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No, you shouldn't ask either of these questions. Let me show you why Does she deserve me? No. Then don't chase her. In fact don't waste time interact with her at all. Does she deserve me? Yes. I'm the angel here to save her from her pathetic life, I will show her why she deserves me. Wait, why did she just say I'm creepy? See, this won't get you anywhere. You will end up getting a girl you don't like, or single forever
1.her feet pointed at you 2.she mentions she have free time 3.she drop hint about what she enjoys doing 4.she fixes clothes or jewelry around you 5.she will find a way to touch you 6.she finds a way to talk with you 7. She plays with her jewelry 8. She sit close to you 9. She points her feet toward you 10. She looks at you, she smile and look down
No.. the fear in making a move comes from the fact a lot of women take PLEASURE in rejecting men. They gain power from it. It's easy for women to say we want to be pursued because some don't understand the feeling of being DIRECTLY rejected. Most women don't recover from that.
I'm so sorry to hear that's happened to you! It sounds like there have been a lot of toxic women in your life. Here are some videos that will help you identify that they are toxic sooner so you can avoid them ru-vid.com/group/PLsQq0KK7pJ-VyeTDmwCE46a85Pme0uqRA Remember that toxic women use good guys while classy women love and respect good guys. The key is to know how to attract the classy women instead.
I was going to post this exact statement bro! I'm here because this just happened after building the courage to approach. I felt the power shift when I got her number. She looked at me like "chase over".
@@piotrwaniek sure I will. I am done with this crap, that are relationships... 50 bucks, no drama, no kids, no money gone, no lies, no fake living. Plus the only job I know, they are really good at. There sure will never ever be another woman, who will enter my private life. Those 5 I had, were a lesson. And what an expensive one. Not only moneywise. I dont take part in this game anymore. :) Have a heart for hookers. :)
Jesus Loves you Matthew 11:28 come to me all who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest. As well as Romans 6:23 for the wages of sin is death but the gift of God (Jesus who died on the cross for our sins) is eternal life. As long as you put your faith and trust in Him.😊!!!!!
@@jakemandude7974 what? The video is talkin about men an women wanting to be together. An the first thing you comment is, Jesus loves you Matthew? An that to me is a totally different kinda love. Unless I’m missing something? Or that’s your interpretation of what’s being said in the Bible? Or it’s on purpose? Or you just happened for some crazy reason, you just mistakenly made the wrong comment on the wrong video…..😮😂
The whole "Pursue her or she will feel bad" thing is what really annoys me. If you are flirting for ages and the guy doesn't make a move why don't you do it? Why does it have to fall onto men to do it? A lot of us don't want to be accused of harassment or face the embarrassment of being wrong about signs..
@@thomasshannon9662 maybe bc shes married? I’d say she MAY have been giving you the signs of interest just to see if she could hook you into approaching her. ATTENTION & VALIDATION is a huge deal for women.
That's why every guy should just make a movie right after high school. Kind of like a thesis statement. If a woman ever wants you to make a movie, you'll already have your demo ready for her decide wether she really wants to invest 6 million dollars into your "Lord of the Rings 4" idea
If someone else is interested in you and too cowardly to make a move that is not a missed opportunity. This isn't the 1950s. Well, maybe you missed the opportunity to watch re-runs of friends, babysit someone's cat, listen to them whine about their studies or day at work and meet their lovely family.
One just came to mind where she totally suggested this adult night at the Exploratorium (a science museum in San Francisco) as a neat thing to do. She was nervous and giggly around me. Even fussed with her hair. She was absolutely gorgeous, petite, perfect. But young. I was probably twenty-five years older than her. I felt it would be creepy to ask if she wanted to go together. She even came to my work when she was leaving her job near where I worked to say bye. I'm such an idiot. So many of these I just have to laugh instead of cry.
I was a repair tech & the way my girlfriend let me know she was interested when as I was working on her workstation she went to the water cooler, bent at the waist & looked back at me with a smile.
