How we get our 2 month old to sleep 12 hours through the night! (WITHOUT crying it out!) 

Me: 22 years old, no husband, no children Also me: I NEED these books

I don't even have kids so why am I watching this? 😂

How do I save this for like 5 years from now LOL

who else loves Nate and Sutton's videos?

I don’t know how moms can listen to there babies cry hysterically for 15-20min for me it was excruciating. I felt like I’m traumatizing them. All my babies slept by me as long as I breastfed them and I don’t regret it. They had a great bonding time and security.

When a 2 month old has a better sleep schedule than you, I need to get my act together bc I'm starting university tomorrow 🤣🤣

WARNING WARNING WARNING. this does not work for all babies and it is very hard for people when it does work to beleive it doesn't work for others. I followed EVERY rule and unfortunately my baby did not know these rules and it ruined - absolutely ruined the first 6 months. Back in my day it was a book called Babywise. Based on routine cycles of sleep then feed then wake/play repeat. Nate's tip at 6:45 I swear on my life I felt like such a failure because everyone told me this would work but it just wasn't working so one time I let my baby cry it out so long she literally cried from one sleep/feed/wake cycle to the next!!! I am not exagerating. This does not - i reapeat - does not work for all babies. She did not sleep through until 18 months. My baby is now 21 and studying law at university and I still regret what my desperate desire to be a 'good parent' did to us. Rumor has it highly itelligent babies are bad sleepers (but that might be just rumor)

Sutton is so beautiful, God bless your beautiful family! Also God Bless every single person reading this.✝️🙏🏻✝️

God is nearer than you think... Even when you can't feel it 🙏😇❤️ *DRAW NEAR TO GOD AND HE WILL DRAW NEAR TO YOU* 💕 HIS hope, love, comfort and victory is *HIS PROMISE TO YOU* 😊🙌

But when my baby is crying, there could be a tarantula on their face ! #mymotherbrain 😂😂

My first two kids were “easy” and easy going and I thought I had it all figured out.....then came #3. 🤣🤣 just warning you to watch out because not all babies take to “training” or “schedules”

I guess if you have a schedule this might be good? I slept with my babies for the first year or so and my baby slept wonderfully. It also made breastfeeding and bonding with my baby extra special. Ignoring a baby’s cries feels like breaking the trust your baby has when they are calling out to us. Whether they are hungry, scared, need a changing or are just wanting the security of their parents warmth. I believe that’s why god made mom’s so sensitive to the sound of our baby’s cry. They made a study showing that right after a mommy gives birth her hearing is more sensitive to sound. Unfortunately, our lives have become so pressed for time that our children are made to fit their babyhood into a schedule, instead of letting parents and babies embrace this small and precious moments they share with us. You both seem like wonderful parents who adore those precious babies and many other videos on parenting you have made I agree with. I just believe ( I notice Sutton picks up on this) that mother’s instinct with her baby were put there for a reason and unfortunately, our current state of our world pulls us away from hearing it.

Hey guys, y’all have greatly inspired me and my content! Not enough people talk about their faith as openly and honestly as you guys do! It’s made me decide to share all of my own personal struggles to help people to feel like they aren’t alone! God bless!

YES! I’m due in January and need all the advice!!

My son didn't sleep through the night until he was a year old. It was so hard when I had to go back to work because I was falling asleep every afternoon while working with my students. Sleep is golden!

That baby is a cutie! God bless you both!

I'm pregnant with baby #2 so excited to hesr these tips. I have no Idea how I did it but my daughter was sleeping through the night by 2 months old as well. I can't remember what exactly I did I just thank the good Lord.

It not like I’m against letting them cry, I wish I didn’t have to but at some point we had to since nothing worked anyway because he was crying even with rocking and anything else we tried....but the title says without crying it out. That’s not very accurate! Even if you go in every 5 mins it’s still is what people mean with cry it out. ( which in my experience just made it worse when you leave). Just kinda a deceiving title!

I have 4 kids, the first 2 slept amazing then.... the 3rd 😳 sleeping babies can be just luck. I thought I knew everything🤣 the good news is routines work and eventually they do sleep, but dont fret if you have 1 that doesnt sleep right away, just survive😊

Not a mum yet....I'm just 20....but I love your family!!!!I always can't wait for your videos!!!!God bless u❤❤❤❤

hey Nate and Sutton,'' can you do a clean my house with me video?'' I want to know what products you guys use to !!! :)

Baby #9 slept through at 6 weeks. Baby #10, still waiting 2 years later 😩

That’s exactly how I got my now four grown daughters to sleep through the night ! Darn it I should have written a book !! Haaaa ! Well I’m glad to know that this vital information is out there and available to all of the young families ! Love to all of you ! I will say it’s hard when you’re breastfeeding for sure ! Back in the day we called it feeding on demand, which seems like what cluster feeding is ... is that right Sutton ?

