Speak up is so essential cuz I was bullied in secondary school and I kept holding these negative emotions inside my head I thought there is no point in taking them out ,but now they started effecting me deeply I wish I had spoken 😞💔
I don't completely agree with the first point. One can't always cover for colleagues at work especially when there is enough on ones own table. As a team player you have to complete your part of the work on time or the whole team suffers. There is no back up plan for that and one can't help but be angry and disappointed with the individual who isn't up to the task/lazy. Anger is the natural response. Get it out of your system instead of suppressing it and affect yourself negatively. You disagree with me ask your boss about it. There is a reason why Plan B is called Plan B. But I do agree on the point of trying to be more self aware on what messes one up. Being prepared for it helps. Like driving responsibly with the awareness that it doesn't take much for an accident to happen. All that said, sometimes one can't just help it. Sad but true. Pete :")
A new *Personality Development Topic* How to set Boundaries? How to know when to cut off people and when you need to have adjustment. Reason I wish you make a video on this topic is because we sometimes stay with negative people or people who doesn't value us and take us for granted. So how to set Boundaries so we can avoid this people.
Negative always come first no matter of one minute or two minute or second negative always come our mind because you are a human being ， human mind always mess with a negative thought first。 another half minutes remind you why did i say this .this is just . Just happened to me right now
If someone is lying evry time... And showing that he/she is so helpless ..then what? After knowing the reason behind why this happening ? Then wht to do ? Then how we can control anger or negative thinking?????
It’s difficult to run away from the situation. Because difficult situations are part and parcel of your life. If you keep feeling helpless and think negatively, your situation is not going to change. You need to focus on the positive and what you could do next is the key thing to get out of difficult situations. I hope that helps
Apne jo bi bat btayi sb officially he. I am doing job in corporate sector. I have problem. Mere ofc me mere colleagues late bi aate he leave bi lete he unplanned. Unhe hamare am zada kuch nhi bolte. But me late hota hu to mujhe bahut sunna parta he. Jb mane unse bola bhedbhav kyu unhone bola tume kya krna tum apna deko. Can you plz rid or elaborate term
aa re year, yis se kam banega nehi !!! Only thing that can do is MONEY ! If you have this then OK, otherwise chaalfoot !!! I mean money makes negative thinking go away. By the way, by the way guy, where are you from in India?
Guy, just counter-attack!!! Counter-attack is the only solution. You also tease them with your own new technique and live your life. THAT IS OKAY! If you don't know how to tease, learn it first: it is not difficult. You see teasers get scared, and they will stop teasing and not tease you anymore. ANYWAY THOSE PEOPLE ARE DISGUSTING!
Become aware of how your thoughts are impacting your emotions and behaviors. Observe your thoughts. Ask yourself if this thought is helpful? What purpose is the thought serving you? How does the thought make you feel?
Nice advice though....but i think u need to speed up while talking ...cz hehe no patience to listen to or see such a long video with such slow speaking effect 😁😁😁😏😏😏😏😅😅😂😂
