Musahi! Good man! You don't randomly text her, and those 'friendzone' things are what lead you to getting what you want (you goal... usually a first date). Frost Byte, what's your plan? Not compliment her, not entertain her... so neg her? And make sure she's bored the whole time? Good luck brotha
Yeap, just be a dick with fun Like Rick from Rick and morty Clever insults turn them on, I don't know why, girls like not available guys that are harsh
Hey man, just to let you know, fish can't talk. Which of the tips do you actually disagree with? Or are you just saying that to try to get 'likes' PS: this was written by a man, read by a woman.
Boys: Do this and that, treat her like a princess, always be better for her, make the first move (and every other move) Girls: You don't need a man, if he's interressted he should reach out I hate how men are supposed to throw themselves out there anf get rejected left and right, why can't woman be expected to do the same? Rejection hurts men too
@@stefanlilleng6725 thats not true dude. You're getting rejected exactly because you're treating her like a princess. Men initiate the chase but they let the girl takeover it, don't pursue her for too long.
I have a hard time reading people over text and what emotions they’re displaying so I like calling. I’m the kind of guy that’s very passionate and just loves talking to women rather than doing something sexual. I love the mind. The body is just icing on the cake
1. Text her within 24hrs after meeting her 2. Use her name 3. Remind her of something that happened when you met 4. Use proper grammar -- The first texts after u met 1. Text her the way she texts you 2. Text with a purpose 3. Make her wait to hear from you 4. Send her exciting pictures of what you're doing 5. Remember things she tells you about --- Tips to not turn her off to dating you 1. Don't rely only on teasing her to keep her 2. Show her your good traits 3. Joke with her, but not inappropriate 4. Don't constantly text back and forth, when you can call her 5. Don't suddenly stop texting her
It’s simple , when a girl starts replying to you in one word like “ yes “ “no” and you ask her “ what do you like to do?” And she replies with the answer but doesn’t ask you the same question back .. just tell her “ it was nice meeting you “ and that’s it! And See what happens .
That's not been my experience big man. And really, it's all how you do it. If you text her and say how much you like her AND how you two need to go on a date later that week, yeah, she's going to think you're desperate. If you text her and say it was nice meeting her, and say something humorous, and end it... not only will you not look desperate, but you'll keep yourself in the front of her mind + open the door for texting her in the future.
Dating advice to men is mostly telling guys ways to please her, give her what she wants and make her feel loved and appreciated. It also seems to work in phrases like “man up” and “grow some balls” Dating advice to women is mostly ways to manipulate him and get him to commit. Or else it’s reasons to dump s guy. If there’s anything about what a guy actually wants, they tell you to withhold it.
So, for women who are reading this: Treat the men exactly the same way you want to be treated. If you don't, they will assume you don't care either. Love him as a friend/brother on your way to loving him as your man.
You know they are good tips when you have used some of them before even watching the video. Great job!! Extra tip: practice texting with many girls, even if they are just your friends, you will develop a feeling for it
Pro tip: Turn her message notifications off. I used to have notifications on & it drove me crazy because I was constantly waiting for that notification sound. I would text & wait for that ding & became clear that I was becoming clingy & too attached to someone who I don't even know shares the same feelings yet. I also reccomend filling your days with various tasks to keep yourself busy when she is, or he (if you swing that way, I dont judge) find a hobby & get good at it, also make a social media page (& when you're good at whatever hobby, share. Also share your achievmements if they're truly worth sharing, ( you won a spelling Bee, you participated in some kind of Marathon & completed it.) Just to show her, if she was interested enough in following you, that you actually do set goals for yourself & are not lazy, because one thing a woman wants is a man who is financially secure & has his mind set on what he wants to do, where he wants to be, & how he will get there. We all like to feel secure, but for generations we've been taught that men are supposed to be providers & woman, caretakers, although that stigma is being broken, it has subconsciously manifested into each of our minds in some way shape or form, we know it exists, but ofc not all agree. Set goals is the main take away. Last piece of advice & it has worked wonderfully, still trying to get better at it, but it's definitely working. And this builds confidence like crazy, and that is, and it may seem ludicrous, but on social media, I would try & start conversations with girls who you would consider to be "out of your league" & converse with them for practice, when they reject your advances, simply keep moving. I've been rejected plenty of times & now it's doesn't hurt. It doesn't hurt because after each of them, I was given another chance at love with someone totally new. It wasn't clear at first, "why are all these woman rejecting me, why am I such a bad romantic?". Well for 1, these people, as cliche as it sounds, weren't for me, they were experiences given so that I'd be better the next time & 2, notice how I said "plenty of times" which means after a rejection, I found someone at some point in time afterward, maybe not immediately, but eventually. Meaning that it's not the end if she does not share your feelings. I'm no pro, but these are things I use in order to keep myself from having thoughts of never having an intimate relationship. These experiences show, that no matter what, I have a chance. Good luck to all of you Sad Boys & Goodnight.
