How To Train People To Treat You Well Part 2 

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One way you can tell if a guy is truly a nice guy is how they treat other people around them. I was engaged to a guy who would treat waiters and waitresses badly. I would intervene without embarrassing him in the moment and then I would tell him in private that it wasn’t ok to treat wait staff in a disrespectful manner. How he treated wait staff should have been a big red flag to me because he later on started treating me in a disrespectful manner. Lesson learned the hard way.

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Great video! I've been working on something called "quiet confidence". I learned growing up to be argumentative and combative (Sicilian New Yorker...yikes). But lately, I've been exploring the concept of having a true, solid, inner self. And the phrase "quiet confidence" popped in my head. I think this is in alignment with what you are saying. Feeling whole, and secure in yourself, but in a way that doesn't require validation from others or a certain "neediness". I think, in order to be assertive (versus an asshole) it's imperative to know who you are first. And build upon that. A lot of us who experienced trauma were never able to be assertive because we were unclear what we are and are not okay with. It's an entire process. :):) But developing a strong sense of inner self is one of the most healing experiences. And this translates into healthier relationships all around. :) It's also great to hear a man's perspective. The mysterious inner workings of the male mind. Thanks Damon!

I really like the clear, concise & respectful way you present these topics. Great stuff, man.

As a woman...when a guy is being nice to me...they’re just being nice...inexperienced is the word...I don’t realize that they’re being nice because they’re interested...I’ve been programmed to think guys don’t like chicks like me so I don’t even acknowledge that possibility...but then again I attracted narcissistic and sociopathic men...so yeah...I just avoid participating in that part of socializing lol

Thank you for informative video, NLP Gym! Yes, I think you hit the nail on the head. Some men confuse nice with passive, and they are not the same things at all. Normal, well-adjusted women want kind and considerate, yet assertive men. Women have a hard time feeling safe when they're with a passive man, who has trouble sticking up for himself and perhaps for her as well.

What tools and recommendations are there for when those you really care for do not treat you well?

How to get people to treat you well. You touched on this very briefly

Thanks Damon. Where did you learn all this good and wise stuffs?

I love your teaching thank you so much! I’m rebuilding myself and this knowledge is exactly what I need. 😊