@@Kamadev888 I could see a lot of people having an issue with how you’re framing what you’re saying, but in essence when a woman is laughing at something that you’re saying, you could literally be saying some of the most disgusting things in the world and they will still find it charming in the moment.
"The signs are very subtle"..... "What are you doing this weekend? Wanna go to Chipotle with me??" If any guy misses this, he has bigger problems than trying to find a date. Also, this never happens.
I've been studying social dynamics for over 15 years and I'd say most, if not all of what she is saying is on point. I want to add something about the eye-contact thing. If a woman looks at you and then looks down, it is a sign of submission. If you see this, she's likely attracted to you. It's then your job as a man to figure out on a scale of one to 10 what level of attraction she's feeling and then calibrate your approach/interaction accordingly. If she looks to the side after making eye contact, that is a sign she is unsure about you. This puts her attraction for you in the 1-5 range. Again socially calibrate accordingly. If she looks up after making eye contact with you, she's not interested. She sees herself as above/better than you. Remember, women want to be with a man they perceive as better than them. This creator is generating some valuable material, but know that these are the very, very basics she's teaching. The rabbit hole goes much, much deeper.
O dear. Thing is that their social skills are often not really existent. Think little girl level. So your acting like a man as you put it could go nowhere.
Jesus Loves you Matthew 11:28 come to me all who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest. As well as Romans 6:23 for the wages of sin is death but the gift of God (Jesus who died on the cross for our sins) is eternal life. As long as you put your faith and trust in Him.😊!!!!!
To be frank, I think todays women are a different breed of head ache. I think i'll leave well alone. I do believe your right in what you state. Also all that good advice is good advice in the days of pre dating apps, dating apps have really done damage and made relationships disposable.
Help me guys I met a girl who is a friend of a friend for the first time the other day. I can't tell if she was lowkey into me or if it was in my head. Signs: - she helped me put my wristband on for the event- touched my arm a lot - made a flirtatious comment but I brushed it off because I wasn't sure how to respond - After this I think she was unsure about me but I stood close to her and she didn't seem bothered by it - we talked a lot throughout the day - she waited behind to talk to me when our other friends walked ahead However: - she hugged me very awkwardly when we said goodbye, like almost a half hug, it's hard to tell because she was wearing cos play so maybe she just couldn't move very well... She was worried that I was uncomfortable because her and some of her friends are very sexually out there, I'm not used to it but I'm open minded so I was just being myself (kind of aloof, witty and analytical). I don't want to be someone else just to impress others, but at the same time, I don't want to express that I'm not into someone when I actually am. Please help! I have aspergers btw
Hey coach, if you want to know the signs for when a guy is interested in a girl since you said it was hard to know. I know.....if a guy looks and checks you out or approaches and engages with you no matter how confident or shy he may act means he's definitely interested. If he looks but doesn't walk up he could be very shy or think you are out of his league. So if he tries to say something to you at all, he's interested. That's it. You're welcome
Having a girl feel comfortable with you is key! Nobody talks about this enough for most guys to understand. You have to be a woman to understand instinctually. Most men don’t realize this because they don’t know what it’s like to be a woman.
I think it would be insanity for a man to actually think like a woman. We can still know about them, but a man needs to think like a man, not a woman. If we thought like women, then there is no man left. We have to love ourselves as God intended.
Shes flirting until you respond in kind then she was just having fun. They just like to fuq around with guys they arent interested in. When chad rolls up they aint flirting they just grab n go.
This is true. In my experience if i had a girl into me she made it known, there was no flirting. Flirty girls just like to tease guys theyre not into because theyre not into them.
I like the way you smile, shake your body blinking your eyes and laughing always while making your points such women like you are always happy and hardly get annoyed.
She is the one that reached out to me. We have known each other for many years. We use to work together. We met for some coffee and I made some of the mistakes you mentioned in your podcast. We shared a lot of personal information with each other. She initiated the personal information. I probably talked TOO MUCH. I reached out to her a couple of days later and set up another date. She agreed to meet me again.