That is so good for you all. I thonk the hardest challeng for new parents is loss of sleep. Being completely transparent, I have ZERO children. However, I have been babysitting since I was 8/9/10. My oldest nephew is 5 years younger than me. I've known since I was 10 yrs old I didn't want kids. The Lord allowed me to teach preschool (2yr. to 5yrs) for 8 yrs and do VBS with a variety of age groups(primary ages mostly) which reaffirmed my desire not to have kids. Love love love them, but they are not for me. I completely agree with getting a routine, routine, routine and being consistent. You all are so right about allowing them to cry for few moments. My cousins weren't fans of that technique, so they didn't use my services often 😁.

I pray that God blesses me with a husband and child someday❤ it seriously warms my heart to know that those two little boys are so loved,safe, and happy and have the best start to life possible thanks to having awesome parents who are obedient to God 😁

Sutton you're so beautiful... Halston looks more like you with Nate's eyes

oh God... Parent's intuitions exists for a reason... very bad advices from you guys... you're very disconnected from your good fathers/mother's natural instincts.. I am glad to live in Germany where nurses and Dr's would advice the opposite! Co-Sleep and breastfeeding on demand, that is the best way, more nurturing no stress for babies and mothers ( you should check the amount of stress hormones produce when you let a baby cry). Having a baby means doing the best for HIM not for YOU, being a parent is about sacrifices, not having much sleep is TOTALLY NORMAL and HEALTHY. Thankfully parents can inform themselves nowadays and read multiples of studies that shows how better it is to listen to your baby and not bring a routine for the first months. you definitely should read more and listen more to yourself about this. Smart people can change their opinions if they find appropriate studies.. Babies needs to wake up so that their brain can develop and mature the best way possible. The different sleeping phases including waking up and falling asleep again without crying are very important for your baby development.

NO JUST NO. Child psychologist of 20 years, Vanessa Lapointe states, “Babies dont self soothe. They cant. They dont have the neurological wiring to do it. The only reason why babies do fall asleep is that they literally become so traumatized of being so alone and frightened that they dissociate and their brains turn off” why would you want to do that to your baby? That early onset trauma can negatively affect their temperament and also prone to personality/psychological-disorders when they become adults. Your poor babies..

crying is a baby's sole way of signalling when he or she is uncomfortable or distressed, adding that being left crying hard is stressful, and continued acute stress sets up a hormonal chain reaction that ultimately stimulates the adrenal glands into releasing the "stress hormone" cortisol. Long continued or oft-repeated crying can produce so much cortisol that it can damage a baby's brain. That doesn't mean that a baby should never cry or that parents should worry when she does. All babies cry, some more than others. It's not crying that is bad for babies, but crying that gets no response. A baby who is left crying for long enough will eventually stop, but not because he has learnt to go to sleep happily alone, but because he's exhausted and has despaired of getting help.

Nate and Sutton, Really appreciate your candidness. My wife and I will be having our first baby in November and hearing your advice brings tremendous peace. Looking forward to your future videos. Psalm 127:3

We got our 4 kids (now all over 18) and 8 foster babies to sleep through the night by 2 months (or sooner!) with similar methods...although there are/were a few things that I did differently. My primary method is, feed them every 3 hours, even if you have to wake them up (during the day only) or let them cry, hold them, etc to stretch them to 3 hours. For night-time feedings, I tried to keep it as quiet as possible, no lights, play or talking, just feed them, change them and back into bed with the least amount of stimulus as possible. We have our 9th foster baby in our care right now. He's just 5 weeks old and slept 7 hours the other night.

He says never go in there when the baby cries, even if they are one day old...let them cry it out for hours and hours. That’s just sick. Babies don’t cry for hours unless they need something and that something might just be you! Do not listen to that man. Plus if your baby cries for hours they are going to get a tummy full of gas and cry even more! I bet Sutton has cried a million mommy tears having to do things his way.

1:40 This comment may be late to the party but for what it's worth, burping baby immediately after every feed ( have them on your shoulder and rub or pat their back gently until they give an epic burb) = no throwing up for baby :) Your videos are amazing guys, I've introduced them to my teen girl who's already praying for her God written love story...you inspire so many...blessings to you!

