Yep I walk in the room with confidence and strong confidence however I often end up not being liked or people find it threatening that I look so confident. I dont care what they think however and thats the point, why I'm like that in the first place.
I think the biggest tip for confidence I can give is to slow everything down. When you slow things down mentally it gives you a sense of control over things where you may have subconsciously felt powerless
It all goes down to how you feel at a particular time. I have been doing all these things not knowing that they exude confidence but just because I'm in a good mood.
These are just opinions of others trying to conform others into their mindset. Crossing your legs when sitting isn't weakness....My mental strength cannot be dictated by the way I sit but by the condition that my mind is in😎😎😎😎
Def. agree with this. When you are good mentally, you don't have to force anything and you don't have to think twice -everything just comes out naturally
No dumbass it’s what naive and arrogant men share. Succesful men don’t have to “control the room” by body language, they look reliable and inviting and have other people come to them because of their competence AND trustworthiness.
I just love you brother, you just don't waste my time , you just jump straight into the things you have for me . I just love it man . Lot's of love to you brother from INDIA
I kinda feel that its more polite that i take off my shades when i talk to people, it shows that i respect the conversation because people can see if im focused on the conversation or not.
The fact that we need this kind of videos tell a lot about how much we went astray as social beings. Thanks to social media. Worst thing that happened to the human social life.
I used to do the opposite of all of these before I discovered your channel 2 years ago, I’m a new man, I no longer feel anxious and my body language is relax and confident and crazy thing 😂 I know do all of these without a second thought so it’s funny you’re talking about this now. But nonetheless thank you again Jose dios te bendiga, hermano
In my opinion it all comes natural, imagine going into a room and trying to look as alpha as you can, scanning everything with high anxiety, fake smiles and other stuff like that… If you really wanna look confident, be confident. Improve yourself by going to the gym, eating healthy, reading and doing your job well, with some self awareness you will be able to identify yourself as an elite person and that confidence will come to you NATURALLY!
His teaching could work if you are entering a room full of teenagers or drunken people. In real life situations, if you enter the room this way, the mature people will sense that you are full of it. A real leader does not walk the center of the crowd with shades on. When inside, you take off sunglasses, make eye contact and greet with a genuine smile. When you show the respect to others, they will respect you. That is the class-101 "how to present yourself to others".
Remember, this can only work if you are confident. If you lack confidence highly suggest reading any book regarding self-emotion and how to approach your fears. If you are weak-minded. Anything you do will not work. Understand there will be always a better person than you. And it's okay. The whole idea is to go on your own time. Fail and try again until you succeed.
@wallflowerboy and that's what fundamentally wrong with our society coz we are soo superficial and that makes us prone to make bad judgements...you cannot judg a book by itd cover... You have to take time to observe and analyze as you just may be surprised by what you find out that you couldnt have known unless you you your time and effort
A confident man sits how ever the f he wants. I work with CEO’s who cross their legs so tightly you couldn’t thread a needle through if you wanted to. Confidence is being yourself and not caring what other people think.
The sitting is wrong. Crossed legs are the sign of a man who simply doesn’t give AF. Not giving AF is not “weakness.” How will you manipulate or intimidate a man who absolutely doesn’t give AF? The man who crosses his legs, leans back, and has a heart rate of 52 BPM is not a man to trifle with.
