How To WIN A Negotiation Under Pressure 

General Kenobi!

Federal Kenobi!

@@Kuint0n hello there

keneral genobi

I thought someone with your reputation would be a little...older

Fiddlle diddle

y u do dis? hahaa

Perfect comments don't exis-

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You little shit, take my like xD

Mood dude

Good application of these principles to an everyday problem. ;)

Mime is the same. She's crazy af, but ya have to love her. I feel your pain bro, my tip is shorten the amount of time you talk with her, more frequently if needed, but shorter conversations. It'll train u both to get to the point without distractions.

Also set healthy boundaries. Your not responsible for her feelings. You have the right not to be manipulated . It is hard to say but will bring you into an adult relationship that is better for both of you. I had to be the adult in my relationship with my mom for a long time. It’s better now then it ever was. There is hope and healing don’t give up.

I thought you were joking at first. Yt comment humor has ruined me

lmao same

I would've liked to see the other volunteers.

Oh please, give me a break.

RIGHT... This was intense... Thank God Chris is on our side... He would make a Great... Bad Man... Scary!!! He has differently gotten in the minds of too many mean/evil people...

Sadly, I don’t think I would have negotiated well enough to have the robbers not hurt anyone.

Lol!!!

Stopp 😂😂😂

😂😂😂

outstanding move.

This might be the funniest thing I have ever read.

The best kind of guy!

He'd be a bard in D&D no question

@@jeepersmcgee3466 yep, college of whispers!

Type speech nigga

Reminds me of Nickolas Cage

It's a little odd in itself, but the creepy really comes from the switch up from the "late night DJ voice". We're not used to hearing such drastic switches in people's voices unless we majorly change their emotions. If this was a real situation, my first question would've been: "What is this guys history with relationships? Get me his girlfriend and mother here! He got uppity the moment I used the words 'adverserial relationship' and how it was 'getting nowhere'. Gotta be something there..."

"I'll just start throwing bodies out the front door :)"

Just go full Joker mode.

Aggressive- pressure. assertion. main tool is intimidation. Analytical- calm. steady. bold. main tool is anticipation. gets you to think like he does. Accomodating- cheerful. non-threatening. invitative. main tool is deflecting hostility, and placing all faults on the second party. (notice how he says "it's what you want", "if you want it..")

@Comrade Slane Thank YOU Comrade!!!

@огромная "Who gives a fuck about your feelings?" People who are intelligent, mature, and effective in dealing with other people do.

Me and my colleagues just tell each other, "yeah, you forgot this," and then laugh about it. Lol

I personally dislike when someone replies with an illogical answer to a question to spare my feelings.

@EGarrett01 yeah but it’s also extremely mature to not get offended when someone tells you that you did not do a good job. I can’t respect a man who wants me to dance around his feelings bc he’s insecure and needs my approval. That isn’t a man; it’s a boy. And to the OP I think him not throwing his partner under the bus by saying he did something wrong isn’t as much to protect his feelings (both guys are obviously confident to begin with) but more so to show a unified front/ professionalism.

Tarik360 Same

Same

EVERYTHING IS A NEGOTIATION Me: let me negotiate my mouse on this skip ad button

J D 😂😂 negotiate that fat ass skip

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I don't think any bank robber is gonna give a shit about that at first, if they did they wouldn't have robbed a bank in the first place. On top of that everybody knows armed robbery with a lethal weapon is 10 to 20 years minimum, when you're talking about that kind of time behind bars adding or detracting time becomes slightly abstract, it stops making empathic sense on the spot which lowers it's effective negotional capital. If you're a bank robber who got surrounded you're already so far deep in the hole the only real way out is a total win or a nye partial loss, as a criminal you know that if they come in you have a good chance of making it out alive if you surrender, thus the idea of not doing as much time becomes inconsequential if the risk of death is low. In short you have every insentive to try and push as far as you can for that total win (escape) if you know the worst case scenario (death) is not likely to occur. When someone is bargaining with a stronger currency than you (in this case the lives of the hostages) your only real choices are to either meet that strengh head on (with threat of death, ie not matter what happens when they come in the criminal WILL be killed) or wait it out. If you can buy enough time for the person on the other side to realise that they've already failed and there is no escape possible, they will be willing to talk provided they are given legal assurances. Time is the name of the game, but early on you have to give off the right impression so that you can negotiate fairly latter on.

@@hakimdaaloul9886 or any inhibition lacking psycho/scocipath.