My husband and I think Halston looks exactly like Sutton 😍 Oakley looks like Nate

me watching this at 15: 👁👄👁

When he threw up on Sutton I cried laughing

Nate and Sutton I love your videos ! My children are all grown now . Please will you pray for me and my family as my Mama is on hospice for Leukemia and Dementia !

This advice is really dangerous babes get their hydration by eating, withholding food from them before the "last meal" then not feeding them 12 hours after that is just a recipe for danger. i wouldn't be surprised if this practice doesn't cause long term damage. I wonder how many brain cells get fried when he gets. dehydrated weight charts cant measure brain damage. Haven't you ever heard that if your thirsty its to late. Id like to point out that one of the signs of baby dehydration is oversleeping, another is vomiting. pretty sure this is borderline child abuse. babies are not supposed to sleep thru the night. quit being lazy parenting is hard get over it or hire a nanny.

So you mentioned that you need to wake the baby alot during the day so they aren't napping so much , but you didn't mention how long they need to be awake for or how often during the day they need to be woken up.. that would be helpful to know !

I know, I would tell my friend to stop running to her baby everytime she cried and she was waking up two three times a night and the baby was almost two yrs old already...

Did you not feed them in the middle of the night when they were only 2 months old?

He is looking like Oaklan. God bless him.

Halston is adorable

Thank you so much for this advice. Sutton is looking stunning

I pray everyone reading this is blessed abundantly try soothing music

Never ignore babies cries, eye contact as much as you can, nurture, cosleep and give without conditions. Wear your baby as much as you can, this is how you will make a strong and empathic human being. All the others methods for disconnected parents without natural parents instincts are crap, and only there for you to spend $$$. No need.

I don't have kids I don't want kids. I don't know why I'm watching this 😂

What is that label hanging from Nate's shirt? New shirt? 😁. Happens all the time 😃😂. God bless you guys. 🙏

I supposed to Answer my Module but I saw your vlog again so I've decided to sit aside first my assignments hahahaha.I don't know I really admire your happy family .God bless you and more bleessing and power to your family . Watching From Philippines 🇵🇭🇵🇭💗

Hi Nate and Sutton! I’m re-watching this years later after having a baby of my own. After having more kids, do you still find these tips to be useful in your life and have you found new ways to help your kids sleep? Thanks in advance!❤️

Confused.. Says WITHOUT CRYING IT OUT.. Proceeds to tell us to let them cry it out... 😅

Thank you guys sooo much! This is an amazing discovery, and such a blessing

the mom looks horrible. the dad looks like he went through nothin. why does the mom look like she being tortured?

1:42 “Oh my Gosh”😂😂 I can’t

NO JUST NO. Child psychologist of 20 years, Vanessa Lapointe states, “Babies dont self soothe. They cant. They dont have the neurological wiring to do it. The only reason why babies do fall asleep is that they literally become so traumatized of being so alone and frightened that they dissociate and their brains turn off” why would you want to do that to your baby? That early onset trauma can negatively affect their temperament and also prone to personality/psychological-disorders when they become adults

NO JUST NO. Child psychologist of 20 years, Vanessa Lapointe states, “Babies dont self soothe. They cant. They dont have the neurological wiring to do it. The only reason why babies do fall asleep is that they literally become so traumatized of being so alone and frightened that they dissociate and their brains turn off” why would you want to do that to your baby? That early onset trauma can negatively affect their temperament and also prone to personality/psychological-disorders when they become adults

NO JUST NO. Child psychologist of 20 years, Vanessa Lapointe states, “Babies dont self soothe. They cant. They dont have the neurological wiring to do it. The only reason why babies do fall asleep is that they literally become so traumatized of being so alone and frightened that they dissociate and their brains turn off” why would you want to do that to your baby? That early onset trauma can negatively affect their temperament and also prone to personality/psychological-disorders when they become adults

NO JUST NO. Child psychologist of 20 years, Vanessa Lapointe states, “Babies dont self soothe. They cant. They dont have the neurological wiring to do it. The only reason why babies do fall asleep is that they literally become so traumatized of being so alone and frightened that they dissociate and their brains turn off” why would you want to do that to your baby? That early onset trauma can negatively affect their temperament and also prone to personality/psychological-disorders when they become adults

NO JUST NO. Child psychologist of 20 years, Vanessa Lapointe states, “Babies dont self soothe. They cant. They dont have the neurological wiring to do it. The only reason why babies do fall asleep is that they literally become so traumatized of being so alone and frightened that they dissociate and their brains turn off” why would you want to do that to your baby? That early onset trauma can negatively affect their temperament and also prone to personality/psychological-disorders when they become adults

Do not agree with the cry it out ! All other tips are great!

