@@kc270352 I’ve tried almost everything and never got a prayer. It’s like living in North Korea, even if you try your hardest the decision makers can keep you opressed the way women do to me.
This video reminds me of the quote about being well adjusted to a sick society. Or the way that I personally think about it, the evolutionary mismatch. Obviously we’re alive, so we have to live our best lives within the world we’re in but still true.
This is pure quality advice. Especially about changing your perspective of seeing a girl as a nice addition to your already fulfilled life, not the other way around. Thanks so much, Beast 😎
You are the prize.... Not them. You are doing them a favor by taking time out of your day to spend with them. You are doing them a favor by spending money on them. You bring to the table: A respectable job Money A house A car A lifestyle and good times she would otherwise not be able to afford. You are an appreciating asset and will only become even more valuable over time as your wealth and power continues to grow. She brings to the table: Good looks and s*x. She is a depreciating asset as her looks will fade over time... while your wealth will only grow larger. You can earn more money. She can not earn more pretty.
But I see "game" just like improving how you talk, it's necessary, it does not have to be weird tricks. There are optimal ways to do anything, if you are not good at it naturally, you are just counting on luck...
I've adopted this mentality. I've been at a point where I was constantly seeking several dates per week; the highs were high, but the lows were lower. It even caused to feel like I lost myself and I delved into depression. I got myself out though and I'm grinding hard. Also, I live in Boston and Barcelona Wine Bar is def a good date spot haha.
In this dating Culture i just have 1 Rule. Just stay away from them. Staying on my own was bringing me so much Peace 😂. Problem is this is just for people who are able to live alone. Some people can't do that.
Fellas, you need to be pragmatic about dating, just like women. Romance will get you in the door but don't let it cloud your judgement. Is she really a pure, innocent flower? Chances are no
This actually really helped me realize something. Been dating this girl for the last 6 months and she broke it off a week ago after i got the feels for her and she said were on different paths; shes starting her business while i was getting settled into my cardiac monitor career at the hospital. I reckon she just wanted someone doing the same as her. Either way i wish her the best. I really liked her but she couldn't get past that i suppose, so close yet so far. Taking this hurt out by hitting the gym harder.
No, she just didn't like you that much. Don't make excuses for her. Just think of it as her loss and move on. Yes, she might hit you up later, but presume she won't and plan accordingly. And if she does, feel justified, but think very hard before reciprocating. Life is too short for girls who sit on the fence for you. She had her chance. ✌
Honestly bro, she thought she could do better, she thought she was better than you; and she's right, but also, being a cardiac monitoring technician isn't sexy. She wanted to be to smash freely and meet someone better. Just do you and get angry about it. It's not cause you're on 'different paths' that's bullshit.
@sevensevenalways7995 so true, I'm now actually making the most amount of money I've ever made right when she left, I never got to tell her but oh well. I really shouldn't take her back if she does come around, she didn't give me a chance to prove myself as I literally reshaped my life for the better and now I'm talking with a realtor to get my first house next year.
Nothing personal buddy, she lost attraction for you or probably she was using for emotional tampon. In any case, good riddance, you can now learn from it and move on forward for something better. We've all been there.
For me peace of mind and harmony at home is important, so I will probably will be forever single 😂 I don't mind, my home is a place were there is peace and quiet
For all you ladies who think it's totally OK fine & normal to have a bunch of guys friends & remain civil with exes -- there's a reason why that is continually noted as a huge red flag in video after video & in coaching session after coaching session. So STOP trying to turn it around on us guys as if we are being jealous, insecure, & controlling when it comes to all these dudes texting & hanging around
How come women’s value as rated for looks alone then? Especially on YT and social media. We hear about dating 8, 9 and 10s as high value woman. Average looking girl can be higher value than someone who is a 10 as well.
Been with the same woman 27+ yrs. It is paramount you both trust/respect and have some loyalty .. families are dynamic as we know they bring a lot of good/bad. Look at your goals and if you’re heading on that ,are you a team ? If not. It will never work. Some give n take is needed but you’ll see if it’s an issue if you can’t be yourself ! Run ! 😂
This is horrible advice unless the man has a misson, his money is right, know his value and he has options....when you have these women will chase you..women bring very little value to a man...men bring more value to the relationship. 99% of women dont deserve your attention my brothers
Very good!! I agree with all you said, the right one can enrich your life, the wrong one can totally destroy your life. A risky and dangerous journey till you find the right one. Even then many never do find the right one.
