While I watched this video i realized that i actually do a pretty good job once i hang out with the girl. The problem for me is getting the girl to actually meet me.
I just secured a date with a girl who doesnt even like my own skin colour but I managed to make her feel so desired she ended up thinking about me when I ignored her messages. The trick is when you're texting to keep it strictly for arranging meet ups at first and if you both ain't texting at that comfortable level yet it's very difficult to have a conversation with someone who cant yet see your true value as a man. I waited a couple days for her in getting my reply across and she IMMEDIETELY asked me to go round and see her again that moment I texted her back. Its fucking true what this youtuber says man he isn't lying about the advice hes giving. This shit works now shes coming over to mine soon.. It's sad to say but you gotta play these girls at their own games make her crave your attention and when she gives into you reward her by making effort to go and see her then eventually she will feel to come visit you as you would have put in more effort to see her and she will see that!
This guy's advice is fantastic I think. It's really based on getting the chick and yourself to relax and to share a fun experience. When that happens it almost always sets the stage for sex and all that other good stuff.
I’d never get upset if someone doesn’t like the same candy as me. Why? Because that means I’ll never have to worry about them having any. More for me! :D
Lol, this stuff reminds me of the different reactions me and my friend used to get. He'd walk up to a girl and say something and they'd find it super endearing and love it. I'd say the same thing and next thing I know I'm being escorted out by security. His examples of physical teasing especially crack me up. He's talking about grabbing her, putting your arm around her, poking her in the ribs etc. The last time I tried any physical contact was at the bar with a girl I'd talked to several times throughout the night. I was walking past her and poked her in the back and smiled at her. 5 seconds later her friend approached and told me to leave her alone. If I tried to pick a girl up...pretty sure security would have me on the ground in 3.5 seconds. Now the part about HER saying "let's go back to your place"...that's just pure fiction. I've never once had a girl say anything like that in my entire life.
As someone into fashion, I often go "Oh is that YSL?" and then the girl is forced to explain that it's something cheap I go "Oh, I thought you were into fashion" and kind of pull back.
Now I just realized, when I did these naturally, how they like that. Like a really downtown girl scared by some critter in the park, I said "I like to intruduce you to somebody. XY, meet the Mother Nature" She laughed so hard she mentioned that even a week after.
I'll joke around about how tall they are and will go right up to them face to face to compare height. Gets them used to being close to you as well. If they're feeling you they might even go in for kiss lol. If they're taller I'll joke around about how my ego won't be damaged when they put on heels and end up getting to my eye level or taller.
I like to tease them by about being a trouble maker. A good example where she laughed and I ended up having a conversation and getting her number is I went to talk to her and she had a shot glass in her hand and an empty one on the table, I asked what kind of shits they were and they were vodka shots. I said I knew were a trouble maker with a big smile and we both cracked up.
I can't believe any human being could fall for such schoolish lines, and I doubt that you're using them on regular basis either. But I love listening to you mainly because you're genuinely cool, and that's reflects on our mood too.
I hate how I talk to girls, I twenty question them to death and they are boring questions. I feel board, asking them I just don’t know how to ask better ones, or be playful. I suck.
Decent looking guy checking in here and I’ve had so much success with just cocky humor. All of the other stuff to me just seems like you’re trying too hard. Go with the cocky humor and women will. Just go with it almost instinctively
Hame of thrones is not being nerdnor intellectual but mainstream, people now wants to be needs because they realized intellectuals become billionaires but that’s what it is, being really intellectual and trying to understand the world and think about it rather than pose to look like that I o increase your value in the eyes if people by trying to look smart
At 03:45 Eh I'm legit autistic, so yeah. (Or as I prefer to say, I'm Gold, titanium, sulfur, titanium and carbon: Au, Ti, S, Ti, C.) Fr tho, any advice for guys with disorders like autism and the like?
autism mostly works like severe introversion. Maybe I have that too, so I searched for "dating as an introvert" and similar stuff. How can you make a move without a word or body language that's unconfortable (with a book you read, the printing of your shirt, etc) E.G.: your description in the brackets printed on a shirt as elements probably catch the attention of the geeky ones.
Nicknames:- Current girl is a school nurse. I call her 'Nitty Nora'. When we were kids the school nurse would inspect hair for nits ('Nitty Nora... Hair Explorer') Always cracks her up.
If the girl is an actually super nerdy book worm... doesnt wear much make up... socially awkward, etc, THEN she might get offended by being called a dork. I'm pretty nerdy and I HATE being called a dork. IMO, dork is worse than nerd, so if you want to err on the side of caution, say nerd.
Argh! I don't know how to do any of this... I'm gonna need a lot of practice... High anxiety is my problem, but maybe I am lower down on the autism spectrum too?
@@TheSingleGuy I guess a beginner's mindset...dealing w rejections and flakes but still having that long term goal in mind. Handling ego blows basically
One teasing flirty things i use with girls i date(after 1st date) that yall can use is, around the middle of the date i tell them i ve a secret and say i m a ghost and only she can see me n tell em a story why thats convincing... this gets them kinda scared n creates an emotional rollercoaster... then u can say u were kidding n try to comfort her with a hug, kiss, etc... another one is i say it wanst me on the first date i m the twin brother .. one twin is good n one s evil which one do you think i m and which one would u prefer. Please share ur special techniques too
@@ChristopherFF07 I've had experience here. Depends on a few things but generally not a good idea when you've just met. Girls can be quite insecure with their English, and so teasing them about it might make . However I have long term "friends" and I make fun of their English all the time
Here's a good one of mine... [Sit down next to two hot girls, raise your eyebrows twice quickly, then smile...] "Look at you two -sitting next to a cute random guy... How thrilling! I'm jealous! Tell me all about your experience. Is it getting you all hot and bothered? Weak at the knees??" etc. xD
So I am in class with a smoking hot girl im talking straight up Aphrodite Body and Beauty but I overheard a conversation she had with friends about fast food and how they loved eating it after a night out and partying and how they loved to watch netflix on a sunday and just laying in bed so I assumed she is very down to earth and chill to hang out with. I thought to myself that this is the jackpot and I gotta make a move quick before someone else might snatch her up you know... so i started teasing her now and then and we exchanged only a few sentences but it was pretty fun but that one time I tried giving her a nickname and since she was flawless i called her "model" and made a bit of fun of how she wouldnt be one with her eating junk food and being lazy... well turns out she was actually modelling and worked hard for it and she didnt liked that AT ALL. So my Advice, get to know her a bit better than I did in that situation before making those teasing jokes! :D I learned from it and we later even hooked up both shit faced af but hey it counts and now we're pretty close :)
Dude quiet freaking out. Having sense of humor is a sign of intelligence, awareness, and tolerance. If she can't focus on how you say it, rather than what you say, then that's her problem. Everyone deserves a good laugh not bring your bullshit insecurities into the mix.
