What sucks is when you are a shy guy and a shy girl likes you and you like her but neither of you say anything and don't find out until one of you are already married to someone else
Unfortunately, THIS is the situation I'm in. There's this one girl who I've heard liked to talk about me with her friends and parents, but I'm just afraid that I might be getting the wrong idea when I finally talk to her. Or she ignores me due to shyness, which will make me look awkward and/or creepy. EDIT: Except that I'm still young and still have a chance. Gotta increase my courage. When they say, "Go ahead and talk to her", they probs haven't realized it's much easier said than done.
there's a guy iv liked for years and his friends and classmates all say he likes me too but we're both shy af so neither of us makes a move and it's very infuriating
theblitz233 well if she truly is the shy girl she might have trouble to bring it back up, you should've pursued her instead. Then ask her for an answer. Not neccesarily immeadiatly but give her some time and then just ask again if she says not then u can give up
I thank God I have a wonderful big business and am still in my 30s. Meeting a good life partner is much easier for me as I want to pamper my woman and give her security
Kyler Curtis go for it dude, don't be shy just try your luck. I always take chances wen it comes to girl's even if I get a rejection I at least know i tryed.
I've been in a relationship with an extremely shy girl for more than a year now, and I have to say all these tips are accurate. And some of them even continue when you're dating. Sometimes you'll confuse that behaviour with disinterest but believe me it's just the way some girls are.
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00:30 She Lurks or "Stalks" you. 00:59 She Eavesdrops 01:18 She's Got a Dominant Digital Persona 01:47 You Cool Down Her Social Circle 02:04 Inconsistent Verbal and Body Language 02:34 Low PDA (Public Display of Affection 02:58 Muted Flirting 04:04 She Gets Wing-Girled 04:23 Indirect Opportunities to Hang Out 04:54 She Always Breaks Eye Contact First 05:16 Shy Girl Outro
This video is definitely accurate considering I'm a shy girl. It's really hard not to be awkward and nervous around guys you like. It's also way easier chatting online than in real life.
Everything makes sense now! Not long ago this girl liked me but mainly online and dodged flirting. One day she talked on the phone (a rare occasion) and puts her cousin on the phone with me. She was super flirty with me and before long we exchanged numbers and began dating. Then the other girl was suddenly pissed at me told us both off. She acted liked she was not intrested in me i liked her but felt it wasn't going to fly cause she didn't like me. I was wrong she really did care. Lesson learned. I'll have to consider these things next time.
Doughboy Uhh yeah no, It’s called being heartbroken. She was too shy to talk to him so she put her cousin on the phone and the cousin won over the girls future mans. How would you react to someone stealing your crush you had a great chance with? Ain’t no one acting like a child in this situation.
Big tips (from a shy girl) I tend to not flirt with my crush. I stay away from him, like super far away Putting my head down when he’s close Looking around at everyone but always skips looking at my crush Tips to get to talk to her: Start a small conversation, like, I like your dress, wanna be partners (for a school project), or just a simple hi and smile. Get closer and closer to her, and smile. (Trust me, us shy girls like smiles) Look at her all the time, (don’t stare, that’s creepy) The biggest tip I can give y’all is to start it off with a simple convo, and just start it of from there when she seems comfortable. (Also, get close to her, start complimenting her, stroke her hair (gentle, and not in a creepy way) and yea, but if my crush ever comes up to me he has to do the first move. )
One good thing, if you think the shy girl likes you, and you like her too and there's this strange eye contact and connection, there's a chance that she really likes you. Just because sometimes we get attracted to similarities. But, the girl immediately loses interest if she realizes you did not meet her expectations when you start talking. My advice, don't fall in love for someone you just met on a cafe or someone you see in the street. There must be mutual friends or you see each other everyday. You have to know the person. Also don't expect and don't assume.
I will not comply with these wishlists on how a man should study tons of materials just be able to guess what girls want. I'll stick to the ones that you can treat like a human without them responding weirdly.
There was once when I was waiting in line and I stood next to 3 of my girl classmates just to use my phone and all of them went silent. It was one of the most awkward moment of my life.