I started falling for this one girl that I didn’t think I would end up liking till I started hanging around her with people and seeing how nice she is towards people.
Jesus Loves you Matthew 11:28 come to me all who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest. As well as Romans 6:23 for the wages of sin is death but the gift of God (Jesus who died on the cross for our sins) is eternal life. As long as you put your faith and trust in Him.😊!!!!!
Same goes for me. But, I think I fell for my crush the more time we spent together. After at least 4 weeks of hanging out with her, I got the courage to confess my feelings for her and she said she feels the same way. I then asked her out like 15 mins later after some awkward silence and she said "sure"
A response to these tips from a shy Christian girl: 1. Yes!! 2. Maybe? I wouldn’t want to open that door because I don’t want to be the pursuer, I want to be pursued. 3. Yep! 4. Maybe yeah, I usually like to keep the convo about the other person though 5. Yes!! 6. Yep! 7. Ope yep 8. Ehh maybe? 9. Yes! 10. Yeah 11. Sometimes sure 12. Very true 13. YEP
3:46 another part to this: *“She Mentions She Has Free Time.”* Even if she doesn’t have free time. If she mentions *“she doesn’t have free time,”* but *“she invites you to tag along,”* means she honestly doesn’t have free time, but she wants you to come along. If you reject it; then she will think you’re not interested.
I always have women look at me, smile, and look away. Fun fact: it's involuntary. It's not some contrived or premeditated tactic. And they don't stop doing it unless they're no longer interested.
Some women are just generally flirty. Flirting isnt always a way of interest. The other signs probably more fitting if she doesnt engadge with others the other signs.
You describe women’s actions as if they are children. You make them out to be irrational. Your description of women’s behavior is telling men to consider them as teenagers. It’s great advice, seriously.
That is so true! These videos will give you more information about this. ru-vid.com/group/PLsQq0KK7pJ-WjotkCVLvYKp30QhuvcKDN The more signs you see the better! Best of luck!👍
@@jerseysteelfitness6927 Thanks for the advice I actually work a heavy customer service based job as well so I'm pretty damn near confident I can lead any conversation and talk about pretty much anything with anyone. I think it's more so the environment that trips me up and the fact that I see this person often. Although I can deal with rejection I kinda want to be more sure than usual that it'll swing my way. But there is also this professional environment that at least to me makes me feel like I'm not in control. Perhaps it's the fact there is other barbers around and people in the waiting area so finding that opening is tough.
I got divorced 6 months ago. When my ex wife first told me she wanted a divorce, I went to the supermarket to pick up some stuff. A woman who was shopping kept looking at me and smiling. Like an idiot I didn't approach her. I guess I was just upset because of getting divorced. Guess it wasn't meant to be. I was always told to wait at least one year from the day of your divorce to start dating again.
Hmm, seems you made a vow, did you not, that you only part when you die, correct (till death do you part)? So the answer is, as long as she's alive, whether you're technically with her or not, your marital vow doesn't permit you to re-marry. And yes, it seems most people in today's society couldn't care less about the vows they make. You weren't an idiot BTW, you were being faithful to your wife. Divorce doesn't end your vows to her. See this quote of a part of a Christian marital vow, in case you got one of those: Officiant: “ ________ do you take ________ to be your husband/wife? Do you promise to love, honor, cherish and protect him/her, forsaking all others and holding only to him/her forevermore?” I will also add, that the vow lasts not only for every moment the ex-wife lives, for you (and her both), but also it terminates when either of you die. The vow I quoted here, I don't actually agree with, because I notice (although I don't think I quoted the entire thing) it not only says nothing about "till death do you part" but makes the mistake, technically, of saying you'll hold only to her "forevermore" and that's nonsense. Marriage terminates when one of them dies, plus there is no marriage in Heaven, so you wouldn't be married to them there either. It seems with that wording, it would prohibit you from remarrying with the death of the spouse. This is the vows I think you see most frequently on tv and movies, which is actually the catholic one, and notice the difference compared to the quoted one above "I, ________, take you, ________, for my lawful wife/husband, to have and to hold from this day forward, for better, for worse, for richer, for poorer, in sickness and health, until death do us part."
