤦‍♂️

Her finger click was epic just saying

Here for my little sister to zip her mouth lol

So put a bag over my kid and put her in the closet? Full disclosure, didn't finish the video

Yea ok come to my house right now 😒

screw this, the old school way always worked, "go get the belt!" problem solved

Like a weed huh? Get the mower.

LMAOO

BABY JAIL!!! AKA PACK AND PLAY!!! PUTT TINA INSIDE A PACK AND PLYA BABY JAIL!!! they learn

Please help me 🥵

Wow, The Kids are whining.

Fetus deletus

this technique is not effective on a lot of kids. i think it depends on the child's personality. if the kid is innately difficult, probably better to spank them... legally lol