wow, when i thought just being nice and patient is enough, suddenly a million more important factors show up. I only hate the fact that i have to be very careful when talking or texting a girl. right now i have a girl that i really like and she laughs almost everytime to what i say. i dont wanna mess things up, so i thank you a lot for these tips
Problem is, I'm not into texting not like in my hs days (early 2000s). I just joke around when someone asks why im still single... "Im not looking for a girlfriend, im looking for a wife".
This motivated me but a tip for other just let her know how you feel be truth to your self women love a guy who not afraid to let his emotions out to her , but be gentle when speaking to her & take it slowly good luck 👍🏿
Damn I had a big epiphany from this video. Realized that I have a hard time being vulnerable with women as our relationship progresses. Think this is why I have had some failures in the past with women I really liked! Great video!
How text girl - mantelligent 2:30 - text her same her text 2:58 - Avoid pointless text. GOING TO SOME WHERE + COMPLIMENT - ENTERTAIN - Keep interest in Conversation 3:30 - Send picture of what you are and doing. ESpecially MANLY hobbies * 3:56 - Remember what she said - Note the information ____ 4:10 - Dont be text CARELESS-AFTER-THE-DATE 4:20 - Dont HIDE YOURSELF and feeling behide Joke 4:40 - Dont just talk, ask for her Idea and Suggestion 5:30 - At some stage no need to text, just call her 5:38 - Don't SUDDENLY STOP TEXTING +++ Let's her know what's GOING ON * + "I will text you later" ________________________________________________
This is basic stuff but very useful, as your immediately out-doing 80% of the men who suck at texting.. This great especially if you don't want to learn the more advance (but very effective) methods that i am currently learning... Oh! and here's an important tip. Its best to be texting (dating) 3 different girls at the sametime so you don't go into approval-seeking, overthinking, "trying to do everything to impress her mode".
Unfortunately, and while I wish that it wasn't like this, I don't think this is true anymore... girls expect that you text them a bit before setting that date
Michael my experience: "nice meeting you" within first 24 hrs, then she replies, my next text I suggest a date, text about where to meet and talk on phone to firm up date. After date 2 or 3 she stops replying to my banter texts. Then she blocks me. Imo texting is Not helpful
I completely disagree with waiting before texting back.... I text back when I get the text or as soon as I’m available to text back, I’m not going to be all a fake about it
No 1 is a lie, texting a girl within 24 hour after meeting her seems so wrong, women may tell you it’s ok to do so but deeply in their mind they know is not attractive... Take more than a day, let her think that you got a life also women want more the mysterious guy since they fell in love more with uncertainty
Fuck texting, call her right after or soon after you get the # and set up a damn date. She'll think you're different, cuz I know most guys think this goes too much against those unwritten rules
yep you're right. U just forgot about some details like "women love a man who's emotions are unclear" and "women love challenge and you're being a challenge by actually showing you could walk away or that she's not the center of your world".
Hi. I've discovered the channel about an hour ago and i love it.... almost watched all the vids 😅 By the way could someone tell me what's the music in the background, it's so pleasant ☺
I have a crush on this girl for 3 years, turns out she also has a crush on me but we were too afraid to confess n don’t wanna lose each other. But finally, things worked out for both of us.