If you do these all the time you don't look natural... It feels like you are acting or faking. It must be occasionally if you are at work or attending a business meeting etc... Walking in the park like that or stepping into a coffee shop to buy drinks people would be like " relax broo" ))
Body Language Tricks 1. How do you enter the room 2. How you sit and how you stand 3. Eye contact 4. Use open hand gestures 5. Pause - very very important 6. Avoid fidgeting 7. Raise your chin up and expose your left side
Weak men are telling how strong they are instead of the real men, who sits quietly in the corner and when shit happens real men is the only one to do something about it. Its not about what we think or how we appear to others. But what we do defines us
Manspreading at the right times can 100% be more attractive and confident looking, but I say as a smaller guy, Crossing my legs, especially depending on the outfit, can make you look more composed, yet again definitely depending on your outfit, wearing chinos or khakis with a tucked button up and nice shoes, maybe try one leg over another when you're idling and noones talking to you, ofc only if you can cross your legs, but if you're wearing something more urban or rural, it could disrupt the energy coming off of the cloth
If you need to check these tips in the first place, you are doing it wrong. You can cross your legs when you sit, shows confidence and also that you do not give a damn of what other people think. If you over think this and over do it, it shows that you are not confident in the first place. It's all about being good with yourself and putting out the energy that goes with it.
I don’t know about this guy & his advice. Seems more geared towards the younger man & this whole “Bro” culture thing. If I were to see a younger guy exuding all these mannerisms towards me? My first thought would be this guy is trying way too fucking hard. I agree with with your comment, the very first key to confidence is not giving two fucks about what other people think. It’s easier said than done but it can be mastered. I’m a older Gen-Xer in a traveling position in my company where I’m out in a different city almost every week, dealing with clients & customers who at times can be demanding & rude. Many times I’ve been able to “win a negotiation” simply by keeping my cool & neutral body language. I don’t appear weak or clueless. Sometimes it’s what you don’t say is what can gain you leverage. Speaking in an even keel voice after being yelled at is a very powerful tool as well.
Use great ideas to build yourself into a man of strength and character, a man of your word, skilful and with a purpose that serves the ones around you. If you enjoy ideas about masculinity and mastery, I invite you to explore the videos I share on the Mastery Order Channel. Challenge yourself with some concepts about manhood, explore your masculine potential to the maximum and become the kind of man you would admire. We can only better ourselves together, as men among men, so I invite you to use what I share and, of course, share your own opinions so that others can benefit from them as well. Looking forward to your points of view. All the best to you!
Use every resource at your disposal to become the kind of man you would look up to. If you enjoy ideas about mastery and masculinity, I invite you to explore the videos I share on the Mastery Order Channel. Challenge yourself with some concepts about manhood, explore your masculine potential to the maximum and become the kind of man you would admire. We can only better ourselves together, as men among men, so I invite you to use what I share and, of course, share your own opinions so that others can benefit from them as well. Looking forward to your points of view. All the best to you!
what you call weak is the way Tomas Shelby sits (AKA one of the most charismatic actor Cillian Murphy) (not subjective thought by the way,he is indeed reconized as one of the most charimatic in the history of cinema)
Use great ideas to build yourself into a man of strength and character, a man of your word, skilful and with a purpose that serves the ones around you. If you enjoy ideas about masculinity and mastery, I invite you to explore the videos I share on the Mastery Order Channel. Challenge yourself with some concepts about manhood, explore your masculine potential to the maximum and become the kind of man you would admire. We can only better ourselves together, as men among men, so I invite you to use what I share and, of course, share your own opinions so that others can benefit from them as well. Looking forward to your points of view. All the best to you!
About hand gestures. Especially in winter, when its really cold like -5°C. And u are talking with friends outside on when there is break between classes at school. What about then?
As a confident man who is secure, I purposely give relaxed body language to display that I'm not on edge. Posturing constantly makes you look mentally weak.
People, trying hard to learn some trick. Here the tips, get yourself a money, a B or a M. You dont need any trick to enter the room, to stand, and whatever. WHat you own determine your confident
Hey ! Just had a question in mind. I have arms like the guy on the left at 1:44 , and I feel a bit weird about it. Is there any way I can change that to a more bolder look ?