Fast your babies? ​ 🤨 Babies don’t ask for milk just to have a meal. Sometimes they are thirsty or want a snack, just like adults. Imagine we had a dry throat and were denied water because it inconveniences the only person who could give us water… someone we thought we could trust 😔

I’m only 18 and no where near ready to have a baby lol but I love to listen to tips and tricks about this so I’m definitely going to have to keep this book in mind when it’s that time :)

I’m watching this and not only do I not have kids and am not married or engaged, but I’m also single and a teenager. 🤣 ...

I don’t have any kids, not even a husband (yet) 😂. But I’m wondering , can you get these books in South Africa 🇿🇦?

Seeing Halton up close I couldn't help but notice in my opinion he looks more like Nate than Oakland did. Sure Oakland has Nates eye colour and Halton has Suttons however facial features and eye shape even as a baby you can see the similarities and I imagine he'll grow to look more and more like a mini Nate.

You guys said on the title without crying but on the video said letting crying out? So there is a big contraction there.

Hey baby!!🥰🥰

He is very precious and cutie pie baby

Omg I just seen y’all on family feud, I love y’all and I was like “that’s the people I watch on RU-vid “😂

Hi baby you’re so cute 🥰♥️🥰

But you DID LET THEM CRY IT OUT. You didnt soothe them as soon as they cried.

Our baby is 2 months and can’t get him to sleep 😴

Great parenting advices

When my brother slept through the night,10 hours and more all mom's friends said, you just wait untill you get nr 2. When I was born 6 weeks early, I was a small baby. But I LOVED to sleep, mom's doctor had me on a feed every three or four hours at night to gain weight, but I fiercely demanded to be left alone and sleep. Mom let me as she felt like I need quality sleep more than the feeds I responded so much better that way. Waking me up all the time made so angry and grumpy and I refused to eat. She was scared to admit to my doctor that I didnt eat at night and only slept so she didnt tell. I gained so much weight she never needed to tell either. I slept even more than my brother and I could be down from 7pm to 8 am. Both me and my brother are still heavy sleepers, so is my dad. Long story short, so even if I was a tiny baby I responded so well to full stretches of sleep I gained energy that way to eat and be content in the day. I was chunky in no time at all.

Hi, I just wanted to say that I love your videos. I also love my shirt, I hope you guys make a long sleeve version 🤔🤔

I did the same with mi kids, i put them in a schedule and by the 9th week, they were sleeping through the night. its true!!

Love yall

How long did you keep your baby in your room with you, if at all? Did you use a monitor at all and if so how long would you keep one in general?

This is great! There is a method to everything.

I found for both of my boys, that having first chiropractor adjustment yes even a one week old can have an chiropractor their are specific certified for children chiropractors most chiropractors are though I have found. I did not have any issues with my second which tummy time after 2 months old because that's when sooner the better, my oldest I didn't know till my friend recommended it, he was 4 months old and I got him adjustment because I just did not know what else to do to help him through tummy time and I had struggling breastfeeding found his pallet was affected because of the birth that he had and that was making him unable to get a full latch.

NO JUST NO. Child psychologist of 20 years, Vanessa Lapointe states, “Babies dont self soothe. They cant. They dont have the neurological wiring to do it. The only reason why babies do fall asleep is that they literally become so traumatized of being so alone and frightened that they dissociate and their brains turn off” why would you want to do that to your baby? That early onset trauma can negatively affect their temperament and also prone to personality/psychological-disorders when they become adults

Just bought the 0-6 mos book on iBooks! I can’t wait to start this journey with my newborn 😌

my daughter’s going through the 4 month sleep regression so my once wonderful sleeper is now waking up multiple times per night and i am falling apart!! great timing! thank you for this

Notice how Nate says at the very beginning, “Ok, we’re rollin.” His face is normal, then he slaps on that fake toothy smile for filming. It’s like a light switch being turned on.

My baby is 1 day older than Halston and wakes up once to nurse but my 2 year old wakes up every night at the same time crying and screaming (that is when she wakes up the baby). Pray for us. I think it’s night terrors.

Would you ever go in to feed the baby? Or would you just let them cry??

Hi Nate and Sutton, which whitenoise machine can you recommend me or which one do you use?

I feel like the first baby looks more like sutton and the second one looks much more like nathan

I recently found out I’m pregnant! First time 🥰 thank you for this video! I will watch all your baby advice videos if you make them! Lol this was super helpful❤️

Your Children are Blessed to have such lovely God fearing parents 🙏🏻

Yay!! Thank you so much for making this video!! Lol, this will definitely help in the future! And Thank you for getting that discount code for us!