@hakim - That's not necessarily true. A lot of times the bank robber never thought they were going to get caught in the first place. If they're stuck in a hostage situation, it already means that things didn't go as planned and they may be looking to just escape with their life. You can also tell them that they can leave the money behind and only get a few years if that (whether or not that's true, I would definitely believe it).

@@EGarrett01 You didn't understand my point, of course something went wrong it's never in the plan to stay in a bank for more than a couple minutes but what i'm saying is that people don't start out robbing banks. Bank robbers are usualy long time criminals, this isn't going to their first rodeo with the law and they would know that unless they are forced to the police aren't just going to kill them. These are guys who most likely have already been behind bars and are not looking to go back hence the need to buy time. Their first reaction isn't going to be admitting defeat and negociating a reasonable deal, it's going to be "I'm not going back to jail !!".

If they start shooting hostages the police are going in there and the police are going to kill them. They are dying that day. Armed robbery you said yourself is 10-20 years minimum. Would you rather serve 10 years in jail (get out in your 30's if you're in your 20's) or get shot to death right now?

That was perfect timing, he explains before that the calm, slow voice actually slows down the brain, so if he was hesitating and he gets slowed down, then that only makes it harder to come up with something clever to say

@@FilippoCardoni It wasn't really timed as he did it as a response, but you do raise a good point.

Jeronimo Tamayo thanks

Jeronimo Tamayo You have no rights to other people's money to support your livelihood. Go back to your own country and unlearn English, please.

Yeah he's being a cancer now. And the worst thing is that this is the original channel of the group, it's Chris himself who decided this. Damn I read his book and really thought he was a good person. Now I just feel pity towards him

@@fixafix69 book sales and clicks is all that matters toh these people

@@fixafix69 He also read and deleted my first comment

Don’t worry it’s cool, you can dl his masterclass for free on torrent and reddit

Thank you. Reported for misleading title.

Obviously he had to be somewhere else but he wanted to stay for the roleplay haha

You’ve ruined the video for me haha

Nah he was arrested for refusing to obey the lockdown last year, saying "I'll get it facing the right way this time give me 60 seconds"

Good to know about the audiobook...

Hey man! I was looking for an honest review. Thanks for that. Also, who is the other guy presenting with Chris? He knows the game....

Chill dude he's trying to educate people so he goes slower.

@@frankiecal3186Wooooooosh. Straight over your head.

Isn't dragging out negotiation also a good thing. As long as the stakes are not getting worse, more time is good.

That's the intention of negotiating

Then the negotiator did good job stalling the time.. it changes from "i want it in 60s" to "can you give me the car or not"..

It seems like we'll have to pay the big bucks and go to a seminar to get the rest .......

@@branwerks6978 I will go to the seminar one day, maybe more than one and role play with C.Voss. These are skills worth paying for.

@@branwerks6978 "How do you expect me to do that?"

@@TechOutAdam Seems like you want the seminar for free.

@@branwerks6978 If I get it for free, how do I know there will be value there?

Not bad responses but what I have picked up on this exercise is that “win”you aren’t trying to convince the other side of anything. You were trying to use tactical empathy and listen. You are simply trying to let the air out of the balloon of the aggressive person overtime without yielding your position or becoming emotional yourself. Using rational thinking when someone is in such a heightened fight or flight state doesn’t seem like it’s gonna work very well. Instead, you use your own tone and questions and let out that aggression and the more sensible they become…SLOW DOWN. Just think about it rationally, does anyone in their right mind think that while being surrounded by dozens of police officers they’re just gonna be able to walk out of the bank aND live a normal life afterward? No. The key is to get the robber to burn off all of that fight or flight, and eventually come to the realization that if they want to be free the best bet is to surrender.

Number 23:Animator same lol

Same

Only 1 thing? Woah. You're not involved and in the know!

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You’ll have to buy his “MasterClass” to find out!

It's not really the point, there no perfect way to do this, it just depends on how much skill you have which you will only get with practice. His book never split the different will literally explain everything technique this video in depth, I would skip masterclass and just read a book

Same

Me too.

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@@csnoot WRYYYYYYY

I fucking get it but why

Can you imagine how much of bad person you must be to even think this is a good idea?

@@fixafix69 why would that make him a bad person? He changed the title to make it relevant for the time. The negotiation skills are relevant during covid or not ... But by changing the title you increase the chances of people finding you while searching youtube. Its SEO.

It could have been changed after the covid outbreak

@@vaneakatok he did exactly this. You could also phrase differently and just say that he's a fucking cancer, but you know there are many ways of saying it

Me too lol

*sweating

@@thegrammarpolice69 lmao is that better?

@@chrisismail Significantly.