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When we let go and trust everything unfolds naturally! 🌸 letting go is just having the confidence that you can have it, it's already yours 🤩 Love to you Shelly!!!
When affirming, you don’t need to believe them for them to manifest. You don’t even need to feel them. Sure, if you do, great, if you believe them a bit, great. But they will manifest regardless.
Pearl Ghosh you have been manifesting your whole life. Before you knew about manifesting you weren’t setting aside time to visualize, or meditate, etc. You weren’t feeling every single thing though either or necessarily full on believing.
@@jgallant3814 I think it's about beliefs instead of affirming. Affirming means doing it repetitively until it becomes a belief. And then you start to notice things about your beliefs around you because brain works like that. And then you get opportunities to experience what you want and you place yourself in the right position in the situation. So it makes you feel something.
Obsession: “If I miss doing the affirmations/visualizations/meditations, I’ll screw it up and my partner won’t show up.” Feel the grasping at what’s not yet here. 😄 When you’re there, when it’s close to manifesting, you do those practices because they’re fun to do. You keep learning more and more about yourself, which will only benefit the relationship that surely lies ahead of all this desire. You know the desire is done. It’s a done deal. You can play without fear because you know you can’t mess up the inevitable. You’re already so comfortable living in the end that you accept its inevitability.
I don't know about others, but these days mostly I feel relaxed and confident about my sp. However there are moments where I go weak and when I happen to recognise it, I try and meditate and think about some basic thought's related to us / the relationship like ' ofcourse I know he's mine, Ofcourse he loves me, Ofcourse we are already dating and we are so happy," and eventually..it makes me feel good.. We can have bad moments too! But I guess what matters is realising and changing the feeling state 💕
I don't know if this works but I try to manifest different things at the same time so in the end I end up not obsessing on the main thing. When the small things start to manifest that builds up my confidence and gives me the knowing that the main manifestation is also on the way.
This is definitely something I do! I manifested seeing a butterfly (because it has been a while since Ive seen one sadly), and that manifestation came in super fast. Whenever I start to doubt myself, I just remind myself of the small things Ive manifested and it helps me get back on track
I do the same. I have a secure note on my phone labeled Manifestation Trust List. I add to it each time a manifestation comes true, no matter how small. So far, since Nov last year I have manifested 24 things :)
⚠️ ♥️ I needed to hear this. I knew I was obsessed with a certain situation I want to happen, and I knew it felt awful as it was starting to affect my mental health. Thank you for helping me centre myself!
I hated being obsessive with my SP. I had a different one I was trying to manifest (yes, trying) when I first learned about manifesting and I got so obsessive that I manifested him dating someone else which only furthered my obsessive thoughts to where I got so stressed out about it. I finally just changed my SP (mainly because I started to like someone else) and I now understand manifesting better to where I don’t ever think about him much, only at certain times and I don’t get obsessive or stressed when I think of him. If an unwanted thought does occur (or tries to, at least), I just tell myself the opposite with an affirmation and it brings me back to the calm state again. It’s taken me two years to figure this out but I’m grateful I have 😂 thank you Shelley for another awesome and helpful video!
Alien baby.... I see what you mean.. but remember u must detach from outcome. In Loa the 3 steps are ask, believe, receive. The receive part means that you have ultimate confidence that your desire is already here... sooooo.... feel good and if your mind needs something to chew on... use your mind to visualize the outcome... use it to create... do things you love ... solve puzzles, write... then while distracted... your desire will pop up... like What!!
@@ThePositivityPrincess I really don't believe the whole "ask believe receive" thing because it's too close to the Christian paradigm (separation from the divine) that I grew up with. That's why I follow Shelly with her teachings about the God-self and "everything is you pushed out." I'd rather be at the mercy of myself. The last part is more or less the same though
Yes! The more I align with the end result internally, the less I am thinking/worrying about it and I feel much healthier for it all around! Each day I am seeing progress, and don't feel the need to affirm my beliefs so much as they are now starting to feel true :)
I've been trying to manifest my sp for a few months now and for most of that time I used to tell myself that he's already mine or we're together and be feeling that anxious feeling and I reached a point where thinking about him did not make me feel good since it was taking a very long time and I didn't see what I was affirming to myself in my outer reality. I didn't know what I was doing wrong and I didn't realise that I was becoming obsessive. It wasn't until a week ago that I started playing a scene in my head of us together before going to sleep and really feeling this scene as if I'm physically experiencing it that I started to feel really good about my manifestation again. I hope to receive my manifestation soon.
I've been listening to your videos for a while and have been using your SP guided meditation. A couple weeks ago I affirmed that my SP would wish me a happy birthday and he was one of the first people to wish me a happy birthday this morning!
