@@Theblackguyresponding Not caring what people think of me doesn't mean I dress like a toddler. You will NEVER be satisfied in life worrying about what others think of you.
@wallywest7800 I understand where you're coming from but having a good sense of self-awareness will always improve pubic perception and attractiveness. But you're entitled to how you carry yourself whether it's good or bad.
Simple hack that works for me: juss sing any song in your head. You'll realise that the sway comes in, you'll be looking in peoples eyes, and feeling good generally. Thanks bro
Yooooooo I've done this samething, I can say it works. A slow to medium tempo song you know lol. It works! If someone plays loud fast music, focus on your inner song to keep your rhythm. This walk in the video stops working of your walking too fast
It becomes natural if you practice long enough, it’s the ones that only imitate when trying to impress that keeps imitating. Everything is built through habits, no one was born naturally to walk a certain way.
wrong but right at the same time. some are naturals and others have to be taught. but the taught ones will grasp because they know they need it. i hate seeing goofy walking people. i got a 50yo potna that walk on his toes and he slute footed. i be laughn at his azz. i also wont deal with a chic with an unsexy walk. im a sucker for smooth walkn chicks that twist and have nice legs
@@AClaiderman yea its not. The gym helped my posture but you have to control it. The most natural way I find walking is the shelby way. Makes you appear big and confident but doesn’t look forced
Top tip: make sure you stare directly into the passerbys eyes (man or woman) for a unnaturally long time. Double points if you wink and lick your lips.
Aye this is true asf. Once you love what you see in the mirror, your attraction to yourself WILL show. And that’s what people find attractive, self love.
He is talking about walking, not confidence u mental, even tho this things are connected ur statement doesnt make any sense, holding ur back straight is a bad advice? Maybe look upfront instead of ur shoes/phone is? Thanks for ur advice tho, u should make a channel too, such intellectual treasure should be shown to people
Not I’m this case buddy 😅 stop tryna hate, sometimes a man needs a tip from another man. Nothing wrong with that. This isn’t something personally pointed to, just something that anyone/everyone can do
@@lebo3793Imitating other people's walking style to be seen as confident is not it. Real confidence is not caring about what other people think. And i dunno about you but imitating other people's lifestyle to the point of how they walk is alot less attractive than being yourself
@kaif4572 "Good artists copy." We learn by imitation, once you get the hang of it, then you put your spin on it and make it your own. I dont encourage mindless imitation, though.
@@AJ-dk2pj People make money, eventually he will get a better job or his circustances will improve. Maybe he doesn't want to leave his family n friends, but they are holding him back mate!
I noticed the people leaving comments like this sound incredibly insecure. Why are y'all so defensive over opțional tips he made for those who are interested. 😂
It's great to see a young man give examples of self confidence. So many guys and girls in thread trying to refute, negate and less who accept these social rules; that social media has disrupted with anti social behaviors. Rule #1: We are social creatures. Rule#2: Body language is 98.9% of communication. If you're confident it will show in your body language subconsciously...great way to get us back to the rules here, thanks🙏
@hishenmathurin2844 I overstand your point. I respect and honor man because that is the image that God created Him self brother. And the better we are and more confident we feel we reflect that image of God. The examples we set in our family, community and society, world. You could be saying something else but as a man the rule would be (don't bother the next man) real men don't mess with other men (my man code) Peace✌️
Caring what other people thinks makes you look all shy or kinda like you don't wanna look at people so maybe they slouch or be all turtle like. But if your confident you stand tall, proud, and clearly not caring what others think. But there is two ways to look at this, maybe you care too much about what others think so you make yourself perfect, OR, you like to be the screen, which really isn't as bad as it sounds, because it makes you more likeable.
@@balledten that's true but no one wants to be constantly self conscious of how they stand in public But yea fixing ur posture is a must cause u don't wanna crack ur back
Good thing to know, that confidence doesnt manifest out of nothing. The accomplishments and having you shit together gives you a reason to be confident about
@@Digitalknifepartywhat are to you thw good results of walking the way is talking?? To me he has good points but to me he does this and advices this for men who are in need of attention in some way. Im not an attention seeker so the way i walk is a way that will make so not interesting that i will be in peace. As a lot of people said in this comments, theres a person to everyone .
THIS IS ALL TRUE...OMG my girl told me this 5 years ago she's my baby mama now😏she used to always get me to go in the store 1 day i asked why always gotta go in the store and she was like i love watching you walk in and come out she was like you move like a shark looking for something to eat 😂💯🤞🏾🖤
Guys this is legit ..i watched this video about a month ago .implemented these tips and somewhat exaggerated it even further when i found myself in nightclub setting ..You literally magnetise everyones attention and carry a strong aura or vibe around you that people wow at.. Actually inansely coincidental that im coming across this vid this morning cause i kid you not , last night at the club a girl thought i modeled and upon asking her why she would think that she said because of my walk.... beyond all of these other external motives to implement these tips , the most important is that you feel a crap ton more confident in your skin when you walk with your head up high ..and when you realise no one else is doing that it gives you a mental edge....my bad for the huge paragraph im hungover rn.
@@technicalstudent7577 not with her particularly because i wasnt interested in her , we ended up getting to talk at the end of the night becausd my friend ended up going for her friend so just wingmanned.. but yes in some cases before engaging in convo i do practice eye contact with the girl before approaching. I say some cases because its a signal but doesnt always tell the full story so you still gotta take your chances approaching regardless.
I agree, when you walk with a great posture, shoulders back head and chest up and forward. Then you walk with a bit of a sway with your shoulders you appear and look more confidently towards people. I got into the habit of walking like this by teaching myself, listening to men like this give advice about walking better and by actually walking a lot more in my life rather than sitting in a car a lot and traveling that way. Trust me it works! Get off your phone, stop hunching your shoulders and pushing out your back and fix that posture. A great way to physically fix your posture is by doing the exercises; Planks correctly. They fix your posture and keep it healthy.
Honestly over 2 years ago right as I started self improvement I had to force myself to stand that way and when I did I felt weak and exposed I’ve been continuously working on myself and when the confidence starting coming I can’t help but maintain strong posture without trying
It really common sense. Been walking like this since I was 12. I still remember when this white girl name Karleigh back in 5th grade told everybody she thought I was fine because the way I walk and that’s when I know about walking with swag
@@pumpskinfolk7572 are you dumb ? Women develop that natural instinct to know what they find attractive from a very young age. Most of you guys wouldn’t know that tho…
A relationship with God and getting to experience Jesus for yourself as a lot of people already have (blew my mind personally) is insanely more important. There’s testimonies and evidence of God all over the place.
He’s 100% correct. That’s why I’m Boot Camp when you do drill shoulders back chest out all of those movements. There are other reasons as well, but a lot of that is the confidence and you look good in your uniform. Your back is straight you’re looking up. I would add if you’re sitting down and you’re meeting somebody and they walk up to you stand up to shake their hand. This goes a long way.
When you’re successful, you can walk as you choose to. The important lesson here is, when you become of wealth, don’t brag, help others who need a little support or help a cause that is fighting for a good purpose but is getting neglected.