I was in the meat aisle talking to a girl once and she said she was making chili and I said I was barbecuing. She said I like barbecues, and I said have a good day. 😩
She may want you to make the first move, but my experience suggests it is better to wait until she makes the first move. Whenever I have done this, it always ends in rejection.
I've been battling asking someone out for quite awhile. The opportunity was there, but the setting was inappropriate. I'm seeing her next week, and this video gave me so much more confidence in the fact that I'm doing the right thing. I'm making my move when we hang out next, and I'm pretty sure she'll reciprocate, and understand why I hadn't before.
Jesus Loves you Matthew 11:28 come to me all who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest. As well as Romans 6:23 for the wages of sin is death but the gift of God (Jesus who died on the cross for our sins) is eternal life. As long as you put your faith and trust in Him.😊!!!!!
Thank you…. Love it, could you do a series to educate women to just approach us men offering a pint of best and say “will you go out with me” that would help me out hopefully . But seriously I will try to remember all this 😊 thanks again
...great point. Rather than trying to educate men on the 4,934 ways women "just maybe, might, kinda, sorta" be interested in you, perhaps put focus on women being a bit more direct...just a thought.
Bad thing is I only meet women where I work... I'm a manager at a fast food restaurant, yes I see 90% of these signs, all at once most of the time... but anytime I try to make a move it seems that I've misconstrued it all, or they just seem to want me to chase harder
I have learned I’ve the past 20 years of dating relationships and heart breaks that women don’t know what they want out of a man or relationship. I am in my mid 40’s. I have made my move before to a woman that I thought was into me. She showed me signs that she wanted me to kiss her , she would tell people that I am her boyfriend. Then she moved to another state.
I found girls crossing there legs and thought this was a bad sign. To be honest grown to like it, but i have found attention plays a small role. I do believe you still have her attention, its a way of maybe dulling or fading out the background. I have found this to be a singel good sign. Thanks again Melannie!
I once chuckled at one of my female co-workers because she reached for her phone instantly--almost frantically--when I said hello to her in line at the cafeteria. I have no way of knowing what she was thinking, but I got the general idea after working with her for a while that she was uninterested in socializing with anyone, male or female, who fell beneath her personal standards. She was just kind of a mean person--so in the end I considered her not wanting anything to do with me a win.
Okay, so what happens when you're pretty sure she's giving you a signal, but when you ask, she insists it's not a signal, yet she still acts hurt afterwards like you rejected her? in a situation like that, should you move forward as though it was a real signal, or should you take her at her word, and do nothing?
The smart thing is to always accept that no means no. If she's playing the "chase me" game, she's telling you to prove that you deserve her. It's a narcissistic attitude that means everything will be about her, and that every day in a relationship with her will be the equivalent of taking a final exam. It will not be an equal-partnership relating dynamic; it will be a Mistress/servant dynamic.
Most times girls/women dont know what they want so they are ambiguous on purpose. This prevents them from building dead ends and thus you are always an option. I think you need to understand that women are human like us dudes. They get confused and are driven by emotion like us. The difference is that men don't get nearly as much attention from girls as we give them. Provided you are not rich or handsome. My point is this girl you describing hasn't matured yet mentally and is most likely stringing you along for something she gets from you. The sooner you realise what the better. Be careful my dudes not all women are good for you. Bonus tip this might sound like a bad idea on paper but don't focus on 1 girl in your life... rather have multiple. Especially if you never had a real relationship before. the reason is that you are training your mind to not give 1 woman all the attention. As soon as a woman can discern that they just need to sneeze and you will be there. You have already lost. You not going to ever going to be in a relationship with that gal. Women are strange but the best advice I can give you is focus your life on yourself and socials and mingle when need be but don't make any woman the centre of your life. Unless you married lol... but even still some mystery never hurt nobody but that's a topic for another day.