One time I walked into a room abruptly, my junk ripped through, hit the floor, the building shook and the shockwave moved some chairs. Shortly after someone brought me a coffee
Guys its simple we all do it. Ill tell you what he forgot to add in the video, you see it you fix it, eventually your brain will re wire itself to automatically do it instead of on command. AKnowledge the body language youre doing, what situation you're in, and when you fix your moves to confident one. recall of the times you have had bad body language, what the outcome was then, analyze the what had presently happened and relate them to senarios you have had in the past and if it could have been different result if you were more confident. simple body language adjustment can change the outcome of a situation and avoid embarrassment. example: you got in trouble at school, at work or new acquaintance sneak dissed you/belittle/talked down/undervalued you infront of friends, class, co workers and so on because 1. they subconsciously or conciously thought of you as a bit... 2. Theyre jealous/hate themself/wanna be cool/hate you already/mad at their life/ bored, yes boredom can be a reason. But thats Until they get punched in the face, then theyre the ones calling the police on you 100% of the time because, *free bee* you embarrassed them and made them, look like a bit... because those are the society bucks change the b to a c, and usually theyre more often then not gym bros who just learned, he can get tossed and man handled like a bit.. with all those water filled muscles he has, his popeyes bottle is usually not far away, says he smokes weed on the weekends because of joe rogan but secretly doesnt. He doesnt even know how to find the intrinsic value of a company, he thinks hes smart because he knows jet fuel doesnt melt steal beams, listens to tate and, yaknow, bob lazar. he drives his 2018 audi at a 12% interest working as a failed real estate agent, wished he was a cop. if he had to, this pookie would snitch on his own mother if he had to. He will act as your friend just to load rounds in the chamber to use it against you. Moral of the story change the way you move, act strong in your weakest times and act weak in your strongest times. Never educate friends who do not seem interested, someone you dont know, someone irrelevant with same interest because you never know when youre educating an enemy. Gl boys stand strong
It should be in you and not on you. There is something that must happen on the inside for your body language to just communicate confidence. Without that inside game, you are merely pretending and it will catchup with you sooner or later.
I can't believe how many guys are willing to sit differently because of some video, hoping they will attract somebody by that ... what a bizzare (virtual) world.
Come on mate, dominance isn’t always toxic. He’s referring to being the leader of a group. In every single interaction you’ve ever had with another person, some is more dominant than the other one. It’s just how it is. Make sure you are the one leading in the future.
Anyone watching this, thinking yeah I need this in my life. You don't, you need something else. Go watch videos about developing you're emotional literacy instead. Do "the work" learn intrinsic validation, you won't need any of this, because the people around you, don't want you to be this.
How u enter a room? Nah some of us don’t like attention or having that spotlight but that doesn’t mean we not confident.. what u describe is a trait of an alpha male who loves attention. But we Sigma males don’t like that.. but yet we command respect without saying a word to anyone in dat room.
I hear many say that facial expressions reveal one's true emotions. But, I think facial expressions are surface level. I don't think facial expressions necessarily reveal our true feelings. Body language, in terms of hand, body, arm, and leg movements have a lot more to say about one's emotional state. It's just like actions speak louder than words. For example, if someone folded their arms, I'd usually associate that with defensiveness or displeasure. Even if one was smiling, yet folded their arms, I'd still be inclined to figure that they are feeling defensive or not pleased. Body language is the genuine form of expressing one's emotional state.
this is timely bro thanks meanwhile i have been shying out from my crush but i really want her its a new environment for me i don't know any of her friends
I know this will probably get lost in the comments but sometimes when I'm home alone I like to go out in my garden and cover myself with dirt and pretend I'm a potato....🤗
If it’s a trick it’s fake, it should be who you really are or else pick can pick up you’re faking. Just like what you’re doing, you’re forcing it while tryna look too tough which gives off energy of disingenuous. I’m from Detroit, a man can walk in the room with that same energy you’re displaying with that aggressive, and tough guy demeanor and get himself killed where I’m from, but I’ve seen real solid men walk in the room with those same techniques except with calmness, humility, and respect and the room unspokenly just felt he was that guy. Just be yourself and people will respect you, don’t force it fam