I was ridiculously oblivious to when women are interested in me, but just recently I started paying more attention to a woman’s body language. I saw 3 different incredibly beautiful women recently whom I can confidently say that I think they were interested in me, now I just have to push myself to ask for their number after the conversation, lol. 😅 Here’s what I looked for. 1) When you catch them looking at you first. 2) You catch them looking at you consistently. 3) They smile or laugh easily when you talk to them. 4) They seem to enjoy your company. 5) They fidget with their hands or hair. 6) They look back at you when they walk away. 7) They blush. 8) They ask you questions. 9) They try to get close to you. I have noticed that all of these are really good body language signals that a shy woman is most likely interested in you. Now, I just need to take my own advice and just ask for their social media or even phone number. 😂🤓
Shy girls are so funny to watch. Just today I was waiting to go through a cashier and two girls come up behind me. The other lane is open but they refuse to go. Then the one girl says something and the other girl leaves us. Then the one still there is turned at me but looking away hard. So I step closer and just stare at her and she won't budge. So I turn back and she puts her hands on my cart like shes with me. I just chuckled at her. I wish you shy girls would at least look at us so we know whats up a little easier lol.
10) creepy 9) Nosy 8) fakes herself 7) sike 6) awkward 5) cared so much abt others' pov 4) mute 3) using her best friend 2) demanding 1) creeping - from men w trust issue and paranoid
the last part is complicated because sometimes I purposefully avoid eye contact completely with my crush for a couple of days just in case I've been too obvious. This might just be me idk.
Bruhhhhhh wtf that explains why when I would walk by this one group of girls this one girl that I was kinda interested in would glance at me real quick and when I would look back she would look away real quick and one of the friends from that group would ask me questions while the rest would stay back. Dam I hope I get opportunity to get to talk to here once this quarantine is over and we’re back to school.
as a shy girl I find this quite accurate except for the part about her friends... I dont tell my friends if I like a guy because if I tell them it’s over and he’s surely gonna find out cause they’re going to make it so obvious
Dude stop sayin this to yourself! Life is too short for this garbage. Girls doesnt fall in love with face, muscles and shit. Go out there and just BE yourself. I know this sound like everyother life advice but trust me. Girl will like you for your personality. Remember that REJECTION last for a moment and you can REGRET your entire life. I speak from my own experience not chasing girls I liked back in the days haunts me every now and then and this sucks. I believe in you!
I almost never saw a girl display any hints of interest. If a girl is shy and makes sure to never show the least bit of interest, then it is preposterous to expect a guy to interpret anything about her as a sign she would like to be approached. At least in my own life, I always had to do 100% of the effort to express my interest, never the other way around. And it wasn't easy for me, because I was never very outgoing either.
I’m autistic and this channel is helping me a little bit. I like this girl in my church but she is giving some signs of attraction to me, but because of my Autism, I struggle with reading facial cues, and body language cues. I’m scared to tell her, and I think if she is interested in me, she’s scared too. I think. Again I’m still incredibly confused. Thanks for making these videos.
I am a business college recruiter and I have been talking to a shy girl at the same college. She always tells me about her being and her family especially her mom. She always tells me about certain situations and people who she likes and dislikes at the college. She always concerned about me alot. She gave me her cell phone number and we always text each other but I have to text her first. She always listen to me and asking me a bunch of questions. Last month I seen a black man who hit his black girl friend when I tried to help her out. He threatened me when I texted her about the situation. She replied that he could have a gun and shoot me or he could have a knife and stabbed me. I asked her out and she said she only wants to be friends with me. She always approaches me every time at the college. She always fling her hair and constantly smiles at me. She lives in East Los Angeles and I live somewhere else. She told me by next month she is done with the college and will find a job. But she is looking for a job near the college area. I am somewhat closing to the college than she is. Few times she hugged me, shakes my hand, and put her arm around me. She told me she will find out how to get to my house. Few times she asked me about my age. I am part German and she is from Mexico, no problem there. She knows that I speak German and she told me that she wants to speak German. She does all of this as a friend no dating as boyfriend and girlfriend? I at time think I should give her some time to open up to me as a dating couple. I have few female friends at the college but she is more than the other ones. I talked to a female friend from her class and she told me about it.
Steve Baer this girl is friend zone you my brutha she is using your non sexual attention for nothing to give because you are like a walking trophy to her she is using you for your attention , bro girls are not stupid please bleive that , girls are smarter than boys when it comes to relashionships , stand for your self and be more clear stop waisting your time and your energy for absolutly nothing , bro this is called friend zoning the male , using the male , so do a favor for yourself and be a cutthrow person , either she accept to be your woman or she must fuck off
You got friend zoned. There will be no way out unless you become successful. If you still hope of getting a relationship forget it. Why would she get into a relationship with you if you’re already giving her that attention and she doesn’t have to give you sex? Exactly, she wouldn’t.
It was sad when I texted to my crush who I thought she was shy. But, she never reply to my text. It was sad. Heart_broken moments. But, at least I know she does not like me. I can move on now.