Melannie, this is without a doubt the best post I've seen. Well explained, excellent description and several things we men have little to no clue about....that being asking for directions! Lady, I swear you are the GPS of "subtle signs" travel guide! Very well done!
sometimes you are sure there are signs, you are careful, you wait to be like 500% sure, "this can't be just being friendly, this has to mean something", but when you ask her out, she says "I see you only as a friend".
Men may be aprehensive to "making a move" in the first place is because of the behavioral inconsistencies with the modern women. Rejection should never be taken personally.
I scored almost all the points you mention and in our third date, she was calling/texting me all the tlme, she even paid a dinner, waiters had to ask us to leave because whe could not stop talking , whe even touched hands, rubbed,, touch arms legs, etc and at the 4th date she went 100% cold....now she ghosting me and i am frustred. Whyyyyy??? Makes no sense to me, it was such a great week and now she takes hours to answers my texts, doesnt want to talk to me ..ITS FRUSTRATING.. I REALY LIKE THAT GIRL.. But i am not gonna chase her. 🤕
Just reading this message, you are coming across too full on, and your insecurities are kicking in, making you less attractive, and come across more of a crazy dude. I imagine you've sent text after text, saying "Are you OK?" to then "Have I upset you?", "Why aren't you answering me?" So she is probably thinking, "Wow, this guy is just too full on, I need some space..." (Maybe a past relationship she had with a guy, was like this, that alarm bells are ringing, and she's seeing the same traits in you?) You need to be more laid back! If you don't hear from someone in 24hrs, don't panic, she could of just had a hectic day. If she likes you, she will contact you.
Last girl that did these to me and approached me was there with her bf. I didn’t make a move on that. A lot of women like to just get attention even though they have no intention of being with you. The look and look away thing is stupid when they do it with a group of friends. Their friends will sabotage it.
This is quite important information that I wish I'd known years ago. I used to know a girl/woman called Shelly, she was lovely in every way. She displayed all of these signs to me everytime I saw her, I thought she was being nice and that's all. When I was shopping for clothes and saw her in town, she offered to come with me and help me choose clothes. My man brain thought two things 1. She's saying I have poor taste in clothes (I used to wear tailored suits most of the time so I didn't think I had bad taste). 2. I'm sure she's got better things to do. I don't want to waste her time. 22 years later I'm certain she was trying to spend time with me but I didn't take the hint (I never have) even the time when she grabbed my belt when we were at a party and tried to pull me away from the girl I was chatting to, didn't see it for what it was. And I was more interested in talking about Guns N' Roses to this other female because I assumed I and Shelly were friends and nothing else. I wonder if the fact that I grew up in a house with no dad but 2 sisters and my mum left me without the ability to read female mannerisms in this way, I always think they're just being friendly and because I am a joker my assumption was always that women liked talking to me because I could make them laugh easily, not because they were attracted to me. I'm happily married now and it took my now wife licking my face from ear to mouth for me to realise she was interested. And I still had to think about it for a minute.
My current wife I made a move very early on and was rejected horribly. Don’t think it through too much. Even if you fail she gets the message youre a boyfriend or you’re nothing to her
Us younger men were told by women on the internet/social media that they DONT want us to approach them It’s “disrespectful”, obviously she doesn’t want to be bothered when she’s in public doing something. It’s nonsense, but there’s a reason men aren’t approaching women anymore, and it’s not solely due to rejection sensitivity
instead of her saying “I don’t have any plans this weekend idk what to do yet” how about “hey man how about we go for a coffee this weekend” ??? why can’t that be a thing?
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Wow this is like the best guidance I've heard in a long time. Though truthfully the extent of most of my interactions are just cordial greetings. Anyways I subscribed.