I’m just throwing this out there for any guys, but coming from someone who is a women, I honestly don’t give a crap how you text me. You can double text, they can be long, whatever, just hold up a conversation. If you can make a commitment than I will be willing to match that. I don’t want to see my life as playing some sort of game. I just want to have someone care about me and show that. That’s all you need to do, show that you care. I also will not judge anyone who asks me out, and neither will most girls, even if we don’t feel the same way. Honestly I don’t even mind giving it a try, unless I’m talking to/with another guy. So don’t be afraid, worst comes to worst she says no. She won’t hate you or judge you for it, chances are she knows what it’s like to feel that way.
Definitely, man. That all depends on the content of your texts. Be flirty and show her that you're interested. Most dudes wind up in the friend zone because they wait to long to make it clear that they want more than friendship.
To be honest, conversation in real life is not my problem, my problem is with texting, I always feel pressure, and it's harder to read a text than it is to read a conversation in real life
they dont like you to be a crude man but they want you to man up, guys here is the thing, they need us more than we need them, their biological clock is always ticking, so once they hit 25 they start full panic mode, never show her the need and desperation, be the client not the servant.
After seeing all the videos and suggestions, This suggestion is Right and key to success... No matter how much you love her, how much you love her like a school boy, Just be a man when you're talking to her. But that is the Most Biggest Difficulty, I feel, That's acting to your love.
I don't think anyone needs anyone else. At last you have to be happy with yourself to live a content life. Plenty of single folks are happy too. No one dies without marriage /affair.
Is it really important to talk on the phone? I'm an introvert and hate such speaking. I waste so much energy on it and usually end up in loosing my interest at that girl
Like calling her, right? At a certain point, yeah, it's super important. And honestly, it's so important bc most guys nowadays are like you... they don't want to talk on the phone. So, they don't. Doing so sets you apart, and makes you special/unique. Maybe do a call once, and then ask her on a date? (so, you won't lose interest?)
Just talk about something. It doesnt really matter. Like "Man, today i finaly wanted to go to the gym. But its so hot outside! Why!" If she's not interested in you she will just say something like "ye sucks". But if she is, then she will try to replie, somehow. Like " Ye thats bad but atleast you think about working out. Im way too lazy for that haha" So yea, just start with SOMETHING.
@@Reskozy wait a little. Maybe she's busy. If she's not answering you within 2 days, well, then she's not interested in talking to you. And thats okay. She's just not the right one. You'll find better.
Honestly, this mostly pertains to American girls, and I call them girls for a reason. For the record, I am not handsome, nor smooth, pretty quirky and also am a terrible flirt. Yet, I’ve dated some of the most attractive foreign women here in the U.S. and there was no need for gaming them in text just to set up a freaking date. It is usually so much easier to openly communicate with European, Asian, black and brown foreigners than any American girls. It’s stupid to even waste your time on them. Even when things didn’t work out with a certain foreign chick for me, we could openly discuss it without her ghosting and still be in touch. In other words, they are much easier to deal with and exponentially mature, let alone way more confident and sexual.
Dude, it drives me absolutely crazy when anyone (girls or guys) text like that. I honestly think it takes longer to text like that too. PS: for anyone reading this, you can see what FalseEZES and I are talking about here: 1:46
Text her the same way she texts you? When you said you have to write a full word what if she texts like instead of thank you thx or ty? Should I respond like her or with a full word?
Best way too get a girl is too be yourself if she can’t except you for who u truly are she isn’t the one.. don’t act different then yourself or she’ll find out your nothing like through text
I hate texting, I don't get how people find things to discuss about encountering someone after 24 hours, in just a few texts if the chick doesn't reciprocate or allow the conversation to go anywhere ........ what do ? Also point noted ..... I don't have any difficulty whatsoever having an irl conversation with flirt one on one to a girl but I'm hella scared to text a girl bc most of the time if she doesnt respond in a few hours I'll say to myself yeah .... so anxiety kicks in and I'm getting insecure and all that... But more seriously, I have a friend at uni which a guy regularly texts her throughout the day, doesn't he have anything better to do or that is just how it goes ? Texting is my weakness because if people don't answer back, I get insecure but most of all, angry and resentful towards them... a bit of advice ?
