1. Prayer 2:25 2. Pre-marital counseling 4:55 3. Marriage is about service 7:22 4. Lose your pride & learn to receive feedback 9:57 5. Create future habits now 13:20 6. Discuss your expectations 15:40 7. Understanding biblical marriage 18:36 8. Your connection in greater than your problems 21:17 9. Take radical responsibility for your life (start your healing journey now) 22:33 10. Don’t give up someone for something 24:43 11. Really look at the person you’re interested in 26:36 Side note: work on your communication ;)
Mic Drop!!! You’re not in a relationship for how they make you feel! I NEEDED that, I will say that I have been guilty of complaining about stupid things, thank you!
Prayer is underrated!! Not cheesy at all!! And thanks for mentioning servant leadership!!! You guys have so much knowledge and wisdom to share. God Bless!
This is going to be one of those videos I’ll keep coming back to over the years! Sooo much good advice and I appreciate all the wisdom from you both! Love the encouragement in the description too! Love you both!
My fiancé and I have been engaged for 2 months now, and we have been seeking Godly marital wisdom. This is the answer our Lord has given us, thank you for this❤️
Thank you, I am single and I really want more of this so thank you because I need this. I was never taught how to navigate relationships in general and when it comes to marriage I am often fed a negative view so really thank you again in teaching me how to prepare for a Godly marriage 💗❤️💗❤️
I got to meet Dave and Ashley in February when they spoke at Church of the Highlands' annual marriage conference. I'm single and have been soaking up all the things on relationships during the past 4 yrs of being single (actually how I came across your channel back in 2019). It was so good and I'm so glad I went and that all this info is coming to me now to help me grow as a person. And I can use it to help ALL my relationships, not just dating/marriage. God's opened my eyes to so many opportunities, it's crazy but a very enjoyable journey. I love learning and He's the best teacher😁
I just found your channel yesyerday and i'm obsessed with it! I am happy i found you guys cause now i have a couple to look out to whenever i feel like getting an advice about marriage and relationships. I am currently in a relationship with my best friend and love of my life. And if it's God's plan, i'll stay with him for the rest of our lives, I never felt this excited about marriage before, but seriosly... watching at your videos and listening to your wise words is incredible
It’s refreshing to hear good, solid information . It’s good to know that it’s not all about you, that you want to help the body of Christ. God is not unrighteous to forget your labor of love, how you have ministered to the saints, and do minister. That is not the whole verse, it is found in Hebrews. God bless you. You and your husband have such a wonderful spirit. I have only seen two videos , but I love your spirit. Stay sweet! God bless you!
I have one word. Wow. There's a quote that says We have a tendency to want the other person to be a finished product while we give ourselves the grace to evolve and I think that's so important to understand specially in marriage
Thank y’all for this video, it really helped me start to analyze myself and asking God what He needs me to do, order to be the husband that my future wife needs. God bless us guys, and thank y’all for being bold in your faith. Also, where can you get the “B. Kind State University” sweater, ngl it’s pretty dope
@@ToriAndChadoh gosh the longer the better!! My mom just walked in and asked why do I have this smile on my face I’m like😃when I first found your channel I didn’t know Christ but Ik in my heart this is the kind of marriage I want one day, I started to think whatever is the foundation of a relationship like that must be at least worth knowing. One year later I’m growing steadily in Christ , so thank you for being one of the people led me to Christ !
Can’t wait to listen to all your advice 🤍 Love all you have to say about this subject! You two are such an example and an inspiration for me! Sending you my love and appreciation 🤗
Love this! Y’alls single, dating, and married content is so rich and I have learned so much! Quick question: what was the name of the book y’all referenced regarding 100 questions?
I just got to the part of the video where you talked about marriage counseling and I was interested in more of how that went, was it ever awkward or fun, details! Lol love yall
I'll be implementing these advice in my relationship and my future marriage!!! ❤ also, i'm super excited for the Miami Grand Prix!! Will Tori be watching it with you?? Love yalls! :)
@@ToriAndChad how exciting!!! Its yalls' first time watching F1 live!!! Tori is such a supportive wife! :) will yalls be recording snippets of that day? :)
As a single young lady who is praying for a godly relationship this is GOLD. I want to be a blessing to my future spouse and want to be prepared. You all inspire me! Thank you.
I am in a relationship(10 months) but I am 16 years old. My mom has been divorced 3 times and my dad has been divorced 3 times. I thrive to have a really good marriage and my boyfriend thrives to have a good marriage. His mom and dad are divorced as well and it makes us nervous and thrive to have a really good marriage. I’m nervous to ask people for advise bc I always hear your young. Do you have any advise?
Two pieces of advice: 1) God can heal anything and break any cycle - ask yourselves what are the qualities you’d want in a spouse, and what are the qualities that God wants in your spouse. And ask yourself if you’re able to be that same kind of spouse (the one God wants). 2) and yes you ARE young - But high school sweethearts are a thing sometimes, so ask yourself those big questions even at your young age. Don’t let your age prevent you from being obedient to Gods plan, only He gets to tell you who you are and what his plan for your life is… and it may include your boyfriend… it may not. Pray!!! Trust His word and his timing.
okkkkkk i'm feeling convicted about the taking critique point. A lot of the time I internalise it as someone attacking me. Will be praying for myself on that one!! Thanks guys
7:20 - A point that helps you verify wheter you're truly ready for a HEALTHY relationship or not 23:30 - The Thing you NEED to know before entering a relationship
Wow I absolutely love you 2 I have been with my partner 6 years we have 2 beautiful children together and are getting married in December next year. I really needed this ❤ thank you so much
I can't even begin to describe how impactful this video was.. it always is but as is said , the timing couldn't be more right. I just love everything you'll share and feel so blessed to being able to understand how much this helps me grow and look forward to having such qualitative conversations with my significant other( wherever he is) Just feeling so moved. Thank you as always.. so happy to see you two make such a helluva of a difference and touching soooo many lives at a go! Thank you for following your hearts and thank you youtube for showing your video one fine day during early pandemic. Lots of love ❤.
@@ToriAndChad awwwwww!! I try and write the best i can and you just make me feel so valued by your response. I'm praying for our connection to always remain so !
Sooo much goodness, wisdom and knowledge 🤩 I wish I met you guys when I was young 😉🙏 which is technically impossible of course 😂 i could not be more happy, for all the young people who have the chance to start off marriage, resourced by what you (and others in the field) share 🥰