I had an ex like this. When I broke up with her she showed up to my house kicking and screaming. She wouldn’t leave. After the situation escalated I called for Siri to dial 911 and she snatched my phone before it went through. That’s when we stared at each other both knowing that she could smash my phone and I couldn’t do a thing about it…shit was legendary
you are fully right. i know this facts before already and found my dream girl already 12 years ago (she is my first girlfriend becaus me denied all other if there is something not fitting to me and i am 35 now)
I've been watching you since 4 years and with age I'm realizing, everything you said will always end up being true, like prophecies getting fulfilled because time shows everything with patience. Thank you so much. At first things might be overwhelming regarding what you discussed but with age and practical experience, I haven't found nothing yet that goes the opposite of what you said. Anyway enjoy your breakfast tacos always.
When it comes to Game , the game is about you ,it starts and ends with the man . Game is simply just good knowledge and getting what you want out of life. PUAS do not have game because they make it about women ,in fact they took the word game and made it into something cringe . Once you understand who you are ,you focus on what you want ,you stop making everything about women ,then that's what it means to have good Game.
The only thing I disagree with is you have to be with a girl that you find HIGHLY attractive, not just moderately. I tried being with a moderately attractive girl once and it was a disaster... Think female simp.
Marriage scares the shit out of me. Particularly if I make more money than the woman. It just gives her WAY too much power, and an incentive to leave and take half of my stuff. Like wtf.
I have a similar mindset as David. Men who watch your channel should not listen to Andrew Tate and guys like him. Myron and Fresh from Fresh and Fit I listen to them as my as a listen to David
every advice you tell i was like yeah mah men. trying to high five my laptop screen HHAA. i've been dating for like 5 years and i've meet a lot of women. and all you just said here are all facts. haha right now i stop dating because i alter my focus more in building in myself and my career but i'll be back once im finished achieve what i need to achieve. keep it up bro
I will admit, I sometimes still feel like an incel despite having a girlfriend, probably because I feel that my 20s were a waste, didn't have a serious relationship until the beginning of my 30s. It causes me to envy and resent couples out there younger than me, people who got to experience having a serious long-term relationship before I did and yes I know people will always say comparison is the thief of joy or don't compare yourself to others. But I believe it's always has been and always will be part of the human psyche, been that way since the beginning of time to feel upset and depressed when you feel you are not part of the norm. Because of that I feel like a forever permanent incel for all time, even when I did manage to get a girlfriend. So yeah even while I did have a girlfriend, I still felt like an incel. I don't see myself ever getting over this, it will be a pain and wound for the rest of my life. And I'm not afraid to admit that there have been times over the years I have hated being born male, because I know I'm not the only guy in the world that has this mindset, that men have to do everything in dating and relationships and seduction. Yes I know tons of people say what's the point of being angry and depressed over what didn't happen in the past or not? Well I'm entitled and I have a right to my mindset, I believe it's always been part of human nature or just the human psyche to always be sad and depressed or angry and resentful over good things that they wish happened to them in the past but didn't. I know I'm not afraid to admit I have had these thoughts, and I'm sure other guys have thought this way, we feel that if we had been born a woman, we would not have been single that long. Probably because women just have to exist and they are guaranteed attention and options from Men, that requires no skill or no social dynamics, no game or no seduction. One person I remember I heard said that women need game as well which I thought was the stupidest thing I ever heard. So ya I still feel like an incel for all time despite managing to get a girlfriend eventually, and I still get irritated and annoyed whenever people and society say that men have it better than women do in the human mating game. I get annoyed when people say go see a therapist because it's not like a therapist can reset my life or have me start my life all over again. I spoke in a few other guys who feel the same way in regards to being forever angry and upset, sad, over never having had a girlfriend until later than normal, until late in life. Probably because guys and men to learn and know all of these skills, all of these social behaviors, talk and behave a certain way, act a certain way, walk a certain way or have a certain lifestyle, have a certain body, certain income, and more than that which I either don't know or forgot. Women are pretty much basically all set for just being born and just existing. Because being pretty and beautiful is not a skill and it doesn't require any learning, it's not a behavior that takes training. It just really feels me with anger and rage whenever people and Society have the mindset or still think men have it better than women do in dating or just human mating in general. I'll never forget what one guy said and this only added fuel to fire in regards to my anger and rage about the cards on dealt with for being born male. "Boo fucking hoo. We also don't have to go through child birth and we're strong as fuck. Testosterone gives us ambition + mental and physical strength that MANY (not all) women are lacking. Being a man has many benefits and with great power comes great responsibility. Stop crying about it and get your fucking shit together" Let's just say that pissed me off even further, got me so mad, that its no appropriate for me to say what was going through my mind when i read that comment that pissed me off even further. Yes I know there's no such thing as fairness but I'm not afraid to admit that over the years in my life I've hated being born a guy or I just feel that it is unfair being born a man. Yes I'm aware there's no such thing as fairness, I just get very angry and enraged whenever people and Society still think men have it better than women do.