@@theworkdonebymeandyou2145 true. I had my girlfriend cheat on me in 6th grade because from my understanding, she does that alot. In Seventh grade, I know this Russian girl who frequently looks at me from a distance in Guitar class. One time, I caught her look at me and she just smiled and turned to her friend beside her (take note, this is in seventh grade and is happening to me lately, lol). Before, I didn't have that many feelings towards her but I noticed our connection is getting stronger by the second. I like her alot, but I don't feel like it's the time for me to ask her yet since I am shy just like she is.
@@hodor9851 Well I liked this girl but when I asked her, I had no answer. This was heart-breaking. But, you have to know there are other girls in life. Yes, that girl was my crush but she is not the only "fish in this bowl". Girls are just girls. You can always have other girls. Have a good day friend. By the way, she looks kinda ok. I liked her was because she got that body. Anyway, I think God did not want me to have her because you know half of my feelings for her were lust.
@@theworkdonebymeandyou2145 lol, what a coincidence, my crush has "that body" too. But I mean, sexual attraction to a girl in that way is human nature and is ok, however, it is best to just keep it private at such age (specially towards her). I really wish you the best in life buddy, prayers.
I am so oblivious to girls that are interested and flirting me, there were 3 ladies back in my college years that was hitting on me that I totally missed, it always comes to me meeting someone that happened to know both me and those ladies on a get together party and they telling me that I was a morom for not knowing lol
Same, after going out for a pint with the boy's the next day my friends had a right go at me! Why didn't you talk to the two girls who followed you into every pub we went into? What two girls.....? The one's who were standing right behind you ALL night??? I don't have eyes in the back of my head!!!!!!
I have a few tips that I think can help. I think I’m good looking. I don’t look at myself that way though. But I’ve only ever pursued one girl I’ve ever been with. All the others have pursued me. I’m mega slow on picking up on signals so they have to be plain obvious for me to notice, which I don’t think girls mind if they’re into you. They like reservedness in guys. Just be yourself and be nice. Don’t get caught in the trap where you think treating them mean to keep them keen will work. Give women more credit than that. Plus if that’s not you deep down, then women will sense you’re a fake. Look women in the eyes when you talk to them, and that engages them too. Carry yourself well when you walk because women take notice of posture. You ever noticed a hot girl’s good posture and found it attractive? Dress sharp, have good shoes and don’t have a sh*t haircut. Smelling nice by use of cologne goes a long way too. Smile at girls because a lot of girls love a guy’s smile.
Ben Silveston Boi I'm in that same situation too, according to u, if she is often making eye contact with me and I don't show her my interest but she keep doing it everyday, does she feel something for me ? Knowing that we have a past with love because I was interest into her but she told me after 6 months "It's not natural" and now, 3 months later she seems trying to get my attention. What do you think about that ? Please help me, I'm lost ...
Christophe Françoise Sounds like she likes you mate. ☺ People can change their thoughts and feelings overtime. I think based on what you're saying here, this girl is doing that. Should thus return those thoughts and feelings back to her and see where it leads. ☺
Kent Lilly We spoke and she was very comfortable with me, we laughed and did a kind of flirting etc very cool but I think she is not ready to have a boyfriend but she knows that I'm a good person and she wants to keep me on hand maybe for later
I’m one of the popular guys but whenever I go near my crush around her friends she says ew and makes sure I hear it, she talks to me when we’re alone and when around her friends acts like she hates me 🤔
Thanks your videos helped me alot and i think some tips,tricks, and ways are always helpful and i notice my crush something a Little different than usual
What does it mean when a girl gives you these signs and then when you tell her you like her she says she always thought your pretty cool and likes talking to you but isn't on the same page? She did literally everything in this video.
There's no such thing as a shy girl -- at least not if the girl in question is more on the attractive side. If she is, she'll have experienced male attention since her early teens. And that does something to a girl. Something that lets her be neither shy nor nice. Speaking as a man in his mid-40s, I met exactly 1 (ONE) beautiful woman in my entire life who was despite her looks...no, not really shy, but very gentle, very caring. I'm with her for 10 happy years now, and I know I've been damn lucky. It's like finding a needle in a haystack. So many spoiled girls out there.
I gotta call BS on that one, bro. Don't get me wrong, I'm glad you've found a woman you love, but shy girls - even attractive shy girls - are a real thing.
WITH THE TIPS FROM YOUR VIDS EVERY GIRL IN THE SCOOL FLIRTS ME.I am in the first clash of junior highschool and my school is a junior highschool and a highscool too.You are the best keep it up.!