I excel at deleting people from my life. When someone wrongs me, tries to make a return into my life after moving far away from me, or tries to get too close to me, I delete these people, with extreme ease, and never look back. Humans are not intended stay in contact with each other forever. Deletions, parting of ways, and mutual separation of friendships or romantic relationships, are all normal things in life. I do not fight it. I do not even try to stay in contact with others.
The main problem with trying to figure out if she likes you, is not that looking noticing these signs are not so hard per se, however the last thing that comes to mind is to look where her feet are pointing when you're talking to your crush or anyone for that matter XD. What we're trying to do is pay close attention to whatever they're saying and what they mean in what they say, and at least for me, trying to relate my own experiences to what they're explaining so that I can best understand whatever they're saying. This goes for everyone. What we don't like what it sounds girls do is not so much listen directly to the conversation and think about the words to get their meaning, but rather at the body language of the person to best understand things. No wonder figuring out what girls want is hard, we have different languages! lol.
Bruh I laugh all the time when I see her 😂 and she does this lil hand cover her laugh thing that honestly makes it more cute just really makes me wanna get up in the morning
I wonder why are we expected to be freaking detectives, but have this huge backlash when we make a mistake in reading the minds of the women. I mean why can't women be more honest and just reject you without making it a scene
There are others who do touch their hair in front of me and not interested in them. I generally attract the one I don’t want and they are always there. The ones I like are almost invisible to me. I barely see them. Very rarely when I am in the streets in a hurry walking fast in the streets of nyc doing my chores and I see them doing that while looking fast at me walking in the opposite direction i am walking towards. I still bothers me that I am still single. I am in my forties and I have a lot of hobbies and talents and still without a significant other.
Great video! I found my Filipina dream girl and will be traveling to the Middle East to meet her. She showed clear signs she likes me and she is attractive soon to be married!
Thank you, just acquainted 1 year back, felt deep soul connection at first sight, after that all my activities stand still, no communication, scared how to move forward
I work with a girl who is 21, I’m 54, she has shown all the classic signs she is interested in me…. She has a boyfriend for 5 years she lives with and says she loves, I was in a 3 year relationship, but she still showed all the signs, for months she did this until one morning she asked for my number!!! I was floored!!! I gave it to her but made sure I let her initiate all out text conversations, which where all pretty basic conversations, not sexual or flirty at all….. I asked her why she asked for my number and she said because she’d never met anyone like me before, I’m a sigma male, But she also said we wouldn’t do anything outside of work obviously….. how the hell do I handle this??
See, I wonder if my female friend likes me but I’m a scared to make a move because it can potentially make things awkward and ruin the friendship if she doesn’t feel the same way
The feet pointing is so accurate. She only points her body towards me, and my body too only points towards her, plus, I put my shoulders straight, and hands to my side.
🌟 I like this video.. Sometimes it be hard cause of being nervous.. Don't wanna be rejected but these tips are helping.. to start paying attention to avoid awkward moments when talking to women ✨
Women who make the first move get a better guy than women who choose from the random guys that make moves on her. If that's true, I'd rather wait for a woman to make a move on me. I will know she thinks highly of me that way.
ok as for the girl looking at a guy and then looking away when the guy looks towards them what if the guy has bad eyesight and just doesn't see it. lol
Say, I would like to address the elephant 🐘. In the room. I DO recognize that woman have a different way of thinking and operating. But... I would like to get your opinion on the other side of the game. As a man.... some or a lot of things are DO NOT... calculate into attraction... there are more variables in this equation. Also... there is a problem with woman and how they operate. How come there is a such a "thing" that everything that men do is wrong? Maybe... sometimes ladies make wrong decisions due to the fact that they are more "feeling" related... maybe the primal instict of women is what betrays them?
I'm sorry you have had women tell you everything you do is wrong. Perhaps you have known some toxic women. These videos will help you with this. ru-vid.com/group/PLsQq0KK7pJ-VyeTDmwCE46a85Pme0uqRA God bless 🙏