How is a noise machine not stimulating? And how do you know, if you're a brand new parent, that they're not crying because something is wrong? How horrible would you feel if something WAS wrong and you DIDN'T go in?

I'm glad you made this video .. I wanted to ask you to give us tips since I saw your first video with Halston, like why you wear the baby with clothes that are covering & like tying his hands & so (Is that answered in momsoncall?)..Thank you for the tips & resources

We did this for our first but how do you let a baby cry it out when you have another one in the next room sleeping 😭 that’s what I’m struggling with since I obviously don’t wanna wake my toddler up

How long does this usually take? We were feeding our baby every time he woke up (every few hours), then started this and he’s been getting good at soothing himself back to sleep, generally before the timer gets to 5 minutes … with that having been said, he’s still waking up every few hours. When does that end?

My daughter is 8 years old and has severe autism, so routines are a must have in my home. I am currently 37 weeks pregnant with my second child and will continue routines for my nerotypical son as well. In my experience, kids strive much better with routines. I am not sure about letting my baby cry for long periods though, but thats only in my home because it would be a nightmare with a baby crying and disturbing a young child with severe autism. But like I said that would only be for my home, but I do agree with allowing the baby to fall asleep on their own and self soothing. Looking forward to doing it all again and congratulations to all the expecting moms ❤

Have a Wonderful and Blessed day!!! We all living in this world, in this country...God the Dear Lord and Savior made us all, he made the human race, he made all shades brown, black, white, red, yellow. He in his Holy word never mentions race or division by color he looks at Born-Again, and lost, Jew or Gentile. Moses was married to a lady with black skin. We need to realize if we hate someone due to the shade of their skin we are telling God, the Mighty "Great I Am" he messed up. I really don't beleive that is a god idea no matter what shade we are. He also tells us not to murder or take vengeance as it belongs to him. Romans 12:17 Recompense to no man evil for evil. Provide things honest in the sight of all men. Romans 12:18 If it be possible, as much as lieth in you, live peaceably with all men. Romans 12:19 Dearly beloved, avenge not yourselves, but rather give place unto wrath: for it is written, Vengeance is mine; I will repay, saith the Lord. We need to pray daily for one another. We need to stop buying into the media and the decietful ways of the enemy Satan. If you have never trusted Jesus come to him today!! We are living in the last days and know not what a day will bring. I am praying daily for our Country. PLEASE if you have a prayer need reply back. John 3:15 That whosoever believeth in him should not perish, but have eternal life. John 3:16 For God so loved the world, that he gave his only begotten Son, that whosoever believeth in him should not perish, but have everlasting life. John 3:17 For God sent not his Son into the world to condemn the world; but that the world through him might be saved. John 3:18 He that believeth on him is not condemned: but he that believeth not is condemned already, because he hath not believed in the name of the only begotten Son of God. John 3:19 And this is the condemnation, that light is come into the world, and men loved darkness rather than light, because their deeds were evil. John 3:20 For every one that doeth evil hateth the light, neither cometh to the light, lest his deeds should be reproved. John 3:21 But he that doeth truth cometh to the light, that his deeds may be made manifest, that they are wrought in God.

If you go in when they cry, don’t make eye contact? You are so wrapped up in controlling your babies that you’ve forgotten to let them be babies. It’s such a short, sweet time. Why not just relax and enjoy it? They will all get on a sleep schedule eventually. Why does it have to be at two months of age? Oh, yeah, that’s for YOUR convenience.

Do you do tummy time before every nap? Also my baby's colicy so she's more fussy but if I put her in the bassinet sleepy she just wakes right up and starts crying, she wants to be rocked to sleep lol okay so im adding to this as um watching it lol but her doctor gave us the okay to sleep train her but the first day I caved in:/ today I dident though and it was torture and everything I read says it'll traumatiz your baby when their this young if they cry it out, for half hour is the longest ive gone, so im confused why my doctor okayed it but then almost everything I read says don't lol I kept strong today bc the first half of the day I let her cry it out and told myself if I mess this up then she cried for nothing the first half of of day so that's how I kept strong the rest of the day lol you guys are a life saver and thank you so much for posting this video! Bc im a first time mom, I dont have family or friend support so this was so helpful! Thank you!

Why am I tired just watching this. I think you're on to something. Sound machines...I never did that because I thought it would be bad for their ears and brains. I guess I was wrong