Ahaaaa. What a concept to be a part of!!! Such an underrated topic to be discussed as 95% of the time and most people are obsessed especially with regards to their specific person. Would love to know what your view is on the topic of obsession. 2 back to back great videos to watch.Last night it was god mode and today the obsession. Excellent chain of events and videos to watch so that we can be the best versions of ourselves and attract all we desire ad make it into a reality, Shelly. I hope I can meet you once in my lifetime and shake hands to thank you for everything.
THANK YOU SHELLY!! I've been obsessing about something and anxiously trying to manifest it into my life. You described exactly how I felt - the grasping, tight feeling which I really hate, the feeling that something isn't right or in alignment. You have touched my soul briefly with this video thank you!
Every time my mind is at peace, my mind instantly agrees with my manifestation. I have a specific person and my mind instantly goes “he’s mine”. All the negative thoughts come with physical discomfort so that’s how I set it a part. I only pay attention to what my mind thinks when I feel good. A peaceful mind brings power.
How To Stop Obsessing About Your Manifestation.? What to do if you feel obsessed with your manifestation.? * If you watch RU-vid videos that means you are actively manifesting and it can turn you into being obsessing about it. * Obsession is you can feel like in your body constant grasping towards your manifestation. * Sp can be a common thing to be obsessed about. Cause there is lot of beliefs and takes lot of awareness in your world and big manifestation since it is and the pain and grief of not having it can cause all the obsession about it. * It can also cause anxiety and also lot of chasing energy in your mind and spinning in your head. * These are the characterstics of being obsessed. * It just doesnot feel good within. * You dont feel light, fresh, relaxed, Open.it is the opposite feeling for obsession. * It is tighter feeling in your body. ------------------------------------------ * Living in the end in the consistent way people can feel this as also a obession cause you do it alwyas. *but the actual path way of doing this is tobbe relaxed, calm and be confident about manifestation. * Feeling good in your body and emotional state while thinking about your manifestation by living in the end .this optimal living in the end experinece. * When living the end and feeling in the truth of it you actually dont think about a lot cause it is already yours. * It is very normal cause if soemthing is yours it is naturally feeling like it is with you and you being very open , happy and beautiful when you are thinking about your sp. * When you are in the note in your body not attached and not obsessd it is open energetic experience. * I have it I am relaxed. It is natural. This is the space you must be ❤. ------------------------------------------- The way to know if your obsessed in your body. * You must be very honest to your self when it comes to feeling how it feels to you. * And you must decide how to do want to manifest being in complte anxious or not so good state of being. Or being very calm , open relaxed state of being. * you must be in aligned within yourself your thoughts, feelings beliefs. * If you run thoughts you are with your sp and you are feeling anxious you cant feel complte truth about it. ------------------------------------------- What do you when you run affiramtions and your body is not feeling good about it.? * 1.) If you are running affirmations you are in a realtionship with your sp and your body doesnt feel the truth of it or feel good. * This means you dont believe this affirmation. * So what to do is step down or back and start with smaller belivable affirmation .about your sp. * if you want your body to feel good when you say affirmation and you want to be in relaxed state . * Work first with affirmations that are smaller and belivable. + I know they really like me. + I bet when they meet me they are really gonna like me ( for those who didnot meet the sp yet). * Once you feel this and truth of it your body will naturally feel less tight and relaxed. ::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::: * 2.) if you find being obsessed with your subjects. + The best thing is change your attention to other subject. + And the best is turn your attention to yourself. * who you wanna be? How you wanna feel ? What you want your life to look like? * If you are going to manifest your sp it means you are manifesting who you are regardless of who they are. * This is an important practice to do.. * And obsession means you are looking in your outer world and grasping on to it. * You are totally not in the moment of who you wanna be, of who you are , what you desire to have. * You are out of yourown body and own experience and you are grasping on to soemthing else out there. * This feels awful in the body and total attachment out there. * When you start coming back to yourself and bringing your attention towards you to your self. What feels good to you. * If you want to loosen . * The best thing is go out in nature. * Cause nature has harmonious frequency * And just be relaxed and start doing self love practice. * When you feel better and incredible about yourself manifestation is easier for you. All you got to do is you must know yourself and notice are you feeling obsessed about anything. slef love is key❤ cause you are complete and whole just as you are ❤ Thank You Shelly❤
Why is it that when we want someone who is amazing and wonderful that our minds do things we don't want ( like over thinking, having doubts and all those things that each of us has had at some point)❤ But when we are around someone we have no interest in our mind is more controlled and less likely to have the doubts that we get with our sps. 🤔 Learning everything we do when we learn about l.o.a/manifesting helps us understand our relationships with everyone so much better ( everyone is you pushed out) I'm going to have an amazing time with my sp, and will not let myself do any of what i did before. Even though I'm feeling so relaxed ( god state) about him, I know how important it is to keep the with the practices that we are learning. We need to stay confident in ourselves, know how much our sps love us, and keep our minds free of the obsessive thoughts we get when we lose confidence. WE CAN CREATE EVERYTHING WE DESIRE 🌌🙌🌌🙌🌌🙌🌌🙌🌌
You spoke my mind Shelly- I was worried about this obsession sometimes when we are trying to manifest something important !! It literally drives you crazy even when you try hard to keep calm, let go and remain in end state.