What about the women who are not tens? Who are not head-turning gorgeous? They feel invisable too. They have to work harder than most guys. And it doesn't matter how amazing they are otherwise either. I find it telling that even this guy says they still have to be really attractive (in addition to all these other attributes).
I've been dating a girl for more than 2 years. She's perfect and understanding. She has all the feminine quality A man would want. But my family isn't approving that coz her family standard doesn't match with ours. And I'm fighting against them. Trying my best to have a good life and career. Isn't my feelings have a cost? Ain't I doing the right thing?
@@randomAnnanoumousDude2134 the initial comment says his family doesn’t think she’s up to standard. it doesn’t matter if the family thinks she’s not up to standard. I have a buddy of mine I work with, and his relationship ended because his woman’s parents interfered like this. He’s a great guy, completely loyal, makes good money, but her parents have her so brainwashed since childhood about what type of person she should be with That they don’t approve. This is actually damaging instead of helping.
Has anybody used the tiege Hanley face stuff? I started using it and instead of flakes in small areas on my face it’s now become my entire face. I don’t know if the stuff is doing its job and I have to push through it or if my skin is too sensitive to the product. Anybody have any recommendations?
Bro all this stuff that you need skin care products is just marketing. If you have normal skin, no major issues with pimples etc. just drink a lot of water and wear a sunscreen without harmful additives. Don't waste loads of money into buying these skincare products regularly. Just have a healthy diet and maybe use micronutrient supplements if required. Already mentioned the other things. But that's only my humble opinion
TOP TIER: Ask YOURSELF the RIGHT questions. If the only thing she's adding to your life is more drama & more stress while taking away your peace AND your money, then that means she gotta go
- [01:08](ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-QuftSQNcI6E.html) 🧐 Rule #1: Beauty alone isn't enough when choosing a partner. Look deeper and identify what truly matters to you in a woman, like shared values and lifestyle. - [02:17](ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-QuftSQNcI6E.html) 🤔 Rule #2: Ask the right questions about your relationship. Focus on what you like about her and how the relationship enhances your life, rather than obsessing over her interest in you. - [05:43](ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-QuftSQNcI6E.html) 🚫 Rule #3: Don't become a slave to pleasure. Avoid making your self-worth dependent on how often you hook up with attractive women; focus on personal growth and goals. - [07:47](ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-QuftSQNcI6E.html) 🙅♂ Rule #4: Deal with rejection and don't derive self-worth from female attention. Understand that rejection is part of dating, and your worth is not defined by a woman's interest. - [09:55](ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-QuftSQNcI6E.html) 🕹 Rule #5: Don't play the game excessively. Avoid overthinking dating tactics; instead, adopt a straightforward approach, which can be more attractive and less stressful.
I call those girls 'chrome'. Shiny on the outside. But, rusting steel underneath. (Song to describe your relation: "Bad Girlfriend" -T.O.A.D.) Also, have you seen (The Crazy/Hot Matrix")?
Been there, done that... As a working musician, I had my pick of hotties... some hung, some, just overnight. I had a run of juggling 5 at once, and I wanted more.... It crumbled all at once. Another came by, smoking hot face, body, intelligent, but she was crazy... the sex was frequent, but it ended up my part was penis supply.... the reltionship was all about her... I fired her as my GF. Every hot woman had an agenda to use me... I'm now with a gal who isn't hot... very plain, but she's nice, respectful, kind, doesn't scold, get crazy, cooks, cleans, does yard work with me, gets her hands dirty... it's been 10 years... she's a keeper. True, beauty is BS....