These are "fun, keep you guessing" ways? Not really. By the time a woman is out of college and into middle age she is confident enough to approach most guys. If her body language and words don't match and her flirting is confusing you (usually because she will flirt and touch then back off when you make a move and insist she doesn't want anything or she will mix compliments with insults) she is being manipulative, abusive, and trying to control you for attention, money, etc. The best thing is to directly ask her out and get her to commit to something (a date, sex, etc). Then she will figure out you aren't a target and will leave you alone.
Being honest and upfront shouldn't scare a woman away. My experience is that "keep you guessing signs" from women never end in a relationship. If I think she likes me I ask her out. That's the quickest way to determine her intentions. If she really is too shy (but honest and sincere) then she might have too many issues that will prevent a serious relationship anyway, but that's pretty rare. I have seen a few women who act shy but then as soon as they find "the one" they commit and completely change their behavior. If a person wants someone bad enough they will get over their shyness.
Lilyan Pittas then shy girls don't deserve a boyfriend or husband. They should at least have the respect to respond to a guy with a yes or no. If they say no then the guy should never give her a shot again. She isn't worth his time, effort or money.
this stuff seems pretty common sense to me at least. I can spot when someone likes someone quickly...however rarely have I seen any girls seem attracted to me 😒. One or 2 times I have but I didn’t feel the same way
Since I'm in middle school every girl is shy. My crush and I were friends in kindergarden and crushed on eachother. I still feel we may have the same intentions for each other. But instead of just confessing I'd like to become friends with her and get to know her again. I'm gr8 and she is gr7 so I have limited time to make the move. Tips? I feel if we become friends again it will carry further over time based on our history and present. Wish me luck! I really think it will work, just need bravery.
That’s my friend Hanna everyday I went to he but she was always fixing her hair or dress. She was shy and I’m slowly making her get out her shell We gonna see toy story 4🥰🥰🥰
Warning don’t date a girl if y’all barely talk is going be super awkward and that = break up first build a friendship the when you think y’all talk a lot go ahead and ask them out
Yeah I got a shy girl crush that I’m almost positive likes me back. She likes to do stuff funny to make me laugh and she plays with her hair a lot. Like in class we use computers and I sit behind her and she likes to flop her hair on my screen and she loves doing because we laugh together about it.
I am not with that girl Guadalupe and I am very extremely glad she is gone for good. She was rude behavior to me and I told her that I will block her and I did. She probably feel bad about it and I don't care. I am still a business college recruiter and I am very extremely happy that she left.
Me personally I talk to my crushes more than I talk to other people, I don't completing avoid eye contact I'll glance up every now and then because I really want to make eye contact, the most noticable sign is starring if you catch any girl starring you down (as women we always try to avoid starring) she likes you. Also a girl might stalk you, not in a creepy way small things like walking past you at lunch or going to the bathroom just to check on you because, she's hoping you might talk to her.
If she is avoiding eye contact it means she doesn't like you. I am suffering from this same situation. So please make a video on HOW TO APPROACH or relate to a shy girl
There's this girl in my school, when me and two of my friends were in the cafe they saw that this girl was staring at me and she passes by me a few times during lunch and recess and when she does I see her looking deeply into my eyes and then she looks away quickly, she seems shy. Does she like me?
The no eye contact thing is BS. I work with women who seem standoffish, no eye contact, don't say anything, awkward etc. Well turns out a few a few are attracted to me. Also some women won't talk to me but will react to my conversation or be talking to someone I'm talking to, but not me directly. Or laughs to things I say indirectly or someone talking to me. If you're around a woman and she gives you that awkward feeling, she most likely feels the same. Another sign is If she talks to everyone pretty candidly but doesn't talk to you at all. Unless you're a creeper haha.
On the final note, I would like to add that there is a difference between actively avoiding and passively avoiding eye contact. If a girl is actively trying to avoid eye contact especially if she is walking *right in front of you* (like passing through hallways at work/school) there's a good chance she's into you. On the flip side, if she just goes back to what she's doing, I wouldn't bother. Use the Force all you young Skywalkers, but don't let those feelings that serve you well cloud your judgment! If something doesn't feel right, chances are, it's not. If all else fails, and you get too caught up in over-analyzing things, just go for it! Even if you make a complete fool of yourself or (God forbid) things turn sideways, who cares! There's no such thing as failures, only learning experiences. Hope that helps!
Thanks for the feedback, man! You make a really good point about eye contact. And I really like your perspective on "failure." Thanks for joining the conversation!
But when I got the chance to look at my crush when he's not looking :0 I stares and bloody heck I don't break because I was trying to be brave so he breaks the eye contact first :DD :0 I'm in love