Affirmations are not you convincing yourself, they are repeating them until your body feels it’s truth and then dropping them. You don’t need to always remain in the state, for those who watch Joseph Alai. It removes the anxiety of always remaining in the state
One of your best videos! Obsession and anxiety are hard to escape, especially in relation to an SP. I have manifested some BIG SP things recently but I think limiting beliefs started to sabotage it all. Gonna work on it ☺️
Great video! One day I’m the most confident person on the planet and the next I get all anxious about my SP lol, it felt like you were speaking directly to me, thank you Shelly! 💕
You have helped me go from contracted, need energy to expansive trust and conviction energy in the space of one week. I've spent most of my life in the former! Your guidance has been the most transformative ever for me! Deep personal healing really is the missing link to LOA. As a new therapist, I totally hear you. I have manifested in the past during rare phases of complete, open hearted trust. But now I see why I would always fall off the wagon; I would keep regressing to a lack of self concept. Your teachings have made something vital click into place. Self love isn't just a little self care or nominal practices. It really is a deeply profound process and I suppose it can take time. In my case, I've been trying to learn true self love for years in therapy, but it was being abandoned by my love and then finding your videos that catapulted me into the incredible euphoric, expansive spaces that is finallyyyyy truly understanding experientially the differentiation and individuation process of real self love and empowerment. 🙏🏽💖✨💎 Thank you!
I really need this. I wonder why I was so I obsessed with him. I was like spellbound and there’s a sexual undercurrent even when I am just thinking about him. So I looked at our synastry chart. Well his Pluto conjunct my Ascendant (in Libra) and his Sun in Libra also conjunction both my Pluto and Ascendant within 2 degrees orb. I feel this magnetism between us. The first time that triggered this feeling was last July. Mercury was in retrograde. Now I watch Netflix (free trial) to distract myself from thoughts of him. I want to be free and I want him to be free too. I feel we might have a past life connection. I also used the wish fulfilled state to be more calm. Even though in the physical reality we are separated, in the non physical we are always connected. I keep a journal of the times that we interact whether face to face or when he texted me the way I want him to text me. But I think of him the first thing I get up and thoughout my day. I do not know if this is unconditional love or just being obsessed. I do not have the need for him to be in my life. I just want him to acknowledge that he must have felt what I felt and even if we can’t have a relationship, it doesn’t change those intense emotions I have for him. 💁🏻♀️
To avoid obsession ,turn your attention towards urself and work on things that u actually need for yourself. Also feel that everyone loves to be with u and that you are the one who is gng to be obsessed by many. This actually helps manifest fast and also we feel calm and lucky.😊😊
Earlier today I was reading my Bhagavad Gita, and there is a sentence where Krishna says one should never be attached to anyone or anything, because such attachment leads to suffering.
I have started to turn my attention back to myself lately and it feels amaaazing! I think it will make a big positive change in my life 🤗 Thank you for this video Shelly! 🤍
Wow! This was one of the best teachings... now I’m positive that I’m doing right “leaving on the end” . Nature is my temple, and I always try to listen my body. Thanks once again for sharing... many blessings to you.❤️🙌🏻🌈
I manifested a free house plant in two days. I had a strong desire for more because I'm on a house plant kick right now. It was a feeling where I felt not anxious but a bit impatient, but it went away because I had other things I needed to focus on. Two days later, someone left a neglected snake plant in my lobby, so I took him home to bring him back to health. It was a reminder that my big manifestations are mine because of the strong desire I have, so I only need to persist. I'm going to focus more on self concept now, and here and there I'll visualize the end result, only because it feels good to think about it.
I feel so greatful that, you are here with me as you come up with what I really want to hear about. I feel good every second of my days.. credit goes to you Shelly..