You've got it figured out, I'm impressed with your knowledge, but can you keep that mindset throughout life. One tough point is they never change but they learn just like we do. You will constantly be tested by a better one, not in looks but in technique. Time weakens all of us, until we give up and get the saddle put on us and say yes dear. But! You don't have to, if you know thyself. You already have the information. Im 75 now, fu@k! Still work out, divorced 32 yrs, no kids, etc.. stay strong and never doubt yourself, after you analyzed yourself and go forth! And wear a cup! ....lol..
Dating culture is really messed up in USA. What little I know, its just too difficult. I have a honest advice to you: Just be yourself. If you pretend to be something else, it will backfire. Be youself, be who you are. Do not take shit from anyone, not from a girl and not from anyone. Do things you enjoy. I know my man David here is against video games, but hell, if you enjoy video games, play them if they make you happy. I know I do. I´m happy and enjoying my life. Are you happy and are you doing things people say you should do, or are you doing things YOU enjoy?
So.... You're not at the end... Psh straight click bait Love how you describe empathetic stories being told to you as red flags. Shits bunk. Vibe with who you vibe with and make mistakes you'll only learn from experience.
It's easy. There is only ONE RULE: Do not get emotionally invested in women... they are like your employees and you are their boss in life. That's it. Follow that and you will never go wrong.
Well maybe I'm too cynical and jaded but it seems to me that the juice just isn't worth the squeeze nowadays. Looking back, only one of them was ever really good to and for me, but ultimately, even that relationship went bad after 11 or 12 years. I think the game is now rigged and not worth playing. I think it's best to invest in yourself and not complicate things for yourself.
My girl got black out drunk two days ago, and made out with one of her coworkers at a bar..She’s super apologetic and claims she can’t even remember doing that and she regrets it. I’m at a crossroads, heart broken and don’t know what to do, does anyone have any insight here? Appreciate the thoughts in advance
Great video but your last dating advise is just not right for most people. Not playing the game is effective when you actually have success with woman and actually date them regularly. Telling people to just be themselves when they constantly get rejected is not the right mindset, the right mindset is to ask yourself how can I improve and what can I do better. Sadly I never found the answer to that
Here's a tip your shirt is too big it's hiding your muscles makes sure your shirt is over your muscles arms to make you look more masculine this always works
Stripping and only fans give insecure women validation. This is borderline crazy behavior. I would suggest that men get a dog. Or, at least make clear boundaries and teach everyone in your life to respect them.
I have been married twice in 35 years. I can honestly say women are a PIA. It is thankless. It is work but it is a partnership to create and raise kids. To continue the dance of life. Don't overthink it. Don't worry about it. If you connect great. If you don't there are plenty of fish in the sea.
Thanks for the rules, David. Well I've reached an epitome and that is to work on myself from my style to improving my mood and etc. and well also to stay single as well because I enjoy being happy when I'm single. I know weird, but it's the truth.
ive said this for awhile. beauty doesnt equal high value. if shes hot dont ever think youre the only guy shes seeing. have fun and move on. guys prioritize sex way too much. theres more productive things you can be involved in.
The one who can walk away at anytime holds the powerof the relationship. Never give them the power. The man doesn't have to pay for everything let them pay. If by chance she calls the cops on you and their is a chance she could get you into trouble, get away from her and give your face 2 or 3 hard punches and a scratch here and there and nobody will be more surprised then her although you will be surprised how well it works.
You are never gonna find a Good Woman in the bars, By The Way. Women at the gym are way too self-absorbed. The internet has really destroyed a whole generation of women.
Never take them to your place and never go to theirs. Hotels are the best and make sure you leave before they wake up. Oh and rent a car, don’t use your own vehicle
The part when he talks about having no game can be summirized as ""Just be yourself".Trust me women have some ultra sensitive receptors that recognize when you are dancing around her and trying to impess her.99% of women can definatly see through the persona you are projecting.The best persona you can project is yourself so just be yourself, talk to her like shes a friend and not a girl you want to sleep with, cause in the end you do need a female friend.