I’ve noticed that the better I feel the faster my manifestations come to pass. I feel like obsession and anxiety take up a lot of energy and in my mind it helps me to think that energy is being used up and subtracting from my manifestation which helps with letting go a big.
You are so right! I followed the teaching of "no matter what, you have persist in you repetitions". The result? ANXIETY, DEPRESSION,... It s suppose to be natural, not to make me feel even worst. Some teaching are even dangerous
This is the only way. I found this : Father I lay this desire, obsession(name it)on the altar of your love. I let go of it freely and completely and I trust You to transmute it into a desire, obsession for spiritual food. The greater good that You want me to have I know that I shall be filled and satisfied by the Living Words! Script this or speak it out loud.
Love that the space your in right now already has "shelly" vibes!! also love what you shared on your feeling state being part of what you're manifesting. I definitely only want to manifest a final feeling state that's as beautiful as what I'm creating. Thank you for this! x
I began feeling this way when watching tarot and even when I had the correct mindset the outcomes they said were discouraging. Be careful what you consume!
I only became obsessed with it when videos were making me monitor all my thoughts and not end your thoughts on what you dont want, and i catch myself retracing thoughts and "fixing" or "rewriting" my thoughts all day.. I was anxiety riddling.
After I learned about how physical issues manifests in 3D reality, I never manifest anything that doesn't feels good to my body! My welness always comes in the first place! I work through change the feeling, beliefs, what else is necessary but never manifest anything which doesn't feels good. It's not healthy. :( Amazing video! Thanks!
Do you have notes when you do videos? They're so organized. It's almost like a spoken essay each time. Well done. Also, I intend for you to reach 30k subscribers before the week ends. :)
I totally agree about the body thing. If I don’t feel good in my body emotionally then I decide that I don’t want to manifest that way. That’s why my larger manifestations that I’m a lot more emotionally invested in have taken longer because I want to feel good when I have them and not trigger my old stories.
If I don’t feel good when trying to manifest, doing a technique or not, I definitely just have to stop. A lot of times them I just go to self love affirmations. There are some manifesting coaches that seem to take a more aggressive approach, as well, and that doesn’t make me feel comfortable either.
Just to add a thing about what you said about nature, if you are disabled, immunocompromised or just don't want to get outside into nature for whatever reason, even nature documentaries help get into the state of bliss.
Hey Shelly. How do you balance your life and work? I see you upload videos daily, have tons of courses out there and look very energetic. I was wondering if you can share with us how you can be so productive. I bought the money manifesting masterclass. The same day I finished the 3 hour class I sold a program I´m selling online. I´m so glad I invested in this program :)
Thank you Shelly for this one. We need more on such topics. While we are manifesting, sometimes because of certain 3d reality we feel obsessed about our manifestation , particularly when we manifesting our sp. Now taking few steps back n bringing our body to feel good, relax n calm is little bit difficult but not impossible. We can make it possible. I think body and mind both should feel good, relaxed and calm. It is true that when our body is aligned with the mind with the living in the end results of being with the sp, then only we can come out with flying colors. It is not impossible, it is possible, only we need to trust the process.
I used to not feel good about wanting things or an Sp. I was always taught not to want things. However recently i discovered that its natural to want someone or something. Now i tell myself "this is what i want and this is what i will have. I am worth it, i deserve it. There is nothing wrong with wanting someone or something. I am going to keep going because i know im worth it." Im also getting out of the mindframe of having to wait because im worth it now.
Obsession without a doubt is what blocking us from achieving our manifest as instead of letting go allow the universe to do the job for us. Because of obsession it's blocking us from going forward as well become desperate when our manifest isn't done. I feel like we should probably all watch this video 20+ times
Thank you so much i was just crying about this and i feel sooo much better your videos always calm me down🥺❤️ i was studying and i couldnt even concentrate
Shelly this talk will help me being more conscious about the feelings that go along my manifestation, I may have proyected anxious feelings without noticing... It’s true right now I feel better runninrg smaller affirmations (a text, a meeting rather than a relationship)
Hi Shelly! I love your new space :) I’m always watching RU-vid videos, I hope that’s okay and not considered obsession. I am a little obsessed but with your help I’m learning a lot :)
Hi Shelly, first of all thank you for all your videos! I have a question, everyone wants to know how to manifest a specific person, but how can you do the opposite? How can you manifest stop loving someone that you don't want to think about anymore without the hurt?
Thank you for this non-judgmental perspective on this topic. I had anxiety about returning to work after being off due to the pandemic. I was trying to manifest that my boss would tell me not to come in. Well, that never happened and I had some doubt that it would. Essentially I probably blocked it and was wondering if I was manifesting correctly by obsessively searching for videos to help he do it right.
